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Direct VS Indirect
Communication
The German just said that the meat paste and criticized the chef.
The American said that the meat paste, but bread, vegetables and cream taste good.
The Japanese said that the bread, vegetables and cream taste is very nice.
(Japanese no mention of burnt meat. That is to say, as for the taste of meat and you think by yourself.)
Westerners (direct) use words to make sure everyone knows whats going on. - Say what they mean and mean what they say. Handle problems by giving complete information (talking it out) Chinese may feel that this way is too direct.
Chinese (indirect) want to be sensitive to the persons feelings, so might not say what they are thinking directly. Ex: We must give it more thought.
How to be indirect:
maybe perhaps if should this shows your interest in the other person and their interests or needs
DIRECT COMMUNICATION
INDIRECT COMMUNICATION
FACE SAVING
AVOID EMBARRASSMENT PROTECT DIGNITY AVOID CONFLICT MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIPS DEFINED AS POLITENESS
SOCIAL HARMONY
SINCERITY
SINCERITY
FULL INFORMATION POSITIVE INFORMATION Say good & bad directly Say good directly
Westerners tend to assume that EVERYONE in the world is EQUALLY committed to directness. When they encounter INDIRECTNESS they may feel that they are being lied to.
Westerners tend to assume that EVERYONE in the world is EQUALLY committed to directness. When they encounter INDIRECTNESS they may feel thatHOWEVER, they are being lied to. EVEN WESTERNERS
In China, dignity of
MIAN
LIAN
Social status
Moral character
From Wikipedia
Mian
From Wikipedia
"the social front, the display of one's social standing to the public. It is both a responsibility to be concerned about." Mianzi is a measurable concept of "face". Mianzi can be increased or decreased through what we do: You can add to it by getting a high ranking job, by gaining wealth, success, or by building high social relationships. It can be decreased by making embarrassing mistakes in public or by failure at an assigned task
Lian
Moral character Meiyo lian (lit. "without face") is "the most severe condemnation that can be made of a person" and buyao lian (lit. "don't want face") "shameless; selfishly inconsiderate" is "a serious accusation meaning that somebody does not care what society thinks of his character, that he is ready to obtain benefits for himself in defiance of moral standards."
MIAN
LIAN
Social status
mianzi represents social perceptions of a person's prestige loss of mianzi is failure to measure up to one's sense of self-esteem or to what is expected by others
Moral character
Lian is the confidence of society in a person's moral character loss of lian is closely tied to breaking social codes
moral authority
Adapted From Wikipedia
Reputation
Work to win
Personal sacrifice
Support group members Dont embarrass the group Dont allow personal problems to affect the group
Westerners openly criticize their country Westerners may joke about political leaders
Chinese dont
Previous Canadian Prime Minister
In West,
sincerity = Saying the right thing is enough(apologizing).
In China,
sincerity= Saying & doing is a must! Words are not enough (ex: apology) -Apologizing for small things is NOT important
a Japanese worker had to take a day off to take her child to the dentist. One way of handling this situation is
Manager: What did you need to talk to me about? Employee: I'm not going to be here on Monday. I have a family obligation.
But in Japan this directness is rude. How could she do this less directly?
WHAT HAPPENED
Linda
Jiang Yumei
WHAT HAPPENED
Linda
Linda
Liu Qian
Jiang Yumei
Jiang Yumei