2speed Seduction 3 Disc Two

Speed Seduction 3.
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Program Transcript:
Disc Two
Created By
Ross Jeffries
The Guru of Getting Some
Website: http://www.speedseduction.biz
For the smart guy who refuses to resort to bullying, begging, buying, bs or booze, in his pursuit of happiness.
Copyright 2008, Ross Jeffries. All Rights Reserved. This transcript may not be duplicated without written permission from the author.
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This program may contain viewpoints that may be considered controversial by certain audiences. It is intended as a powerful guide for self-respecting, intelligent men who are looking to avoid from "real-hate-shun-ships by default" and instead claim the happiness that they deserve. I, Ross Jeffries, Ghita Services., Inc, and/or SpeedSeduction.biz (or any of our other websites or entities) cannot and will not be held responsible in any way for your actions, and will not be held liable for any and all claims from you or any other third party. You alone are responsible for your decisions and actions, even if they have an impact on others. This information is meant for "entertainment" purposes only. While this transcript contains information, tips, tools, and strategies that are recommended by us and, in most cases, have succeeded when applied by others, this product and its contents carry no warranty or guarantee (either explicit or implied) that the purchaser or reader will achieve success with women, or in any other endeavor for which they may be used.
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It produces tremendous suffering and makes the learning process very difficult. If you can drop that, you do really well. One of the big pieces of SpeedSeduction is learning technology, learning how to learn from your mistakes and shutting down all that rumination so it doesnt ever have to happen ever again. If you were to take that same process that dwelling on this takes and lift it out of you and virally put it in the head of someone whos really good with women, what do you think their life would look like three months from now? Heres an exercise to do. Tomorrow, I want you to go to a public place. Look at someone who looks like theyre very happy with their life. Imagine that programming of dwelling on mistakes over and over is planted in their head. Imagine what theyll look like three months from now after running that 24/7 in all the important areas of their life. How do you think theyd look? What would happen? I want you to do this. Really, its an assignment to do that drill. I mean it. My mother used to shake her finger at me to make her point. I mean it. Im completely serious. Do the drill. When you see it, youll begin to understand it. Its not that youre fucked up or anything. Its just that youre running shit thats getting in your way. Does this make sense? I want you to do that drill. Just pick people who look like theyre really happy in their life. Imagine youre putting that bad programming in their head where they dwell on every mistake over and over. Then imagine what theyll look like three or four months from now, what their life will feel like. Are you going to do it? Do it.
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Thats the first piece. The second piece of SpeedSeduction is building energy and vibe, understanding how energy and vibe attract someone and learning how to build that. Thats a lot of fun. The third piece is the language patterns. You guys all love that shit, dont you? Thats the third piece, the language patterns that turn women on. Oh boy, Im getting good at this stuff. Ill show you some games Im playing with some people on the internet. Wheres my computer? Thats all right. Well get to it later. Basically, those are the pieces that youre going to be learning. Any questions so far? Participant: You know you were saying how it could be like meditation, you can work out different signals, take whats good. Are you going to be able to do it for other situations? Ross: Yes, of course. The greatest thing thats happened to me is developing a really good meditation practice. It isnt just for New Age airy-fairy, granolaeating sensitive guys. Trust me, Im not. Its a practical tool for quieting the mind and seeing things. Trust me. Heres something thats true. When you go to change a very important area of your life, where you have a very strong set of fixed patterns, fixed ways of thinking, stuff will come up. When you start to do this stuff, its very likely that, at some point, all of your old bullshit will come up. Youll think, I cant do this. This is too scary. Im only going to fail. When things come up, you have two choices. You can stuff them back down, or
you can buy into them and get re-hypnotized. Those are the two bad choices. Or you can try to push through the pain. There are three bad choices. You can buy into all this old stuff that comes back up. Do you understand what I mean by buying into it? I mean believing it and swallowing it back down. You can do that. You can suppress it, just push it down. What happens when you push things down? Do you ever kick your garden hose? Do you ever take a hose with water and kick it? What happens? You can push through the pain. When you do that, you also push the pain out in front of you. As youre going to learn, women are very sensitive to vibe. Part of peering deep into the mathematics and code of how women move through the world is that theyre very sensitive to vibe. If you push through pain, youre pushing that wall of pain out in front of you. Its not a very good idea. Theres a fourth alternative. Be mindful of what comes up and have a full experience of it without buying into it. A good, proper meditation practice allows you to be aware of all that without buying back into it. If youre aware of it without buying back into it, you can hijack the emotional energy and divert it into actually serving you instead of turning against you. All the stored emotional energy has been worked into your system by grinding those gears in your mind. What if all that stored-up, pent-up, fucked-up emotional energy could be diverted, cleaned up, purified and refined and then returned to you as raw power for you to empower yourself to go where you want to go? Would that be a good thing? Participants: Yes.
