Driven: The Never-Give-Up Roadmap to Massive Success
By Manny Khoshbin and Rich Mintzer
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Behind every entrepreneur's success story, there's a never-ending list of gut-wrenching failures, missed opportunities, and jaw-dropping setbacks. Real estate mogul and serial entrepreneur Manny Khoshbin is one of those entrepreneurs with a story of perseverance that will make you believe in the American Dream all over again.
Driven: The Never-Give-Up Roadmap to Massive Success goes beyond Manny's personal ride through the entrepreneurial journey to deliver the habits, mindset, and insights aspiring entrepreneurs need to turn dreams into reality. Buckle up and join Manny as he shares his experiences and teaches you how to:
- Beat the odds and become a successful entrepreneur in your own right
- Challenge yourself, study your failures, and pivot your plans
- Double down on projects, ideas, and investments you're passionate about
- Spot and surround yourself with positive, successful, and like-minded people
- Change your mindset to achieve what you think is impossible
It's imporant to remember that on your journey, you can navigate around obstacles and overcome them—just never give up. Dream big, stay ambitious, and remember that anything you really want deserves your 100 percent effort. Got it? Good. Now, let's ride.
Manny Khoshbin
Manny Khoshbin is President and CEO of The Khoshbin Company, based in Orange County, California. His company has real estate holdings in seven states, totaling over 2.5 million square feet. Khoshbin immigrated to the United States with his family in 1984, at the age of 14. He got his real estate license in 1992 and proceeded to build a tremendously successful career in real estate. Khoshbin lives in Newport Coast, California.
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Driven - Manny Khoshbin
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ebook ISBN: 978-1-61308-384-0
contents
introduction
PART I
Drive!
chapter 1
this is my story
Welcome to America
Job 1: Diving into Entrepreneurship…Literally
Job 2: Hitting Paydirt with a Real Paycheck
Job 3: Occupational Hazards
Job 4: Life Lessons from Under the Hood
Job 5: Door-to-Door Sales and Sorrows
Job 6: My First Business
Job 7: Moving Up and Moving On
Jobs and More Jobs
Enter Real Estate
The Day That Changed My Life
Spiraling Downhill
chapter 2
success at last
My First Commercial Building
My First Million
A Hot Market for Commercial Real Estate
Doubling Down
My First Real Estate Investment Fund
chapter 3
detours along the journey: from devastated to elated
The Writing on the Wall
The Great Financial Storm Makes Landfall: The Great Recession
The Love of My Life
PART II
Fine Tune
chapter 4
what keeps me going
Element 1: Remember Where You Come From
Element 2: Exercise—Building That Fighter’s Mentality
Element 3: Surround Yourself with Positive, Successful (or Like-Minded) People
chapter 5
dream big
Setting Goals
There’s No Magic Formula
It’s More Than Money
Find Your Sense of Purpose
A Recipe for Success
Keep on Dreaming
chapter 6
power up: learning and knowledge
Attention Grabbers
Many Sources of Knowledge
Social Media
Follow the Markets
Are You Bold Enough?
You’ve Got to Act Fast
Trial and Error
Lessons Learned
chapter 7
balancing your life
Balancing Businesses
Philanthropy
Hobbies and Passions: Cars and Cigars
Extended Family
Perspectives on Balance
Slow Down and Make Some Rules for Yourself
PART III
Under the Hood
chapter 8
inventing and reinventing yourself
Stay Determined and Find Your Passion
Do You Really Want It?
Stay on Track
Reinventing Yourself
Expanding Limits
What’s Your Fuzul?
Getting Too Complacent
chapter 9
preserving wealth
Create an Estate Plan and Establish a Trust
Set up an SPE (Single Purpose Entity) for Each Investment
Consider a Good Financial Advisor
Diversify
Find a Good CPA and Listen to Them
Seek Good Legal Advice
Stick to What Has Been Working for You—Don’t Go Chasing the Next Hot Investment
Consider Collectibles
Get Insured
Invest in Real Estate
chapter 10
building your brand and building your team
Engaging with People
Credibility
Marketing Your Brand
Building Your Team
chapter 11
giving back
epilogue
final thoughts for the journey
appendix
bonus read: a look at manny’s playbook
Play #1: Set Your Goals
Play #2: Get Smart, Get Credible
Play #3: Use Your Resources
Play #4: Select Your Business Type
Play #5: Pick a Winner
Play #6: Negotiate from Strength
Play #7: Add Value to Your Business
Play #8: Expand Your Horizons
about the author
index
introduction
Whenever you get behind the wheel of your car, whether it’s a used ten-year-old clunker or a brand new supercar, you have a set destination—a place where you want to go for a moment, for a vacation, for a fresh start in life. You can drive almost anywhere. In life, we usually have several future destinations in mind. And, just as we drive different routes to get where we need to go, typically in nicer and newer vehicles as we mature, we also follow many routes in life, some that lead to dead ends and others that lead to success.
