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Relationship Advice For Women By Experts in the fields of Love, Romance and Relationships. I have two brothers and a sister. He sighed, and wondered when this misery would end. Who would you guess is having this conversation? A potential employer and employee maybe? Possibly seatmates on an airplane?

Are You Interrogating Him?

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Wassup Superstar? Travis dropping in for a visit to discuss the first date Lets listen in on a conversation for a minute So, are you originally from this area? she said. Yes, he said, Ive lived here all my life. You said you were an accountant. How long have you been doing that? she asked. Six years. he replied. Do you enjoy it?, she said. Most of the time, yes. he said. Do you have any brothers or sisters? How would you feel if you were on the receiving end of this interrogation? Dont you think it sounds more like an interview than a first date? And it wasnt very interesting, was it? Sadly, this happens a lot. And the woman is often left without a clue about why there isnt a second date.

Ho Do You Keep From Making This Mistake on the First Date?

The key to an interesting conversation starts with it being a conversation, not a question and answer session. Both people involved need to be fully engaged in order for an exciting conversation to occur.
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Article Nugget: Have you ever heard the saying, A first impression is a lasting impression? Whether youve realized it or not, this saying rings true when it comes to dating. Youve got to get it right when it comes to the first impression if you want to have any chance at a first or second date! The key to making a great first impression is to steer the conversation. What It Means: Steering the conversation to make a great first impression means that you need to use certain strategies to keep the conversation exciting. A boring conversation will have him walking away with a non-memorable impression of you! So how exactly do you keep the conversation exciting? Start by use the words what, how and why which will create open-ended questions. Open ended questions are the most effective way to steer a conversation because they allow you to dive deeper into the conversation. For example, instead of asking, How many siblings do you have?, dive deeper into his family dynamic by asking What is that you liked most about your childhood? If he has fond memories of his childhood, he will automatically inform you about the size of his family, etc. Bottom Line: The key to making a lasting impression on a man is to steer the conversation and make it a memorable one. Dont settle for questions that will result in a one-word answer. There is an art to great conversation. From Sarah: Travis teamed up with Jonathan Green to create Girl Gets Ring. Its all about whats really going on with men so you can stop pushing him and stop wasting time waiting for him to pop the question. Watch the free video and read all about their approach to get a handle on your first date and all that it leads to->>

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What Works And What Doesnt In The Dating Game

by Alexandra Fox

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Are you feeling sad about your love life? Despite doing everything RIGHT in the dating game, everything might be going wrong for you. Let me help fix the problem! Lets debunk all the misconceptions you may have about the dating game, and learn all about the dating approaches that actually WORK for you love life. This article is for my readers who are feeling a little low these days. Are YOU feeling depressed lately?

Are You Losing Hope for Your Dating and Love Life?
Some of you might feel that youre not beautiful enough. Or youre not sexy enough. Or you dont have the smarts, the money, or the confidence to deserve a good man. Bring Him Close Free Report... Heres my message: If you feel any of the above, theres a good chance that ITS NOT YOUR FAULT.
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Youre beautiful enough. Youre sexy enough. And you definitely deserve a good man. The real problem is this: Somethings making you THINK youre not beautiful, youre not smart, and so on. My guess? Youre probably watching too much TV! After all, media has had a long, long history of making women feel bad. Let me explain

And that goes for your love life, as well. Dont follow what you see on TV. Follow what works! Now, let me teach you a couple of secrets in the dating game and yes, these are techniques that actually WORK

