What No One is Telling You About Addictions
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Discussing the merits of tough love, the selfish co-dependency of the enabler, what scripture tells us about spiritual warfare and invasion, and generational sin, make this book a must read.
Helen Guimenny Glowacki
Helen Gumienny Glowacki is an interior designer, writer, teacher, and motivational speaker. As the writer, producer and host of the television series “The Contemporary Woman”, broadcast by UA Columbia Cablevision, Helen addressed interior design and the health, relationship, parenting, and life issues of interest to women. She co-hosted a number of 24-hour telethons featuring celebrity guests, and once co-hosted a cable television game show. Her writing credentials include an extensive background as a freelance feature writer and a staff writer for four newspapers, writing marketing manuals for the INOVA Hospital systems, and editor of two association newsletters. A graduate of William Paterson University, Helen received her Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications, magna cum laude. She also earned an Associate of Science degree, with honors, and is a registered nurse. Helen has utilized her medical background in her television discussions, hospital work, and novels. She has served on the Boards of Directors for two associations and as a popular speaker, at ease with an audience, she has addressed women’s groups, church groups, community service and religious organizations, and high school and college groups, and at libraries, aboard cruise ships, and in large adult and assisted living condominium complexes. She has appeared as a radio show guest, in theater groups, army camps, and veteran’s hospitals. Helen has received a number of community service awards and contributes her books to The Henwood Foundation in Zambia, Africa which welcomes Christian novels in English for use as a teaching tool. Helen also provides her books to the New Apostolic Sunday Schools in Lahore Pakistan and donates books to various cancer centers, drug rehab centers and other venues which may benefit from her beautiful portrayal of God’s Plan of Salvation and has written numerous articles for Christian magazines, newsletters and outreach programs. Many tout Helen’s beautiful stories as spiritually uplifting and biblically accurate. Her greatest joys are her husband, two children, four grandchildren, and her New Apostolic church activities.
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What No One is Telling You About Addictions - Helen Guimenny Glowacki
Novels by Helen Gumienny Glowacki
When God Broke Grandma's Heart
When God Took Grandma Home
When Grandma Chased the Spirits
The Granddaughter and the Monkey Swing
Grandma's Little Book of Poetry: The Story of God's Plan of Salvation
Abiding Faith, Hidden Treasure
And Then They Asked God
Non-Fiction Books by Helen Glowacki
To What Purpose?
Why God Why?
Why Trust Scripture?
What Should I Know About Life after Death And The Coming Tribulation?
Politically Incorrect: The Get Some Gumption Handbook When Enough is Enough
What No One Is Telling You About Addictions
Coming Soon
What Does God Want Me To Do RIGHT NOW?
How Can I Find Happiness?
Authors Website: www.Helenglowacki.com
Face book: http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Grandmother-Series/155300907853909?ref=ts
MISSION STATEMENT
To Serve God
With All Our Strength
With All Our Heart.
Helen Gumienny Glowacki, Daniel Patrick Landolfi
FORWARD by Daniel Patrick Landolfi
To Those Who Suffer From Addiction:
The realities of addiction are simple- we let our bodies run our lives. We let our flesh take control and demand from us whatever it wants. Our flesh wants what it wants, when it wants it and thus seeks complete control. Our emotions play a large part in how we react to the demands of the flesh and therefore how we develop addictions. What we feel triggers or activates an autoresponse which causes us to act in a way which brings relief and appears to fulfill our desires.
Because we have responded in certain ways in the past which appeared to fulfill our needs, we seek to activate them again. But as we do the same thing over and over again, two things begin to occur: it becomes easier to do and it becomes harder and harder to stop. As an example, if we had a rough day at work, we often raid the refrigerator to bring fleshly relief as soon as we arrive home. But whenever those feelings resurface, our flesh wants to resort to whatever seemed to work in the past to bring relief. Another example is the person who has a rough day and develops the tendency to have a drink to find relief... and in time they find themselves in a position where they must have that drink and many more. This need can be stirred by a number of situations even one as simple as having to make a difficult decision. In time, an addiction to alcohol can develop.
