Redefine Yourself: The Simple Guide to Happiness
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Don't be a bystander in your life.
Take control and live the way you want.
Redefine Yourself combines a guided introspection with simple strategies to overcome the obstacles that plague your life. You will face the emotional and mental roots of your unhappiness and understand why:
- You can't reach your goals.
- Hate your job
- Can’t reach your best physical, emotional, and mental self.
- Live an unhappy and unfulfilled life.
- Find yourself in the same destructive position repeatedly.
Redefine Yourself helps you understand yourself and integrate adaptive strategies to listen to your inner voice, face your fears, extinguish your insecurities, regain control over your life, approach new problems with confidence, define your purpose, and more. Finally, you will reshape your life and achieve the happiness you desire!
Praise for Redefine Yourself:
"Inspiring in its simple yet meaningful message, this book is an important reminder of the power of the mind. By simply using our thoughts as tools in working for us rather than weapons against us, Michael shows us how we can truly learn to live out our best lives."
-- DANA MICHELLE COOK, Emmy Award winner and producer of The Empowerment Project
“Highly recommended! Michael takes all of his research and distills the information in a relatable way. He also sets you up for success by outlining how to keep it simple, be in the moment, and always bring life back to your purpose.”
--CARRIE KENNEDY, founder and executive producer of Chicago Ideas Week
“From mindfulness to changing your routines, this book has what you need to take a good look at yourself and start making changes that will work for you. Michael is honest about the fact that while change isn't necessarily easy, it's attainable if you are disciplined, insightful, and perseverant. With the information on these pages you can truly change your life!"
--TORI NYBERG, LPC of Elevate Performance Counseling
“An empowering go-to guide for actively seeking your life's desires! This book sheds light on how our very own behavior affects the outcomes to our goals. Read, redefine yourself, repeat!"
--HOLLY STUBNAR, M.S., Board Certified Behavior Analyst
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Redefine Yourself - Michael Moody
About the Author
Michael is the former fitness expert on NBC’s The Biggest Loser/MSN Chicago tour. The owner of a successful Chicago personal training business, his fitness and life-structure programs have helped his clients lose more than 2,500 pounds since 2005. Michael has been featured in Muscle & Fitness and Today’s Chicago Woman magazines, among others. During his time as the official trainer for PBS’s The Whitney Reynolds Show, he also produced an inspirational segment about his travels in Guatemala.
Having researched emotion and coping behaviors in university-level studies, Michael has presented various fitness, motivation, body image, and stress-management programs at Illinois State University, DePaul University, corporations, high schools, and workshops.
PRAISE FOR
Redefine Yourself: The Simple Guide to Happiness
Inspiring in its simple yet meaningful message, this book is an important reminder of the power of the mind. By simply using our thoughts as tools working for us rather than weapons against us, Michael shows us how we can truly learn to live out our best lives.
—DANA MICHELLE COOK,
Emmy Award winner and producer of The Empowerment Project
From mindfulness to changing your routines, this book has what you need to take a good look at yourself and start making changes that will work for you. Michael is honest about the fact that while change isn’t necessarily easy, it’s attainable if you are disciplined, insightful, and perseverant. With the information on these pages, you can truly change your life!
—TORI NYBERG,
LPC of Elevate Performance Counseling
Highly recommended! Michael takes all of his research and distills the information in a relatable way. He also sets you up for success by outlining how to keep life simple, be in the moment, and always bring your life back to your purpose.
—CARRIE KENNEDY,
founder and executive producer of Chicago Ideas Week
An empowering go-to guide for actively seeking your life’s desires! This book sheds light on how our very own behavior affects the outcomes to our goals. Read, redefine yourself, repeat!
—HOLLY STUBNAR, M.S.
Board Certified Behavior Analyst
title pageThis book is not intended as a substitute for the advice of physicians, psychologists, or other medical professionals. The reader should regularly consult a physician in matters relating to his/her health and particularly with respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.
