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Friday Bulletin
The Weekly Muslim News Update
he new laws against noise pollution could affect the adhan (call to
prayer) when they come into effect in six months time.
The regulations which are being fronted by the Ministry of Environment and
Jamia Mosque Secretary General Abdul Bari Hamid (Right) shares a word
with Ismail S. Variava, the programme manager of Radio Islam in Lenasia
South Africa. Second from Right is Zafar Niaz Chairman of Islamia Madrassa
Soceity and an official from Majlis Ulamaa Transvaal. The officials were on a
visit to Jamia mosque where they met various Muslim leaders.
This Week
National News
Da'wa
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Women Issues
Can't we be friends?
Feature
National News
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NATIONAL NEWS
Guests listen to the address of FCB CEO Nathif Jama address during
the opening of the South 'C' branch
the country. Islamic Banking is currently governed under the Banking Act
though with some minor amendments which allow Islamic banking.
The South C branch, the tenth in the FCB network also houses a call
centre and by next month, the bank plans to open up a Training Centre at
the same facility to provide professional Islamic banking training to its staff
and the general public.
Nathif said the bank was dedicated to expanding its network to reach the
unbanked population and said more branches will be open in Moyale and
the new districts of Habaswein and Masalani in Northern Kenya.
O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive
you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your
sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of
Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins
nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no
partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great at it.
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DA'WA
about good things and to deal with whatever he can of the bad things. If he is faced
with things that cause fear or the possibility
of sickness or poverty, then he should deal
with that by striving to make himself accept
that, or something even worse, with contentment, because by making himself accept the
worst-case scenario, he lessens the impact
of the thing and makes it seem less terrible,
especially if he occupies himself with efforts
to ward it off as much as he can.
Thus as well as striving to achieve something good which will distract him from his
worries about calamity, he will also renew
his strength to resist bad things, and put
his trust and reliance in Allah. Undoubtedly
these matters are of great benefit in attaining happiness and peace of mind, as well as
bringing the hope of reward in this world and
in the Hereafter. This is something which
is well known from the experience of many
who have tried it.
teadfastness of heart and not being disturbed about the imaginary things that
bad thoughts may bring to mind. For when
a person gives in to his imagination and lets
his mind be disturbed by these thoughts,
such as fear of disease and the like, or anger and confusion stirred up by some grievous matter, or the expectation of bad things
and the loss of good things, that will fill him
with worries, distress, mental and physical
illness and nervous breakdowns, which will
have a bad effect on him and which causes
a great deal of harm, as many people have
seen.
But when a person depends on Allah and
puts his trust in Him, and does not give in
to his imagination or let bad thoughts overwhelm him, and he relies on Allah and has
hope of His bounty, that wards off his worries and distress, and relieves him of a
great deal of mental and physical sickness.
It gives indescribable strength, comfort and
happiness to the heart. How many hospitals
are filled with the mentally sick victims of illusions and harmful imagination; how often
Saturday Lecture
How to interelate with the inlaws
Ustadha Nura
11th July 2009 2.00 pm-4.00 pm
Jamia Mosque Multi Purpose Hall
SISTERS ONLY
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WOMEN ISSUES
For those who have studied, pondered, and struggled with the idea
of becoming Muslim, there is often great relief when the realization
comes that Shahada must be pronounced. As time goes on and
more knowledge is acquired regarding the diyn, another realization soon begins to surface, the challenges and questions have not
ended and may only have just begun. This is particularly true when
it comes to the issue of dealing with and relating to non-Muslim
relatives, especially those with whom one has developed a close
relationship.
This topic is particularly relevant for women due to the fact that
more new reverts are female (although the trend may be changing
as more men enter Islam) and also because women may have more
opportunity to visit with and spend time with other family members.
If children are involved, this will most definitely be the case. We
understand, of course, that parents and other relatives should be
treated with kindness and respect and that there are serious consequences for one who severs the ties of kinship.
