Weed Out the Users the Couch Potatoes and the Losers: Expose and Dump Toxic Men in Your Life: Relationship and Dating Advice for Women, #17
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Weed Out the Users, The Couch Potatoes and The Losers!
Every day, I receive emails from readers who have been caught up in the tricks of users and losers. Intelligent women who fall for the chiseled good looks, the boyish grins, and smooth lines are desperate to understand what went wrong.
The answer is simple - you chose the wrong man - and that is your only mistake!
You'll meet a user – you'll probably meet many and you may even have an enjoyable night or two with a couple of them, but he won't date you – not in the way you want to be dated anyway. He won't meet your parents. He'll say he likes your cat when he doesn't. And then one day, he will stop calling and returning your texts. Even though you had a feeling, a hunch he was using you, it will still hurt like hell because you've been used, and that just sucks. After you do this enough times, you'll die for a decent man.
When a woman dates blindly, she gives up her heart too fast without a proper screening mechanism. She compromises her boundaries just to keep a man in her life. She chases and nurtures a bad man when she should be screening him and potentially dumping his ass if he doesn't make the cut.
There is no guide, until now, to help women weed out the users and losers. Women are wasting days, weeks, months, and even years of their lives getting played because they don't understand how to properly expose men who currently are not, and may never be emotionally available.
Until now!
This book is that guide. This book fixes what's wrong with dating. This book ends your frustration!
Inside this dating advice book, I have included the characteristics of not only these toxic men but Mr. Right as well. I want you to be able to recognize just which guys are worth your time and which ones don't deserve one friggin' ounce of your energy.
Here's what you're going to learn inside:
- The 4 types of men – 2 to avoid, 1 that can be converted, and Mr Right
- The patterns of their behaviors so you can categorize each
- How to expose them before you commit
- How to recognize, attract, and keep Mr. Right
- Learn how to "build yourself" so Mr. Right will come
- The 8 things high value men look for in a woman
- How to spot the ever dangerous narcissist
But, I take it even further than that! You're also asking me to help you dump these idiots, so that's here too, as well as much more! I will help you understand why your milestone tally is leading you astray, what 6 things most often cause relationships to fail, and what high value men consider when looking for Ms. Right.
Stop trying to impress him and start making him impress you!
Stop these cons in their tracks! Form an armor suit around yourself to protect you from the next user to come along so you can concentrate your precious time finding the RIGHT guy.
About the Author:
Gregg Michaelsen is a #1 best-selling author of more than 25 dating advice for women books and life-coaching books. He coaches both men and women in how to become more confident in both your 'regular' life and your dating life.
Gregg has a unique connection to the more than 250,000 readers who have purchased his books. Readers quickly discover him to be not only responsive to their questions but eager to help. He has devoted his life to understanding men and women and what comprises a successful relationship so he can guide his readers to the holy grail of relationships - the 80-year old couple sitting on a park bench, still holding hands, still in love after 50 years!
Gregg Michaelsen
“Build Yourself and He Will Come” It has come to Gregg’s attention that you have over-complicated the male mind. He knows this because he includes his email address in every book and you reach out to him! He reads your emails and replies to every email, hoping to make a meaningful difference in your life! You’re also a busy woman who doesn’t have time to read a book which is 50% fluff, 25% stuff you don’t understand (because you’re not a therapist) and 23% information you can find with a simple internet search. You are a woman whose time is valuable. Gregg’s books are quick and to the point. The information provided is put into the easiest terms to understand and he leaves out the fluff! Should you read Gregg’s books? • Are you tired of being used by men? • Have you had enough first dates? • Is your relationship great and you want to keep it that way? • Do you want to find Mr. Right, once and for all? • Have you just come out of a relationship? • If you look at yourself honestly, can you say your dating confidence could use a boost? If you’ve answered “YES!” to even one of these questions, you should read his books! Learn how to navigate the male mind with my many tips on dating, communication and building confidence. Understand the mistakes of the past and leave them there – in your past! Your dating future is bright when you bump up that dating confidence and learn to understand the male mind! Gregg continues to research dating and can be found on most Friday or Saturday nights hanging out in a local venue, talking to groups of women, helping them with their dating problems! Visit Gregg at WhoHoldsTheCardsNow.com and become a believer, tens of thousands have!
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Weed Out the Users the Couch Potatoes and the Losers - Gregg Michaelsen
Copyright © 2017 Gregg Michaelsen and Confidence Builder LLC.
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Weed Out the Users, the Couch Potatoes and the Losers
Expose and Dump Toxic Men in Your Life
ISBN: 978-1-9756-8306-1 (print)
No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without written permission of the publisher.
