JOES PERSPECTIVE

YOUR BALLS HAVE YOU BY THE MIND AND

YOUR MIND HAS YOU BY THE BALLS

WE ARE NOT IN CONTROL MOST OF THE TIME

WE LIVE IN A SIMULATION OF REALITY THAT

WE CREATE

THERE ARE THINGS WE COUNSCIOUSLY

KNOW IF WE HAVE BEEN DOING DAILY, OUR
LIFE WOULD BECOME MUCH BETTER AND WE
DO NOT DO (ITS CALLED BEING LIVED)

LEARNING IS BEHAVIOR CHANGE

START NOW AND DO NOT DEVIATE!

GET OUT YOUR COMFORT ZONE REGULARLY

GET IN FLOW. AS YOU INCREASE YOUR SKILL,

INCREASE YOUR CHALLENGE

HAVE THE WHY. THE WHY IS THE MOST

IMPORTANT! THE WHY TO DO WHATEVER IS
NECESSARY: TIME, EFFORT, ENERGY

WRONG WAY:
TRY TO CHANGENO RESULTSACCEPT IT

RIGHT WAY:
NO RESULTSACCEPT ITTRY TO CHANGE

*WHEN YOU GET NO RESULTS, INVITE IT. ITS A

GOOD START TO CHANGE

1-INSIDE OF COMFORT ZONE CHANGE DOES NOT

HAPPEN
2-EDGE OF COMFORT ZONE RESISTANCE, FEAR,
MIND-EMOTIONAL-PHYSICAL SENSATION OF
UNCOMFORTABLE
3-OUT OF COMFORT ZONE CHANGE HAPPENS.
BREAKTHROUGH. COMFORT ZONE INCREASES.
CONFIDENCE INCREASES. SELF DEVELOPMENT

OTHER PEOPLE DO NOT LIKE WHEN YOU GET

OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE, BECAUSE THE
THINGS THEY DID TO MANIPULATE YOU STOP
WORKING

YOU WILL NEED TO SCREW UP SOMETIMES

GETTING OUT COMFORT ZONE REGULARLY

WILL LEADS YOU TO THE NEXT LEVEL

DIFFERENT RESULTS DO DIFFERENT

THINGS BECOME NOT ME SOME
PART OF YOU MUST DIE

A FEELING OF NOT BEING ME IS GOING

TO BE NATURAL

NEW BEHAVIOR NEUROGENESIS

FEEL GOOD, FEEL YOUNG

FOUNDATION OF SAFETY:
EMOTIONAL (A CLOSE FRIEND)
PHYSICALLY (YOUR NEST)
LOGICAL (A RIGHT AND WRONG LIST)

WILL POWER IS A LITTLE BIT OF ENERGY

WE HAVE TO DO THINGS THAT WE
NORMALLY WOULD NOT DO
WE HAVE JUST A LITTLE BIT AND SPENT IN
WRONG WAYS
ITS NECESSARY TO CHANGE BEHAVIOR
DO THE MOST IMPORTANT THING EARLIER
IN THE DAY
3 TO 4 DAYS TO BECOME AN HABIT

1- HAVE THE WHY

2-HAVE A MENTOR AND A REFERENCE GROUP

3-LEVERAGE YOURSELF:
A)PENALTY
B)REWARD

4-GET SOMEONE TO HOLD YOU

ACCOUNTABLE

FUTURE PACING: PREPARE YOU SO THAT

WHEN YOU ARRIVE AT THAT MOMENT IN THE
FUTURE YOULL BE READY TO TAKE THE
ACTION ON THE THING THAT YOU WANT TO
DO. LET A CLUE THAT PUT YOU IN A STATE OF
AWARENESS ABOUT WHAT YOU SHOULD DO

ANCHORING: DO A DIFFERENT THING WITH

YOUR BODY TO REMEMBER OR FEEL OTHER

SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT FACING BUT

YOU KNOW THAT EXISTS

FACE IT GO NEXT LEVEL POWER

EXAMPLES: YOUR SHAPE, YOUR FINANCES,

YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, A DISEASE, ETC

1- GET TOGETHER WITH THE PERSON IN A

NICE TIME

2-COMMUNICATE WHAT SETS YOU UP

3-DO NOT PLAY THE *DEFENSIVE GAME

4-END THE CONVERSATION

*DEFENSIVE GAME: WHEN THE PERSON TRIES

TO EXPLAIN HERSELF

WE ARE NOT IN TOUCH WITH OUR REALITY,

WE GOT ATTACHED TO IDEAS,
INTERPRETATIONS AND STEREOTYPES.