Throughout this book you will read about the many routes I have taken and I will offer you several suggestions to keep you motivated as you travel through your own journey. Hopefully, the upcoming pages will put you on the road
to success in both business and in life. So, metaphorically speaking, consider this book your car keys.
For those who don’t know me or don’t know me very well, I am Manny Khoshbin, a successful commercial real estate investor and a supercar collector who firmly believes that if you work hard, stay dedicated, and have the drive to follow your dreams, you can succeed and do great things in life.
I did not attend a fancy college, or any college for that matter, nor was I born into riches—not by a long shot—yet, here I am writing my second book. My first book, Manny Khoshbin’s Contrarian Playbook (GeniusWork Publishing, 2011), was so titled because I am a contrarian, which means I go against the grain. The book was all about how I made a living in commercial real estate and how you could, too.
This book, however, comes in response to so many people who have seen me on social media, along with photos of my car collection, and wanted to know more about me and how I created my own path to success—perhaps in the hopes of finding inspiration for their own journey to a better life. In the first few chapters, I tell my story of coming to the United States and trying my hardest to survive and succeed. In fact, as a car lover, I see the many challenges associated with driving long distances and the long journey on the road to success. I was always working hard, trying one direction, then another, and another, and another with plenty of road blocks, detours, and disasters along the way. My journey also took me from my family’s beat up old Datsun to my first car, a Honda, to a Ferrari, and on to some incredible supercars. Whether you visualize your success in buying cars, new clothes, larger homes as your family grows, season tickets to your favorite sporting events, traveling the globe, or just being able to afford nicer things for your family, you can make great strides by being motivated and convinced that better things lie ahead. So, you must keep driving forward.
I began dreaming of massive success early on in life and developed a never-give-up attitude, which is what I want you to come away with—to believe that if you continue trying, you will succeed.
In addition to my story, I also talk about staying strong both mentally and physically—staying in shape and powering up on knowledge, and never forgetting where you come from because your roots and your journey are so important. The more difficult the journey, the stronger you become. While you may not make $100 million, you can certainly reach a level of success that makes you feel good about what you do and who you are as a person. That personal, mental, and emotional strength are all factors that will keep you moving forward in that journey.
Along with motivation, I offer some advice for how to balance your life between work, family, hobbies, and the brand you build—no matter what business you are in. For example, achieving that balance calls for some practicality, especially when it comes to preserving your money—after all, what’s the point of making a great deal of money if you can’t have time to enjoy it? We’ll also talk about some of the practical aspects of your journey such as how to brand yourself and build your team, since nobody succeeds entirely on their own.
I also talk about something near and dear to my heart—giving back to those less fortunate than you. This doesn’t have to be money (it can be volunteering your time), but it is a great source of pride and kindness to help others and a way to build a lasting legacy.
I want you to get to know me, but more importantly, to feel motivated and ready to adopt a never-quit, never-give-up attitude. This book is for all the dreamers, the high achievers, and those who need a little motivation in life. Your journey won’t be easy, but you need to get behind the wheel, start your engine, and drive.
PART I
DRIVE!
The best way to get started on a journey is to simply start. Start your engine, rev it up, and start driving.
That’s what we’re going to do here in Part I: Drive! I’d like to start by telling you a bit about my own journey to success. As with any road trip, there have been plans, goals, distractions, and detours. But they all worked together to get me to a place where I’m not only successful in business but also content in my life. That’s my hope for you, too—that you will find some of my stories from the road of life that resonate with your own experience and help you map out your own adventure.
chapter
1
this is my story
Mjourney began as many American ones do—in another country. A proud immigrant, I was born on January 14, 1971, in Tehran, the capital city of Iran. I was the second child after my sister Mahi, who was just one year old when I came along. My father was 22 and my mother 21. My father worked for a public accounting company as an auditor, while my mom took care of my sister and me. When I was two, a brother Mazi entered our lives, and we all moved to a smaller city in northern Iran called Sarab, which is where my dad served in the military. By the time I was seven, we had moved again—this time to another small city called Saveh, where my father’s family resided. The city is still well-known for their pomegranate fruits. My parents bought a home, my dad opened a hardware store, and my brother, sister, and I started school. Our home was in a tract of about 30 homes surrounded by the forest. In the winter, we could see wolves coming out of the forest at night and as kids we were scared of the forest, the wolves, and the darkness.
