fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 131 ;tkb ns/ itkp
j? s/ pkeh gk;'I iK pkehnK Bkb'I N[ZN iKdk j?. T[;
7 sZs (chemical) j? ns/ ;kv/ ;oho (body) ftZu g?dk
;tkb ns/ itkp
;tkb L @@tho ih, s[;hI ;Zu/ fgnko (real love) pko/ pVh uzrh
soQK dZf;nk j?. fJe ;tkb j[D/ th fdwkr ftZu uZb
fojk j? fe fgnko ;G Bkb fJe' fijk feT[I BjhI
j[zdk ? fe;/ Bkb f}nkdk ns/ fe;/ Bkb xZN feT[I
j[zdk j? ?
itkp L fgnko ;G bJh pokpo j'Dk ukjhdk j?. (Love
should be equal for all.) go FkfJd n;hI j[D/ th
fes/ ][dro} (selfish) jK. i/ fgnko ;kfonK Bkb
fJe' fijk BjhI j[zdk sK T[j fgnko BjhI ;r'I ;kvk
;ze'utK fdqFNhe'D j? fi; dk ekoB nzBQK w'j j?
fit/I yk; nkgD/ pZu/ d/ Bkb fe fJj w/ok g[Zso j?
iK fco fJj w/oh eko j?. @@fJj w/ok p?vo{w j?, fJj
w/ok thH ;hH nkoH j?, s[jkvh fjzws fetÉ j'Jh fJ;
~ jZE bkT[D dh.## id'I th fe;/ foFs/ iK fe;/ th
uh} Bkb fJ; sohe/ Bkb w'j j' iKdk j? sK fJ;
w'j dh geV ep}/ dh GktBk (Possessiveness) ftZu
rtku ikD s/ pzdk feBko/ (corner) j' iKdk j?. fJ;
eoe/ T[; dk yk; fJe fdFk ftZu fgnko j' iKdk
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 132 ;tkb ns/ itkp
dk fgnko ;'fXnk BjhI frnk. fJj w'j pVk ehwsh
(produce) j[zdk j? go fJ; ~ ;'fXnk BjhI frnk.
fJ; fgnko ~ @@;kiB[ ;G e? fBefN yVk (gzBk 924)
tKrz{ j'Dk ukjhdk j?, go ;ztkfonk BjhI frnk.
fit/I pZu/ d/ Bkb wK dh wwsk j?, w'j j?, pj[s uzrh
rZb go fJ; ~ fJ; soQK xfVnk ikJ/ fe j'oBK d/
pZu/ th nkgD/ pZu/ brZD. fijV/ i'fVnK (couple)
d/ pZu/ BjhI j[zd/, T[j ;koh T[wo jh d[Zyh ofjzd/ jB
fe ;kv/ pZu/ BjhI j'J/. go i/ BjhI j'J/ ns/ s[jkv/
nzdo pZu/ tk;s/ wwsk ikr ojh j? sk fe;/ :shw
pZu/ ~ iK fe;/ j'o d/ pZu/ ~ b? e/ gkb bt'. n;bh
w}k jh fJj' j? fe d{i/ pZu/ ~ th Sksh Bkb brk
e/ gkbDk, fi; soQK nkgDh e[Zy'I izfwnk j't/. fJ;~
e'fFF eoe/ t/yhJ/ go n;hI fJ; soQK feT[I BjhI eod/
jK. ;kvk s/ nkgD/ xoK ftZu ftseok j[zdk j?, d'
;Ze/ GoktK d/ pZfunK d/ ftZu th ftseok j' iKdk
j?, d' ;ZehnK G?DK ftZu th ftseok j' iKdk j?. fgnko
~ ;'fXnk BjhI frnk fJ; eoe/ jh ;kv/ s'I fJj ftseok
j[zdk j?. fgnko ~ i/ ;'X bJhJ/ sK fgnko v[Zb-v[Zb
e/ Sbe/rk (overflow), uko'I gk;/ pokpo tr/rk.
