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The following questions will help you create your wedding day vision, help in
determining which areas are most important to each of you, and guide you through
budget considerations that you both will need to reflect on. Seemingly inconsequential
items can quickly add up to hundreds and even thousands of dollars in unexpected costs if
not factored into the very beginning stages of designing your wedding day.
If is important that both of you take time to consider the questions and write down
your responses. Make a copy of this form for each person to fill out. It is important for each
person to complete this form independently, so as not to influence the others answers.
Once you have both completed your Wedding Vision Questionnaire, it is time to compare
your thoughts and dreams to see if they are in sync, totally different, contain ideas that
hold great appeal that you may not have considered before, or areas where event
elements can be blended to create something new. It is a time of reflection, give and
take, and compromise as you come together to create a vision you both will love and
cherish in the years to come.
The questionnaire opens the door to discussion which will lead you into deciding
what matters most to you and how it all fits into your wedding budget. You will have a base
to begin to develop a design for a wedding day that is unique to you as a couple, custom
created to be a true celebration of your love. This is your day and it is important to make it
truly your own.
WEDDING DATE:
During what time of year (season) do I visualize our wedding being held? _______________________________________
How much wedding planning time will that give me? __________________________________________________________
What day of the week do I want our wedding to take place on? _______________________________________________
Is there a special date that is significant to me that I want to be married on or any date that I want to avoid?
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Will the time of year, month, date or time affect attendance of close family members and friends that I want to
be with me on our special day? ______________________________________________________________________________
Where (location, not venue) will our wedding ceremony ideally take place? ____________________________________
Check any critical dates that may be taking place around your selected wedding date, such as major personal, family,
or friends events (graduation, birth due date of a baby, special anniversary, birthday celebrations, national or religious
holidays, or long weekends that could affect supplier delivery and guest attendance).
BRIDES FAMILY
What immediate family members will be part of our wedding ceremony? ______________________________________
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WEDDING PARTY
Will we be having a:
Flower Girl? __________________________________________________________________________________________
Ring Bearer? _________________________________________________________________________________________
Usher? _______________________________________________________________________________________________
Will the members of the wedding party be invited to bring a guest? ____________________________________________
WEDDING GUESTS
Will any guest have any special needs, such as handicap accessibility? ________________________________________
Will any of the guests have to come in from another town, state or country? ____________________________________
INVITATIONS
WEDDING CEREMONY
Where do I see our wedding ceremony taking place and our vows being exchanged? _________________________
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Where is the wedding ceremony location in relationship to where our guests live? _______________________________
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Will a bridal suite be required at the wedding ceremony location for the bride, room or any other members of the
bridal party to dress in? _______________________________________________________________________________________
As the guests are arriving at the wedding ceremony, what do I envision they will see from that moment that they
arrive until they are seated? __________________________________________________________________________________
What do I imagine our wedding guests will be listening to while they wait for the bridal party to arrive? ___________
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What type of music will be playing as the bridal procession begins? ____________________________________________
Will live musical performances be a part of our wedding processional or ceremony? ____________________________
How do I see the wedding party arriving at the ceremony? Will they be making their own way there, have drivers
assigned to them, or arrive by limousine or some other transportation mode? ___________________________________
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What transportation do I envision for the bride and the groom to the ceremony? _______________________________
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Where will we be coming from (e.g. parents home, friends home, hotel, or other location)?
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Will we be having professional wedding photographs, videos, or a live wedding webcast of our ceremony? _____
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WEDDING VOWS
Do I see us exchanging traditional wedding vows, vows tailored to us, or vows written by us? ____________________
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Are there any special family, cultural, or religious traditions that would be very meaningful to me or to us to
include? _____________________________________________________________________________________________________
How long do I see the wedding ceremony taking from beginning to end? ______________________________________
After we are joined in matrimony and are exiting the wedding stage, what do I see taking place? _______________
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What music will be played as we are introduced to our guests and walk back down the aisle as husband and
wife? ________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Will I want family photographs taken before or after the ceremony? ____________________________________________
How will the wedding party be transported to the photograph location and wedding reception? _______________
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Will I want the wedding ceremony and wedding reception to take place in the same location? _________________
If our reception is being held in a secondary location, will it present any transportation concerns for our guests?
