Delivered at the West Wind Unitarian Universalist Congregation February 9, 2014 Sine !alentines Day is o"ing u#, and $e have all had our %ill o% #a#er hearts and valentines already, let "e drag it out &ust a little "ore, and tal' about love( ) have heard the $ord *od interhanged $ith the $ords +ove and +ight on "any oasions and it see"s to "a'e sense to "e( Ditionary(o" says, light is ,so"ething that "a'es things visible or a%%ords illu"ination- .lso alled luminous energy or radiant energy. {pause} Also a #erson $ho is an outstanding leader or lu"inary-( /o enlighten is to ,to give intelletual or s#iritual light to0 to instrut or i"#art 'no$ledge to( 1to teach or share your light2 .nd enlighten"ent is the at o% enlightening, or the state o% being enlightened( So $hy do #eo#le #u'er u# at the disussion a higher #o$er , or reahing enlighten"ent3 We all seretly $ant it( We are here together beause o% a o""on belie%( /hat $e are #art o% so"ething greater( /hat $hat $e do, or hoose not to do, is ine4triably onneted to everything around us( +ove is *od( +ove is +ight, But $e don5t li'e the $ord *od( We ant live $ithout light, or love( But $e an live $ithout *od3 )ts &ust a $ord( +et go o% the %ear o% so"ebody else5s $ord( ) have not attended hurh sine ) $as a young hild( ) didn5t have good e4#erienes at hurh $hen ) $as young and ) have s#ent several years $or'ing through it( When #eo#le "eet "e, they are o%ten sur#rised at ho$ strong "y s#iritual belie% is( For a long ti"e, ) have %elt that "y #ersonal "ythology $as uni6ue, and al$ays light u# $hen ) "eet #eo#le $ho are on the sa"e #age as ) a"( What ) %ind "ost o% the ti"e, is that there are enough si"ilarities and di%%erenes, that $e an have intelligent and sti"ulating onversation in sharing our belie%s and e4#erienes $ith eah other( When ) a"e to the 7or"an area 8 9 : years ago, ) heard about the UU( )t $as reo""ended that ) o"e and he' it out( Finally, ) ended u# "oving around the orner this last su""er( ) had beo"e very urious( ) onsidered "ysel% a Universalist( 7ot beause o% anything that has neessarily been assoiated Universalis" as an organi;ed religion, reogni;ed by so"e greater oordination o% dotrines, but beause ) believe in the universe as a $hole, $eb, onneted( /hat $e are eah on our o$n #aths to enlighten"ent( .s long as you #ratie $hat you believe and believe in $hat you #ratie, that essentially, $e are all doing the sa"e thing( ) $as urious to see i% $hat the hurh $as saying $as any$here near $hat ) had already been sharing <#ause= $ith anyone that $ould listen any$ay( <#ause= So a %e$ "onths ago, ) %inally dragged "ysel% in here( ) $as sur#rised to see .ndy, "y %avorite tattoo artist, and Susan, and >ary Franis, and ) 'ne$ ) $as in the right #lae( ) $as still an4ious, sitting through the %irst ser"on here( ) listened about ho$ *od is Dead( /hough the $ords didn5t sound 6uite right, ) 'e#t loo'ing u# at the $ords behind the #e$( .nd they sounded right in "y head( ) 'e#t losing "y eyes and &ust feeling everyone in the roo"( ) an F??+ the love in this roo"( ?ah one o% you has a #assion that drives you( Whether it is so"ething you are searhing %or, or so"ething that you have already %ound, and are nurturing, you all have it( ) an %eel it( ) %ind it "ildly entertaining ho$ so"e %ol's ) have tal'ed $ith here #u'er u# and get %idgety $hen the one#t o% *od or a higher #o$er o"es u#( We are stardust( We are golden( We are here no$( We don5t have to get ourselves ba' to the garden( We are already in it( We are all seeds and %lo$ers and trees( We all have the #o$er $ithin us, and $hen $e ta# into that #o$er, $e ao"#lish great things( I stole t!is "rom t!e #a!a$i Daily %uotes online &e'site. Lo(e is Lig!t Be ye sinerely 'ind, not in a##earane only( +et eah one o% *od@s loved ones entre his attention on thisA to be the +ord@s "ery to "an0 to be the +ord@s grae( +et hi" do so"e good to every #erson $hose #ath he rosseth, and be o% so"e bene%it to hi"( +et hi" i"#rove the harater o% eah and all, and reorient the "inds o% "en( )n this $ay, the light o% divine guidane $ill shine %orth, and the blessings o% *od $ill radle all "an'indA %or love is light, no "atter in $hat abode it d$elleth0 and hate is dar'ness, no "atter $here it "ay "a'e its nest( B %riends o% *odC /hat the hidden >ystery "ay stand revealed, and the seret essene o% all things "ay be dislosed, strive ye to banish that dar'ness %or ever and ever( D.bdu@lEBaha, Seletions %ro" the Writings o% .bdu@lEBaha Bne thing ) notied "y %irst ti"e here, $as the a##arent substitution o% +ove %or *od( Using the $ord +ove instead o% the $ord *od, see"s "ore #alatable( ) li'e to use the $ord Divine( ?ssentially ) a" re%erring to the sa"e %ore, but %ro" a di%%erent #ers#etive( /hin' o% $hen you %eel "ost u#li%ted( When there is a great sharing o% love ourring( ) believe that +ove is /he e"otional e"bodi"ent o% the divine( /he $ay $e #hysially and e"otionally #ereive an enlightened or u#li%ted state( Flato says in the Sy"#osiu" ,/he lover is "ore divine than the loved one- Sharing love is a natural $ay to s#read light( U#li%ting others around us, $e "ulti#ly love( Do not be a%raid o% the light inside you( Whether you all it *od or *oddess, Fassion, >use, or si"#ly identi%y it as your o$n #ersonal strength, $e are all ta##ing into and identi%ying the sa"e thing, our onnetion to that $hih drives us( .'no$ledging that $e are eah individual #oints o% light on this great $eb o% e4istene, $e "ust also reogni;e that as $e share love $ith ourselves and eah other, $e nurture the light o% the divine $ithin ourselves( /hough you "ay reah your state o% enlighten"ent in the $ay that is "ost natural %or you, your light still illu"inates the #ath %or others, as their light illu"inates your #ath( But you "ust %irst love yoursel%( Don >iguel, author o% /he Four .gree"ents, says ,)% ) love "ysel%, ) $ill e4#ress that love in interations $ith you- Let me side'ar "or a moment and s!are a passage "rom one o" my "a(orite 'oo)s, T!e Tao o" *oo!, 'y #en+amin Ho"", to )eep "rom reading you t!e &!ole ,!apter, t!is portion is annotated. +ets i"agine that $e have $al'ed do$n a narro$ street in a large Chinese ity and have %ound a s"all sho# that sells srolls #ainted in the lassi "anner( We go inside and as' to be sho$n so"ething allegorialE so"ething hu"orous, #erha#s, but $ith so"e sort o% ti"eless "eaning( /he sho#'ee#er s"iles( ,) have &ust the thing(- he tells us, A. o#y o% /he !inegar /astersC- Ge leads us to a large table and unrolls the sroll, #laing it do$n %or us to e4a"ine( ,?4use "e H ) "ust attend to so"ething %or a "o"ent,- he says, and goes into the ba' o% the sho#, leaving us alone $ith the #ainting( .lthough $e an see that this is a %airly reent version, $e 'no$ the original $as #ainted long ago0 &ust $hen is unertain( But by no$, the the"e o% the #ainting is $ell 'no$n( We see three "en standing around a vat o% vinegar( ?ah has di##ed his %inger into the vinegar and has tasted it( /he e4#ression on eah "an5s %ae sho$s his individual reation ( Sine the #ainting is allegorial, $e are to understand that these are not ordinary vinegar tasters, but instead are re#resentatives o% the ,/hree /eahings- o% China, and that the vinegar they are sa"#ling re#resents the essene o% +i%e( /he three "asters are I5ung FuE tse JCon%uiusK, Buddha, and +aoEtse, author o% the oldest e4isting boo' o% /aois"( /he %irst has a sour loo' on his %ae, the seond $ears a bitter e4#ression, but the third "an is s"iling( /o I5ung FuEtse J'ung FBBdsuhK, li%e see"ed rather sour( Ge believed that the #resent $as out o% ste# $ith the #ast, and that the govern"ent o% "an on earth $as out o% har"ony $ith the Way o% Geaven, the govern"ent o% the Universe((( /o Buddha, the seond %igure in the #ainting, li%e on earth $as bitter, %illed $ith attah"ents and desires that led to su%%ering((()n order to %ind #eae, the Buddhist onsidered it neessary to transend the ,$orld o% dust- and reah 7irvana, literally a state o% ,no $ind-((( /o +aoE/se, the har"ony that naturally e4isted bet$een heaven and earth %ro" the very beginning ould be %ound by anyone at anyti"e(((.ording to +aoE/se, the "ore "an inter%ered $ith the natural balane #rodued and governed by the universal la$s, the %urther a$ay har"ony retreated into the distane((( . basi #rini#le o% +aoE/se5s teahing $as that this Way o% the Universe ould not be ade6uately desribed in $ords, and that it $ould be both insulting to its unli"ited #o$er and to the intelligent hu"an "ind to atte"#t to do so( Still, its nature ould be understood, and those $ho ared the "ost about it, and the li%e %ro" $hih it $as inse#arable, understood it best( )n the #ainting, $hy is +aoE/se s"iling3 .