Can RAPE / CRIME be prevented? Can this earth become a Paradise? YES!!!! POSSIBLE!!!!

Today even though we are getting highly qualified and growing technologically very fast, still crimes like rape, murder, robbery are going up and NO ONE is happy and contented. Man has reached the peak of Intelligence, Technology and education. But still even after thousands of years he has failed miserably to stop the crimes in the society like rape, murder, etc. Now the question arises whether the SYSTEM, the SOCIETY itself in which man is operating is the cause for all the crimes. YES!! says Spiritual Masters like Osho, J Krishnamurthy and other people with deeper WISDOM and INSIGHT. The fundamental unit of the society is Family which is the by-product of Marriage, Children, Private Property, Status, Etc When we analyze this, following would be the contributing factors for the Crimes and miseries in the society:

Sex Marriage/Family Population Upbringing of Children/Education Man's Unconsciousness.

SEX:
Man gets energy from all the Panchabhootas through food, air etc... This energy can be used by man for our day to day activities. These activities can be boiled down to SEX, MONEY & POWER. Man spends his energy in either Sexual Matters or Earning/Accumulating Money or Going behind Name & Fame. Even though many have got all these things in Life somehow man is not happy or contented and is miserable. Because this life energy when used for the outward things like Sex, Money & Power, we get momentary happiness but not a fulfilment or feel contented. If the same energy is diverted

inwards through Meditation, Relaxation, Devotion the energy gets conserved and a sense of joy and fulfilment arises. The whole idea is about diverting this energy which is going outward through Sex, Money & Power to INWARDS. And that is what all the religions want in a deeper sense. When man does not know the ways to take this life energy inwards the energy HAS to be expressed in one or the other form. Thats why when sex energy is suppressed too much that energy takes all sorts of deviations in the form of perversions, violence, rape, murder, homosexuality, anger, Jealousy etc...

Sex is surrounded by too much of TABOO. This is the main reason for people suppressing Sex. While performing a marriage people have a divine feeling but when it comes to Sexual act people do not discuss about it openly with the children and have too much embarrassment and guilt surrounding sexual matters. Unless people discuss about sex matters freely with children, child will have too much curiosity and because of too much prohibition, the child will not get the right information about sex and get misguided and perverted because he tends to find other routes to find out what it is. The more the society hides Sex and nudity of the man/woman in the name of morality, the more the people become interested in it and provoked to become immoral. For eg; just put a board on a roadside window saying Peeping Here is PROHIBITED and you will find all the people peeping into the window who had never bothered about it when it was NOT prohibited. Because PROHIBITION itself is an INVITATION. Rape / Crime are Unconscious acts. Unsatisfied Sex leads to crimes. If consciousness, Awareness, Alertness & Attentiveness is increased, crimes can be prevented.

How to overcome this problem?

People should start treating the Sexual act as a DIVINE and NATURAL act. Due to the lack of divine feeling, couples always get a guilty feeling after each sexual act. And that guilty feeling which was induced into you by the society which was always condemning sex, restricts you from getting fulfilment out of it. Otherwise sex without guilt is a highly fulfilling act. Talk, discuss & Clarify about Sex Matters openly without any inhibitions. Sex is a divine act. Respect each other while having sex & get filled with gratitude, reverence, surrenderence and devotional feeling as if you are entering a temple while making love.

 Suppression of sex starts right from childhood; hence boys/girls should be allowed to live together under same roof especially between 7-21 years. Accept masturbation as a natural act and do it meditatively. Only harmony, relaxation and friendliness with the partner which is the base for Love to happen, can transform Sexual Energy. Sex act alone CANNOT transform Sexual Energy. Sex energy can be transformed by becoming more Aware, Alert & by breathing deeply while having Sex. Sex should never be a forced act as it is a divine act and should be filled with devotion and sacredness. Sex should not be the only act between couples, rather it should be the by product of Love, Harmony & Friendliness between the couple. The other persons body should be treated with lot of care & Respect.

Marriage:
Marriage is the cause for all the sexual perversion because of the life-long bondage whether one likes it or not. Just to buy a simple dress which we use for few years we try it out before we buy it and we never compromise for an unfitting dress, but in case of marriage where the couple has to be together for their lifetime they never try each other by living together. Foolishly the parents find a Girl/Boy for their Son/Daughter and they meet and talk superficially and agree to get married for life time. And finally after getting into the bondage and when they start living together, then they face the reality of mismatching between themselves. Thus many marriages break and since money, children and properties are involved people suppress their feelings and stay together for their lifetime showing anger, hatred, jealousy and accusing each other. First of all couples who feel for each other & having Love and harmony between each other should live together and that too only till that point, till the harmony or love exists. Then comes the question that what will happen if there is a child for the couple. That is the reason why society wants couples to get married. But by doing this, the couples are damaging the whole life of the children by transferring their whole tension to their children and they themselves become wrong examples for their children as the child learns from what he sees in their parents. And these are the reasons contributing to the crimes in the world. Instead couples should give birth to a child only when they have matured and fulfilled in their relationship with Harmony & Unconditional Love so that they give a matured lifestyle to their children. Giving birth to a child should be the LAST LUXURY in growth ladder of a man and woman. A really sensible person will never give birth to a child in this over populated earth.

