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Being Extraordinary in an Ordinary World

BY:EKAMRA SHRIDEV ROLL NO.- FT-11-1016

BY: Klemmer Brian


Brian Klemmer, a graduate of the United States Military Academy, is a best-selling author and highly respected speaker and seminar leader. His company, Klemmer & Associates Leadership Seminars, Inc., has worked with hundreds of thousands of people throughout the world, helping them produce measurable and long-lasting changes in their lives. He's the author of the best-selling books If How-To's Were Enough, We Would All Be Skinny, Rich, & Happy; When Good Intentions Run Smack into Reality; and Eating the Elephant One Bite at a Time.

Compassionate Samurai means


someone with strong values who can absolutely make anything happen and yet whose whole life is about service.

In life there are two types of people.

The first are those who are nice, good-hearted, and compassionate but can't make much happen.
The other kind can make everything happen--they're the creators, the go-getters, and the aggressive producers in society--however, they're often selfcentred, greedy, and unethical. So, Wouldn't it be great if one could make things happen in a really big way but not lose your integrity?

The Compassionate Samurai will show the way to produce extraordinary results in a dog-eat-dog world and still maintain the highest levels of ethics.

SO THE LEARNINGS ARE AS FOLLOWS


How to always be satisfied and motivated regardless of your circumstances
Why all people have freedom but very few have liberty What competing commitments are and how they prevent you from having what you want in life The secret to operating optimally in an untrustworthy environment

How to make the shift from scarcity to abundance even if you're knee deep in debt .

Compassionate Samurai say what they mean and do what they say. They make bold promises and keep them. Average people do what they say as long as its convenient.
Making excuses and being reasonable wont get you to the extraordinary level you desire. Make BIG commitments, keep them, and never offer reasons when you dont make things happen.

Everything you have, dont have, and ever will have in life is because of the choices you make.

The Benefits of taking on a Victim Mentality:


Exempts you from taking action. People feel sorry for you and have pity parties for you makes you feel good, accepted and loved. Never have to make tough decisions. Dont feel obligated to do anything great in life; the thing that happened is responsible for the way you are. For the rest of your life, you can comfortably believe that your failures are directly connected to what someone else did to you, and you can blame them.

Compassionate samurai give without thought of personal gain. Average people give when theres something in it for them, and it doesnt cost too much.
We often give others what we think they need without asking what they really want.

Focus leverages power, just as a magnifying glass focuses the power of the sun. Life is full of distractions. No matter how many distractions come your way, or how much financial or temporal stress you experience, if you have concentrated focus and stay relaxed, youll hit the bulls eye every time. Live your life with a sense of purpose and urgency Average people ask, Can I? Compassionate Samurai ask, How can I?

Compassionate samurai say what they mean and mean what they say. Average people are honest when its convenient. People engage in this form of lying to make themselves look good, to be accepted, to avoid negative consequences or to get people off their back. Honesty isnt about giving people what they want to hear or even what sounds acceptable. Rather, its about giving people the truth, the whole truth and nothing by the truth. Trying is lying

Compassionate samurai hold principles above personal benefit. Average people do whatever is best for themselves
There really is no such thing as independence. Everyone is connected whether we want to acknowledge that truth or not. Its when we realize how powerful our connectedness is that we realize and actualize our collective worth.

When you trust people, you empower them. They play at a higher level, trying to live up to the trust youve placed in them True samurai know very well that theyll need the interdependent support of a team to accomplish their lifes purpose and mission. One reason people fail to reach their goals of weight loss is because they lack ACCOUNTABILITY. Accountability means that youre tracking results. Average people leave those areas to chance, falsely believing that theyll work out in time.

How do you change belief systems? By repetition, and emotional involvement. The more emotion is involved, the fewer repetitions are needed. The less emotion is involved, the more repetition are required.
There are an infinite number of ways even when theyre not visible.

Compassionate samurai ask, What will happen if I dont take this risk? Average people ask, What will happen if I fail? Average people dont take risks, and they know it. They choose comfort and security over opportunity. If theres a fear thats preventing you from moving on with what really matters to you in life, practice confronting it. Become numb or neutral to failure. Courage is a maximum-gain strategy.

When youre scared and you want to back down, that is exactly the time you should go faster, move forward, and do more.

Shall I tell you a secret of a true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point and in that I learn from him Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Compassionate samurai pursue excellence, always seeking to surpass their current level.

The serious student is willing to put as much time in as necessary to achieve that end.
Get in the habit of making commitments that may even be somewhat uncomfortable, and keep them.

Not only is life a collection of experiences but it is also a compilation of all the choices youve made both good and bad. In order to break the conventional mode of blaming others for why you havent reached your goals, you have to become personally responsible.

When you focus on the benefits in life, you always get more benefits. When you focus on the problems, youll inevitably get more problems.
You are where you are due to the choices youve made.

Life gives to those who are bold enough to demand their rightful inheritance.

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