A Woman's Guide to Oral Sex: Your guide to incredible, exhilarating, sensational sex
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A Woman's Guide to Oral Sex - Adams Media
The Secrets of Great Sex
A Woman’s Guide to Oral Sex
Your guide to incredible, exhilarating, sensational sex
Adams Media, an imprint of Simon & Schuster, Inc.
Avon, Massachusetts
Contents
Introduction
Our Intrigue with Oral Sex
Just So We’re on the Same Page …
Why He Loves Oral Sex
Popular Culture: The Oral Sex Buzz
Oral Sex Today
The Importance of Oral Sex
Sexual Anatomy: Passion-Inducing Parts
Learn Your Way Around the Landscape
What Happens When He Gets Hot ’n’ Horny
Meet Your Tongue
Naked Twister Gets Naughty: Positions for Oral Sex
The Classic
Starfish
On Your Knees
Sitting
Face-Sitting
From Behind
Sideways
Wrap Around
Plough Pose
Bottoms Up!
Deep Throat
Soixante-Neuf (a.k.a.69
)
Erotic Furniture and Supports
Take Your Show on the Road
Owning Your Pleasures: Assessing Any Issues
Common Mistakes People Make
The Need to Breathe
Common Concerns for You
Common Concerns for Him
Oral Sex Inhibitions
Overcoming Sexual Aversions to Oral Sex
Health and Relationship Benefits
Common Myths
Genital Perceptions: Attending to the Senses
Genital Perceptions
When He’s Au Naturel — The Uncircumcised Penis
Passion amidst Pubic Hair
Smell: P.U. vs. Passion-Inducing
Taste
To Spit or Swallow
Sex Communication
Talking about Oral Sex
Rules of Engagement
Initiating Oral Sex Talks
Keep Oral Sex Sexy
Have Safer Sex
STD Status
Safer Sex Strategies
Talk about Your Sexual Health
Deciding Your Oral Sex Rules
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Introduction
The Secrets of Great Sex books are concise guides, focusing on only the essential information you need. Whether you’re looking for a new sex position to try, need advice about achieving real intimacy, or want to know how to please your partner, there’s a Secrets of Great Sex book for you!
As George Michael once sang, Sex is natural, sex is fun.
While both statements may be true, it may not always feel that way. Yes, sex is a natural, biological process as old as mankind, but for many people — especially those who are self-conscious in the bedroom — sex (good sex, at least) may not seem to come naturally. And if you are worried, anxious, self-conscious, or otherwise distracted, sex probably won’t be much fun, either.
The good news is, great sex isn’t an impossible feat. In fact, it may be much more attainable than you may think. It may take a little bit of effort and perhaps a little practice (which will be fun, I promise!) but before you know it, your sex life will be better than you ever dreamed possible.
The truth is, you probably already have the basic ingredients for a terrific sexual experience: desire, passion, primal urges, and a willing partner. Most likely, you are letting yourself get way too hung up on technique (or your perceived lack thereof) and how you insert Tab A into Slot B. Fortunately, that’s stuff you can easily learn, if you have the motivation and dedication. And, since you’ve made the effort to pick up this book, I’m assuming you are indeed eager to learn. That’s half the battle.
Exploring and learning about our sexual nature comes easily to some people and seems challenging to many others. We aren’t taught much about sex unless we were lucky enough to have parents who weren’t afraid to talk about it. Young people learn about sex from their peers or from experimentation. The older a person gets before he has experienced some kind of sexual encounter, the more ill-equipped that person will feel upon actually entering a sexual relationship.
When we feel well informed, practiced, and excited about sex, it becomes an awesome experience. We are born with all the right equipment for sex. What we need is a sort of an owner’s manual
— a guide to help us learn, give us ideas with which to experiment, and supply the guidelines to let us know that we are on the right track.
Every couple and every sexual encounter a couple has is unique. It may not feel that way to you right now, but, as you begin to learn more about your sexual nature, you will begin to observe the differences each time you make love. By doing this you will have a basis from which to expand even further. Becoming conscious — but not self-conscious — while having sex is the key to having each separate experience feel new, exciting, and creative.
Each one of us is responsible for our own sexual happiness. It isn’t our lover’s responsibility, though it is wonderful if we feel partnered with someone who wants to have sexual happiness, too. The Secrets of Great Sex series is designed with the goal of giving you every tool necessary to have a complete, satisfying, expansive sexual and sensual experience.
These guides will inform you for many years to come and provide the insight and knowledge you need for a future of great sex. A long life, a healthy life, a happy life, and a great sex life all go together!
If you’d like to learn more about great sex, check out The Everything Great Sex Book, 2nd Edition, available in print (978-1-4405-0148-3) and eBook (978-1-4405-0149-4) formats.
Our Intrigue with Oral Sex
Lip service, going down, sucking cock, giving a hummer, meeting with the one-eyed purple monster … . The slang terms for oral sex are very creative, often quite comical, and, at the very least, many. Google oral sex
and 17.4 million hits come up for that term alone. People around the world are intrigued with the eroticism involved in giving the genitals a slip of the tongue and more. To say we’re orally fixated is an understatement.
Just So We’re on the Same Page …
Performing oral sex is a universal sexual experience enjoyed by millions as a part of foreplay, as a part of afterplay (that lovely, intimate, coming down period following sexual intercourse), or as the main sex event. In those racy trysts involving more than two sexual partners, it can even be experienced during sexual intercourse. In any case, oral-genital contact, more commonly known as oral sex, involves giving or receiving pleasure delivered to a person’s sexual organs primarily via the lips and tongue. This is typically done in a rhythmic licking or sucking fashion using one’s mouth, though any number of techniques can be employed, as we’ll cover in-depth throughout this book.
An illustration of felatioStemming from the Latin fellare, which literally means to suck,
fellatio is the formal term for oral stimulation of the male penis and scrotum — aka blow job or giving head. Another form of oral sex, analingus — also known as rimming, ass licking, eating ass, or tossing salad — refers to oral-anal contact. Anal-oral sex may accompany fellatio or may be the sole event of a sex session. Now while this may sound somewhat technical, these types of sexual exchanges can be quite titillating. Sucking cock is a highly effective erotic technique, which has held rapture for humans throughout the ages. Analingus, which we’ll cover here and there throughout this book, is more of an acquired taste, but something that really works for couples who are into it. Whether sought for its scintillating sensations, or pursued as a prime opportunity to get down and dirty, any of these oral adventures