The challenges and questions that arise concern the boundaries
and specific guidelines that need to be established for dealing with
non-Muslim relatives, primarily as it pertains to practical aspects of
the religion. Let's take a look at a few scenarios to clarify the topic.
Read through the scenarios and the guidelines that follow and determine which guidelines should be used for each scenario.
SCENARIO #1
Sarah, a new Muslimah, has always had a close relationship with
her parents and siblings and does not want this to change now that
she has become Muslim. Her family has been very understanding,
even making accommodations for Sarah so that she continues to
feel comfortable during her visits with them. A few examples are:
they no longer serve pork at meals, alcoholic beverages are removed from sight, etc. Several family members have even begun to
ask questions about Islam and its beliefs and practices.
SCENARIO #2
Sumayyah has been a Muslim for almost 5 years now and she has
been struggling with her family since the beginning. When she goes
to visit them, there is often loud music playing or an inappropriate
program may be on the television. Her family does not take her
religion seriously and often joke about her hijab or the "strict requirements" such as prohibitions against alcohol, gambling, etc. Although Sumayyah has tried to teach her family about the things that
make her feel uncomfortable and that are offensive to her beliefs,
the family refuses to change its lifestyle just because she is visiting. She is somewhat shy about discussing these issues with her
family and does not want to offend them. These issues have begun
to concern Sumayyah even more as her children get older and she
worries about the negative influence that her family may have on
them. Holidays are particularly challenging topics.
SCENARIO #3
Zahra is in a particularly difficult situation because each time that
she visits with her family they confront her about her new religion.
This has been occurring for several years since she became Muslim and has become increasingly more serious. Her family is very
upset and unhappy about the changes she has made in her life
and sometimes tells her that she must be "crazy." There have even
been blatant attempts to ridicule and embarrass Zahra, her husband, and their children. Following overnight stays by the children,
Zahra often discovers that they have deliberately been exposed to
things that she has clearly explained as prohibited in Islam. On one
occasion, the family served pork during a meal and joked in front of
the children about the ridiculousness of this prohibition. Zahra feels
very estranged from her family, but worries about breaking the ties
completely. Some of her family members have already done this of
their own initiative.
GENERAL GUIDELINES
Educate them about Islamic beliefs.
One of our main goals each time that we go to visit family mem-
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Many of our children ask why they can't be friends with the opposite
gender. They say it is just friendship and there should be no restrictions
prohibiting them from hanging out or just being friends with the opposite
gender. Within school, work, or the community there is no problem for
young men and women to talk or meet with one another as long as they
are wearing the proper Muslim attire and, of course, abide by Islamic
regulations in this regard. However, if we observe what is happening in
the present society, we will understand that most of the problems that
exist socially do so because of this one issue of men and women having
the freedom to mix with one another without any limitations.
When young boys and girls meet freely in their tender teenage years,
natural changes are occurring they start developing interest in one
another. When they are without limits around one another, this leads
to exploration. This is natural, for they are humans, but this leads to
experiments and emotional involvement. When they experience sexual
contact, it feels good, which is natural.
Sequence of Events
If the girl is unlucky, she gets pregnant and the boy backs off from the
responsibility. The boy's family all of a sudden remembers that he is
young and his future will be ruined. The girl is left with feelings of humiliation, with the possibility of abortion, and with her family unable or
unwilling to support another life. If they can, they do, but most of the
time this is with disapproval. If the girl is left on her own and has the
baby, she may go on with an incomplete education, no other source
of financial support, and unaffordable child care. The children of such
unfortunate mothers repeat this pattern. There are laws providing that
the father of the baby has to be economically responsible for his child,
but he will try his whole life to escape this.
Then you have the diseases that result from these clandestine relationships, the money spent on cures for these diseases.
Regaining Balance
Islam recognizes and allows sexual expression within a framework
where it can be enjoyed without repercussions for the couple, the offspring, and society at large i.e. within marriage.