The bondage of marriage is responsible for creating family, private property, development of ego(I & Mine) which are the reasons for all the crisis and neurosis in the society. Marriage is such a bondage that even couple don't like each other, live together for their lifetime because of children, parents, private property, society showing anger, hatredness, jealousness & accusing each other. Today most problems are because Females without attaining motherhood qualities like Unconditional Love, Peace, Harmony, Compassion, Patience, Surrenderence and Bliss are giving birth to children unconsciously. We see only Nurses rather than real Mothers taking care of children in our society.

Ways to overcome this Problem and advantages of Live-In Relationships:

Marriage has become very easy and Divorce has become very tough. If it is the other way round, most of the problems will be solved in the world. Legal marriage has to disappear; happy living together has to appear. If already married, couples should live together only if there is harmony, love, friendliness, understanding & growth. Otherwise they have to separate and search for a right partner consciously. Only couples who feel for each other should live together. Love, Harmony & Friendliness should be the basis for living together or marriage. The moment Love, Harmony & Friendliness disappears; couples should separate and find a new partner consciously and meditatively. Search should continue until you find a partner with whom you feel Love & Harmony. When couples start living together they become more cautious, caring & start living in the moment. In live-in relationships, couples cannot take each other for granted. They continue to care for each other so that boredom doesn't set in. I, Mine & Ego will not be very strong in Live-In relationships. They live for themselves and try to Live and fulfill their own dreams and ambitions themselves. Only when a person live his desires himself he can go beyond it. Desires in Live-In relationships will be limited to their own Life span. They work only for themselves and not for their next generation. Since they live their dream life themselves they will not expect children or someone to fulfill it. Usually in Live-In relationships couples will not produce children unless they are fully prepared for it consciously.

Private properties will disappear in Live-In relationships. Most of the problems like competition, accumulation, over ambition, greed, cunningness, and cleverness are because of Private Property. Live-In couples in live in Communes easily which is the place for supportive growth.

POPULATION:
Half of the population is living a miserable life without proper Food, Clothing & Shelter. But no one including the educated people is concerned about the alarming rise in the population. And that is because they want their own child to inherit whatever they have accumulated in their lifetime. Because of over population, there is poverty, greediness, too much of competition, accumulation, jealousy, hatred, anger, cheating, cunningness, cleverness, etc which is giving way to all sorts of crime in the society. Most of the times, heinous crimes like rape, murder, robbery etc are committed by lower socio economic group. Everyone wants to give birth to a child for selfish & negative reasons like: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. To gain control over the Husband/Wife To Protect their Properties. To fulfill their unfulfilled dreams through their children. To have someone to take care during their Old Age. To do the last rites after their death.

How to overcome the problem?

A really intelligent person will NEVER give birth to a child in this over populated earth. He himself is groping in the darkness and misery and cannot give anything other than those things to the child. Absolute Population control is required for at least for 20 years to rectify the whole mess on the earth. Live-in relationships should increase in the place of marriage. So that people will stop accumulating money for their children and start living their dream life themselves. People have a negative attitude towards Old age homes which has to change. Happy Old age homes where Old people live joyously and happily in communion with proper nursing facilities in a retired & relaxed atmosphere concentrating on their physical health, spiritual development and preparing for a beautiful rather than a miserable death. Facilities should

be there for children to visit their parents occasionally at old age homes and stay with them. (For example www.nanananihomes.com) Off late even own children are not able to look after their parents because of their misunderstandings with them or work schedules or nature of work or working abroad. So it is always better for old age people to stay in a gated community where centralized facilities for day today needs, medical requirements, security and socializing needs are fulfilled under one roof. Stop producing children unconsciously and for selfish reasons. Birth control and abortion has to become legal. Only females who have attained the motherhood qualities like unconditional love, compassion, patience, etc.. have to give birth to children. If this criteria is considered, only very few males and females will be eligible to give birth to children.

Upbringing of Children:
Couples who want to give birth to children should have enormous Love & Harmony between each other, which is very essential for a divine state of mind during mating to invite a divine soul otherwise the child will be born according to the perverted state of mind which leads to all the personality disorders among the people finally leading to a miserable world with all sorts of Violence and crime. That kind of a union is possible by only those couples who have transcended all their negativities like anger, hatred, greed, rage, revenge, etc and who are filled with unconditional love. Because giving birth to a child is the highest responsibility and also it is the LAST LUXUARY for a man. When all other things (SEX/MONEY/POWER) in life are fulfilled, then if a couple gives birth to a child they will have that real Motherhood or Fatherhood. Male & Female Children should be allowed to grow together throughout their childhood and adolescence and they should be well acquainted with each other's bodies in their nudities. Only then, when they grow up they will be free from all sorts of perversions (Pornography, Homosexuality, Rape, Etc...) which the whole youths, Middle aged and old aged people are facing. In the schools, instead of teaching all those unnecessary things which are anyway available on the internet if at all needed, they should be taught the art of living, how to handle the negative qualities, situations, biological forces and should be exposed to more of nature so that they grow naturally and develop their unique individualities.