DISCLAIMER: As a male dating coach I am very good at what I do because of my years of studying the nuances of interpersonal relationships. I have helped thousands of women understand men. That said, I am not a psychologist, doctor or licensed professional. So do not use my advice as a substitute if you need professional help.
CONTENTS
Introduction to Weed Out the Users, the Couch Potatoes and the Losers
Warning!
THE USERS
His Patterns of Behavior
How Do You Expose The User?
THE LOSERS
His Patterns of Behavior
How Do You Expose The Loser?
THE SNOOZERS
His Patterns of Behavior
How Do You Convert The Snoozer into Mr. Right?
MR. RIGHT
His Patterns of Behavior
How Do You Bring Mr. Right into Your Life?
HELP, I’M DATING A USER/LOSER, HOW DO I DUMP HIS ASS?
HOW TO DEAL WITH A MAN WHO WON’T GO AWAY
WHY DO WOMEN CHOOSE WET KITTENS?
BEWARE OF THE NARCISSIST!
WOMEN SEEK MILESTONES, MEN HAVE FUN
WHAT DOES MR. RIGHT LOOK FOR IN A WOMAN?
Final Thoughts
Author Bio
Get the Word Out to Your Friends!
Introduction to
It’s a rare man who will tell you, Jennifer, you are not the woman I truly want to be with but I will keep you around until I find someone better.
OR
Patricia, I am an emotionally unavailable man incapable of loving anyone, but my words will convince you otherwise.
Uh, no, that’s not gonna’ happen.
The dating world is full of predators who don’t want to date you or even get to know you for more than a few hours (ideally, a few minutes). They want one thing and one thing only. And while it goes without saying, they’re damn good at getting what they want too!
These guys are career predators – it’s what they do. Imagine spending a 40-hour workweek trying to have sex with women. They know exactly what you want to hear, and they know exactly how you want to be treated. They are masters, professionals, artists in their trade.
You’ll meet a user – you’ll probably meet many and you may even have an enjoyable night or two with a couple of them, but he won’t date you – not in the way you want to be dated anyway. He won’t meet your parents. He’ll say he likes your cat when he doesn’t. And then one day, he will stop calling and returning your texts. Even though you had a feeling, a hunch he was using you, it will still hurt like hell because you’ve been used, and that just sucks. After you do this enough times, you’ll die for a decent man.
The bad news is that I’ve described just one of the types of toxic men on my list!
This behavior is unacceptable!
This is what’s wrong with dating!
This is why women get so frustrated!
This is why you feel beaten down and your confidence in dating is in the dumper.
There is no guide, until now, to help women weed out the users and losers.
Women are wasting days, weeks, months, and even years of their lives getting played because they don’t understand how to properly expose men who currently are not, and may never be emotionally available.
Until now! This book is that guide. This book fixes what’s wrong with dating. This book ends your frustration!
Understand one key thing right now - this is not your fault. You simply don’t know how to spot men who play these games – yet.
I get it, being single is frowned upon in our society. Any relationship is better than no relationship. So, you grab a guy, any guy, who doesn’t wield an axe, who showers once in a while and can put together a sentence intelligently. Why? Because you can’t suffer the humiliation of being the bridesmaid in the ugly dress again!
The landscape today is a battlefield. Romantic hookups are glorified. The chances of your date pulling up in an actual car and knocking on your door to take you to dinner went the way of the dodo bird.
Some things have changed but men have not!
A woman is left with the hope that he calls, the hope that he wants something more than a fling, and the hope that she isn’t just another conquest to show off to his friends.
These are not all bad guys, some have good intentions. They head down the road of love and, all of a sudden, their balls recoil and they head for the hills. Maybe for some unknown childhood reason, or maybe they thought they wanted a wife but then their single friends call to go to Vegas and…you know the story.
Regardless, they are wasting your time and killing your self-esteem.
Full Disclosure
Why is this book a best seller and how am I qualified to coach you on this subject? In my late teens and early twenties I was that asshole user. My friends and I picked up women. That was our hobby. Granted, we were also getting used, but I know I probably hurt some women. I am in my 50’s now. I changed my ways 30 years ago. Now, I help women defend themselves from predators like the young and foolish me. Hopefully you can forgive my past. I am not proud of who I was.
That said, I know the inner workings of the male brain and I know with precision who you should date and who you should avoid.
When our government wants to stop hackers, they hire the best – the hackers themselves!
Hi, I’m Gregg. I rule the dating advice genre having sold a quarter million books. I am a multiple #1 best-selling author, dating coach, and life coach. Being both gives me an incredible advantage in helping women understand men and build