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Single-Sex Wedding Parties Don’t Make Sense Anymore

Close, platonic, mixed-gender friendships are more common than ever. Marriage ceremonies should adapt accordingly.
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Every weekday at 7:40 a.m., the hosts of a program called The Anna & Raven Show give early-rising commuters in Connecticut and New York the opportunity to weigh in on a local couple’s dispute in a recurring segment called “Couple’s Court.” “Couple’s Court” is precisely the kind of thing that’s irresistible to the hopelessly nosy—and a few weeks ago, on a Monday morning, an engaged couple named Adam and Kat phoned into the show with a dilemma that’s become familiar to many in recent years. Adam, who counts a woman he’s known for years among his best friends, had recently asked Kat to invite his female friend to be a bridesmaid in their wedding.

Kat, who wasn’t close with this friend of Adam’s and had planned to include only her family members and best friend in her side of the

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