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Ross:
I cant hear you.
Participants: Yes!! Ross: Sound off like you have a pair!
Participants: YES!! Ross: Sorry if I got your frilly pink panties in a bunch, but I cant hear you!
Participants: YES!!!! Ross: Very good. I am Sergeant Major Ross Jeffries. From now on, the first words out of your filthy gob and the last words out of your filthy gob will be sir. Is that clear? Participants: Sir, yes, sir! Ross: Does that make sense?
Participants: Sir, yes, sir. Ross: I need to pick on someone, later. Lets get started talking about language patterns since you horny bastards want to learn how they work. Now, I should say part of your job as a Speed Seducer is testing women to see how open they are to this. SpeedSeduction is not a tool to get laid with every woman you see.
Rather, its a way for filtering for those women who would be fun, good, sexy and hot to be with who otherwise might not give you a fair try. Do you understand? Some women are just not going to be open to this. Heres the real tricky thing. Look here. Dont write. There are some women who will be open to it, but you have to do all the talking. Youll have to talk constantly. You have to uphold them in that transaction. The problem with women like that is that theyre not a lot of fun. Youre going to have to do that throughout the whole time youre with them, whether its one night, five weeks or years. I would prefer to look for women who are fun, adventurous, have some sense of what they want in life and know how to participate along with me. I dont want to make this wisdom-tooth extraction. This is not emotional tooth extraction. Write that down. This is not emotional dentistry. Look here. This is not emotional dentistry. Youre not going to use this to pull the emotional wisdom teeth of women who need you to do all the work. When you start to get good at this, youll be able to screen within a minute whether shes a good candidate or not. The joy of this is that youre going to get fantastic-looking women who are also a lot of fun who otherwise might not have given you the fair try, and be able to get them without having to date. Youll be able to do it reliably and consistently, but its not for every woman. This is not emotional dentistry. Clear? One of the things you should do is make a list of the emotional qualities in the women you want to use this with. Well just assume that theyre hot looking. Assuming theyre hot looking, what are the emotional qualities that you look for?
I look for a sharp mind and a sense of adventure. I want someone whos already sexual and into sex. Its not my job to convert her from being Queen Victoria to Lindsay Lohan. Thats not my job. She already has to be into sex. She has to have good knowledge of her body. She has to be healthy, adventurous, giving. She has to be attracted to men who are smart. I have a whole list of things. If they dont fit that, I screen them out. Part of this is learning to screen. Some of you are saying, Ross, the only thing Im screening for is a vagina thats alive and not a direct relative, although lately my moms been looking pretty good. If you can screen, what happens is you become more attractive. The irony is that the choosier you are, the more choices you get. You can write that down. That seems utterly paradoxical to those of you who are going through a five-year drought. You can giggle if you want. Eric: Ross: Do you screen for high self-esteem in the girl? If you want to understand self-esteem, what theyre trying to say is the person has an internal locus of control. They decide how theyre going to feel about events and circumstances rather than feeling a certain way because something happened. Second, they have a really good strategy for learning from their mistakes. They have a lot of confidence because they know if they make a mistake, theyll learn immediately and grow more powerful.
Third, they have a way of finding happiness outside of external circumstances. They have a way of being happy even if things arent going their way. Fourth, they have a vision of where they want to go thats not dependent on external support, but at the same time, can take in information so they can adjust. Fifth, they have a really good explanatory style. If something happens that they dont like, they dont say its because theyre a loser or life hates them. They just say, Something happened and Ill figure it out. Thats what really high self-esteem is. The way its defined it has no meaning. It doesnt mean anything. Its like saying, I have high orbleburble-morble-mush. Lets talk about language. My proposition to you is that when women speak and when women hear language, they process it differently that we do. Its not necessarily better or worse. Its just different. Heres the female brain. When women hear language, they process it unconsciously first in this little bit called the amygdala. The amygdala is the little bit in the brain that controls the basic unconscious emotional response to situations and events. It runs along the Fs, flight, fight, fuck, feed. It goes there in a tenth of a second. Then it goes to the right brain where they process it still on an emotional level, and then it goes to the left brain.
