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Dr. David Olshine is professor and director of the Youth Ministry, Family and Culture Department at Columbia International University in Columbia, South Carolina. David was raised in a Jewish family and came to know Jesus as his Messiah in high school. He speaks across the United States annually to thousands of youth, youth workers and parents. Dr. Olshine has authored and co-authored twenty books, including Studies on the Go: Proverbs and Studies on the Go: Philippians, Colossians and Thessalonians. David is the co-founder of Youth Ministry Coaches, an organization that coaches and consults churches for effective youth ministry strategies. David is married to Rhonda and they have two great kids, Rachel and Andrew.
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Proverbs - David Olshine
YOUTH SPECIALTIES
STUDIES ON THE GO: PROVERBS
Copyright 2009 by David Olshine
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Proverbs / by David Olshine.
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ISBN 978-0-310-28548-9
1. Bible. O.T. Proverbs—Study and teaching. I. Title.
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DEDICATION
To the love of my life, my wife and soul mate Rhonda. What would life be like without you? Every day with you is a gift. Boy, did I marry over my head!
To my children, Rachel and Andrew. May you continue to grow in the wisdom of God. I love you!
To my mom, who taught me to live life in the moment.
To Keith Wasserman, one of the wisest persons I know. Thanks for our lifelong friendship.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
To Tom Walsh and the Maxwells’ kindness for allowing me to use their condo in Florida to write this project.
To my soul brothers Larry Wagner and Hule Goddard. Thanks for the weekly times of prayer, laughter, sharing, and cinnamon crunch bagels.
SPECIAL THANKS TO MY RESEARCH TEAM
To my writing and research team, graduates of Columbia International University in Columbia, SC. Nick Cunningham, Trevor Miller, Anne Lord Bailey, and Rachel Olshine; and Kaisi Thanks for your diligent work and great insight.
CONTENTS
Cover Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Introduction: How to Use Studies on the Go
Background Insights for Proverbs 11
SECTION ONE
Session 1—Baby Steps: Proverbs 1
Session 2—Finding the Good Trails: Proverbs 2
Session 3—Words to Know-It-Alls: Proverbs 3
Session 4—Discover by Doing: Proverbs 4
Session 5—Pain in the Gut: Proverbs 5
Session 6—What God Hates: Proverbs 6
Session 7—Sex and the City: Proverbs 7
Session 8—Wisdom at its Best: Proverbs 8 and 9
Session 9—Sticks and Stones: Proverbs 10
Session 10—Crooks, Character, and Cheers: Proverbs 11
SECTION TWO
Session 11—Lifelong Learners: Proverbs 12
Session 12—Tongue Taming: Proverbs 13
Session 13—Getting on Track: Proverbs 14
Session 14—School of Hard Knocks: Proverbs 15
Session 15—Leadership Development: Proverbs 16
Session 16—Weathering Relational Storms: Proverbs 17
Session 17—Handling Crashes: Proverbs 18
Session 18—Accepting Correction: Proverbs 19
Session 19—Honest to God? Proverbs 20
Session 20—Why You Do What You Do: Proverbs 21
SECTION THREE
Session 21—Guidelines from Above: Proverbs 22
Session 22—The Dancing Heart: Proverbs 23
Session 23—Falling to Pieces: Proverbs 24
Session 24—Boxes of Chocolate: Proverbs 25
Session 25—Mad Dog: Proverbs 26
Session 26—Know Your Condition: Proverbs 27
Session 27—Playing Favorites? Proverbs 28
Session 28—Cynics or Sages? Proverbs 29
Session 29—Repetition: Proverbs 30
Session 30—Keep Focused: Proverbs 31
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INTRODUCTION
How to Use Studies on the Go
Studies on the Go have all of the best ingredients for helping students and adults connect with God and each other as they encounter Scripture. These studies work best in a small group, but can also be utilized in Bible studies, Sunday school, or youth group or even on road trips and retreats.
