Writing with Chronic Illness: WMG Writer's Guides, #16
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In this WMG Writer's Guide, award-winning author Kristine Kathryn Rusch offers words of wisdom for writers who suffer from chronic illnesses and who want to keep working, to improve their craft and spread their creative wings.
A long-time sufferer herself, Rusch reports from the trenches. She tells us her own struggle with health issues and how they challenge her. But none of it actually derailed her career; she worked out ways to keep writing, and in the process became an international bestselling author with hundreds of books in print.
Rusch helps writers customize a plan of action based on the writer's individual experience. She shows how to increase productivity by developing a positive, and realistic, outlook.
Importantly, Rusch points the way to reclaim the joy of writing, and celebrate success.
Kristine Kathryn Rusch
USA Today bestselling author Kristine Kathryn Rusch writes in almost every genre. Generally, she uses her real name (Rusch) for most of her writing. Under that name, she publishes bestselling science fiction and fantasy, award-winning mysteries, acclaimed mainstream fiction, controversial nonfiction, and the occasional romance. Her novels have made bestseller lists around the world and her short fiction has appeared in eighteen best of the year collections. She has won more than twenty-five awards for her fiction, including the Hugo, Le Prix Imaginales, the Asimov’s Readers Choice award, and the Ellery Queen Mystery Magazine Readers Choice Award. Publications from The Chicago Tribune to Booklist have included her Kris Nelscott mystery novels in their top-ten-best mystery novels of the year. The Nelscott books have received nominations for almost every award in the mystery field, including the best novel Edgar Award, and the Shamus Award. She writes goofy romance novels as award-winner Kristine Grayson, romantic suspense as Kristine Dexter, and futuristic sf as Kris DeLake. She also edits. Beginning with work at the innovative publishing company, Pulphouse, followed by her award-winning tenure at The Magazine of Fantasy & Science Fiction, she took fifteen years off before returning to editing with the original anthology series Fiction River, published by WMG Publishing. She acts as series editor with her husband, writer Dean Wesley Smith, and edits at least two anthologies in the series per year on her own. To keep up with everything she does, go to kriswrites.com and sign up for her newsletter. To track her many pen names and series, see their individual websites (krisnelscott.com, kristinegrayson.com, krisdelake.com, retrievalartist.com, divingintothewreck.com). She lives and occasionally sleeps in Oregon.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5FANTASTIC. What Kristine has been through, and continues to go through, reminds me of my own struggles with MCAS. I'm a lot like her, staunchly independent, hating to talk about being ill because I feel weak and ashamed and don't want to feel like I'm complaining. So, I appreciate her sharing her story even more.
I enjoyed the practical tips, especially the focus on exercise, which I always enjoyed doing when I could, but now I put more focus on it. Making exercise sort of a side task while listening to music is another game-changer, because weight training and PT bores me to death but it needs to be done. I also LOVED taking the qualifiers out of my accomplishments. I highly recommend this book, and am about to re-read it right now. Thanks, Kristine!
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Writing with Chronic Illness - Kristine Kathryn Rusch
Writing with Chronic Illness
A WMG Writer’s Guide
Kristine kathryn Rusch
WMG PublishingContents
Introduction
MY PERSONAL JOURNEY
The Structure of This Section
Health History: A Short Report
Best-Laid Plans of Mice and Kittens
Settling In: (A Process Blog)
Schedules and Structure
Thriving Despite…
THE GENERAL USEFUL STUFF
The Structure of This Section
Priorities
Productivity
Discipline
Calling in Sick
Healthy Time Off
Comparisons
The Point
Newsletter sign-up
Discoverability
About the Author
For Dean
You have my undying gratitude for all you’ve done
Introduction
I used to hide the fact that I had chronic health problems. When I was in my twenties and sick at least five days a month, I figured that was life. Everyone had health problems that knocked them on their ass at least one day per week, right?
I was raised by a difficult mother who had chronic health issues of her own, and who was, by the time I was old enough to pay attention, a full-blown alcoholic. My father, a functioning alcoholic, was never sick a day in his life—or at least, he never missed work. At his job, he accumulated sick days which never expired, and that gave him years of back pay when he retired.
My mother treated his good health like a fluke, and I took that in. Good health was unusual; bad health was the norm.
My health started to crater in my teens, after a very serious bout of mononucleosis. I was sick for six weeks and never quite the same after that. I’m not sure if it was a confluence of factors or if that illness did play havoc with my immune system. I’ve never asked a doctor about either possibility. I do know that going on the birth control pill in 1979 strongly exacerbated all of my health issues. I was nineteen. My migraines increased dramatically. I nearly walked into a zooming ambulance one afternoon because I was so zoned out with a headache that I didn’t hear the siren or see the flashing lights.