Men, when we hear language, it goes straight to the dick, whether were going to get laid or not. Women process language differently. Thats the first thing I want you to buy into. Buy into the proposition that women process language differently. This model is important to understand. You can draw it, but I want you to go along with me first before you do. My basic theory, and its only a model, is that women have four levels to their mind. Its only a model. Im not saying its true, but its useful. The first level is what I call get it done. This is the get it done level. Its very simple. Thats where they keep their checklist of all the things they have to get done. We all have this. Its a checklist. I have to get the car washed. I have to get to school. I have to balance my checkbook. I have to cheat on my boyfriend. Its all that stuff. Get it done. The second level is what I call the social programming level. This is where she thinks about things like, What should I wear? What does the newspaper tell me about what I should wear? Should I be slutty or not be slutty? Would my friends approve of my fucking my first cousin? What does Madonna say? What does Oprah say? This is where all the conflicting media messages come in, things from popular music, magazine, movies, TV programs, what their mom told them, what their social group says, and so forth. We dont want them to be in that place when they think about us. Why not? This is where they keep their checklist. What would my girlfriend approve of? What does Cosmopolitan say I should look for in a man? What would
my family think? Heres what the latest magazine says guys should look like. This is where we get caught. The dating game is all played in there, all of the things from dating like asking her out. All of that stuff is trapped there. We dont want to go there. For most of us, thats a losing game. For most of us, thats like trying to play blackjack against the House. Were going to have to count our cards pretty closely and try to cheat. Heres my new definition of gambling. You pay for all my bets. I get to pick what cards I draw and throw out the ones I dont like. I get to see your cards before I bet. That game Ill sit down and play. We cant win there. There are certain styles of pick-up which I wont mention. They rely on playing good game there. They rely on tweaking yourself to look like the kind of guy that women in that particular social group would approve of. I wont mention those methods, but theres a famous candy thats chocolate coated, comes in a bag and has two letters, MM. Ill give you a hint what method that is. That method is designed to tweak yourself so you act, look and live the lifestyle that women in that social circle, who live in clubs, would actually like to be around. Its the ultimate supplication because youre changing yourself into being the kind of person with the kind of life that women would be attracted to. Thats the ultimate supplication. We dont want to go there. I dont want to go there. The third one is what I call the illusion of choice. This is a pretty interesting place to play. We can play here a little bit. Have you ever heard
a woman say, Youre just not my type, I dont do that kinky shit, This is going too fast, or I have a boyfriend? Its this third level of mind, the illusion of choice. Its your typical responses. Its the autopilot programming. Whenever I hear those phrases, I mentally hear the sound of a zipper opening. A few months back, some girl said to me, I just want you to know that Im just not attracted to you. I said, If I had a nickel for every time I heard that from a girl just prior to her dropping her knickers, Id be rich. Wait a minute. I am rich. I walked away. She said, Wait a minute. I changed the subject. I said, When you were a little girl, was there some candy that was king of your candy castle? She said, I liked so-and-so. I said, Isnt it interesting that when we were kids, the beginning of the same sounds and the same responses well have with adult pleasures start right as kids when you pop a piece of candy in your mouth that you really want to taste. Remember that? Even a cookie brought so much excitement you were jumping up and down. What ever happened to that ability to stop, so open to pleasure you just couldnt stop bouncing around because theres something you wanted? What Ill do is go on to something and then pull it away. Every time she reaches for more, shes investing in more and more. I was having a discussion today. The metaphor I use is that you have to get women to invest in this. Ill show you how to do it. Its not you doing all the talking. She has to invest and reach for it. Every time she reaches for it, she confirms for herself that she wants it. Youre the one who she has to chase after.