;tkb L tho ih ! w+ fjzd{ jK ns/ fjzd{nK ftZu ftnkj iBw
gZsoh fwbk e/ ehsk iKdk j?. e[M b'eK dk efjDk
j? fe iBw gZsoh fwbkD dk nkXko ftfrnkBe j[zdk
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 133 ;tkb ns/ itkp
j? ns/ iBw gZsoh fwbk e/ j'fJnk ftnkj ekw:kp
j[zdk j?. w/ok ;tkb j? fe T[j fetÉ j[zdk j? ns/ T[;
dh eh p[fBnkd j?. i/ fJ; soQK BjhI j? sK dZ;' ftnkj
dk eh nkXko iK w{b sZs j'Dk ukjhdk j? ?
itkp L fJj iBw gZsohnK iK e[zvbhnK fwbkT[Dk ;ok;o
fBokoEe j? fJ; dk ekw:kp ftnkj Bkb e'Jh ;zpzX
BjhI j?. eJh fcbwK ftZu n;hI d/yd/ jK fe gzvs
~ g?;/ d/ e/ iBw gZsoh fwbk bJh iKdh j?. fcbwK
d/ Bkb-Bkb pV/ b'eK d/ xoK ftZu Åfynk frnk j?
wksk fgsk nkgD/ pZu/ (e[Vh iK w[zvk) dk fiZE/ th foFsk
eoBk ukj[zd/ jB sK T[j gzvs ~ g?;/ d/ e/ i/ T[BQK
dk foFsk fes/ j'o th j' fojk j't/ sK T[; ~ s[Vtk
e/ th nkgDhnK iBw gZsohnK fwbtk b+d/ jB. fJj
e/tb fJe wB[Zyh i[rs j? (This is conventional).
fe;/ ~ fJ;d/ nXhB BjhI j'Dk ukjhdk. (one should
not depend on this ) fJ; dk oZp ih Bkb e'Jh b?Dk
d/Dk Bjh_. fJj ;G s'I tZvk X'yk j?. ;k~ ;G ~ ukjhdk
j? fe ;Zu ~ ;wMhJ/.
;kv/ d/F ftZu iBw gsoh fwbk e/ ftnkj eok fdZsk
iKdk j? fi; d/ f;ZN/ ti'I eJh tko bVeh Boe ;èVdh
j?, T[;Bz{ g?o dh i[Zsh pDBk g?Idk j?. d{i/ gk;/ bVe/
~ th eJh soQK d/ B[e;kB gj[zukJ/ iKd/ jB. n?;/
y'yb/ ftFtk;K ekoB n;hI ;ko/ d[Zyh jK. w?~ bZrdk
j? fJ; dk fe;/ th Xow Bkb e'Jh ;zpzX BjhI j?.
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 134 ;tkb ns/ itkp
iBw gZsoh ns/ e[zvbh Xow d/ BK j/m ubkJh ik
ojh fJe X'y/ dh d[ekB j?. fJ; ftu e'Jh FZe BjhI
fe g[oksB ;w/I s'I fJ;soh iks d/ Gb/ bJh ns/
;wkfie YKu/ Bz{ mhe ubkT[D bJh f;nkfDnK B/ ftnkj
dk sohek pDkfJnk i' fe ;koh d[Bhnk ftu nwb
(practice) ftu fbnkfJnk iKdk j?. fJZE/ sZe jh BjhI
pbfe wod Bz{ th nkgDh fJe gsBh ns/ gfotko ftu
ofj e/ ;[uZik ns/ T[&Zu/ nkuoB tkbk ihtB fiT{D
bJh fdqVQ eokfJnk iKdk j?. fJ; ftu fJ;soh dh
fJZ}s oZyDk ns/ pZfunK dh gotfoF dh f}zw/tkoh th
wod T[&Zs/ nkT[Idh j?. i' w[zvk ns/ e[Vh ftnkj BjhI
eokT[Dk ukjz[d/, T[j ;wkfie pzXB, uzr/ ukb ubB
ns/ gfotkoe f}zw/tkohnK s'I w[es j'Dk ukjz[d/ jB,