======================================= #1 ABOUT WINNING A GUYS HEART

======================================= ======================================== HOW THE MEDIA MAKES YOU FEEL BAD TVs opinion is that to win a guys heart, you got to know how to make him like you. You do him ABOUT YOURSELF favors, you ask him out, you buy him gifts and if he wants sex, dont be a prude, and give it to him for ======================================== free. The problem with many of us today is that we take what we see on TV too seriously. TV will tell you that Of course, when you follow this opinion, chances to be happy, or to be beautiful, or to be desirable, are the guy will take advantage of you. And when you want to get serious with him, hell give you some you have to do this, and have to be that, and so on. lame excuse like, Im not ready. Never mind the fact that 99% of everything you see So why does TVs version of flirting NOT work in the on TV is just someones OPINION real world? For instance, beauty product commercials will tell you that to be sexy and beautiful, you have to be tall, Simple because its a technique thats called fair, and thin. If youre short, or dark, or a bit on the spoiling your spouse. And as the name suggests, its only meant to be used by married couples. plus side, then youre NOT beautiful. Right. Never mind the fact that only 3% of all women Spoiling your spouse is a fantastic way to strengthen your marriage as the years go by. have the tall, thin body type. That means only 1 in every 33 women are tall and thin. The rest of us are maybe a little shorter, or maybe a little rounder. Is anything wrong with that? Of course not. But TV makes you think its unattractive, and thats a bad thing. Let me say that again: 99% of what you see on TV is just someones opinion. Theyre NOT the facts. Whats the fact? Just the fundamentals. If you want to be sexy and beautiful, the goal isnt to be tall and thin. The goal is to be HEALTHY. Am I right or am I right? ;) So heres the lesson: Dont follow whats cool. Instead, follow what WORKS. It doesnt matter if other people look at you like youre weird or crazy. FOLLOW WHAT WORKS. But if you spoil him BEFORE you get married, hell get complacent. Hell have you wrapped around his little finger. And he wont do anything crazy like marrying you because it might change his comfortable little setup with you. Sneaky, I know. But what do you expect from TV?

Heres the Other Love Life Secret:

======================================= #2 ABOUT FINDING THE ONE

======================================= I love romantic comedies. Its nice to think of how fate can bring a man and a woman together, and they live happily ever after. Right? Of course, I never take romantic comedies seriously. (And neither should you.) Believing that fate will bring you the right man in time is VERY risky.
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Ive met many women who married their Prince Charming, their Mr. Right, their Knight In Shining Armor, their Perfect Match, and so on only to suffer through a messy divorce a few years later. You might have gone through a similar heaven to hell relationship in the past yourself. Its no fun! So my advice? Dont wait for fate. Dont settle for the first good guy to come your way. Dont let the butterflies guide your decisions! Instead, have some standards in place. What are the good qualities youre looking for in a partner? These male qualities raise your relationships chances of long-term success: (1) Honesty (2) Sincerity He says what he means, and he means what he says (3) Responsibility Less blaming, and more Ill take care of it (4) Strong sense of family If he loves his mom, thats a good sign! (5) Strong financial know-how Because the bills wont pay themselves. Haha ;) Also, take note of the BAD qualities you dont want. Make sure that anyone with these non-negotiables have NO CHANCE at winning your heart. If you asked me, these would be good nonnegotiables to start with (1) An active criminal record (2) A violent streak (3) Lies habitually (even white lies) (4) Jobless, or in massive debt (5) Has cheated on previous girlfriends (6) Drug or alcohol addiction Before we end todays Newsletter, Id like to share a funny comment one of my readers made a few years ago. Back then,she didnt agree with #6 above. She said:

But Alexandra, theres nothing wrong with smoking and drinking! Ill tell you now what I told her back then: When you want a strong, happy, loving relationship, you dont ask yourself whats WRONG with it. Instead, you ask yourself whats RIGHT with it! So ask yourself: Will addictions make our relationship stronger? If your answer is no, then youd better make it one of your non-negotiables! Let me say that one more time: Dont follow whats cool. FOLLOW WHAT WORKS! And thats definitely what were doing here in the Unforgettable Woman community. Were doing what we do because it works plain and simple! To the happiness you deserve, ~Alexandra Fox From LoveRomanceRelationship: Alexandra is the author of the well-loved book 77 Secrets to Make Him Love You among others. Visit her webpage to find out about her book and learn from more of her fabulous advice for your love life->

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When You Want Him To Change And Its Just Who He Is

