P meet 11/01/2013 SheelaDaniel Family Gn2.

18-25; Suvisesham [K] Intro:

[1st year Congrats God conducts marriage Heaven marriage God in relship and wants relship. 1.26 likeness image. Today opposite What is in for me? Loneliness -

Wife is vying for the husband's time, attention, and loyalty. -- Mix Share joy and sorrow -- . -- LIFELONG PURSUIT III. Structure of Marriage a] Wife from Rib bone of bone and flesh of flesh. 2.23 Man handiwork of God from clay. 2.7 g+kpapd; kz;zpdhNy cUthf;fp> Woman handiwork of God from rib. 2.22 jhk; kD\dpy; vLj;j tpyh vYk;ig kD\pahf cUthf;fp>
Matthew Henry == She was not made out of his head, to rule over him; nor out of his feet, to be trampled on by him; but out of his side, to be equal with him; under his arm, to be protected; and near his heart, to be beloved.

Community God created.

Seek to satisfy self so = Loneliness. -- We are designed for Relshp

Eg. For a country to florish Location

imp (water,resources etc) for Human Relsip

I. 3 Purposes of Marriage a] Good, Good in Gen 1 but in Gen 2 = not Good ; v18 Man alone is not gud. Problem is alone some love being alone hiding; avoid contact. God intent relship. [Living relship with God and human] e.g. Till Eve created God does the speaking After Eve = Man speaks first time [before dat what is need to speak ; no one to speak] Not just Speak but = Sing poetry. companionship, relationship, communication - never stop talking. b] Feminist no need of man. Women can be alone. Bible = both need to complete and complement. [Niraivu not kuraivu] Eg. Creation there is pattern = Sky then stars,sun,moon birds. Sea filled with fish. Land vegetation, animals, living creatures. God brought to completion eg. Empty sky? Empty earth??? How these are incomplete w/o each other. ==== Man Woman to complete each other. COMPLEMENT adjust. c] v18 suitable helper. [suitable yettra - like; in front of; opposite of him; etc.] ie. Like him or same as him. [helper = not subordinate; Helper as in Bible God is Israels helper. Ezer Ps146.5; Heb13.6 fh;j;jh; vdf;Fr; rfhah; rq; 33:20mtNu ekf;Fj; JizAk; ekf;Ff; NflfKkhdth;. He is our all in all -- Suitable helper like Divine Help. The word points to strength and wisdom II. 3 Principles of Marriage a] 2.24 leave One Flesh = 1 man 1 woman. [ No to multiple partners Single partner] b] leave parents e.g. Israels rejection of covenant relship Jer1.16; 2.13 -- not to abandon; stay far away; [ prior to Wed most connected to parents; Now wife needs more concerned physically, emotionally, economically. Parents shud not meddle with married ] c] One Flesh = cleave; - Covenant Word Dt 4.4 cq;fs; Njtdhfpa fh;j;jiug;
gw;wpf;nfhz;l ePq;fnsy;yhUk; ,e;ehs;tiuf;Fk; capNuhbUf;fpwPh;fs;. cgh 10:20 cd; Njtdhfpa fh;j;jUf;Fg; gae;J> mtiur; Nrtpj;J> mtiug; gw;wpf;nfhz;bUe;J> mtUila ehkj;ijf;nfhz;L MizapLthahf.

Both are in Image of God. First was Adam = Hebrews first is significant. [ in Gen 1 God does naming ; Gen 2 Man does naming animals] Authority and Responsibility. -- Husband is Spritual Head; Responsible for spiritual direction. He is answerable. Eg. God calling Adam Where are you? Next Sermon Idea = Purpose; Power; Poison of Marriage.

Eg. Snake around a branch united. [Not cat and mouse ] Wife becomes most imp after God. = more imp than friends; boss ; Every wife needs to know and feel that she is the most important person in her husband's life.