Wouldnt that be really good, guys? How many of you would like that, not just that theyre into you, but that theyre chasing after you? Would you like that? You have to condition that early on, how you present things and then you change the subject. If she reaches for more, then you go back and give her more. Its like with a breakfast of ham and eggs, the chicken is interested, but the pig is committed. Its the difference between her being interested and being committed to the transaction. You want to make sure shes reaching for more. Ill show you how to do that. You dont want to do all the talking. The illusion of choice is coming out of stuff like I have a boyfriend and Youre not my type. When she says, Youre not my type, assuming thats true, what is she really saying? Shes saying that at first glance, she didnt have the feeling inside to be aroused looking at you. How does she know when someone is her type? What has to take place? Look here. This is important. Part of being a Speed Seducer is peering deep into the code of how women experience their life emotionally. Whereas somebody whos doing another method would skip right over that, we say, Wait a minute. Shes about to tell us something interesting. Shes offering information about how she deeply processes her world. I want to ask you guys, when a woman says, Youre not my type, assuming thats true, how does she know? What does she have to do? Participant: Shes filtering it through her processor. Participant: Shes comparing it with experiences she had in the past.
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She has to look into her past and say, He doesnt look like Bob, Joe, my brother, my stepfather, etc. Theres also something else shes doing. Shes checking in her body. Her body doesnt give her a feeling of arousal when she looks at you. She doesnt think, Damn, I like how he moves. Theres just something about his energy. Shes not feeling arousal when she looks at you. Every decision a woman actually makes is done through a flow of feelings in her body. Shell check. Some women are consciously aware of it, but most arent. Theres a split-second check through-the-body feeling. The only equivalent I can give for a guy is this. Do you ever spell a word right? Spell a word in your head. Spell the word duck. Got it? Now deliberately spell it wrong, however you would spell it wrong. Is there a feeling in here thats a little bit different when you spell it wrong as opposed to when you spell it right? Is there that little check? Women run a check like this in a fraction-of-a-second speed. Thats how they make these decisions. Have you ever heard the phrase A women decides in the first minute whether shes going to fuck you or not? Have you ever heard that? Thats not really true. Its half true. Women can tell in the first minute whether they feel attraction to you. By the way, just because shes attracted doesnt mean shes aroused. Just because shes attracted doesnt mean she feels desire. Just because she feels desire doesnt mean shes aroused. Just because shes aroused doesnt mean its on right now. Those states can flash back and forth, and any one of them can drop at any minute. For us guys, attraction, arousal, desire and its on are all clumped together like a big tumbleweed. Women dont work that way. They can
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have discrete states that have some overlap. You have to be able to look for that. When she says, Youre not my type or You are my type, theres some check going on in here. Remember, I said that most important thing is were peering deep into the code of how women deeply feel, emote and walk their way through this world. We have to listen. Where other men shut down and dont listen, we have to listen with precision and look with precision and laser-like clarity into that and ask, Whats the process? When you hear a woman speak, you have to think, For that to be true, what is the process she has to undergo inside subjectively? Write that down. Its a key thing. In order for a woman to have the experience shes describing to you, what has to be going on for her on the inside? What is she doing with the flow of feelings in her body? What is she doing with how shes imagining and visualizing? What is she doing with herself energetically? I want you to look here just for a minute before you write it down. I want you to stop thinking of women as these mysterious unfathomable creatures from another planet. I want you to put aside the old programming. Put aside the lust, temporarily. Theres a time for lust. Instead, really tune in with profound curiosity to what it means. When a woman says, Youre not my type, what has to be going on inside of her to produce that expression outwardly? Do you know the story of Hansel and Gretel? They were lost in the woods. They left a trail of breadcrumbs and followed the trail backward to find their way out. I want you to look at the words that come out of a womans
mouth as a trail leading back to the internal emotional processes that drive those words. SpeedSeduction is fundamentally about being able to peer deeply past surface code that society ignores. Youre going to pay attention to what most men ignore, and youre going to ignore what most men consider to be important. You can ignore all that stuff about dressing like a GQ model and spending a lot of money and bullshitting women. Instead, youre going to pay attention to things that most people dont even think are important. When a woman says, Youre not my type, the thing to ask yourself is, What must be going on internally in the flow of feelings in her body, in her emotions, in her energy and what part of her mind shes thinking from? Write that down. This is a key. In order for her to be experiencing what is coming out of her mouth, what is she doing inside? What is going on in the flow of feelings in her body? What part of her mind is she thinking from? If you understand, you wont have to remember. If you understand, you can put it in your own words. When a woman expresses something to you, what does that say? What must be true about whats going on inside of her body? Where is she feeling this flow of feelings? What is she visualizing? From what part of her mind is that expression coming? Its not that were not taking what the woman says at face value. Were taking the face value of what a woman says and saying, Underneath that face value, theres much deeper value. Its not that were not taking what the woman says at face value. In a sense thats true.