When someone gets married, he or she is not just signing a paper. In
marriage, the person is recognizing the natural needs of humans and at
the same time entering into a contract before Allah with witnesses who
will ensure that the two individuals are now committed to each other
totally.
The man is responsible for the economics of the household, providing
for the wife and children, and he cannot turn away from his duty. The
woman is responsible for raising and teaching the children, preserving
the household, and then for whatever is of mutual agreement. If they are
faithful to each other they will stay in a healthy and enjoyable relationship in sha' Allah, in which they have completely and totally given themselves to each other and to no one else. It is truly special and beautiful.
This way sex is respected and honored, unlike in schools and on college campuses where sex has become a sport, without value or honor.
How can it be special and wonderful if it becomes so common.
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FEATURE
One Shilling Foundation-On the path to realize the dreams of the Ummah
The thoughts of brightening the future of the Muslim Community has pre-occupied the minds of the Muslim leadership for a long time. Many have spoken on the need for the
establishment of Muslim run social institutions like a Muslim
university and a well equipped modern hospital which would
provide essential services for the Ummah.
All these have remained pipe dreams-at least in Nairobidue to the absence of comprehensive efforts to raise funds
for these important projects.
Muslims in Kenya are estimated to be ten million comprising
a third of the population. With these numbers and coupled
with proper measures, we should not be relying on foreign
financial support to undertake some of these projects.
The concept of every Muslim contributing one shilling per
day has been on the lips of stakeholders for a while but
it was not until this year that the Park Road Muslim Youth
Group started implementing this concept, albeit on a small
scale. Through their efforts, funds were collected from worshippers and channelled to social projects like Ramadhan
feeding programmes in Majengo and Machakos areas.
With this initial success, it was seen that the concept could
play a more important role if taken on a broader national
level with a capacity to improve on health situation, learning
institutions and other social amenities.
With collaboration with Ummah Foundation which has been
involved in uplifting the welfare of the community, the One
Shilling Foundation was thus born.
The Foundation is expected to launch fundraising activities
initially beginning with mosques around Nairobi before extending the concept in other parts of the county.
Every Muslim irrespective of his or her economic status can
easily participate and contribute to this noble cause by donating one shilling. The concept gives Muslims a chance
to contribute to sadaqatul jariya not as it has been misconstrued to be a preserve for the rich. These contributions
will supplement donations by well-wishers whose efforts are
being frustrated by growing needs of Muslims, said Ramadhan Aula, the Programme Coordinator.
The Foundation is convinced that big dreams such as provision of affordable health facilities, development of Islamic learning institutions such as a
Muslim University and provisions of other social amenities that will benefit
the Muslim community in Kenya as a whole will be realized, he added.
To ensure transparency, financial reports will be regularly published and the
Ummah informed on the projects which will be undertaken.
The mosques earmarked to be involved in the project include Jamia mosque,
Abubakar Mosque along Sixth Street Eastleigh, Makina mosque in Kibera,
Bilal mosque in South C, Park Road mosque and Arab Friendship mosque
in Hurlingham. Drop off points have also been set up at Ramadhan Butchery
Hurlingham, Ramadhan Fast Food - River Road, Wabary Ltd - Showbee
Plaza, Pangani and the One Shilling Foundation secretariat- Village Plaza,
Ngara.
Contributions can also be made through ZAP or MPESA to 0732 613 333 or
0717 613 333 respectively
Most of them do not know the universities in the country and this
exhibition helped them understand the different courses available,
the entry requirements and the other options one can pursue in
case he or she can not make it into their dream career, added the
chairman.
VACANCY TEACHERS
Jowhar Al Islam Secondary School, a well
established community school in Mandera
is seeking to recruit Graduate Teachers
with the following combinations:
BIOLOGY / CHEMISTRY
ENGLISH / LITERATURE
Any one meeting the above qualification to
send their cv and testimonial to:
THE MANAGER
P.O BOX 4563 00506
NYAYO STADIUM
NAIROBI
Before 24th July 2009
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