Confidential

Katharine Hill, the UK Director of the national charity Care For The Family (www.cff.org. uk) answers your questions.

Feeling unlovable

Q I don’t have a boyfriend and I feel like there’s something wrong with me. Every one around me seems to have a partner and yet I’ve reached 35, and I’ve hardly dated. Should I just give up? Katy, Swindon

Be kind to yourself. Particularly when we long for something, it can sometimes feel as though everyone else has got