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Seduction
Use Sexual Energy to Manifest and Influence
by Adana Washington
energy within myself, I couldn't keep the smile off my face. It just felt so fucking good.
And the next morning, my intuition told me to go to the store, get cash back, then stop at the convenience store on my
way back and get a lottery ticket. The Universe even showed me which ticket to get. And I won. Simple as that.
So if I can do that, it makes me wonder what else I can do.
But back to today.
Hearing that, coupled with the events of this week and what I learned today during my own tarot readings, I can't help
but think that this is why I'm sitting in a Denny's at 12 a.m., with nowhere else to go. I needed to be hung upside down
and rid of all the distractions so that I could see what I'm supposed to be doing. Which is reacquainting myself with my
abilities.
I'm writing this all out, because I get the feeling that I'm also supposed to share my knowledge with others, so that they
can learn to do the same thing. As the tarot reader told me, there is a great need for learning how to manifest using the
base chakras. They tend to get a bum rap in the spiritual and metaphysical world.
And that brings me to my other grievance about sexual energy and the sacral chakra.
When I posted about using sexual energy and seduction for things other than lovers, the commenter who replied and
mentioned sexual magic also mentioned how sex is so taboo. I think the same goes for sexual energy and the base
chakras.
Everyone who is of a spiritual bent seems to be all holier-than-thou when it comes to the base chakras. Apparently if you
want to be an enlightened or spiritual person, you're not supposed to want anything. You're not supposed to use your
willpower, less it turns into ego.
But that's kind of bullshit.
Because if you aren't anchored in your base chakras, it makes it a hell of a lot harder to raise energy into the higher
chakras. And just as we use our third eye for psychic vision and our throat chakra to express our truths, why can't we use
our second chakra in a spiritual way as well?
fortune. (There are others, of course, but we're not talking about making babies or catching a man right now.)
Now, even though I'm a pantheist, I've had a few encounters with Venus. And when I think of Venus, I think of her as
being sassy as fuck. She takes no shit, and she doesn't take 'no' for an answer. If Venus wants something, she will fucking
get it. And 'it' doesn't necessarily mean a lover.
I don't think Venus is one for Spartan accommodations or scraping by day after day. Aside from love and sex, Venus is a
goddess of abundance and wealth, luxury even. She's not slumming it on a cot when she takes a lover. She's lounging on
the softest beds, with the silkiest sheets and every aphrodisiac known -- and unknown -- to man.
So if the goddess -- and planet -- most associated with sex is also all about enjoying the finer things in life -- because she
is also the goddess of pleasure -- then why can't we channel that same magic in our own lives? Why not call on Venus or
Aphrodite for abundance and pleasure of all kinds, instead of just love or lust? After all, there are all kinds of roses -- why
not all kinds of seduction and attraction? Even if you look at Venus in tarot, the Major Arcana associated with her is The
Empress. The Empress is all about abundance and motherly instincts, which she uses to create and manifest. So why can't
we use the abundance of our own "natural instincts" to create and manifest?
And if we follow that logic, why can't we use our own sexual energy without having to actually have sex? Why can't we
use our feminine wiles (no matter what gender you are) to draw things in, instead of having to force everything to
happen?
There's even another tarot card that simply has to be included in this conversation: The Magician. If that's not a symbol of
personal power, I don't know what is. Only, The Magician has a different twist. Because The Magician is doing more than
just using his own personal power and instincts -- he's channeling the power of the Universe itself.
When you look at The Magician, he's usually pointing one hand towards the earth, and the other towards the sky. It's a
visual representation of the phrase, "As above, so below." The Magician is a card that's typically interpreted as having all
the resources you need to make things happen -- as long as you have clear vision and intent when it comes to your goal.
Yet, it's not until you get to the High Priestess that folks start mentioning your intuition and how you already have the
answers you need within. I think it's because most people cut the scene short when it comes to The Magician.
It's been my experience (and I'm sure that I'm not the only one), that when you have clear intent and vision AND channel
the power of the Universe to make things happen, you start getting signs and signals that point you in the right direction,
the direction of your goals and intentions. I've found that if I can channel the power of the Universe while holding an
intention in my mind, then open myself to receive information from the Universe after I've sent my request, I almost
immediately start getting that information. And since I'm a big fan of instant gratification, I find that method much more
appealing than the High Priestess' "sit and wait" approach.
So what am I getting at with all this?
you ask Heaven for the essence of what you want -- while visualizing the earthly manifestation of that request being
fulfilled. So if you want a car, you ask Heave for freedom or mobility, while visualizing yourself driving a new car.