The best doctor I ever had told me, in the 1990s, that the super strong pill of the 1970s destroyed the health of many women, most of whom had to go on disability because they couldn’t work.
I get that. It would have been a struggle for me to hold a full-time job—the kind you had to go to every day and be present for—from my mid-thirties onward. By that point, I was down with a migraine or other health issues for twenty-one out of twenty-eight days. I learned to grade the migraines by severity. The severity levels had nothing to do with the real world and everything to do with me. Judging severity went like this:
Can I write? Yes/No
If yes, can I write fiction?
If no, can I write nonfiction?
If still no, can I read?
If still no, will a nap cure it?
If still no, take the damn day off and watch TV and hope the migraine goes away on its own.
Migraines were my body’s way of shutting me down. I have a host of allergies, from serious fragrance allergies to food allergies that can make me seriously ill for days. I’m pretty sure the fragrance allergies are related to the chemicals used to make fragrances here in the United States; when I traveled through France and found myself trapped in duty-free areas reeking of perfume, I never had more than a case of sniffles. France heavily regulates its perfume industry, requiring natural ingredients.
I have learned, since I moved to Las Vegas, that I can sit in restaurants near all-natural perfume shops, but can’t walk past the cleaning aisle in the grocery store. The cleaning aisle is filled with chemicals; the all-natural perfume shops are not.
But you didn’t pick up this book to hear about my health problems. You picked this up because you’re suffering from problems of your own, or you have friends or family members who suffer, and who also want to write.
I’ve managed a heck of a writing career while sick for days on end. I also managed to edit nearly full time in my thirties because I didn’t have to go to an office, and because I could take a nap when my body required one. I also didn’t have to drive anywhere. One of the severity tests I gave myself was about driving—was I alert enough to be behind the wheel? Often, with my migraines, the answer is no.
I never told the publisher I worked for in my thirties that I had health issues. He was across the country, and didn’t see me daily (or he would have known). My friends knew that I couldn’t come to dinner at certain places because those restaurants would cross contaminate the food or that I had to flee some buildings when a person wearing too much cologne entered. It seemed, from the outside, like I was an oversensitive creature who couldn’t handle the real world.
Or maybe that’s my insecurities talking.
Because I made a point of getting my work done and done well. I worked to deadline and never missed due to health. I was reliable, hard-working, and good at what I did.
But what I did was never in person.
In person created problems. As my career flourished and I had to travel to conventions and meetings with editors, the health problems showed up. Airline travel has always been a nightmare for me; hotels are worse. (I spent one night in Germany sniffing pillows with a hotel concierge. Seriously. He and I were looking for one that didn’t stink of someone’s cologne, so I had something to rest my head on that night. I finally opted for some bundled up clothing from my suitcase. The next morning, the hotel gave me a brand new pillow out of the bag.)
I had to stop doing one-on-one sessions or coffee dates with fans or wannabe writers because I couldn’t guarantee that I could concentrate on them. I gave talks that I considered plug-and-play: I could recite the words even if I was so sick I could barely handle the light.
But as time went on, I found myself canceling more and more appearances that I had already agreed to. I finally had to cut back on everything that was happening in person. I couldn’t guarantee that I would be able to speak coherently or hold down my breakfast or stay out of the emergency room.
It became impossible to hide my health concerns in public, so I became a recluse. I talked about health issues on my nonfiction blog, which I have written consistently since 2009 (with a short hiatus to finish a large project—the hiatus, I now realize, due more to my bad health and inability to concentrate than the project itself). I would mention that I have health problems and if you scroll back through ten years of blog posts, you’ll find a few of them that start with My chronic health issue raised its ugly head this week…
but I’d rarely go into more detail than that.
Some of my reticence comes from the fact that I began my working life in the 1970s, when the laws were different. You could be fired if you had too many health problems back then. I also had the hard-working example of my never-ill father. People who worked didn’t get sick. Period. End of story.
I worked. Therefore, I didn’t get sick. Even though I often was.
Getting sick regularly also seemed like weakness to me. I’d rather see myself (then and now) as someone strong and healthy than as a sickly woman who could barely make it out of bed some days. A friend of mine and I actually had T-shirts made that labeled us reluctant delicate flowers, because we both struggled against the negative self-image that comes from constantly dealing with bad health.
I’m better now, but the health problems remain. Some of the improvement comes with age—many of my health issues in my thirties and forties came from hormonal issues—and some of the improvement comes because I have figured out how to manage the chronic health problems. A great deal of