b/feB ;wkfie ftnkj w[zvk ns/ e[Vh Bz{ ;[uZi/ ihtB
dh ;/X d/Idk j?. i' w[zvk e[Vh fJ; f}zw/tkoh s'I wz{j
c/o e/ ftnkj BjhI eokT[Dk ukjz[d/ T[BQk Bz{ nkgD/ wkV/
f]nkb, wkVhnK eos{sK, wkV/ c[oB/ ns/ Bht/I feodko
(character) tZb fXnkB d/Dk gt/rk feT[Ife ftnkj
Bk eokT[Dk, f}zw/tkohnK s'I wz{j c/oBk, T[BQK Bz{ wzd
eowh ihtB tZb fyZudk j?$XZedk j?. T[go'es ftuko
Bz{ w[Zy oZyfdnK ;[uZik ihtB fiT{D bJh, d[Bhnk d/
Gb/ bJh ns/ ;wki dh ftt;Ek Bz{ mhe ubkT[D bJh
uzr/ ;kEh dh sbkF eoBh ukjhdh j?. uzr/ w[zv/ Bz{
uzrh e[Vh fwb/ iK uzrh e[Vh Bz{ uzrk w[zvk fwb/
d't/I rqfj;Eh ihtB d/ ;ko/ uzr/ r[DK Bz{ nwb ftu
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 135 ;tkb ns/ itkp
fbnkT[D sK g/e/, ;j[o/ ns/ pZfunK dk ihtB th ;[uZik
ns/ ;[yd j' ;edk j?. fJ; eoe/ w[zvk iK e[Vh bZGD
t/b/ T[&Zuk nkuoB, ;dr[D ns/ Xkowesk Gog{o (full
of spirituality ) ihtB Bz{ gfjb (priority) d/Dh
ukjhdh j? go nca;'; fJ; rZb #s/ nkT[Idk j? fe b'eh
Xkofwe eoweKv tkb/ Bz{ Xowh ;wM b?Id/ jB, pj[s
g?;/ tkb/ foFs/ Bz{ gfjb fdzd/ jB, T[&Zuk nkuoB j?
fe BjhI, n?;/ r[D BjhI t/yd/ ns/ nfrnkBsk tZ; Fokp
ghD fgbkT[D tkfbnK Bkb foFsk i'VBk p[ok BjhI
;wMd/. fit/I f;ro/N ghD tkbk Gkt/I p/JhwkB B
j't/, nkukoB s'I th Bk fvZrk j't/ sK th T[;dh ghsh
f;ro/N T[;d/ ;oho ns/ gfotko d/ pkeh w?IpoK Bz{
pj[s B[e;kB gj[zukT[Idh j?. j{-p-j{ fJ;/ soQK Fokp
ghD tkbk nkgD/ nkg Bz{ fgnk Fohca nky/ go BFJh
fposh j'D ekoB T[; dk feodko (character) ;'uDh
uzr/ BjhI pD ;ed/ jB. f;ZN/ ti'I ;ko/ xo dk wkj"b
ftrV iKdk j?. e{fVnkoK dh ;zrs eoB ekoB pZfunK
#s/ th pj[s wkVk n;o g?Idk j?. fJe th wkVh eos{s
j't/ sK d{ih, shih, u"Eh ns/ nBzs wkVhnK tkdhnK
rqfj;Eh d/ ihtB Bz{ jVQ ns/ G{ukb tKrz{ y/o{z-y/oz{ eo
fdzdhnK jB. n?;/ gfotko dk rqfj;Eh wfjb nkgD/
nkg bJh Boe, ;wki bJh }fjws ns/ d[Bhnk bJh
G?Vk nkdoF ;kps j[zdk j?. ;' Fokp, i{nk, skF,
:koh ns/ nB/eK j'o B[es/ ihtB ;kEh bZGD bJh
fXnkB r'uo/ oZyDk pj[s }o{oh j?. w[edh rZb j?
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 136 ;tkb ns/ itkp
fe foFsk bZGD t/b/ T[&Zu/ nkuoB tkbk, ;dr[Dh ihtB
tkbk Xkofwesk Gog{o ihtBh tkbk jh gfotko ns/
ihtB ;kEh bZGDk ukjhdk j?.