Each session is broken up into the following subsections:
1. Leader’s Insight: A brief overview for each lesson to help the leader/facilitator understand the historical background, focus, and purpose of the text.
2. Share (warm-up questions): Before jumping in and studying the Bible, it helps to allow time for your group to connect relationally first. Warm-up questions are lighter and help your group get comfortable interacting with one another.
3. Observe (observation questions): These questions help your group—regardless of their Bible knowledge—focus onWhat does the passage say?
andWhat is the author communicating?
The goal is to bring to the surface what the students are noticing about the passage.
4. Think (interpretation questions): These are a set of questions helping your group consider what the author meant when he wrote the letters. The goal is to discover what the writer was saying to his audience.
5. Apply (application questions): These questions are focused on helping the group connect God’s truth to their own lives.
6. Do: An additional activity option that helps students experientiallyflesh
out the lesson. The goal here is action, putting head knowledge into real-life practice.
7. Quiet Time Reflections: One reproducible handout page for each session providing additional exercises to help students personally reflect on the passages on a daily basis.
My hope is that these studies create an environment where students and adults experience community. The leader’s job is to facilitate a safe place in which people can be known and share freely. The best small groups are fluid, organized, free-flowing—with each person sharing.
May God bless you as you engage students in the process of applying God’s truth to their lives.
Blessings,
Dr. David Olshine
BACKGROUND INSIGHTS FOR PROVERBS
WHO? Most scholars believe King Solomon compiled these sayings known as Proverbs. Solomon loved knowledge as a young person (1 Kings 3:9-12). Bill T. Arnold and Bryan E.Beyer’s Encountering the Old Testament refers to Solomon’s status as a world leader, a brilliant and discerning man (Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Academic, 1999). He had vast interests in politics, science, business, and spiritual issues (see also 1 Kings 4:29-31).
WHAT? Proverbs are short, pithy sayings that provoke a nonresponse’re practical in nature and teach lessons about life. The Book of Proverbs is a call to experience wisdom. Wisdom is personified in the form of a woman calling out to us, mocking the person who doesn’t listen to her, because to resist wisdom leads often to poor choices. The Jewish perspective is that all of wisdom is wrapped up inwho God is
and that this God can be known and personally experienced.
Wisdom from the Proverbs calls us to a vertical dimension, relating to God through prayer and solitude. The Proverbs also call us toward wisdom in the horizontal issues of life: Child rearing, fearing God, helping the oppressed, responding to the poor, and counseling others. When we choose to live selfishly, Proverbs calls this foolishness; when we choose to live God’s way, we experience wisdom.
WHY? The Proverbs were written in a simple way so readers would experience wisdom, discernment, justice, learning, and guidance.Wisdom
is mentioned over 40 times in the book of Proverbs. Chapter 1 is a call to listen and apply wisdom.
WHERE? Proverbs follows the book of Psalms written by King David. The Psalter (another name for Psalms) is a collection of poems and wrenching cries from the heart. King David sets the stage for Solomon’s writings by saying in Psalm 49:4,I will turn my ear to a proverb.
Ecclesiastes is the book following Proverbs, also written by King Solomon. Ecclesiastes is only 12 chapters, and Solomon’s thesis is simple: Life without God at the core of our being is meaningless and empty. The finale of Solomon’s trilogy follows Ecclesiastes in the Song of Songs. These are love songs and poetry between a man and a woman that mirror God’s love for his people. These three books are rooted in Solomon’s desire to communicate to us how to live life to the fullest.
SECTION ONE
1. BABY STEPS
Proverbs 1
yLEADER’S INSIGHT
King Solomon was one of the wisest men ever to walk this planet. He penned these sayings, calledproverbs.
The main theme throughout the 31 chapters is obtaining wisdom—but not just any wisdom. Proverbs is about a specific c kind of wisdom:God’s wisdom.
Proverbs doesn’t refer to wisdom as information gathering; rather Proverbs talks about gaining God’s information, called wisdom, which leads to transformation. In the same way a caterpillar morphs into a new species of being in the butterfly, when we allow God’s