Make Peace With Anyone: Breakthrough Strategies to Quickly End Any Conflict, Feud, or Estrangement
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Make Peace with Anyone is the first book that shows readers how to quickly resolve any situation, no matter how long it's been going on, or how many people are involved. The techniques and psychological strategies presented here are simple, easy to understand, and work...fast. In this book readers will learn how to:
*End any family feud
*Get an apology from anyone
*Jumpstart any relationship or friendship
*Handle any passive-aggressive person
*Get the respect you deserve from anyone
*Dramatically improve any relationship
*Get anyone to forgive you for anything
*Align anyone to your way of thinking
Dr. David J. Lieberman provides the path to permanent peace and will show you the way to Make Peace with Anyone.
Dr. David J. Lieberman, Ph.D.
David J. Lieberman, Ph. D., is a nationally recognized leader in the field of human behavior and the creator of NeuroDynamic Analysis, a revolutionary short-term therapy. He is a sought-after speaker and lecturer and a frequent guest on top national television and radio programs. His work has been translated into 10 languages. He is the author of books including Make Peace with Anyone and How to Change Anybody. He lives in New Jersey.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I found this book to be very helpful and informative esp. when dealing with conflicts of any sort. The main point the author is trying to make is that relatiionships are built on trust, honesty, and respect.The author lists 9 rules to drastically improve any relationship of any kind. They are as follows:1.Show genuine enthusiasm when you greet the person.2. Show respect. This meansnot criticizing the person harshly and certainly never in front of anyone else.This also means you show reverence when you are not with this person by not gossiping or speaking poorly about her to anyone else. And when she is speaking to you give her your full undivided attention : do not read or have your focus divided.3. Be supportive. 4. Give her the benefit of the doubt. 5. Let her know you appreciate her. It seems that in all kinds of relationships the only time we say something nice is when we have done something wrong.6. Giver her a chance to contribute to your life7. Wait 24 hours if the person does something that angers you8. Talk about what is bothering you. 9.Share yourself and open up a bit with this person
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Make Peace With Anyone - Dr. David J. Lieberman, Ph.D.
Part One
The Cause of all Arguments, Conflicts, Feuds, and Estrangements
Chapter 1
How It All Begins
Why Do You Care if Someone Gives You the Finger
?
What does it mean when we say that we are hurt? Or that someone has offended or embarrassed us? What do we mean when we say that something is unforgivable or that someone was rude or disrespectful?
What we are saying, simply, is that someone else’s behavior caused us an emotional pain. Okay, fine. But this begs the larger question of why we are pained by these situations. Why do we even care? To say that we are hurt is not enough. To fully understand what is going on we have to answer the question Why?
Why Don’t You Like Being Told to Shut Up?
Does it bother you when another driver cuts you off on the road? Or when someone rejects, ignores, or embarrasses you? Or for that matter steals, lies to you, or cheats on you? Of course you are left feeling hurt, betrayed, and angry, but the question is why? To say that you were treated contemptuously and disrespectfully is accurate, but why does that bother us?
Do you understand the larger questions here? Why does it pain us to be disrespected? Why do you care if someone gives you the finger
? You don’t bleed. It doesn’t cost you anything. And you’re not prevented from living your life. Yet it matters, and sometimes it matters a lot. So let’s find out why we care.
Can You Tell Me Simply What Exactly Self-Esteem Is?
So often we throw around words like ego, self-esteem, fear, respect, anger, and projection. But what do they all mean, and more important, how are they all connected? Let’s see exactly how, on a practical, everyday level, these words shape the way we see ourselves and impact on how we interact with our world. In a nutshell, let’s look behind the scenes
into the human mind.
In order to be happy, have good relationships, and be psychologically balanced, a person has to feel good about himself. This means that we need to literally love ourselves. And this self-love is called