WE OFTENLY FREEZE REALITY

PROCESS FREEZE NOT EXPERIENCING

TRUTH: YOUR OWN REPORTING ABOUT

YOUR GOING EXPERIENCE AS IT
HAPPENING WITHOUT THE EXPECTATION
ITS GOING TO STAY THE SAME WAY

LIVE THE TRUTH NOT FREEZE GET IN

FLOW AN EMERGENT PROPERTY

YOU CANT KNOW WHAT IS GOING TO

HAPPEN IF YOU FREEZE

IMMATURITY: DEPENDING ON SOMETHING.

STORIES, JUSTIFICATION, REASON

MATURITY: INDEPENDENCE. GET INTO THE

PROCESS, LIVING THE PRESENT WITHOUT
STORIES, JUSTIFICATION OR REASON

HOW TO GET TO MATURITY: REMOVE BLOCKS.

IDENTIFYING AND REMOVING BLOCKS

AN IMPRINT STAYS INSIDE OF US. ITS THE

FIRST EVENT THAT HAPPENED TO YOU WHICH
THE FEELING BUBLES UP AGAIN WHEN A
SIMILAR EVENT OCCURS

EXERCISE:
1-WHERE DO I GET MY BUTTON PUSHED?
2-THE FEELING AND THE CHALLENGE?
3-PAST EVENT THAT POSSIBLY MADE THE

IMPRESSION
4-WHAT WAS I FEELING?

WE PLAY UNCONSCIOUSLY AND CAME

FROM A CHILDHOOD IMPRINT. EX: DO NOT
APROACH WOMAN TO AVOID FEEL
REJECTED

HOW TO FIX IT? PRACTICING FLOW THE

EMOTIONS LEADS YOU TO A LEVEL WHERE
YOU AUTOMATICALLY PROCESS THE
EMOTION AND DO NOT FREEZE OR
INTELLECTUALIZE

A STORIE WE HAVE THAT OVERLAYS

EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS IN LIFE
FACT STORY (MYTH FRAMES THE
STORIE)
ITS CICLICAL AND UNDERLIES THE STORIES
IT COMES FROM THE AVOIDANCE OF
SOMETHING

OVERCOME MYTHS AND GAMES LEADS

YOU TO MATURITY

WE ARE A LOT OF IS

THERE ARE CONFLICTS BETWEEN THEM

INTEGRATE THESE IS LEAD US TO NEXT

LEVEL

ITS BEYOND ATTRACTION

WOMAN KEEPS ATTRACTED EVEN IF YOU

ARE NOT PRESENT

THERE ARE 5 QUALITIES THAT CREATES

GRAVITY:
POISE, PASSION, PURPOSE, PRESENCE AND

PERSISTENCE

YOU DEMONSTRATE THROUGH YOUR

BODY THAT YOU HAVE NATURAL PHYSICAL
HEALTHY COMBINED WITH SELF-ESTEEM,
STATUS AND PRESENCE

PHYSICAL AWARENESS YOUR PHYSICAL

SPACE

*PHYSICAL QUALITY

BEING EMOTIONALLY ENGAGED IN

EVERYTHING YOU DO.

BEING ALWAYS MOTIVATED ABOUT WHAT

YOU DO BECAUSE YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY
ENGAGED

WORK, SOCIAL, HOBBY...

*EMOTIONAL QUALITY

EYE CONTACT

FOLLOW WHERE THE OTHER PERSON IS

GOING WITHOUT JUDGMENTS
HONESTY
RIDE THE EMOTIONAL WAVE AND TAKE
THE BULLSHIT OUT OF YOUR HEAD

*INTELLECTUAL QUALITY

WHAT IS IT I MUST DO BEFORE I DIE

YOU WANT TO DO DOES NOT MATTER THE

EFFORT, TIME OR ENERGY

*SPIRITUAL QUALITY

ITS THE QUALITY THAT DEVELOP ALL

OTHERS. IT IS OK THAT OTHER PS ARE NOT
OK IF PERSISTENCE IS WORKING

BE AWARE WE ARE NOT IN CONTROL

KNOW YOUR IMPRINTS, GAMES, MYTH
AND WORK ON THEM
KNOW AND INTEGRATE THE IS
FACE THE ELEPHANTS
MAKE LONG TERM PLANNING
(HIGHERSELF)
GET OUT COMFORT ZONE
WORK ON THE FIVE PS

IN THE NEXT SLIDES THERE WILL BE

PRECIOUS INFORMATION ABOUT
APPROACHING WOMAN, ABOUT
RELATIONSHIP, ABOUT PLANNING, ETC.