;tkb L ihtB gq/FkBhnK, fuzsktK Bkb Gfonk j'fJnk j? eh
f}zdrh ftZu Fkdh n;hI nkgDhnK w[FebK ns/ gq/FkBhnK
~ tXkT[D tk;s/ eod/ jK. eh fJBQK Ë/FkBhnK s'I
S[Nekok gkT[D dk e'Jh jZb j? ?
itkp L j' ;edk j? ;kvh f}zdrh ftZu gfjb/ jh pj[s w[FebK
ns/ gq/FkBhnK j'D. w[FebK ;kv/ ihtB ftZu
d[y[ dko{ ;[y[ o'r[ GfJnk Ò (gzBk 469)
tKr ihtB dk fJe ehwsh gZy jB go n;hI fJ; pkoheh
(thin line) ~ ;wM bJhJ/ fe ;kvhnK ew}'ohnK
w[FebK BjhI pbfe T[j ;kv/ ntr[D jB. w[FebK
j[zdhnK jB i' ;kv/ o'}wok d/ ihtB ftZu Bk Nkb/
ik ;eD tkb/ jkbks (unavoidable circumstances)
ekoB g?dk j[zdhnK jB fiBQK ~ n;hI d[Zy dk BK d/
fdzd/ jK. ;kvhnK ew}'ohnK ;kv/ ntr[D jh j[zd/ jB
fiBQK ~ ;'XD pko/ n;hI ;'ud/ jh Bjh_. ntr[DK tkbk
wz[vk ns/ ntr[DK tkbh e[Vh dh }pod;sh iBw gZsoh
fwbk e/ fJj efj e/ fe @j[D e[Vh tZvh T[wo dh j'
rJh j?# T[BQK dk ftnkj eo jh dJhJ/. fJ; soQK
w[FebK d{DhnK (multiply) j' iKdhnK jB, ;kok e[M
popkd j' iKdk j?. ;k~ fJj ukjhdk j? i' bVek
iK bVeh ftnkj s'I pknd ;cb (successful) ihtB
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 137 ;tkb ns/ itkp
fiT{Dk ukj[zd/ jB T[j nkgD/ ntr[DK ~ ;'XD. fiT[I
fiT[I T[j nkgD/ nkgD/ ntr[DK ~ ;'XDr/ T[BQK dh
e[wZs ;[wZs pDdh ikt/rh ns/ ;[wZs pD ikD #s/ T[j
frnkB dk ;[owk gk e/ nkgD/ ihtB-;kEh ~ Yzr Bkb
bZGDr/. fco T[j o{g, ;[zdosk, nwhoh ns/ ikfJdkd
d/ pdb/ fJe-d{i/ d/ r[DK ~ d/yDr/. uzr/ r[DK dk
;zr eoB tk;s/ ;k~ uzr/ r[DK tkbk ;kEh bZGDk j?.
fJ;dk wsbp j' frnk fe ftnkj s'I gfjbK nkgD/
ntr[DK ~ ;'XD ~ gfjb d/Dh gýrh. Fkdh sK nkg;h
;fjwsh (mutual understanding) j?. fJe d{i/ d/
Bkb fwb tos e/ fJ; Xosh #s/ fgnko dh y[Fp{
fybkoB dk d';skBk w"ek j?.
;tkb L tho ih ! w+ S'Nh fijh no} eoBk ukj[zdk jK. n;hI
id'I th pZfunK dh Fkdh eod/ jK sK jo bVe/ d/
wK-pkg fJj rZb efjzd/ jB fe nZi s'I fJj ;kvh
p/Nh j?, b/feB id'I T[; dk nzs ;wK nkT[_dk j?, id'I
T[;dh w"s (death) j[zdh j? sK nkw fotk} j? fe T[;
t/b/ fJ; dk e\B fJ;d/ izwD tkb/ wK-fgT[ tb'I
j't/rk. eh n;hI T[; t/b/ i' r[o{ wjkoki dh j}{oh
ftZu efjzd/ jK fe nZi s'I fJj ;kvh p/Nh j?, go T[;
s'I T[bN feT[I eod/ jK ?
