SADHANAS FOR MARRIAGE

Do you wish for a happy married life?

Can life be full of pleasures?

Can delay in marriages be remedied?

The answer is yes!

Life is very strange. Every person, be it a man or a woman keeps trying to get
more and more pleasures and comforts in life. First everyone wishes for
material pleasures and then for spiritual fulfillments.

One important event in life is marriage. Marriage brings about a very special
change in the life of a person. The direction of life can completely change after
marriage. If one gets a wise, capable, accommodative and understanding life
partner then one feels like enjoying life and its pleasures to the full. Problems,
obstacles and responsibilities are a part of life. But if one's life partner is
understanding then the pain becomes much less.

In the Indian Society too marriage is given great significance. In the ancient
times there used to be the ritual of Swayamvar in which the girls were given
the freedom to choose their own husbands. Because the marriage used to be
by choice hence life was happier. Married life was not a problem or a burden for
them.

But as times passed the social system changed and the ritual of marriage
became some what distorted due to which there were many problems which
the couples face to this day. Society became dominated by males and women
came to play only a passive role in marriages. The fact is that a woman is as
important a part of the society as a man. In married life both are equal. Both
supplement each other. Without one the other cannot contemplate a whole life.
The creation in nature cannot go on without cooperation of both.

Marriage in the present context

Today the institution of marriage has become very corrupted. There is more
pain in married life than happiness. It has come to be believed that birth of a
girl in a home means advent of problems and sorrows. The reason for this is
that for the marriage of the girl the parents have to struggle a lot. The problem
of dowry has further complicated matters. High life styles, ostentation and false
values have only tended to make the problem of dowry graver. Even after
marriage of the girl problems for the parents or the girl do not end. Everyone
understands that the prevalent system is wrong yet paradoxically it continues.
If by the time the girl is of marriageable age parents are not able to find a
suitable match then it becomes a cause of worry and tension for them. The
poor girl even if she understands what is going on is forced to keep mum.

Even in the present age love marriage is not easily possible in India. And not
just girls even boys are forced into marriages. Today seventy out of hundred
couples are not satisfied with their marriage. A man is not able to get the girl of
his choice and same is the case for the girl. Still life goes on. But where there is
no true joy it cannot be called life. It becomes more of a burden.

In the ancient times men used to do special Sadhanas to get a good wife. And
similarly women used to perform rituals for getting a good husband. Having
studied the ancient texts some special Sadhanas are being produced here for
the readers of the magazine with the help of which they could make their
married lives more happy and joyous. One should not hesitate in trying these
Sadhanas that are meant for the success of married life. If desired things do not
happen on their own then what is the harm in getting wishes fulfilled through
Sadhanas?

Bhuvaneshwari Vivaah Prayog

For early marriage

Among the ten Mahavidyas, Bhuvaneshwari is the Mother Goddess who can
bestow totality in married life and make it happy, prosperous and comfortable.
This Sadhana can be tried by a girl of marriageable age herself or someone
else can also try it on her behalf. Even a man can try it for getting a good wife.

Start this Sadhana from any Friday. Once the Sadhana has been commenced
then trying it daily till the desired result is obtained. In other words chant the
Mantra daily.

Early in the morning have a bath. Wear fresh clothes. Cover a wooden seat with
yellow cloth. On a mound of rice grains place a Bhuvaneshwari Yantra. With
vermilion write Hreem on all four sides of the Yantra. Light a ghee lamp. First of
all pray to your family deity. Then offer vermilion on the Yantra. Also offer red
flowers. Pray for the fulfillment of your wish.

Then with a rock crystal rosary (Sfatik) chant one round of the following
Mantra each time offering a red flower to the Goddess.

|| Om Kaamdevaay Vidmahe Pushpbaannaay Dheemahi Tanno-anang

Prachodayaat ||
After the Mantra chanting collect all the flowers and tie them in a clean cloth. If
the Yantra is in form of an amulet then a man should tie it on the right hand
and a woman on the left.