This ties into the teachings of one of my favorite internet celebrities, Danielle LaPorte. Danielle teaches us all about Core
Desired Feelings, and how figuring out how we want to feel, and feeling those feelings in the present moment helps us
to lead a more fulfilling life. I think that's a good starting point when it comes to tapping into our sexual energy and using
it to manifest our desires.
Energetic Seduction
Now that you are aware of your sexual energy and know how it feels, you can begin to harness it by adding your will and
intent. This comes in handy when you're trying to convince someone to "bend" to your will. Because if Strength from
tarot teaches us anything, it's that force isn't always the best way to get what you want. This is where seduction is most
obvious when we're talking about using our sexual energy to create results.
When it comes to working with other people, it takes both sexual energy and psychic energy. You could try to batter
someone into submission psychically, but you'll probably drain yourself to the point of exhaustion. Yet, if you can
psychically "persuade" someone into doing what you want, it's not only drawing from a different energy source, but the
person is more likely to remain open to you and any other requests you have.
Being able to influence someone with sexual energy creates a different feeling than when you use psychic energy, or
even spells or charms. With a spell or a psychic push, the person feels like they're being pushed into thinking or doing
something, because that's essentially what you're doing. You're using magic or psychic energy to give that person a push.
Yet, with sexual energy, the person is pulled or "compelled" to think or do something. They can resist if they want to, but
because of the intimate and inviting feeling of sexual energy, they rarely do. Instead, they are eager to comply, and do
anything else to feel the warm embrace of that energy. I've watched grown men become puppies after feeling my
energy -- literally curling up at my feet and attending to my every whim -- and I never had to say a word to them.
Of course, moderation is key when it comes to sexual energy. It can be just as pleasurable as sex, and just as "addictive"
to some. Use it too much on one particular person, and you may not be able to get rid of them. I'll leave it to your
discretion, but don't say I didn't warn you.
Influencing someone with sexual energy starts with establishing an energetic connection with your target. I don't mean
getting up close and personal with them. It can be done through conversation, a casual touch or even eye contact. The
purpose of energetically connecting with the person is to create an avenue for your sexual energy to travel to them. This
is where the process closely resembles seduction in the mundane sense.
One way that I establish an energetic connection with someone that I want to influence is to focus on their crown chakra. I
visualize the person's crown chakra (sometimes without even looking at them or being in the same room) as a funnel of
white light that's ready to pour things into the person's head. I then lengthen the top of the funnel and connect it with my
own, my visualization of my crown chakra.
You can visualize the chakra however you like. What's important is being able to connect your own chakra with that of
your target. You can use the image of a string or chain if you like, or even a pipe. Whatever works for you.
Once you have your connection in place, now you send your sexual energy to the target person. I do this by visualizing
the light of my sacral chakra traveling up my body and out through my crown chakra, into the connection with my target.
It helps if this energy is warm and inviting (no one likes a cold fish). Start with simply sending your energy to them,
without any directives. This is basically a way to prime your target with your energy. Essentially, you're lighting the spark
for their arousal.
Now, at this point, you're probably wondering, "What if the person isn't sexually attracted to me?" Guess what. It
doesn't really matter. Here's why: You're not trying to have sex with the person. You don't even have to be sexually
attracted to them. That's how using your sexual energy is different from mundane seduction: your sexual energy is
derived from your own arousal, not being aroused by someone else. This is how you can generate an infinite amount of
sexual energy, and channel it whenever you want.
This is also why it doesn't matter if the person is sexually attracted to you. By using pure sexual energy instead of relying
on mental or psychic pushes to persuade the person, you're tapping into something primal and instinctual. You're not
appealing to the person's senses, but their basic energy. And since energy is Universal, no matter what the person
actually likes on an individual level, sexual energy works with everyone.
Think about it this way: How is it that you can find multiple people attractive, when they look nothing alike and have
completely different personalities? That's because the attraction is happening at a level that supersedes your mental and
physical turn-ons. That person is tapping into your sexual energy, your primal urges and instincts. There's a lot of truth to
the saying "Beauty is only skin-deep."
So now you've turned yourself on by tapping your sexual energy, made an energetic connection with your target, and
you've fed them some of your sexual energy, straight from your sacral chakra. Now comes the part where you start to
influence the person. This step adds to the feeding of your sexual energy with some clear intentions.
As you continue to feed sexual energy through your energetic connection, have your energy make a pit stop at your
throat chakra. This is your self-expression center, where the ability to voice your truths and desires resides. It's here that
you'll express your intent for your target. Start with small requests, like "Look this way," or "Scratch your head," and feel
the vibration of your sexual energy in your throat, as if you were actually saying the words out loud.