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What were saying is that whats offered at face value is the merest reflection of whats going on of real value at a deeper level. Women are always giving us information. Try to listen. If we know how to align our own energy and vibe the right way, and we know how to listen to the proper place inside, women are always giving us tons of information. If you want to think the way I think, this is how I think. If a woman says, Youre not my type, how does she know? She has to check inside her body. What shes really saying is, I looked at you. When I looked at you, I didnt feel a feeling of arousal in my body. In this layer of the mind, the layer of the illusion of choice, shes picking based on her first response, which may not be her real response. Her first response often is just a reflection of what shes thinking, feeling and believing in that moment. In any system, you have your attention direction filters. In any system, theres going to be something that tells you what to ignore and what to pay attention to. The radical thing about SpeedSeduction is not the language patterns, although theyre radically fun and radically powerful. The radical thing about SpeedSeduction is the attention direction filters, simply meaning what we teach you what to pay attention to and what we tell you what you can ignore. This thing about the illusion of choice, when she says things like Youre not my type or I dont do that, these are responses that are her first responses. Just because it is her first response doesnt mean it is her real response or even the response that suits her best.
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One of the things about SpeedSeduction is to understand my beliefs. Ill give it to you word for word, but look up here first. Its really important that you get the transmission. My belief is that I seldom take a womans first response to me as written in stone. Notice the word seldom. It doesnt mean never. I seldom take a womans first response to me as written in stone. Its usually a reflection of what shes thinking, feeling, believing and responding at that moment. Its often subject to change. Im going to give that to you word for word when you demonstrate to me that you understand it. I seldom take a womans first response to me as written in stone. Its usually just a reflection of what shes thinking, feeling or believing in that moment, or in that context, and its often subject to change. Lets discuss that. What do you think that means, other than being a bunch of nice erudition coming from my brilliant mouth? What do you think it means? Participant: There is always something going on in our head, all the time. When you speak to someone, its the stuff thats going on in their head that comes out. Ross: Thats right. Theres stuff going on in the head. Theres noise that may come out. Maybe she just feels pressured. Maybe shes not comfortable in that context. There are some contexts in which women whod be friendly, in a different context will not be friendly. Thats the context. This is why I dont go into clubs. In clubs, a perfectly sweet woman may believe in that context that its proper behavior to be snotty. Not because
thats who she really is, but because thats a social conditioning. Outside, at a restaurant, walking down the street or at a supermarket, she may be absolutely lovely. Heres the cool thing. Theres a corollary to this. I really want you to get the beliefs that power this because then doing the language and the vibe will be easy. I promise Ill give you this word for word. Go along with me for a moment and say that we dont think her first response is written in stone. For example, when she says, I have a boyfriend, I dont think that response is written in stone. I just dont. It could mean a lot of things. Typically now, when a woman says, I have a boyfriend, I say, You dont need to convince me that someone else finds you attractive. Thats not what Im worried about. Thats my typical response. You dont need to convince me that someone else finds you attractive. That turns the whole thing around, like Im taking her answer to mean that shes trying to get my attention. The other one I like is when she says, I have a boyfriend, I say, So? Are you saying the bridge is out, or is it just a little bump in the road? Heres the other part of this. If you can give the other person absolute radical permission, and radical means going right down to the root, coming from the Latin word meaning to the root, to have whatever first response to you theyre going to have and just hold space for that without trying to blame them or change them in any way, it creates an incredible permission for them to open up and actually move forward in the way that they really would like to move, but just dont know how.
In fact, by being able to be totally okay with their first response, stay grounded, stay centered and not react to it, you open up the window for them to have a much more enjoyable response. Now, listen to what I said. Its not guaranteed. There is no guarantee when you extend that opportunity and open that window for them that theyre going to step through. But if theyre any way close to an alignment with you, its more likely that they will than they wont. I can tell you, if you react, youve shut down the interaction. Ive told this story many times. It bears repeating many times, so youre going to have to sit through it again. About a year and a half or two years ago, I was hanging out with a student. We were at a place near my house called Beachwood. Its not a bar. Its a restaurant. It has a big lobby area. People congregate in the lobby. We were there until 1:00 in the morning. We walked out. There were two lovely ladies standing there. Just as a goof, I said, There are two lovely ladies waiting for a cab at the end of the evening. For some reason, it went in the wrong way with one of the girls. It touched a nerve. Something happened. I didnt know what happened. Later I found out what happened. She got really angry. She said, Well, there are two drunk, stupid assholes who couldnt get laid, and now theyre saying anything to get some before their evening ends. I laughed. I thought it was very funny. My student was very angry. He got a very enraged look on his face. He went to lunge forward. I put my arm on him and stopped him. I said, No. No matter what they do, we respond with compassion.