My grandfather had a small market in Saveh where he would save the wooden boxes that the tomatoes were delivered in for me to play with when we visited on the weekends. I used to go into his backyard and build things with those boxes—it was the highlight of my weekends.
Growing up, I had two friends: Reza and Ali. We often walked to school together, which was a couple of miles from our home. Reza and I used to make slingshots and find targets to shoot at. We also enjoyed riding our bikes. We were typical kids, living out our dreams through play.
We had a happy life. It was modest and nothing fancy, but we enjoyed the peaceful serenity of living in a small town among our relatives. This was life until 1979, when everything changed. That was the year the revolution began and Khomeini, the religious leader, gained influence over the nation of Iran. He overthrew the Shah, the King of Iran, shortly after the prolonged military conflict between Iran and Iraq had begun. Open warfare started on Sept. 22, 1980, when Iraqi armed forces invaded Southern Iran along the joint border of the two nations. The war started over a conflict regarding the ownership of a river on the southern border of Iran.
I was nine at the time the war began, and I remember going up to the roof of the house with my dad and protesting. I didn’t know what was really going on, but I felt good supporting my dad. I felt like a man, knowing that I could do something. Protesting was then, and still remains, a way to actively participate as a citizen.
Khomeini created the Basij Mostazafan, a mass movement of young people. Once in power, Khomeini issued a fatwa, an Islamic law, and a promise of paradise. The Iranian clergy took over command from the military leaders in the late 1970s through early 1980s. Then, in July, Iran launched Operation Ramadan near Basra. The clergy used human-wave
attacks calling for young people from 14 years old and up to advance into the fields ahead of the adults to see if the minefields were clear so the army could follow. Thousands of children were killed in this horrific exercise.
This was a life-changing event for me and for all the people of Iran. My father had six brothers, but during the war, three were permanently injured and one later died from the effects of the chemical bombs Iraq used in the war. Having seen so much devastation, my father made a sudden decision to leave Iran two weeks before my 14th birthday, at which time I would likely have been forced to join the Iranian Army. He did not want to lose his son to war.
I should mention that a few months earlier my mom had given birth to a girl, Massy. I don’t know how many fathers would have had the courage to make such a gutsy move, but my father wanted his family to be safe and have a better future. I still look back at this as a very heroic action on his part. We don’t often realize how significant certain events are when we’re young, but it’s important to recognize and never forget the people (family or others) who did things that had a positive impact on our lives.
Welcome to America
It was March of 1985 when all six of us—my mom, dad, my brother (who was now 12), my sister (who was 15), and my little sister, who was only 11 months old, went to Turkey to get our visas to come to America.
Because of the urgency of this matter, my father didn’t have time to liquidate anything back home, so he brought less than $2,000 with him from Iran. He had planned to start a business with a friend whom he had helped get a visa to the U.S. However, once we arrived in the United States, the plan changed as my father’s so-called friend no longer wanted to do business with him, and instead decided to go work with his older brother who owned a gas station.
My father had previously visited the United States in 1984 and had bought himself a 1972 Datsun station wagon. We spent the first couple of weeks in a motel in the city of Costa Mesa, California. I remember one morning I woke up and went outside to sit by the pool. There was a little boy walking out of the pool who held up his middle finger to me as he walked past me. I didn’t know what it meant at the time, so I just waved at him and patted him on the back. I did not speak a word of English. I would soon learn that gestures like that one, and many of the words being said to me by other children, were not at all welcoming.
After a while, we started running out of money, so we had no choice but to leave the motel and sleep in the car. This went on for a few months. I now sometimes drive by the Stater Brothers store where we used to park the car and realize how far life has taken us. My dad managed to get in touch with an old friend in Los Angeles. We drove up there and ended up living in their garage. We had to be quiet because if the homeowners’ association found out there were people living in a garage, they would have complained and caused a lot of trouble for our friends. I remember that even though they were friends,
we were not welcome in their home and were treated with discrimination. Now, every time I meet a new immigrant from any country who has come to America and is trying to make it here, I have so much respect for them. I know how hard it is. I recognize that this nation was founded by immigrants, and if you are an immigrant in America, you need to be strong, and you may need to work even harder to achieve your goals. But you can achieve them.
After a couple of weeks, my father found a job with a company named Cla-Val in the city of Costa Mesa. He went for an interview and they gave him the job. At the time, the pay was only $8.00 an hour (which didn’t go far in Orange County), but he had no choice because he had no work permit at the time. After a few weeks of saving money, we were ready to place a deposit on an apartment, and we moved in that August. But our financial problems were far from over. My