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Based on the Psychology of Alfred Adler and Rudolf Dreikurs. Adapted by Jody McVittie from similar schema by Steven Maybell and Jane Nelsen. 3/06
1. Students Behavior
Nuisance Show off Clown Disruptive Pesters Blurting out Teachers pet
2. Adults feeling
Annoyed Irritated
4. Students response
Stops temporarily, but later resumes same or another disturbing behavior
8. Goal
Discouraged
I cant count or belong because Im inferior to others. Its no use trying because if I did others would find out how inferior I am. Im not perfect, so Ill convince others not to expect anything of me.
Revenge
Hurt
Retaliating Getting even Punishing Play victim - thinking How could you do this to me?
I dont think I belong (or count) so Ill hurt others as I feel hurt. I cant be liked or loved.
Teach/ use self soothing and calming tools Show you care Build relationship Teach/ use I statements Avoid blame or shame Encourage strengths Avoid taking sides Class meetings Give responsibilities Show confidence Show faith Teach routines Teach how to break tasks into smaller pieces Model mistakes: it is okay to be imperfect Class meetings
Misguided power
Defiant Argumentative Passive aggressive Apathetic Takes over leadership of any group
Challenged Defeated
Intensifies behavior Defiant compliance Feels he/shes won when adult is upset. Passive power
I count or belong only when Im boss, in control, or proving no one can boss me. You cant make me. You cant stop me.
Special Service
Worried
Reminding Taking Responsibility Making excuses for the student Doing things for the student he/she could do for him/herself Fighting Forcing Giving in Thinking You cant get away with it or Ill make you Wanting to be right Wanting to be in charge/control Punishing
I count or belong only when Im keeping others busy with me. I am special. Im not sure I can do it for myself, Do it for me.
Make room for learning from mistakes. Become incompetent Avoid special service or pampering. Provide opportunities to contribute Class meetings. Provide opportunities to contribute in useful ways Set a few reasonable limits (kind and firm) Give choices Develop mutual respect Mutual problem solving. Practice follow through Class meetings.
Undue Attention
I count or belong only when I am getting attention, when others notice me.