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I pointed to her and said, Shes someones sister. Shes someones daughter. Shes someones best friend. Somewhere, shes deeply loved. All that hostility that came from them went into the twilight zone. It was completely gone. The energy between us shifted completely. One of them started crying. She said, Oh my god. Thats the most beautiful thing. Were so sorry. The reason youre laughing is because it sounds like I was manipulating her. In reality, I was generally okay with her answer. Was it a manipulation? Maybe it was a redirection. I redirected her angry response because I didnt get angry back. I was totally okay with it. I was able to point out truth. The reason it worked was, first, I didnt react. I gave her radical permission, meaning right down to the root. Had she stayed angry with me, would it have mattered to me or affected my evening one bit? Absolutely not because I knew it wasnt about me. I was able to stand there. I wasnt talking out of my heart, this picture of love flowing out, or any New Age namby-pamby wanky bullshit. Thats too much energy. I dont want to waste my energy doing that. I just stood there and let her have her response. Then I told the truth. Somewhere, she is someones daughter. She is someones sister, probably. Somewhere she has a best friend. Somewhere she is deeply loved. In that moment, everything dropped. Heres what happened. They said, Were so sorry. Guys have been assholes to us all night. Theyve been staring at our tits. Weve had our asses grabbed. Theyve
said the stupidest bullshit. Youre the only decent people weve met all night. They introduced themselves. Then we said, We have to go. Have a good night. That was it. My point is that I dont take their first responses as written in stone. The other side of it is that I dont take their responses as being about me. I let them have their first response, the implication being that their first response may not be their best response or even their true response. Its just a response from this part, the illusion of choice. Its the autopilot thing. The fourth level of the mind is where we really like to play. I call it the ocean of exploration. Its the ocean of exploration, the sea of sensuality, where a woman can come out and play with all the things shes always wanted to do, all the feelings shes dreamed of having, all her fantasies. She can come out and play with all of this because were creating a place thats both exciting and safe. I didnt say the imitation of safety. Its genuinely safe. Were creating a place of safety and excitement. Were presenting something that really touches the deep code of who they are. The language patterns arent made up from Mars. I didnt channel them from Planet Zeno. The language patterns are just the description of that deep, deep code down there anyway. The language patterns dont work because they install anything. The language patterns are just a reflection of the truth of whats going on deep inside her anyway. The language patterns are not something I made up. Theyre just a clear mirror of how she thinks deep inside anyway. Understand that when you lead women from this place, you have an awesome responsibility. You bear with women the same responsibility I
bear with you as your teacher. If Im going to lead you into a place, its my job as your teacher to uphold you while youre walking those steps you may not be familiar with. When you take this on, you take on an awesome responsibility. Youre going to be reflecting back the deepest part of who she is. Be careful when you use these tools. What you put out is what comes back to you. I dont mean any New Age hairy-fairy karma bullshit. I dont mean that. I simply mean in the very deepest, most profound level, we are all in the same boat. The deep, unconscious mind holds the truth that everyone is as you are. They are in the same condition. Ultimately, the way you treat others will be the way you treat yourself. Ive seen it time and again. When people use these tools irresponsibly, they always self-destruct, without exception. Ive been doing this for 15 years. Ive never seen it not be the case. Someone who uses his tools irresponsibly always destroys himself, physically, financially, legally, emotionally, even to the point of death. Im not kidding. Be very careful how you use these things. Ive installed some fail safes so that assholes who try to use this cant use it too well. This is the level where we want to get to. This is the level where were going to approach from. Were not going to start there. You dont go into a transaction doing this. Heres the really cool thing. Listen up. Im going to teach you how, throughout the weekend, the quickest way to get here and the best way to
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get there. Would you like a reliable, powerful, effective way to get there almost all the time? Participants: Sir, yes, sir. Ross: Say, Yes, Master.