%ter all that vinegar that re#resents li%e "ust ertainly have an un#leasant taste, as the e4#ressions on the other t$o "en indiate( But, through $or'ing in har"ony $ith li%e5s iru"stanes, /aoist understanding hanges $hat others "ay #ereive as negative into so"ething #ositive( Fro" the /aoist #oint o% vie$, sourness and bitterness o"e %ro" the inter%ering and una##reiative "ind( +i%e itsel%, $hen understood and utili;ed %or $hat is it, is s$eet( So to #ereive li%e as s$eet, $e "ust e"brae li%e %or $hat it is, and be a##reiate $hen things are in balane( B% ourse, so"eti"es things are $ay out o% $a', $hih is $hy $e get so involved in the o""unity the $ay $e do( We are about other #eo#le, and the $orld $e live in( Ino$ing that our ations and $ords a%%et others, $e try to s#read love by #ratiing $hat $e believe in( /hat #assion is beauti%ul( /he light is nourishing( When $e are %eeling de#leted, $e loo' to our neighbors, %riends, lovers, to hel# us %eel nourished( We "ust re"e"ber to %eed ourselves %irst( +i'e $hen you are on an air#lane( /he %irst o4ygen "as' goes on youC )% you don5t save yoursel%, you are not going to be able to save anyone else( So ) say, When you %eel the light o% love shine %ro" $ithin you, 'no$ that is the light o% divine love inside you( .s you share that light $ith others, you are sharing divinity( .s your love "ulti#lies, so $ill blessings abound( +ove the light that is $ithin yoursel%( )n doing so, you are e"braing the Divine +ight $ithin yoursel%, that #oint o% light that you are on this great interonneted $eb $ill be nurtured and gro$( Lour #ri"ary lover is the Divine and yoursel% , as they are #art o% the sa"e( When you have nurtured yoursel%, you $ill %ind the love s#illing out o% you( So s#read the light o% love by sharing your abundane( Do not be greedy $ith your love( For those $ho reeive it $illingly and o#enly $ill share their light $ith you and so $ill "ulti#ly in abundane( .nything you do not need to nurture yoursel%, use to nurture others( /o nurture and love one another in divine light, you "ust %irst be able to reogni;e the light $ithin another( When you share inti"ay, you are e"braing and o""uniating a "utual understanding o% love( )n doing so, love $ill "ulti#ly thereby #ro"oting balane, and asting a$ay %ears( Divine love does not reogni;e gender or se4uality( )% the natural balane o% love is suh that #eo#le %eel guided to share their bodies, hearts, or lives, $ith one another, the boundaries o% love are only as lear as the boundaries $hih nurture and su##ort eah o% the #eo#le e4#eriening love $ith one another( +et no hu"an la$ ditate $hat is Divine +ove, but let the light o% god, our higher #o$er, our #assion, guide our hearts to share love in $hatever $ay is "ost natural and har"onious %or our o$n s#irits( ) love the line %ro" Donovan5s song ,Ga##iness- , ha##iness runs in a irular "otion, thought is li'e a little boat u#on the sea, everybody is a #art o% everything any$ay, you an have everything i% you let yoursel% be- Just let yoursel% Be( .llo$ yoursel% to be $hat is "ost natural %or you( )% that "eans that you attend M di%%erent o""ittee "eeting every $ee', volunteer, and only slee# 4 hours a night, so be it( K Br you have to ta'e 2 na#s a day, but you al$ays "a'e sure to ti# your server and a"#le a"ount beause its all you an do to hel# the"( Br "aybe you never see" to be able to get out o% the house, beause there are al$ays hildren there( 7ot even &ust your hildren, but neighborhood hildren, and your 'ids5 %riends( Lou are e4hausted( Why you3 Beause you are #roviding a sa%e s#ae( Lou are sharing love( ?ven $hen you don5t have enough energy to leave your houseC Lou are Still giving ba' in a $ay that $or's %or you( Balane isn5t easyC Don5t get "e $rong( We still %eel #ain, su%%ering, stress, an4iety( We still 6uestion $hether $e are doing the right thing( .re $e really su##osed to be going through all these hallenges3 We an taste the vinegar o% li%e and s#it out the sour, or $e an be than'%ul that the vinegar is sour, &ust the $ay it is su##osed it be( Lou "a'e the hoie every day that you "ove %or$ard( /hat is $hy you are here( /hat is $hy ) a" here( .nd ) than' you %or inluding "e in this o""unity(