Thanks for reaching out to us. We want you to know that were sharing from a place of Tough Love, so please be prepared that we are here to support you in having a viewpoint that can be completely new to you. It can be difficult to date someone who has a different lifestyle than we do. Especially if we feel that we need this person to change in order for the relationship to work out. From what you wrote it doesnt sound like his smoking marijuana is causing him any problems. You told us he has a good job and makes good money, that the communication is good between you two, and youre attracted to him. It seems that the real problem is how you feel about his behavior. You see, your boyfriend is just being himself. And part of being himself is smoking pot 5-6 times a week. Now we are neither condoning nor condemning his habit. Just noting it as a fact of who he is as a person. The red flag for us is your response to his habit. First asking him to change, and then taking it personally when he doesnt. We have a saying that helps us define who has responsibility in any conflict. It goes like this, When someone has a problem with me, it is their problem. When I have a problem with someone, it is my problem. You have a problem with his habit and youre trying to make it his problem. To be frank, this is not his problem, its your problem. And the problem is that you are putting responsibility for your feelings onto him. Specifically you are interpreting his actions as a lack of respect for you, and then you are hurt by his lack of respect. Your feeling hurt by his behavior is your problem. We are assuming that he had this habit before the two of you met.

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by Orna and Matthew Walters This weeks relationship question comes from Terri: Hello Orna and Matthew, Ive been dating this guy for about 5 months and for the most part it has been really great. Hes really sweet and we talk a lot and Im really attracted to him. I want it to work out. Its just that he smokes a lot of pot and I dont. Ive never really been into it. I dont even drink that much. One drink and Im pretty much done for the night. He told me hes been smoking for years and it isnt a problem. Hes got a great job and makes good money so its not hes a useless stoner. But, he smokes pretty regularly at least 5 to 6 times a week. I have asked him to quit numerous times, but he insists that he can stop whenever he wants and that he is not addicted. I feel like he doesnt respect me or my wishes. It really hurts me that he wont quit or at least cut back. Im worried about him. What steps can I take to help him and if i cant, is it best for me to leave the relationship?

Different Lifestyles Relationship

Dear Terri-

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How Can You Change Your Response in the Relationship?

The key is to realize that youre being triggered by his behavior, and that you are the only one responsible for your own feelings.. The real question is: How do you own your feelings and stop blaming him? The first step is to acknowledge that respect (or lack of respect) is part of your relationship pattern.
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We are certain that if you looked over your past relationships that you would discover a similar pattern, where you felt a lack of respect. The next step is to own your feelings. Having a conversation with him where you share how you feel without asking him to change anything, and with you accepting full responsibility for your emotions. Where you go from here is entirely up to you. Can you be in a long-term relationship with a man who smokes marijuana regularly? Love and Abundance, Orna and Matthew From Sarah: Orna and Matthew are the only couple working together coaching women on relationships getting the amazing kind of results I personally know theyre getting youll LOVE their ebook-plus-audio program Get Your Mr. Right it will turn around EVERYTHING you believed about getting the lifelong love you want and help you so fast its incredible just check out Get Your Mr. Right here to get the relationship you want->

get. So if you cant see yourself with kids or spending the rest of your life with him, move on . I moved on in 2007 and he was also a weed smoker. but I knew deep down inside that I didnt see him in my future and to this day, he is still a weed smoker. thank god i moved on

Living In Love For Now

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by Dominique When you find yourself wondering where you are going in your relationship, maybe wanting to lay out an agenda such as where to take it, how to take it there, how about thinking in terms of day by day, moment by moment even. If you feel sure you are both exclusive with each other, yet you havent been together very long, not long enough to really know each other, then there is really nothing to do right now but continue to get to know each other through ever deepening levels. It takes a long while to REALLY get to know someone, especially the older you are, more time for more experiences and thus more secrets to be hidden away. You may think within a few months or a year possibly, but I guarantee you, ghosts from before can and will show themselves, and they are more likely to do so the more comfortable you become with each other which takes time.

Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time My father used to say this to me, if it walk like a duck, quack like a duck, its a duck. So to say that, he also said, if you got a dope head, you got a dope head, if you have a cheater, you have a cheater, if you have a man that loves his mom, you got a mom that loves his mom. Men are simple, what you see is what you

If you live together, all or most all cards are revealed within two to three years. Longer if you dont. Im not advocating dating for this long before you make
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a commitment to each other, but what I am saying is dont rush the ring and the proposal. Dont even rush the words, the I love yous. Take your time to KNOW this other being, feel him, his heart, his essence. Give him the time to do the same. Whats the hurry? Really and truly what is the hurry? The wedding or the marriage is for some unnecessary. If you are both committed, and no one is planning on going anywhere, the rest is simply legalities which do make things easier in some respects, yet it can also feel like an imposition. Still the trappings of all of this can seem very attractive, alluring.For others it makes them feel that little bit more secure, like its all that little bit more real, and this is quite valid. But I say again. Whats the hurry? Dont you want to be sure this is really and truly your the one? Wouldnt it feel good to explore each other, swim the uncharted waters together, dive ever deeper, to the deepest of depths with each other? I mean REALLY, REALLY develop intimacy and authenticity? In reality there is no future. There is only right now. Yes you can plan for things, hope for things, yet this moment is all there is. Im not suggesting to take this piece Im giving you and go forth to live recklessly with no thought of consequences, nor am I saying you should live your life just as you wish, selfishly, with no thought for those you care about or even those you dont or dont know at all. You still have responsibility. You still have feelings about how others might feel or be affected by your actions.But if you are not hurting anyone, and it feels good to you, then go and do. And enjoy. Relish every second. Be curious. Be in awe. And BE this way with your man. BE with him. Discard the rose colored glasses, and keep your eyes wide open. Please try to take the stars out of your eyes, and please put down your romance novel notions. Think about this. You are a real live human being, beautiful yes, yet you are full of foibles, wonderful ones no doubt, but you are not perfect. You are a perpetual work in progress. So is he. There will be times for sure when you do see moonbeams and rainbows, and fairy dust falls everywhere around you and on you, evoking all the most lovely things imaginable, and he will sweep

you off your feet in perfect white knightly fashion. But he too has bumps and bruises and warts and probably some other very gross things. You need time to discover them all or most of them and decide for you if these things are okay, if any of them are deal breakers. THIS TAKES TIME. This takes living for right now.Once you fully and honestly know him, then and only then can you have your own version of happily ever after. From The Editors: We love Dominique as a person, and think shes one of the best coaches around. Shes the ONLY coach we recommend to women who want to open their hearts and find their true selves in a deep emotional, physical, spiritual, sensual and sexual way. Start with her ebook Sex and Heart and finally get the love, affection and great sex you want and deserve>>

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Why Cant I Make Him Happy?

Hey, its Mike . . .

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I wasnt going to email you today, but I got this question this morning that I feel like I have to answer . . . EW asks . . . Hi. I was wondering if you had any advice for this

happy or a man can make a woman happy is totally toxic to good relationships. Hes responsible for his own happiness and youre responsible for yours. Your job in a relationship is to be a good partner, to be supportive, to be positive. Its NOT to bend yourself into pretzels trying to make him happy. Focus on your own happiness and the romance will come. 2. This guy sounds very controlling and manipulative to me (and I think youre right that he was trying to get you to break up with him because he couldnt pull the trigger himself.) There are much better guys out there. Focus on yourself. Build up your self esteem and the good guys will be tripping over themselves to be with you. Best, Mike For an incredible assortment of full texting scripts and great romantic texting ideas to try with a man, youll really want to check Michael out (I immediately downloaded Text The Romance Back and loved it so much thats why Im recommending it here) Go here to discover how you can nearly instantly create way more romance with a man just by texting->

I was dating a guy for about a month. This guy is brutally honest and sometimes he would say things that hurt my feelings. I would talk to my friends about it to see if I was just overreacting. He found out and we ended up breaking up. I really want to be with him. He was mad that I wouldnt open up to him, but he wouldnt open up to me either so I dont really understand. He said when we first got together I made him really happy and then I just made him unhappy the more he got to know me. And that when he looked at me he still thought he was going to be really happy with me but it just didnt happen. I wanted another chance with him because I am so sure I could make him happier than he has ever been, but he says he doesnt know what he feels anymore and only wants to be friends. My friends think that he wanted me to break up with him I just dont know what I should do here. I was so happy with him. No one has ever made me that happy, even though a few of the things he said hurt. :/ But he always made up for it later I miss him and want to be with him more then anything. Any ideas? OK, lets rock . . . =-) Two big things here: 1. You cant make him happy and its not your job to make him happy anyway. Listen, Ive talked about this plenty of times before, but the whole idea that a woman can make a man