Participants: Yes, Master. Ross: The fastest way to get here has nothing to do with language patterns. Ill teach you language patterns. The fastest way to get here is with your own vibe by becoming someone who knows how to move among four different energetic vibes. Its your energy and your vibe where you barely need to say anything at all. Dont get me wrong. I love the language patterns. Consider your energy and vibe, how you walk through the world when there are no women around, much less when theyre around you. Your energy and your vibe are like a conductive medium. Who here knows nothing about electricity really? I take a sheet of cardboard and a sheet of gold foil. I conduct the identical electric current down through them. Which will conduct it and which will burn it? Which will conduct the electricity? Participants: The foil will. Ross: Any wankers who think its the cardboard? So consider your energetic vibe to be the conductive medium. Any language patterns you use will be the current you send down there. Does anyone know about superconductivity? Very quickly, what is superconductivity, sir?
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Participant: At extremely low levels of temperature, the conductivity of electricity is extremely high. Ross: You could take current and, with very low voltage, and send it all the way around the world if there was a superconductive medium. If you could create superconductivity at room temperature, what would that be worth as a patent? If you could patent superconductivity at room temperature, what would it be worth? You could make car batteries last forever. Im going to teach you how to have super emotional conductivity with a room-temperature IQ. If you can learn how to take on the four energetic vibes that women find irresistibly attractive in men, and you know how to fractionate back and forth among them, not just present one, but present all of them at various times in different combinations, then the language is a great bonus. It is fun icing on the cake, but its not the cake. This is what resonates with women. The cool thing is you dont have to do anything. You walk into the fucking room and you relate to people through this vibe and they drool. If you want to use language patterns, you can. I still use language patterns because I love it. I love language. I use language all the time. But this is where its at. The fourth level is a level you primarily play through vibe. Heres the thing. In order to have the right vibe, you have to live a certain way. You have to uphold a certain kind of energy. You have to have a certain kind of belief. You have to treat people and yourself a certain way. You cant fake these vibes. Heres the thing. With speech seduction, you can fake the language patterns. You can lie your ass off and get away with it by only using the
language patterns. Its a lot of work, and the transaction winds up not feeling very good. To make speech seduction really work, you have to be able to get your vibe. To get the vibe, it requires that you walk through the world in a certain way where you dont want to do anything harmful. You cant hold a harmful intent and have these vibes. They dont go together. Thats my ultimate failsafe. To make these vibes work, you have to hold certain beliefs about yourself, people and how were connected to each other. Those are not believes that a harmful person can hold. They cant. Its like Dracula and garlic. Im going to teach you a lot about that. Thats what my friend Shirleen is here to talk about. Say hello, Shirleen. Shirleen: Ross: Shirleen: Ross: Shirleen: Hi, everybody. Look at all these English fellas. Love them all. You can stand up and say hello. Dont sit there. Say, Hello, everybody. You slur a lot about the British IQ. Are you guys going to stand up for this? This is London. Ross: Shirleen really keeps me moving. Shirleen came on board to teach about four ago in New York. I said, Look. You have to get these guys really quick. Heres what you do. Get up there and talk and paste their reality.
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She gets up there and says, How many of you fellas think the only reason Im here is because I have a great ass and my boss wants to bang me? Piss off. I have something useful to teach. She and I have gone through some knock-down-drag-out battles about whether she wants to stay involved in this. She wrote me a beautiful email. Ill just share a little bit. She said, Ive been listening to the CDs from the March seminar. Im proud of you. I actually want to come and teach. Participant: Ross: I cant read what it says on the fourth. Because I write like a fucking chicken. The fourth level is the ocean of exploration, the sea of sensuality. Participant: Ross: Participant: Ross: Is that what it says? No, Im just saying that. Write it down. Just for clarification, what is the third one again? The third level is the illusion of choice, her autopilot responses. These overlap. Heres the really cool thing. If you want to understand women, do you see this here? We know something about computers here. We have application programs. Word and Safari are examples of application programs. Then we have the operating system. Theres Mac and theres everything else. What does the operating system do? It tells the computer what kind of computer it is and how to run all the other programs.