Ainsley Press, Publisher
Editor: Andrew Elsass
Cover Design: Jasmine Ojeda
Format: Maureen Cutajar
Copyright 2015, Michael J. Moody
All rights reserved.
No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without the expressed, written permission of the Publisher.
Publisher’s Cataloging-in-Publication
Moody, Michael, 1979-
Redefine yourself : the simple guide to happiness /
Michael Moody. -- First edition.
pages cm
Includes bibliographical references.
LCCN 2015931847
eISBN-10: 0-9863527-1-3
eISBN-13: 978-0-9863527-1-3
1. Self-realization. 2. Health. 3. Happiness.
I. Title.
BF637.S4M636 2015 | 58.1 | QBI15-600027
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I dedicate this book to my family, friends, and clients who remind me that life is always bigger than the moment.
Acknowledgments
Over three years ago I told my great friend Melissa Garvey that I wanted to write a book. Instead of asking why, she said, How can I help you?
Her support and enthusiasm are the reasons why this book exists today. I only hope that everyone can have the same kind of person in their life when pursuing a goal.
There are many others, including Sammy Ojeda, Carol Lewke, Sherry Hoel, Tim Sieges, Craig Beggs, Cheryl Beggs, and Dana Cook, who always gave the endless support and love needed to finish the daunting task of capturing an idea and sharing it within a book.
Also, I’m fortunate to have trained many people who became my great friends, confidants, and biggest supporters over the last ten years. Adam Weber, Erica Dennison Daitch, Mike Pippenger, Lisa Sabo, Carrie Kennedy, and Joan Schumaker have been wonderful parts of my life and I couldn’t be any more thankful for them.
Additionally, I’m especially grateful for the unbelievable editing work of Andrew Elsass, cover design of Jasmine Ojeda, and the rest of my review team who provided constructive feedback during this process. Their contributions were not only an act of support for me, but to all future readers looking for inspiration. Thank you again Pete Alwan, Molly Rabinovitz, Amanda Madsen Niro, Danyel Donahue, Jean Reubner, Chelsea Percoco, Natalie Vina, Amanda Alford, Cindy Rick, Jamar Holloway, Kimberly Flannigan, Rachel Kiernan, Katy Cassata, and Matthew Eaton!
Lastly, I wouldn’t be who I am if not for my father, Michael Moody, my brother, Jon Moody, and my grandparents, Don and Geri Moody. They have taught me how to love, live, and push for the best.
Contents
Introduction
1 You Are Not Alone
2 Practice Mindfulness
3 Listen to Your Inner Voice
4 Face Your Fears
5 Extinguish Your Insecurities
6 Practice Emotional Restraint
7 Believe That You Can Redefine Yourself
8 Regain Control Over Your Life
9 Find Control Over Your Happiness at Work
10 Change the Way You Decide
11 Control the Influence on Your Decisions
12 Change Your Environment
13 Approach New Problems With Confidence
14 Accumulate Wisdom Through Error
15 Create New Habits
16 Redefine Your Boundaries
17 Create Conversations With Others
18 Define Your Purpose
19 Create Goals to Maintain Your Positive Focus
20 The Next Step
Appendix
Three Ways to Start a New Life Today
Remember This Script While You Redefine Yourself
Charitable Organizations I Support
Additional Reading
Bibliography
Become Part of the Redefine Yourself Community
INTRODUCTION
Redefining Yourself with Awareness, Acceptance, and Adaptation
Think about your life for a moment. Do you think it is a struggle? Are you generally unhappy? Is something or someone missing? Do you feel out of place?
Whether or not you answered yes to these questions, you are probably reading this book because you are searching for something meaningful in your life, or for a solution to change how you feel or behave.
The Redefine Yourself approach will serve as the catalyst for this change. During this transformation process, the primary focus of physical and personal change isn’t just nutrition and exercise. It’s a targeted focus on awareness, acceptance, and adaptive strategies. Each word is individually significant but most powerful as a sequence.
As you integrate the Redefine Yourself approach into your life, you will refine your perspective and understand why you:
Do what you do.
Can’t reach your goals.