Woman & Home South Africa

Other people’s SEX LIVES

‘Sex with a new partner was terrifying, but now it’s fun’

Laura Campbell is a physiotherapist. She is a mom to three children aged nine, 11 and 13, from her 19-year marriage. She divorced six years ago and has since been single.

WEEK 1

‘Before, I felt I wasn’t exciting enough’

It’s been a big week. I’ve been on a date! I tried online dating via Tinder a couple of years ago, but it was such an aggressive experience it put me off. The men were pushy, and several sent me pictures of their privates. I wasn’t ready for that. I had one date a few months ago – but when the conversation turned to “Should I buy the Audi or the Volvo?”, it was like talking with my ex. I’m not looking for more of the same, so I didn’t see him again. Then, a couple of weeks ago a friend suggested I try Bumble, a dating site where women initiate any interaction. I gave it a go and connected with a guy. We arranged a date for Friday night – just drinks, but it went really well. His life is very different from mine – he has never been married or had kids, but he’s fascinating to talk to and I felt there was a definite attraction between us. We’ve arranged to go out again next week.

WEEK 2

I’ve been freaking out slightly. Not over the things that would

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