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a review

rt.el.m 7february2013

The Author
Susan Cain Practiced law for 7 years Taught nego skills at corporations, law firms & unis Honors graduate for Princeton & Harvard Law School

The Book
Researches old & new Engaging & highlyreadable

Personal experiences

Published 2012, pages 333 Contents: Four Parts

By the numbers

people we know

1/ 3

By the numbers

of the world

1/ 2

Introverts

Introverts perceived to be (not necessarily true)


Quiet

Not cooperative Timid

Passive

Introverts
Drawn to the world of inner thought and feeling -Carl Jung

Man of thought

Introverts
Introvertsmay have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they tend to dislike conflict. Many have horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussion. Pg 226

intro-ventions
Theory of gravity Theory of relativity W.B. Yeatss The Second Coming Chopins nocturnes Prousts In Search of Lost Time Peter Pan Orwells 1984 and Animal Farm The Cat in the Hat Charlie Brown Schindlers List, E.T., Close Encounters of The Third Kind Google Harry Porter Apple Microsoft (page 5)

Extroverts

Extroverts

Wow!

Extroverts
Drawn to the external life of people and activities -Carl Jung

Man of action

Extroverts
extroverts are people who will add life to your party and laugh generously at your jokes. They tend to be assertive, dominant, and in need of great company. They think out loud and on their feet; they prefer talking to listening, rarely find themselves loss at words, and occasionally blurt out things they never meant to say. They are comfortable with conflict but not with solitude. (page 11)

Culture Evolution
Industrial Revolution (US) Culture of Personality Culture of Character

Humility Honesty Trust Poised Dignified

Engaging Cheerful Gregarious Charismatic

Whats happeningnow

Culture of Personality (extrovert) Culture of Character (introvert)

Whats happeningnow
devalued nd 2 -class Culture of Character citizen (introvert) sidelined

Culture of Personality (extrovert)

Extrovert Ideal
The basic personality trait of introversion is being repudiated in favour of the louder, more sociable characteristics, extroversion.

Extrovert Ideal
The basic personality trait of introversion is being repudiated in favour of the louder, more sociable characteristics, Personality extroversion.

fatigue

Advice

Parents children

Address & Re-dress


Intro extro to understand their differences

Introverts to understand their own contradictions


Leverage on introverts strongpoints behind the scenes, building alliances, one-2-one, devotion/focus, negotiation skills

End game
Its high time introverts stepped out of character, Make themselves heard Proclaimed to the world that they have much to offer Equally important as extroverts (in their own way)

Qs Self-assess
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2. 3. 4.
5. 6.

Who are you introvert? Extrovert? Ambivert? Are you an introvert in some situations and extrovert in others? What about important people in your life? Can you think of a time in your life when being an introvert proved to be an advantage? If you are an introvert, what do you find most challenging about working with extroverts? If you are extrovert, what do you find most challenging about working with introverts? Do you think your job suits your temperament? If not, what could you do to change things?

Quiet quote
Everyone shines, given the right lighting. For some, its a Broadway spotlight, for others, a lamplit desk.

My say

Highly recommend this book!!!! This book is a Keeper or Get it in Resource Centre

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