To Date a Man, You Must Understand Yourself: The Journey of Two Women
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To Date a Man You Must Understand Yourself: The Journey of Two Women
Finally. A dating book that is PROACTIVE. Do you ask yourself why you are still single? Are you constantly dating “wet kittens?” Taking them in, drying them off, feeding them, and paying for their fluffy asses only to get dumped in 3 weeks?
Hi I’m Gregg and I write #1 BEST SELLERS! I’m the author that talks to my readers and gives free advice through my dating books for women.
Let’s get you in TOP dating shape BEFORE you go out and try to meet the guy of your dreams. Doesn’t that make sense? You don’t run a marathon without preparing your body right? So why would you jump right into a relationship before you understand your own self? Yet women do. They fall for a man before they have matured as a person and this leads to failure. You grow as person, the most, when you are single. But instead of enjoying this time and packing your life with as many experiences as you can, many women feel the need to get married and have kids. Hell, society screams at women to have a family straight out of college.
Let's Talk About Your Story and Why it is So Important
Everyone needs a great story. Women that create a positive story BEFORE they settle down get rewarded with quality men that stay in their lives. Positive experiences define your story and this makes you interesting. When you are interesting, you have opinions and with opinions you can challenge people - namely men. Women who have a great story develop boundaries and they live their lives with conviction.
We are going to work on your story. And if it sucks, then we are going to change it. And when we do, you will be amazed how easy it will be to get what you want out of life and attract a quality man!
You are going to meet two women, Meghan and Jennifer. Each has a story to tell. One will succeed and one will wallow through failed relationships. You are one, or some combination, of Meg of Jen. By following their life experiences, we will be able to see what you are doing right or wrong and FIX the problem NOW!
In Section One and Two we will meet our girls and we see how they perform in real life
Meet Meghan and Jennifer
Understand why your financials are so important
Learn their stories and what the guys they are dating think about them
Learn the science behind positive thinking
Understand how technology is messing with our lives
In Section Three we learn what men are looking for and see how our girls stack up
Learn how a woman becomes a WOW (woman of worth)
Learn the importance of changing things up
See why Meghan is a rockstar and Jennifer is a rest stop
Get the secrets to seducing a man
In Section Four I give you exercises to become a Dating Rockstar!
Do these 10 exercises to learn all about yourself - you will love these!
Find your one thing and roll with it!
Learn my principles of attraction
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About The Author
Gregg Michaelsen, Boston's #1 dating coach strikes again with top dating advice for women. He hold's the #1 position for dating advice on Amazon with his books; Power Texting Men, To Date a Man You Must Understand Yourself, The Social Tigress, Who Holds the Cards Now?, How to Get Your Ex Back Fast and Love is in The Mouse.
Gregg Michaelsen
Gregg rules the dating advice genre having sold a quarter million books. He is a multiple #1 best-selling author, dating coach, and life coach. Being both gives him an incredible advantage over his competitors. He helps women (and men) succeed in both their dating and everyday lives. He encourages his readers to contact him through his books and get answers for free.Gregg’s motto? Build Yourself and He Will Come.When not answering emails from his readers, Gregg loves jetsking, surfing, hanging out under the palm trees in West Palm, and calling his Mom at 5 am. His Dad was a life coach, before they were even popular, and coached Gregg.Gregg just completed a video shoot with world renowned dating/relationship expert Dr. Helen Fisher in NYC. He credits his three older sisters as the reason why he understands women so well. He gives to The Wounded Warrior Project and animal shelters.Gregg is currently working on his latest book that helps women truly understand men so they can acquire what they want by communicating in a language that men understand. Exciting stuff!Visit Gregg at WhoHoldsTheCardsNow.com and become a believer, thousands have.
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To Date a Man, You Must Understand Yourself:
The Journey of Two Women
Gregg Michaelsen
Copyright 2014 by Gregg Michaelsen
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DISCLAIMER: As a male dating coach I am very good at what I do because of my years of studying the nuances of interpersonal relationships. I have helped thousands of women understand men.
That said, I am not a psychologist, doctor or licensed professional. So do not use my advice as a substitute if you need professional help.
Women tell me how much I have helped them and I truly hope that I can HELP you too in your pursuit of that extraordinary man! I will provide you with powerful tools. YOU need to bring me your willingness to listen and CHANGE!
Congratulations on taking the first step to learning, understanding and TAMING men!
Preface
Introduction
Section 1: Meet Meghan & Jennifer
Meet Meghan
Meet Jennifer
Section 2: Life in the Real World Begins
Getting Off to a Good Start – Be Smart With Your Money
Everybody Needs a Good Story: What’s Your Story?
Your Friends are a Great Asset!
The Science of Positive Thinking
I Have All These Traits, Why Can't I Find a Great Guy?
A Word About Technology
Section 3: What Are Men Looking For?
Defining a Woman of Worth
(WOW)
Time to Change Things Up, Ladies!
A Rock Star and a Rest Stop
Tips on Seducing a Man
Section 4: A Few Jump-Starter Exercises
Understand Yourself Better So You Can Go for It in Life!
Find Your One Thing
Principles of Attraction
Author Bio
Final Thoughts
To Date a Man You Must Understand Yourself. What does that mean? Well, it means many things, really. At its core, understanding yourself means realizing your values, strengths and weaknesses, dreams and desires, passions and fears. If you want to find love in your life, then you need to explore what your heart wants so you can understand what you want in a man. To know what you want in a man, you need to understand what you like and what you don’t, where you can compromise and where you shouldn’t. So how can you answer these questions if you don’t understand yourself?
You can’t.
Some people even deny who they are. Why? To impress others who don’t even matter in their lives? Never live that lie or be untrue to yourself no matter how odd or different you may be. Life can become amazing when you start to unfold your wonderful layers of uniqueness! The sooner you realize who you really are, the easier your remaining days will be.
Okay, so how do you understand yourself? Easy! Through experiences. The more experiences you have like canoe trips, traveling, surfing, religious experiences, kick boxing, volunteering, babysitting, cooking classes etc., the more complete you will become as a person and the deeper you will understand yourself! Throughout this book you will hear me ask, What’s your story?
The better the story, (the more positive experiences you have) the easier it will be to get what you want out of life, and this includes men.
And that’s not all! The more you understand yourself the easier life will be. Getting a job, advancing your career, saving for retirement and anything else you want to accomplish gets easier because you have the confidence to take on risks and new adventures. Why? Because you know yourself and you know you can do it.
When I finally realized I was living in agony, I cleaned up my party lifestyle, quit my job and started writing and helping people. I’ve