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What type of venue would best suit our wedding reception? ___________________________________________________
Do I see the guests arriving at the venue in advance of the wedding party (e.g., while photographs are being
taken)? _____________________________________________________________________________________________________
What do I have in mind for the guests to do in the interim (e.g., will there be refreshments and entertainment)?
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Will we need a separate area in which to host the arrival and then move the guests into another room once the
wedding party arrives? _______________________________________________________________________________________
Will it be a sit-down affair with table seating for all guests? _____________________________________________________
If we are including dinner, will seating be open or will we have set seating and a seating chart? _________________
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Will there be food stations or buffet setups or will food be passed or plated? ____________________________________
Will there be bars set up in the room or will beverages be served by wait staff? __________________________________
Will there be any audiovisual requirements such as rear screen projection, plasma screens, etc., which needs to
be factored into the room size requirements? _________________________________________________________________
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As the guests are arriving at the wedding reception, what do I envision they will see as they arrive?
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How do I see the room being set up? Table settings? Centerpieces? Flowers? Colors? What do I see in the room?
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Will we have a DJ, live musicians, a dance band, or piped-in background music?___________________________
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What type of food do I see being served at our wedding reception? ___________________________________________
PRE-WEDDING EVENTS
Is a traditional bachelor/bachelorette party something that we will consider attending, or would it cause
conflict? Will we be open to having a destination or joint bachelor/bachelorette party instead? ________________
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WEDDING REHEARSAL
What will be the ideal location in which to hold our rehearsal dinner? __________________________________________
Who will be included in the rehearsal dinner (e.g., just the wedding party or will out-of-town guests be open to
attending as well)? __________________________________________________________________________________________
What style of wedding dress will I be wearing, and I will be buying, borrowing, or renting it? ______________________
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Will I be wearing a wedding veil? If so, will I be buying, borrowing or renting it? __________________________________
Will I be wearing a headpiece? If so, will I be buying, borrowing or renting it? ___________________________________
What jewelry will I need to buy or borrow to complete my wedding look? _______________________________________
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Will I need to buy special bridal shoes for the ceremony? ______________________________________________________
Will I need to pull together a mini personal care pouch filled with essential wedding day items for the bride,
groom, and wedding party that one of my bridal attendants will carry throughout the day? _____________________
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What jewelry do I own that I will be wearing (e.g., cuff links, tie pin, watch, etc.)? _______________________________
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Will we be paying in full or in part for the wedding party attire, or will they be paying for all their own expenses?
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Will being part of the wedding party if we are not paying all expenses be a financial hardship for anyone? Are
we putting anyone in a tight situation? ________________________________________________________________________
HONEYMOON CONSIDERATIONS
Will we be going on a honeymoon immediately after the wedding, the next day, or later? ______________________
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Do we know how much money we need to set aside for our honeymoon and expenses while we are away?
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Will we need to budget for bringing in special family members, wedding party, or guests to our wedding who may
not be able to attend otherwise? _____________________________________________________________________________
Do we know if our families will be contributing to our wedding? Will this cause financial hardship for anyone? Are
we putting anyone in a tight situation if we accept his or her offer? _____________________________________________
If our families are contributing to our wedding costs, do we know what dollars they will be providing (these are
budget parameters we need to be respectful of to ensure that there are no financial hardships incurred)?
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If our families are helping us with wedding expenses, will the money be given as a gift for us to use towards our
total costs or will it come with concessions that need to be made that could change how we see our wedding
day unfold?
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In exchange for family financial assistance, are we prepared to compromise what may be important to us as a
couple (if the money given is not strictly a gift to help with wedding costs but comes with certain conditions
attached)?
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What is our personal spending budget? If we are paying for the wedding on our own or paying for all expenses
over and above what our families are contributing, what can we afford to spend without putting ourselves in
debt or at financial risk?
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Is what we are planning to do financially feasible given our preferred wedding date?
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