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Underneath the operating system is machine language. Can anyone tell me what machine language is? Stand up. If you tell me good, Ill take you to lunch tomorrow. Stand up and say it. Participant: It is binary code that tells the operating system how to talk to the actual machine. Participant: Its the instruction set that the computer system understands at its very lowest level. It can only do 1s and 0s. Ross: Its just 1s and 0s. Im going to give you something thats part of the machine language. Im going to give you the key to the machine language of the female psyche, the machine language and the operating system, not the application program. The application program is how youd get a blow job or threesomes. Im not interested in the application program. The deep part of the machine language of how women operate is the fword. If you grasp the f-word, youll be in the power seat. The f-word is fractionation. The implications of this could take years to fully explore. Let me define fractionation for you. In classical hypnosis, if you put someone in a hypnotic trance and just keep going down, down, theres only so far they can go. If you bring them back out and put them back in, each time they go in, their ability grows a little bit more. Their comfort grows a little bit more. Fractionation means moving back and forth among differing things. The key to women is not just that they have these four levels of the mind. Thats true. Its not just true that they overlap. They overlap. The real key is that women will fractionate themselves back and forth between things. She could be here and suddenly fractionate to there. She could fractionate
from here to there, from there to there. They fractionate themselves along this vertical axis. Being people with good geometry, they also have a Y-axis. They actually fractionate horizontally. How do they fractionate horizontally? They fractionate among different emotional states. Lets say shes attracted to you. She made that jump to skepticism about her attraction to you. Then she may fractionate over to desire for more of her attraction for you. Then she may fractionate back to what would my friends think which is also social programming. They dont only fractionate among different levels of the mind, they fractionate back and forth among different emotions. A lot of what you think is losing, where youre not getting anywhere, is simply the woman fractionating herself. Women fractionate themselves physically too. I figured this out a decade ago. Have you ever been with a woman, and youre making out? Then she says, This is going too fast. Lets slow down. On one level, thats her expressing that shes not comfortable. Neurologically, thats her neurology telling her, If it just builds to a steady peak, I dont get that excited. If we stop and start again, I can get more excited. Its her body and her deep neurology saying, I need to stop and start to build to a peak. Its a deep non-verbal understanding that filters up and gets put through the social filter so that it comes out Were going too fast. In reality, her body needs to be fractionated too. This fractionating thing, moving back and forth, starting and stopping, is wired deep into the female psyche. Look at me. Dont write. This is really serious.
Have you ever seen naturals, guys who are naturally good with women? Naturals have an understanding of this. They dont put it in the right words, but they get it. Most guys, when they see a pretty girl, are like a dog chasing a squirrel. The squirrel runs up the tree. What does a cat do? A cat just studies that squirrel. Watch a cat. This is how a cat moves. It never fully puts the paw down until its sure. Cats will be on the bed before you hear them jump on it. The cool thing is I watch my cats walk into my room, and they make no noise. Sometimes Im half asleep and all I see going across the foot of the bed is a tail. I was doing a video seminar with some people in New York. I was doing it from my computer. At one point Tazzleberry jumped on the desk. She walked right in front of the camera. From their perspective, all of a sudden this tail goes right by. Then Tazz was sitting. From time to time her tail would flick on the screen. People were laughing in New York. Women will fractionate up and down among these levels. They also fractionate here. Guys who are naturals know, if youre only driving forward, if youre constantly driving at that woman, wheres the opportunity for her to fractionate herself? Youre creating such a rush, a wall of energy at her. She has no chance to do whatever internal vibrating she needs to do. Participant: Is that where opposing challenges kicks in sometimes? Ross: Thats a little bit different. Do you want me to complicate it even more? You can look at it as a complication or you can look at it as learning. Theres a final piece. This applies to all humans, not just women. Youre
thinking, Oh my god. You mean, Ross, were going to learn something that makes us easier to understand all the people in our world? You fucking prick. Emotions also entangle with each other. With women and with men, emotions will entangle. Lets say someone has love, but love for them is also deeply entangled with fear, doubt, anger and rage. People entangle emotions. That means that when you get sensitive to vibe, youll be able to tell how that persons entangled. To do it, you have to be able to look at yourself, see your entanglements and not buy into it. One of the things I would like Shirleen to teach is how to sense your own emotional entanglements without buying into them, without swallowing them back down. What will happen is, within three to five minutes of talking to someone, youre going to be able to pick up whether they are deeply entangled or pretty clean. Then you can decide whether you want to deal with them or not.
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