itkp L fJj pj[s skoee s/ Gkt[e ;tkb j? ? (Very very
logical and sensitive question ?) fJBQK B/ d[Zydh
oZr ~ jZE bkfJnk j? fe id'I n;hI nkgD/ ftnkj dh
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 138 ;tkb ns/ itkp
gZuhthI iK gzikjthI ;kbfroQk (marriage anniversary)
wBkT[_d/ jK s/ efjzd/ jK fe fJZE/ s/o/ g/e/ p?mDr/,
fJZE/ úo/ xo tkb/ p?mDr/. fJsB/ ;kb fJeZm/ fpskT[D
pknd th foFfsnK ftZu s/o/ w/o/ dh GktBk j?. fJ;
dk w{b ekoB j? fe n;hI d{i/ dh Xh ~ nkgDh Xh
BjhI ;wfMnk. d{i/ gk;/ T[; Xh ~ gfjbK xo'I jh
uzrk tshok BjhI f;ykfJnk frnk. fitÉ fe fJ; g[;se
ftZu n;hI ftuko nkJ/ jK fe nkgDhnK XhnK ~ fJsBh
uzrh gVQkJh eokU fe d{finK d/ xo ik e/ T[j uzrhnK
~jK ;kps j'D. i/ T[j uzrhnK ~jK ;kps Bk j'JhnK
sK T[j nkgD/ gsh, pZfunK, ;Z;-;j[o/ ns/ nkgD/ tk;s/
th w[FebK yVQhnK eoBrhnK. uzrhnK XhnK pDkJhJ/
sK i' T[j ;j[o/ xo ik e/ uzrhnK ~jK ;kps j'D.
ïeo uzrhnK ~jK ;kps j' rJhnK sK ;j[o/ xo tkb/
efjDr/ fe fJj ;kvh p/Nh j?. fJ; sohe/ Bkb id'I
n;hI eoKr/ sK fJe fgnko tkbk, o';/ frb/ s'I fpBK
;[yktK wkj"b fsnko j't/rk. go nkw s"o s/ nfijk
wkj"b BjhI j[zdk fi; eoe/ w"s tor/ w"fenK s/ n;hI
efjzd/ jK fe e\B e[Vh tkfbnK tZb'I nkt/rk.
nuBu/s jh n;hI fesB/ nu/s gkg eod/ ofjzd/ jK.
id'I ;kv/ xoK ftZu fe;/ dh w"s j' ikt/ sK n;h xo
nk e/ nzfvnK s/ p?m iKd/ jK s/ w{zj s/ 31 skohy
pDk b+d/ jK fe e[Vwk tZb'I o'Nh nkt/. eh T[j e[VwK
dk u¯ek (o;'Jh) tZy j? ? e[Vw e'Jh nbZr fJB;kB
jB ? fJj eh wsbp j? ? n;hI fejVh y/v ftZu c;/
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 139 ;tkb ns/ itkp
j'J/ jK ? e[Vw tkb/ ;'ud/ jB fe eZbQ d{i/ e[Vw
o'Nh b? nkJ/ ;B, j[D fszB fdB ;kv/ tZb' o'Nh
j't/rh. T[j nkgDh j'V ftZu bZr/ j'J/ jB fe ;kvh
p/Nh d/ ;j[o/ gotko ftZu e'Jh wo frnk j? ns/ i/
o'Nh dh tkoh ;kvh j? sK uzrh o'Nh b? e/ ikDh j?
