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13 Holy Nights: Reclaiming the True Magic of the Solstice Season

13 Holy Nights: Reclaiming the True Magic of the Solstice Season, by Lara J. Day. Photograph of trees in the snow at dusk by Valentin Salja
Photograph by Valentin Salja

Ditching the over-commercialization of holiday madness in lieu of a practice for connecting to the sacredness of the solstice season

My mission (in creating The 13 Holy Nights Oracle Deck and companion book) is to take the over-commercialized winter holidays back from the makers of materialism, and to return the focus of the solstice season to the Sacred. Instead of being swept away in the yearly avalanche of commercialism and materialism, this beautiful practice supports us in slowing down and tuning in; reconnecting us to our own inner light…to the mystery and magic of something greater.

The 13 Holy Nights oracle card deck from Lara J. Day
The 13 Holy Nights oracle card deck

I learned about The 13 Holy Nights practice many years ago from my qigong teacher. This ancient, nature-based ritual, has since changed the way I move through winter and the holiday season (and truly, the way I move through my life). Rather than just being dark and cold, the winter season now holds the promise of a tangible connection to the infinite, the mystery…the world of Spirit. I still participate in the usual holiday traditions, but I’m not nearly as consumed by it all as I once was. There’s

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