IDENTIFY WHEN YOU ARE IN HIGHERSELF

AND IN LOWERSELF
LOWERSELF:TIME TO BE PRESENT, SEE THE

LESSON, NOT PLANNING AND NOT TAKING

DECISIONS
HIGHERSELF:TIME TO MAKE DECISIONS,
PLANNING AND HAVING IMPORTANT
CONVERSATIONS

TO START:
FIND THE COMMON GROUND (RELATE)
KEEP RELATING ( RELATE ON)
TIME RELATIONSHIP

*KEEP FINDING THIS PORTAL

MALE STATUS > = FEMALE STATUS.

ATTRACTION HAPPENS THERE.

THE 3 HIGH STATUS SIGNALS:

MASTERS OF CONFLICT

PROTECT THE GROUP

POSITIVE POLITICS

SEXUALITY IS NATURAL AND NOT SOCIAL

CULTURAL ASPECTS OVERESTIMATES

WOMENS POWER.

YOUR ENERGY = WOMAN ENERGY

NATURAL FLEERTING AND NATURAL
SEXUALITY

TO CREATE ATTRACTION IS NECESSARY THE

ALIGNMENT OF: INTENTION FOCUS STATE
EXPRESSION.

FRICTIONS THAT AFFECT YOUR STATE:

ATTENTION FIXATION
SOCIAL PRESSURE
INTENTION VIOLATION

HOW TO FACE IT:

FRICTIONS ALWAYS WILL BE THERE

BECOME AWARE OF YOUR FOCUS
LEARN THE CORRECT FOCUS
KEEP ADJUSTING YOUR MENTAL FOCUS TO HANDLE
INCREASING LEVEL OF STATE FRICTIONS

BIGGER SOCIAL NETWORK = MORE CHANCES OF

MEETING NEW PEOPLE = MORE CHANCES OF
MEETING NEW WOMAN

SOCIAL NETWORK = PRE APPROVAL BY PEOPLE

THE PEOPLE OF YOUR NETWORK KNOW AND
BIGGER CHANCES TO LIVE GOOD MOMENTS

LETS JUST BE FRIENDS VERY NICE TO HEAR.

CHANCES TO MEET MORE WOMEN AND KNOW
NEW PEOPLE (ABUNDANCE MENTALITY)

HOW TO INCREASE?
UNLEASH YOUR WARRIOR, GET TO YOUR BESTSELF
BE A RENAISSANCE MAN (GENERALIST, POPULIST,

CURIOUS, ELEVATE EVERYTHING TO AN ART

FORM)
BE A GIVER. FIRST THE OTHER. FEELINGS FIRST,
FACTS AFTER
INITIATE SOCIAL PLANNING
RECIPROCATE
RECONECT
CONSOLIDATE KNOW THE PERSON AT LEAST IN
THREE AREAS

HAVE ALWAYS AN OPINION, BUT DO NOT GET ATTACHED TO IT

DO NOT CHANGE OPNION TO GET APPROVAL
HAVE A LOCAL HANGOUT TO DATES
TAKE CHARGE WHEN IN BAD SITUATION
DO NOT ACCEPT CHILD BEHAVIOR
BE A SOURCE OF VALIDATION
TEACH SOMETHING TO OTHERS ABOUT THEMSELVES
HAVE 4 REASONS A WOMAN SHOULD CALL YOU BACK
ALWAYS FEEL SOMETHING WHILE YOU ARE WALKING
ALWAYS BE THE LAST ONE TO LOOK AWAYS
DEEP EMOTION CONECTION FROM THE BEGGINING
MAKE QUESTIONS THAT LEAD TO THAT STATE
USE THE ABSURDFIER WHEN WOMAN TESTS YOU. EX: YOU
ARE SO BORING. IN RESPONSE: IM THE MOST BORING GUY
EVER. AND KEEP TALKING.

THE ROAD TO INNER GAME IS PAVED WITH CONSTANT ACTION

HAVE AN INSPIRING LIFE: INTELLECTUAL, EMOTIONAL,
SEXUAL, PHYSICAL, FINANCIAL, SPIRITUAL AND SOCIAL.
1H LEARNING 2H APPLYING
EVERY BELIEF REQUIRES SOME LEVEL OF FAITH
USE THE KNOWLEDGE YOU LEARNED TILL YOU MASTER IT
WHEN SCREWING UP: RELAX AND BE PRESENT
KNOW THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU WANT
RESPECT YOURSELF. IM GLAD TO BE YOU!
REVER WOMEN
FREQUENCY IS IMPORTANT TO ACHIEVE WHAT YOU WANT
PAIN IS INEVITABLE, SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL
FACE WHAT MAKES YOU UNCOMFORTABLE DIRECTLY