Sex education and freedom to experience it has to be given to children without which man cannot grow out of sex and its perversion even if he has grown up to 90-100 years. Biologically both female and male child have their sexuality at its peak during their teens once they are matured. That is the age they have to experience sex and get fulfilled so that the sex does not become a problem in his later part of life. But exactly that is the age the society restricts the children from indulging into it. And we suppress it until they grow up to their later 20's or 30's when their sexuality has already started to fade, at that time they are married and allowed to have sex. But by that time because of the suppression and lack of outlet for sex their sexuality gets perverted and moves from physical plane to the Mental. Once sex has entered the mind whatever ways you indulge into sex or with how many ever people you indulge in sex you will not get fulfilled. Because Mind is nothing but Illusions and Imaginations which is far away from reality. Husband and wife should never quarrel in front of children because a child knows nothing and learns only that which it sees and hears. And negative things always have a deeper impact on an innocent mind of a child than the positive things because the negative things are filled with fear & anger. Identify the activities which the child enjoys doing it and encourage that child to do those activities more & more. When child enquires about sex explain to it in detail without inhibition.

Life Cycles of a Human being:

Life of a human being passes through phases of 7 year cycles. During each phase significant changes go on happening in the life of an individual. For a proper Physical, Mental, Emotional & Spiritual development of man one has to go through each phases naturally without interfering or suppressing those phases. Osho say's every way to help a child is wrong. The very idea of helping is not right. The child needs your love, not your help. The child needs nourishment, support, but not your help.

0-7 Years
The first seven years in the childhood are the most important because the foundation of life is being laid. Since we ourselves do not know what life is we should not impose any ideas on the child and leave them absolutely innocent and unconditioned so that they grow wildly & naturally.

7-14 Years

Between 7-14 years is the rehearsal period when it is time for children -- without any risk, without the girl getting pregnant, without any problems arising for their families -- this is the time when they should be allowed all playfulness. If the children are allowed to be together; to swim together, to be naked before each other, ninety percent of perversions and pornography will simply disappear. Who will bother about pictures & movies when they have seen it in real?

14-21 Years
Between 14-21 years the child's sex matures. If the rehearsal has gone well, the third seven years gives the children a glimpse of after play. They are still together with girls or boys, but now a new phase starts in their being: they start falling in love.

21-28 Years
From twenty-one to twenty-eight is the time when they can settle. They can choose a partner. And they are capable of choosing now; through all the experience of the past two circles they can choose the right partner.

28-35 Years
The most pleasant period of life comes from twenty-eight to thirty-five -- the most joyous, the most peaceful and harmonious because two persons start melting and merging into each other.

35-42 Years
From thirty-five to forty-two, a new step, a new door opens. If up to thirty-five one has felt deep harmony, an orgasmic feeling, and we have discovered meditation through it, then from thirty-five to forty-two one will help each other go more and more into that meditation without sex, because sex at this point starts looking childish, juvenile. Once man has lived all the previous phases naturally and fully, he starts enjoying his aloneness and goes deeper and deeper into meditation and starts experiencing unconditional love and helps his partner to reach the same. Having lived the life of fulfillment, now in his old age he will start getting ready to leave his body peacefully, joyously and out of celebration.

Catharsis, Meditation, Creativity in our daily life:

Relaxation,

Art,

Today man is growing outwardly very fast with modern technology, but inwardly he is not having joy, happiness & contentment. Real contentment is possible only when there is balance between outer and inner. Active Meditation, Catharsis, Vipassana Meditation, Body Love & Relaxation activities has to be introduced in man's daily life along with all the above things. Otherwise the human mind is such that it will start indulging too much into sex and become like Hippy's, which also is a perversion. Only Meditation can transform the sexual energy into Love and compassion and open the doors of spirituality in the man's life which is the Ultimate goal of Life. Hence teach Meditation right from the childhood. A relaxed, Meditative or conscious person can never commit anything wrong and crime would be a far off thing to commit. Meditations should be introduced in all prisons, hospitals, offices etc. Every school should have nature, relaxing place & meditation place. Celebrate routine daily activities by activating all 5 senses and with alertness and awareness. Everyone should become independent financially and emotionally and learn the art of being happy and contented alone first and then with others. Create as many positive outlets as possible for the expression of the child's creativity. Encourage children to love nature, animals, Plants & fellow beings. Tantra Methods has to be introduced among children. All types of meditation techniques and spiritual paths have to be introduced to the child. Children should be well educated about HIV / AIDS, STD and usage of birth control methods. Give information about all religions and take the child to all religious places so that the child himself can choose his religion.

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