Many things influence us in this world and this is why it is important for us to learn the proper way to handle our feelings. Those things which influence us are hardships, confusion, depression, thoughts of suicide, loss, fear, anxiety and many other emotions and situations. If we don’t learn how to recognize and attend our feelings, Satan will use them to allow his spirits to engage us and tempt us again, and soon we become enslaved.
Addiction is a cry of the flesh yearning for something it is used to getting or feels it needs and wants. It’s the body wanting the control to tell you that it wants something so badly it is willing to react until you yield and give it what it wants. It can be very difficult to live day to day going through these temptations. But this is why Jesus told us also to meditate upon His Words day and night (Joshua 1:8) and to keep our minds refreshed and renewed (Romans 12:2). Loving God means that we begin by learning what God wants us to know because as it says in Philippians 2:15, That ye may prove yourselves
.
Our struggle is to become someone who is not led by their flesh, but by Christ who teaches us that we are a three part being: spirit, soul, and body (1 Thess. 5:23) and that if we live by placing those three in that order we will be successful while if we live according first to body, then soul and lastly by spirit we will fail and become subject to Satan.
Do you feel that pull of the body? Do you feel your body demanding satisfaction? Are you drawn to enter every time you pass a liquor store, thinking about the liquid sparkling in the cup, swirling around in the glass, begging you, pleading with you to just take one sip; to just have one drink? Do you believe that you can just smoke one joint or use hard drugs only when you choose to do so and not when the spirit which controls your body demands it?
This is because we have been conditioned to be led by our feelings. It is because of the way we think when we tell ourselves: I feel like...
, I want to...
, I have to...
, I’ll only...
These are all signs that we are led by our emotions and this is where our emotions become dangerous. As long as we are being led by our emotions we are not being led by the spirit of God. Does this happen to you? Do you feel desperate if your body doesn’t get its daily dose of alcohol... or drugs... or pornography... or any other fleshly desire?
Even David understood the pull these addictions can have on us. In Proverbs 23:31 David said, Don’t gaze at the wine, seeing how red it is, how it sparkles in the cup, how smoothly it goes down.
Yet isn’t this what we do? We entertain thoughts about how it looks, tastes, and feels. We think about the satisfaction we feel while we indulge. We want it, we can feel it, and we believe that we deserve it, need it. We allow ourselves to get so built up about what we want that we can no longer resist it. And then we do it. Again..., perhaps thinking that next time, we won’t. Whatever it is, we partake of it, and after the deed is done, all we can think about is how we feel at the moment and either when the next fix is coming or how weak and unworthy we are.
As we grow older, we learn that there are certain spirits which have influence over us. Some we hardly notice but they cause us to feel rejection, fear, depression, insecurity or pride- things which weigh us down and play havoc with our emotions. These spirits pull on our bodies and send us into the arms of even stronger spirits which cause us to turn to fleshly relief instead of looking to the word of God. These spirits and our reactions to them prohibit us from moving forward in Christ.
But there is hope. There is life. And it’s waiting for you. There are people praying for you, even if you don’t know it or believe it. God does have a special plan for you. God knew you were going to go through this. He knew you were going to have this stumbling block. And He knew it was going to be a hard journey. He loves you. I love you. Many people love you. It might not feel
that way. It might not look
that way. You see, God knows all things; He knows your past, present, and future. He has called you to be a witness for Him. He still has a special purpose and plan for you. But you have to make that first step. You have to get it ingrained into your spirit that you want to change and believe that His plans and goals outweigh the temporary satisfaction which you seek.
My prayer is that as you read this book you begin to understand that first, you are not alone. Many of us, in secret and in the open, deal with our own addictions, some minor, some not so minor. A lot of us have hit bottom and have felt the sin and sadness weigh heavily upon our hearts. But before healing can take place, change needs to be sought. I know this, because God also has a plan for me too. Just as I am writing this forward to help you, and this book is written to teach you, God ordained both through imperfect people to share with