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Tuesday, March 12, 2013

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Wife should explain why shes upset about Facebook activity

Dear Annie: My hus- nant. The father does not band, Clark, and I have have a job and lives far been married for 47 years. away. I want him involved We both have Facebook ac- with our child, but not if he counts. A year ago, Clark cant help support the baby. became friends with Toni, Am I being too harsh? an ex-girlfriend from his Hard Worker late-teen years. I am my Dear Hard: Yes. A parhusbands third wife. Toni ents importance should not has been married at least be based on his income. twice, maybe three times. Support is more than Ive lost track. money. It can include takThe problem is, Clark and ing care of the child and Toni were chatbeing emotionting and poking ally supportive of each other reguthe mother. Unlarly until his sisless the father is ter told him it was a drug addict, alnot fair to me. coholic or abuser, Clark claimed your childs relathat he stopped tionship with him chatting. Howevis necessary and er, the poking has beneficial. But the continued. father should be A few months actively looking ago, I sent Toni a for work so he can friend request. All Annies Mailbox pay child support, of Clarks friends and you should from his hometown have hold him responsible for friended me right off, but it. In the meantime, please Toni didnt respond. Clark dont deny either of them then asked her to do it as a the positive aspects of this favor to him. She then sent relationship. me a friend request, with Dear Annie: I read the no mention of being sorry letter from Walk a Mile for ignoring my previous in My Shoes, who comone. I agreed so as not to be plained about out-of-state rude. When Tonis birthday relatives who try to take came, I wished her a happy over caregiving duties. birthday. Our birthdays are Heres our family wisin the same month. She ig- dom when visiting or offernored mine. ing to help a primary careLast week, I taught Clark giver: Think of yourself as how to delete a poke, and the assistant caregiver, he did. But this week, they and simply ask the primary are doing it again. Since he caregiver what, when, where was the one who did the de- and how. Do your best to do lete, he must have been the what they would do. Dont one to start back up. When make suggestions or change I asked him, his response routines. Just give them the was that nothing is going on peace of mind of knowing and Facebook chatting and that they can leave for a poking is no big deal. Clark while and everything will be has even commented that done exactly as they would he would like to meet Toni, have done it. This attitude with me, just to see what she is helpful and comforting to looks like now. the primary caregiver, who Toni is not the only fe- certainly doesnt need any male who regularly pokes additional stress. Been Clark on Facebook. I have There, Too told him that liking and sharing posts is less personal than pokes, chatting and messages. Now he is talking about creating a Twitter account. Am I overreacting, or should Clark be more considerate of my feelings? Torn Dear Torn: This boils down to trust. Something about Toni is ringing a lot of bells in your head, and Clark should respect this by limiting contact. However, he doesnt seem to have done anything untoward, so he objects to your reaction. Try calmly explaining why Toni bothers you and why it is important that his behavior reassure, rather than alarm, you. He needs to know this is moving into risky territory. Dear Annie: Im 19 years old and work at least 60 hours a week. I recently found out that I am preg-

Tomorrows Horoscope
WEDNESDAY, MARCH 13, 2013 Pisces has numerous, wonderful enviable qualities, which in the year ahead will be lifted to even greater heights. The revitalization of your better traits will further enhance your probabilities for success. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -You are presently in a positive cycle in terms of your financial affairs. You might even acquire something that was long overdue. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -One of the best ways to get your coworkers cooperation is to make sure that whats good for you can be great for them as well. Its one of the keys to success. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- Rather than vying for center stage, keep a low profile, especially if youve been given a key role to play. Its the best way to get the acknowledgment that you crave. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- If you want some interesting things to occur in your social life, you cant wait for the right people to come to you. Seek them out yourself and, in a nice way, make your presence felt. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -One of the best ways to deal with a competitive situation is to take more positive action than your adversaries do. Keep an optimistic, proactive frame of mind, and youll come out ahead. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -Examine all new endeavors not merely for what they can do for you immediately, but how they can enhance your future. When you look ahead, make sure all the pieces fit together. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -Sometimes we find ourselves in the excellent position of being able to reap a harvest from seeds we havent sown. This might be your scenario today, so be alert for such an opportunity. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Snap judgments you arrive at might not be as perceptive as those of your mates. Listen to his or her input, which could provide you with some alternatives that you havent considered. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- The amount of zeal you display while working on a job is likely to set the tone that others will follow. If you want everything to unobtrusively buzz along, maintain an accelerated pace. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- You are likely to have more fun and feel more comfortable in a small gathering than in a large group. Try to stay within your comfort zone. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- If your primary goal is to amply provide for those you love, youll make sure that this objective is met, no matter what the day may throw at you. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -You should pay attention to intuition that tells you the proper course of action to take. Any afterthoughts will be less accurate, and land you on the rocks.
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