BjhI sK pokdoh ftZu BZe eZN ikJ/rh. fJ; soQK T[j
nkgDh y/v ftZu bZr/ ofjzd/ jB. fJ; dk wsbp fJj
j'fJnk fe nkgD/ ihtB ~ T[&ZfunK eoB bJh ;k~
fJBQK y/vK (game), c'e/ ohsh-fotk}K ftZu'I fBebDk
gt/rk. w?~ fJj rZb gkmeK Bkb ;KM eoB dk wkD
nk fojk j?. e[M ;wK gfjbK w/o/ fgsk ih id'I
fBT{:koe ftZu ihtB ;cao w[ek rJ/ sK w+ nkgD/ Gok
d/ ezB ftZu fejk fe @@b'ehI e[Vwkukoh dk uZeo gkT[_d/
jB, fJ; eoe/ w/oh gsBh ns/ nkgDh gsBh d/ xo
tkfbnK ~ gfjbK jh c'B eoe/ efj fdT[ fe T[j
bzro Bk b? e/ nkT[D. fJj ;ko/ fotki n;hI ;theko
(accept) BjhI eod/. fJ; eoe/ ;ko/ foFs/dkoK ~
efjDk fe ;kv/ Bkb ;kv/ xo ubD, bzro dk gqpzX
n;hI nkg eoKr/ ns/ ob e/ yktKr/. fgsk ih d/ ftS'V/
dk w[Ffeb ;wK ;h, w"s dk w"ek ;h go n;hI fJ;
rZb T[&Zs/ gfjok fdZsk. ;k~ ;kfonK ~ fJ; soQK jh
eoBk ukjhdk j?. r[o{ d/ f;ZyK ~ nkw s"o s/ n?;k
ihtB fiT{Dk ukjhdk j? fe ;jh wkfJB/ ftZu T[BQK d/
ihtB ftZu fgnko j'ý. id'I se n;hI ;koh y/v ~
;wMKr/ BjhI sd se n?;hnK fpwkohnK s'I n;hI S[ZNKr/
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 140 ;tkb ns/ itkp
Bjh_. r[o{ d/ f;ZyK ~ T[dkjoD (role model) g/F
eoBh ukjhdh j?. ;k~ ;wMDk ukjhdk j? fe n;hI
T[j tkbk ihtB d[BhnK d/ ;kjwD/ fiT{ e/ fdykT[Dk
j? fe n;hI dki BjhI b?d/ jK. ;k~ T[BQK B/ p/Nh d/
fdZsh j?. T[BQK dh p/Nh fJe BtK ;z;ko ofus (create)
eoB tk;s/ ;kvh wdd eo ojh j?. ;k~ T[BQK wksk-
fgsk dk XzBtkdh j'Dk ukjhdk j? fiBQK B/ nkgD/ f}ro
dk N'Nk d/ fdZsk j?. T[BQK ~ ;fseko Bkb wzwh-v?vh
efjDk ukjhdk j?. T[BQK d/ xo ik e/ nkeV Bkb
itkJh pD pD BjhI p?mDk ukjhdk. nfijk ihtB ;k~
BjhI fiT{Dk. ;k~ fdqVQ j' ikDk ukjhdk j?, w}p{s
s/ gZe/ fJokd/tkbk pD e/ nkgDh gsBh d/ wksk-fgsk
~ efjDk ukjhdk j? fe @@id'I w+ nktK sK w/o/ tk;s/
e'Jh T[u/u BjhI j'Dk ukjhdk feT[Ife w+ s[jkvk itkJh
Bjh_, s[jkvk g[Zso jK. T[j id'I ;'B/ dk eVk gkT[D
bZrD sK ej' w+ r[o{ dk eVk gkfJnk j'fJnk j?, w?~
s[jkvk ;'B/ dk eVk BjhI ukjhdk. fJBQK rZbK pko/
gfjbK jh fBoDk (decide) eo b?Dk ukjhdk j?. go
n\;'; n;hI sK fJj rZbK jh eod/ fcod/ jK fe id
bVek nzdo ikJ/rk, x'Vh s/ fe; soQK uVQ/rk, fejVh
uh} T[mkJ/rk, c'N'rqkco fJ; soQK nkt/rk, fco T[j
T[&ZE/ p{ZN T[sko/rk, T[; dhnK ;kbhnK p{ZN u[Ze e/ b?
