Wavy, Curly, Kinky: The African American Child's Hair Care Guide
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Now taking care of your child's hair can be fun, easy, and trouble-free! In Wavy, Curly, Kinky, renowned stylist Deborah Lilly shows parents the best ways to style and maintain African American boys' and girls' hair from infancy to the preteen years. She presents clear, easy-to-follow hair care guidelines for the three different types of African American hair and gives you expert recommendations for the best products and techniques for each hair type.
Featuring step-by-step instructions, photographs, illustrations, and a helpful question-and-answer section, this comprehensive, user-friendly guide shows you how to:
- Determine your child's hair texture
- Get up to speed on hair care basics from washing to combing to braiding
- Press, relax, or texturize hair
- Weigh the pros and cons of cutting your child's hair
- Train, nurture, and manage problem hair
Keep your child's hair healthy and looking great with Wavy, Curly, Kinky—and transform hair care time from a chore to a fun, bonding experience for both you and your child!
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Wavy, Curly, Kinky - Deborah R. Lilly
Wavy, Curly,
Kinky
Wavy, Curly,
Kinky
THE AFRICAN
AMERICAN
CHILD’S HAIR
CARE GUIDE
Deborah R. Lilly
AN AMBER BOOK
This book is printed on acid-free paper.
Copyright © 2006 by Deborah R. Lilly. All rights reserved
All photos copyright © 2006 by Mychal Lilly. All rights reserved
Published by John Wiley & Sons, Inc., Hoboken, New Jersey
Published simultaneously in Canada
Design and composition by Navta Associates, Inc.
The cartoon characters Berna and Lula are based on the author’s original art.
A production of Amber Books, an imprint of Amber Communications Group, Inc.; Tony Rose, Publisher, Editorial Director; Samuel P. Peabody, Associate Publisher; Yvonne Rose, Associate Publisher, Senior Editor.
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data:
Lilly, Deborah R., date.
Wavy, curly, kinky : the African American child’s hair care guide / Deborah R. Lilly.
p.cm.
Includes index.
ISBN-13 978-0-471-69534-9 (pbk.)
ISBN-10 0-471-69534-3 (pbk.)
1. Hair—Care and hygiene. 2. Hairdressing of African Americans. 3. African American children—Health and hygiene. I. Title.
RL91.L64 2005
646.7'24'08996073—dc22
2005023406
Printed in the United States of America
10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
Contents
Acknowledgments
Introduction: It’s More Than Hair
CHAPTER 1 What Is Your Child’s Hair Texture?
CHAPTER 2 Gentle Touches—Infants to Children Two Years Old
CHAPTER 3 Training Your Little Girl’s Hair—Girls Two to Four Years Old
CHAPTER 4 Time for Changes—Girls Four to Eight Years Old
CHAPTER 5 Growing Up—Girls Eight to Twelve Years Old
CHAPTER 6 Braiding Your Daughter’s Hair
CHAPTER 7 Pressing Your Daughter’s Hair
CHAPTER 8 Preparing Your Chemical Straightener or Relaxer
CHAPTER 9 Relaxing Kinky Hair
CHAPTER 10 Texturizing Curly Hair
CHAPTER 11 Curls: Tools and Tips for Your Daughter’s Hair
CHAPTER 12 Hair Care for Beautiful Little Boys
CHAPTER 13 The Pros and Cons of Cutting Your Child’s Hair
CHAPTER 14 Let’s Cut Some Hair!
CHAPTER 15 Feed the Body, Nourish the Hair
CHAPTER 16 Understanding Your Child’s Hair Loss
Conclusion
Appendix A: What If?
Appendix B: Some Products to Try
Appendix C: Recommended Tools
Recommended Reading
Index
Acknowledgments
Special thanks to Kitt Allan, vice president and publisher, General Interest Books, John Wiley & Sons, Inc.; Carole Hall, former editor in chief, African American Books, John Wiley & Sons, Inc.; Camille Acker, John Wiley & Sons, Inc.; Tony Rose, publisher, Amber Books, for seeing the possibility; Samuel P. Peabody, associate publisher, Amber Books; and Yvonne Rose, senior editor, Amber Books; Wayne Zoom
Summerlin, photographer; Terrie Williams, the Terrie Williams Agency; and Kelly Starling Lyons, author of Eddie’s Ordeal.
I wish to express my sincere appreciation to all of my clients who have been so loyal to me for so many years and thank them for entrusting me with the care of their children’s hair, and their grandchildren’s hair, but please . . . not their great-grandchildren’s hair.
I would like to thank my cousins Cheryl, Janet, Karen, and Sharon, who at a very, very, very early age allowed me to play with their hair.
I am grateful to my little stars Quan, Armani, Boonie, Ashley, Alexis, Caitlyn, Kiara, my goddaughter Brittney, Michelle, Tina, Nova Tynashia, Ivan, Javon, Jessica, Lauren, Melanie, Whitney, Milton, Myles, Sequana, Sholisa, Trolisa, Shanay, Tesia, Tyler, Justin, Jalissa, Zack, Frank, Jaylen, Johnathan, Tanaja, Aaron, Krystan, Isaiah, Jordan, Sa’diyah, Salaah, Tarashia, Richard, and Jasmin and their parents for taking the time to pose for the pictures and for allowing me to use their photos in this book.
I owe a debt of gratitude to the Cleveland Public Library; for many years it has been an invaluable resource for me.
I would also like to acknowledge the contributions of the following stylists and salons in the creation of this book: Ms. Dee and Jeanina at Bouncin’ N Behavin’, Susan McMorris at The Braided Fox International, Alisa Williams at Double Vision, Tonya and Jesse at McLeod’s Beauty Salon, Debra Clark at Mystique Hair Salon, Karmer Sams at Nouveau Creations, Tracy Stephens at 2nd Round Knock Outs, Danny Allen at Sharper Image, and Andreena Marshall Visions of Drama at Hiawatha’s.
I am grateful to Tanya Jackson, Yolanda Dixon, Latisha Guise, and Toyia Reynolds, my fellow hairstylists, who have inside and outside beauty and talent. To all my family and friends, especially my mother, Louise, my mother-in-law, Bernadine, my brother Buggy, and my nephew Deon for their unconditional love and support. And last, but most important, to my husband, Mychal. Were it not for your love, support, encouragement, and photographic talents, this would not have been possible. Thank you.
Hi, I’m Berna and this is my cousin Lula. We used to have hair problems until my mom read this book. Now we can do a lot of different styles on our hair. The author, Miss Lilly, is a good friend of my mom’s. So she asked us if we would like to help her with this book. Of course we said yes because our hair has never been so easy to comb and so pretty. We have fun with our hair now.
Introduction:
It’s More Than Hair
In some African cultures it was believed that the hair contained the soul. The hair, being the highest part of the body and therefore closest to God, was thought to be divine. The person touching the hair was important and trustworthy. Having created many strong bonds with children and adults through the act of hairdressing, I believe there’s something somewhat spiritual that goes on during the simple act of combing hair.
Before we discuss the various methods of caring for hair, take a moment to relax, hold your child, and gently massage his or her scalp. Your special touch connects you to your child and reinforces the bond that forms between you and your little one from the very beginning of life. Children feel at peace and protected when you softly stroke their little heads while holding them or watching them sleep. They will feel cared for as you gently shampoo, comb, or brush their hair. Your tender touch can express love to your newborn and help create an inner strength in your growing toddler.
Some days doing your child’s hair feels like a chore, especially on busy mornings when everyone is rushing to work and to school. On a Saturday afternoon, slow down and remember that time can be precious. Grooming your child’s hair at any age