Once you feel those vibrations strongly and attach that expression to your sexual energy, send it up to your third eye.
This is the center of your psychic energy, where you channel your intuition and second sight. This is also a great chakra for
visualization. As your sexual energy pauses here, take a moment to "see" your target carrying out your request. Visualize
it in your head and let the vibrations of that vision resonate with your sexual energy.
Finally, as your sexual energy reaches your crown chakra, take a second to affirm the knowledge that your target will
carry out your request. Really know it in your mind. Then send your sexual energy through the energetic connection and
into your target. If you can do it without staring at the person, visualize the energy travelling through them and being
absorbed into their own sacral chakra. Then watch their reactions to see just how much you've affected them.
A good way to practice this kind of influence is to start with someone you know. Maybe your best friend or a classmate.
Or your crush, if you have one. If it helps, start out by touching the person you're targeting to strengthen your energetic
connection. As you become more confident in your power, make stronger or more elaborate requests. Continue building
as far as you see fit.
Just don't blame me if you end up with someone wrapped around your leg, refusing to let go until you let them love you.
(It's happened to me. It's not as fun as you think it is.)
the energy and let it pulse out through you and into the air. Feel it washing over yourself and those that you're touching
with your sexual energy.
If you want to take it a step further, you can even use this technique to cycle energy, or simply siphon it if you're feeling a
bit cheeky. Just as you are expanding your sexual energy, you can use the connection to draw out energy from others.
Just be careful not to take on too much, because it can get overwhelming. So unless you want to have an orgy on your
hands, practice moderation when you're cycling sexual energy through others.
Universal Manifestation
So now that we've used our sexual energy to influence people, it's time to use it to influence events, and manifest
desires. The process is pretty much the same. Only now, instead of a person, the target for your sexual energy is the
Universe.
While I don't work with any particular deities, I would personally advise against making any of them a target. From what
I've learned, deities can be a bit touchy when they feel they're being bossed around or commanded to do something.
Trying to influence them, even with sexual energy, could cause more problems than it's worth. Especially if you're dealing
with a deity who isn't particularly known for their patience.
When it comes to the Universe on the other hand, using your sexual energy is essentially the same as expressing
creativity. Sexual energy and creative energy go hand in hand when it comes to the Universe. After all, we create life
through sex. So when it comes to creating and manifesting, using your sexual energy is as potent as it gets.
You'll start the process in the same way as influencing a person, by tapping into and building up your sexual energy. As
you get turned on, start visualizing the result that you want to create in your life. Let it become part of your "fantasy" in
your mind as your energy builds. Feel the same way you would feel once your request has been granted. Let them sink in
and become a part of your physical body. Laugh, smile, giggle, cry tears of joy -- let the feelings manifest in your body.
This will add extra "juice" to your request. If what you're going for isn't particularly tangible or something that you can
see, simply go with the feelings that you would feel once you receive your desire.
When you have a clear vision of the results you want, and you're really feeling those feelings, allow your sexual energy
to travel through your chakras. As you come to each chakra, add to the power that's been generated by pulling energy
from that chakra.
I do this by using the key phrase of each chakra to affirm my desired results. So for example, if my request is to gain
more money, I let my sexual energy flow through each chakra, and draw more energy into it by bringing each chakra in
on the action. For the sacral chakra, I mentally affirm that "I can have more money." For the heart chakra, "I love that I
have more money." For the throat chakra, " It is my truth that I have more money." For the third eye, "I see that I have
more money." And for the crown, "I know that I have more money."
As the sexual energy passes through each chakra on it's way up, use the key phrases to reinforce the inevitable granting
of your wish. Here are the key phrases that I use for each chakra:
Root: I AM
Sacral: I WANT
Solar Plexus: I CAN/DO
Heart: I LOVE/ACCEPT
Throat: I SPEAK ( I use "It is my truth" since that's the energy of the chakra)
Third Eye: I SEE
Crown: I KNOW
Feel free to change those phrases to suit your needs or to make sense for your particular request. These are simply my
examples for bringing more energy into your request.
Once your sexual energy has moved through your chakras and has made it to the crown chakra, you are ready to release
it. Visualize a beam of light being shot from the top of your head directly to the Universe. If it helps, send it to a particular
planet, or the Sun for added heat. Or, if you're like me, simply imagine the light beam of your sexual energy and request
rocketing to the Universe and exploding like fireworks. See the energy dispersing through the cosmos, and know that
the Universe is now working to fulfill your request.
After you send off your request, keep the feelings of your results with you. Whenever you think of your request, pause
and recall those feelings and let them resonate throughout your entire being. Affirm mentally and emotionally that your
request has already been approved and fulfilled. Then go on with your day.