ikDrhnK. T[BQK ~ d/D bJh w[zv/ e'b g?;/ j'D/ ukjhd/
jB. fJBQK ;kohnK rZbk dk c?;bk n;hI eod/ ofjzd/
jK. n;hI nfijhnK fcbwK t/y e/ oh;'-oh;h fJj
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 141 ;tkb ns/ itkp fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 142 ;tkb ns/ itkp
nfGnk; eod/ ofjzd/ jK. i/eo ;Zu f;Zy fbnk ns/ e[M tZy jB. fiBQK dh ;'uDh fJe' fijh BjhI j?, fiBQK
;ko/ ohs fotk}K tZb'I ikr gJ/ sK ;ko/ w;b/ dk fJFN fJe' fijk BjhI j?, fiBQK dk T[d/F fJe' fijk
(g/e/, ;j[o/, e[VwK tkb/) jZb j' ikDr/. BjhI j?, T[j nkgD/ ns/ nkgD/ pZfunK d/ ihtB ~
eh pDkT[Dr/ ? ;k~ }pod;sh B"itkBK ftZu w}Qph
;tkb L tho ih ! fit/I s[;hI fejk j? fe ;k~ n?;k ihtB-;kEh
ftseo/ dh ftukoXkok sK BjhI g?dk eoBh go nkgD/
bZGDk j? fi; Bkb ;kv/ ftuko fwbd/ j'D. i/eo ;kv/
w}Qp ftZu'I uzr/ r[D T[BQK ~ }o{o dZ;D/ jB. B"itkBK
ftuko fwbd/ jB go Xow nbZr jB sK eh ehsk
~ w}Qph Bcos f;ykT[D pdb/ fJj f;ykT[Dk j? fe
ikt/, nzso-iksh (intermarriage) ftnkj pko/ s[jkv/
;ko/ wB[Zy pokpo j[zd/ jB.
eh ftuko jB ?
;ko/ XowK tkb/ pokpo jB, ;ko/ wB[Zy pokpo jB,
itkp L fJj s/ j'o pVk ysoBke j?, fiBQK d/ nkg; ftZu fJFN
b/feB fitÉ fe n;hI T[go ftuko nkJ/ jK fe w}Qp
BjhI fwbd/ jB. nZi eZbQ nzso-iksh ftnkj
~ pdbD eoe/ d{;o/ w}Qp d/ Bkb ftnkj eoB t/
(intermarriage) ~ pVh gq'Vsk fdZsh ik ojh j?. e[Vh
b/ w[FebK g?dk j' jh iKdhnK jB. fJ; eoe/ ;k~
iK w[zv/, d'jK ftZu'I fijVk gqpb j[zdk j? iK fi; d/
nzso-iksh ftnkj (inter-marriage) pko/ ikrDk
wK fgT[ ;ys j[zd/ jB, T[j T[; s'I nkgD/ Xow d/
ukjhdk j? ns/ n?;k ftnkj BjhI eoBk ukjhdk. f;Zy
ohs-fotk} eotk b+d/ jB. fijVh e[Vh d{i/ Xow
w[zvk iK e[Vh nkgD/ f;Zy gotko ftZu jh ftnkj eo/
tkfbnK d/ xo iKdh j? T[j jh ikDdh j? fe T[&ZE/
sK uzrk oj/rk. Fkdh d/ ekw:kp j'D d/ f}nkdk w"e/
fe; Gkn ftedh j?. f;Zy xo dh e[Vh ~ BjhI gsk
j'Dr/. fjzd{ f;oc fjzd{ gotko ftZu jh ftnkj eoB
fe fjzd{nK d/ xo ik e/ jB{wkB ih ~ fe; soQK g{id/
s/ w[;bwkB f;oc w[;bwkB xo ftZu jh ftnkj eoB
jB. i/ e'Jh fjzd{ pZuh f;Zy gotko ftZu nk ikt/ sK
sK T[j th ;[yh ofjDë, uzr/ ofjDr/. go i/ d{i/
T[; ~ fJj BjhI gsk fe ;qh r[o{ rqzE ;kfjp ~ fetÉ
w}Qp tZb ub/ rJ/ sK T[j }pod;sh ftnkj t/b/