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3 Online Dating Dos to Keep You Happily Dating Men

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I want you to have fun, be open to new things, and enjoy the experience; just do it consciously and like the grownup woman who you are. Remember those jerks you met in bars 30 years ago? Well, a few are still out there; they just have gray hair now. (Thats my husband, Larrys, line.) You need to be able to deal with all men in a classy, direct manner, and the best way to do that is to have a good sense of what you want and who you want to be out in the dating world. #2. Have fun while you practice. Every meeting and date is practice that brings you closer to Mr. I Love You. Statistically, your meetdate wont turn out to be him. So what? Enjoy the time and be open to what comes up. Dont come in with an agenda, and dont let it ruin your time if, in the first 10 minutes, he doesnt appear to be your man. Just relax and let yourself enjoy. You never know; you may just let yourself relax into a very nice feeling. You can also use this as a time to help boost the mans self-esteem. (Yes, men are as nervous and insecure as we are.) He was nice enough to pick you and make the effort of meeting you. (Remember, as we get older the men have way more choices than we do.) Unless hes a real creep (which very, very few men are), help him feel good about himself by giving him some compliments and thanking him graciously. Try to learn about him and find whats unique and interesting. You can learn and gain something from just about anyone. #3. Pace Yourself Slow and steady wins the race and the right guy. My advice is to date as many guys as you can without losing your mind. Dont suspend your Match.com account just because your heart is going pitterpatter over someone youve gone out with a few times.
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by Bobbi Palmer You can meet the spectacular, special man who is going to be your life partner using online dating. I met the love of my life on www.match.com, so of course I recommend it to all my friends, coaching clients, in my workshopsreally to anyone who will listen! Here are three things I recommend you keep in mind as you travel on your journey meeting men using online dating. (Yepit is a journey and, yes, you meet men onlineyou really dont date them there.) #1. Be the Boss No, I dont mean be bossy. I mean be in control of your experience. Online dating opens you up to thousands more possibilities, and its a completely new way of meeting people. Make some decisions and set some personal guidelines about how you want to integrate it into your life. How many hours will you spend each day? (Warning: this can get addictive!) What things can you do to ensure your physical and emotional wellbeing as you talk to and meet people? What can you learn or change to be a successful dater? Intuition and special situations will create forks in the road. And as time goes on, youll likely tweak some of these decisions. Considering some things up front, however, gives you a tentative roadmap and, more importantly, an expanded awareness. It gives you something to refer back to when you get a little off track.

Keep answering the likes and emails that appeal to you. Try to keep yourself open to all men until you have an exclusive relationship. Youve waited this long for your Mr. Right, so dont waste six months on a guy who wants to see you once a week. (Even though you want him all the time.) Maybe it will turn into more, but in the meantime please keep your options open. Dont ignore all those guys in your inbox looking for attention. Theyve picked you alreadyyoure more than 50% there! If you go all-in too soon, youll likely go down the crazy womans path of dashed hopes and disappointments and burn yourself out. Keep your head and wits about you, stay open, and remember that regardless of what a man who doesnt know you thinks, you are a special, lovely woman who deserves love. Stay in itand it will come. I know. It did for me and (literally) millions of other women. And Finally Ultimately, I learned that the only way to find a lasting and loving relationship is to become a smart, confident, and complete woman who merits the love of a good man. A large part of that journey is being open to learning and having the courage to do new things, even when theyre difficult or scary. Personally, I finally realized that the real scary thing was being single forever. So I hopped online the RIGHT WAY and found the love of my life. From Sarah: Bobbi is absolutely adorable! You will SO identify with her and her story personally, and her FREE Man-O-Meter test is really helpful. Just go here to take the test and get Bobbis great free stuff and advice about how to date how to get the man and relationship you want shell teach you how to DateLike A Grownup->>

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