wZEk N/ed/ jB. gsh nkgD/ Xkowe ;EkBK s/ ik e/
, iBw woB t/b/, nkgD/ ohsh-fotk} eotk b?Dr/,
nkgD/ Xkowe eoweKv eodk ofjzdk j? ns/ gsBh
pZu/ dk Bkw th nkgD/ Xow w[skpe oZyDr/ fco n;hI
nkgD/ Xow w[skpe nkgD/ Xow dhnK oj[-ohsK ~ g{ok
;koh T[wo b{Z;d/ otQKr/ fe @@pZu/ ~ fJj BjhI f;ykT[Dk
eodh ofjzdh j?. nzsoiksh ftnkj nkw s"o #s/ ;cb
ukj[zdh ;h, w+ s/ fJ; ~ T[&ZE/ b? e/ ikDk ukj[zdk ;h,
BjhI jz[d/ feT[âfe tZy Xow tkb/ w[zvk-e[Vh dk
w+ fJ; ~ T[j eokT[Dk ukj[zdk ;h.## T[j pZuk wksk-
;fGnkuko, ;'uDh, ohsh-fotk}, T[&ZmDk, p?mDk, ;G
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 143 ;tkb ns/ itkp
fgsk d/ tZy' tZyo/ Xkowe fynkbK ns/ ohs-fotk}K
ekoB fwb-r'Gk j' ikt/rk. fJ; bJh nzso-iksh
ftnkj pj[s jh ysoBke j?. feqgk eoe/ fJ; s'I pu'.
(Intermarriage is very very dangerous, please
stay away from it.)
;tkb L fi; soQK n;hI iwKdko ~ efjzd/ jK fe fJj g?;/ b?
b? ns/ e{V/ dh N'eoh ;[ZN nk T[;h soQK n;hI e{V/
dh N'eoh dh EK e[Vh ns/ g?f;nK dh EK Y/o ;kok
dki fdzd/ jK. w?I nkgD/ ftnkj d/ ;w/I e{V/ dh N'eoh
fdb ~ fdbK dh okj 144 ;tkb ns/ itkp
th }[bw j' fojk j?, fJj n?;';hJ/FB T[; dh wdd
eo/. s[jkv/ torhnK ikfrqs G?DK ~ nkgDhnK d[yh
G?DK dh wdd bJh nZr/ nkT[Dk ukjhdk j?. ;wki
d/ ftZu fJ; rZb dk }'odko gquko j'Dk ukjhdk j?.
nkgD/ nkg ~ tuBpZX (commitment) eo bt' fe
w+ s/ ;wki dh ;/tk eoKrh Gkt/I w?~ wdo N/o/;k
(Mother Terresa) tKr{z, wksk r[ioh tKr{z, phph GkBh
tKr{z, e'Jh th ;/tk eoBh gt/, w? eoB Bz{ fsnko jK
go dki d/ Bkw j/m fteDk wz}{o BjhI.


BjhI pDBk ukzj[dh go i/ w/o/ wksk-fgsk efjD fe
s[;hI ftnkj fJ; soQK jh eoBk j?, n;hI dki ÅDk
jh j?, n;hI ;';kfJNh ftZu sK nkgDk Bkw eoBk jh
j? sK w+ eh eoK ?
itkp L nkgD/ nkg ~ fsnko eo bt' fe w?I dki d/ Bkw s/
e{V/ dh N'eoh tKr, wkfJnk Bkb pzBQ é, g?;/ d/ e/
ftZeD ~ fsnko BjhI jK. xpokU Bjh_, j¯;bk oZy',
s[;hI ekw:kp j't'r/.
n;b ftZu fijVhnK G?Dk d/ Bkb dki d/ ekoB }[bw
j' fojk j?, T[; d/ tk;s/ w/ok ;[gBk j? fe ihtB iku
dk ]}kBk (The Living Treasure) tZb'I fJe t{w?B
n?;';hæFB (Women Association) j'Dh ukjhdh j?
fijVh n"os iks d/ Bkb j'D tkbh fe;/ th Bk-fJB;kch
(injustice) d/ fto[ZX yVQh j't/. fjzd{, f;Zy, w[;bwkB,
fJ;kJh, nkfd fi; xo ftZu th n"os d/ Bkb e'Jh