Do this daily for 15 days. One surely gets the right match very soon.

Gandharvaraaj Chetnaa Prayog

For quick marriage of girls

Gandharvaraaj is the deity of love, marriage and beauty. By offering prayers to

him one can get married to the person of one's choice. This is a Sadhana only
for girls. Women can try it for getting good husbands too.

Start this Sadhana from a Monday and end it on a full moon day. In this period
one should chant the Mantra ten thousand times. If there is some problem in a
love marriage then too this Sadhana can be tried. Once Gandharvaraaj is
pleased through a Sadhana he appears in a subtle form to bless the Sadhak.
This Sadhana must be tried by the girl in the night. Some other family member
can also try it on the behalf of the prospective bride.

In the night of Monday have a bath and wear fresh clothes. Cover a wooden
seat with a yellow cloth. In its centre place the amulet -Siddhi Gandharva
Taabeej. Before it place a Siddhi Chakra. If one has a particular wish then
write it on a paper and place it under the amulet. Light a ghee lamp and
incense.

At ten in the night start the Sadhana. It is not necessary to perform this
Sadhana in the place of worship rather one can also do it in the sleeping room
or any other isolated spot. First of all offer seven flowers on the amulet and
pray to Gandharvaraaj -O Gandharvaraaj! You are very kind. Air is your vehicle.
Love is your form. Beauty is your ornament. Please help me fulfill my wish.

Next chant the following Mantra with Vishvaasu Manni rosary.

|| Om Kleem Vishvaasu Naam Gandharvah Kanyaah Naamaadhipatih Labhaami

Dev-dattaam Kanyaam Suroopaam Salaankaaraam Tasmei Vishvaav-sarva Namah
||

Each day chant the Mantra with the same rosary. The number of chantings
must be calculated according to the number of days from Monday to the full
moon day.
In the night of full moon chant five extra rounds and tie the amulet around your
waist. Place the Siddhi Chakra at home in the place of worship.

There are many more Sadhanas related to quick marriage that shall appear in
the future issues of the magazine. What ever be the type of Sadhana if it is
used for a good and pure cause then one surely attains to success.

Poornna Grihasth Sukh Prayog

For happy married life

Marriage means the coming together of a man and woman from two different
backgrounds. Their thoughts might be different, their habits might be different
but they have to live together and make the marriage a success. But many
times there are quarrels and differences which result in bitterness.

If there is tension in the house one is not able to do things which one has
planned. The ancient texts state - Very lucky is the person who gets a good and
cooperative spouse in life.

Some times the tension due to the differences become so unbearable that
married life seems to be a burden, progress in life stops and one becomes
frustrated. Such a situation is not favourable for either life partner.

In such a situation Sadhana is the only means of attaining a balance and

harmony in married life. Through it married life could be made more happy,
successful and peaceful. When the thinking of two persons is in harmony then
life surely is peaceful.

Try this Sadhana on a Monday. It is better to try this Sadhana in the months of
Kaartik, Maargsheersh or Sharad. One can continue chanting one round of
Mantra every Monday.

In the night of a Monday at ten start the Sadhana. If the Sadhana is

accomplished at midnight then it proves even more rewarding. One needs 21
Maayaa Beejs, five Kaamya Prayog Siddh Siddhiphals and a rock
crystal rosary for this Sadhana. Keep these articles ready before starting the
Sadhana. Once you have started the Sadhana do not get up from the seat.

One also needs rice grains dyed yellow with turmeric, an oil lamp and red cloth.
With vermilion draw a circle and in its centre write Kleem. All around it place
the five Kaamya Siddhi Phals. Then in another circle place the 21 Maayaa
Beejs. Meditate on the form of Kaamaakshi Devi and pray to her to give
success in married life. Make a mark of vermilion on each Maayaa Beej. Then
chant the following Mantra 21 times each time offering rice rains on one
Maayaa Beej. Also with each chanting pickup the rice grains and Maayaa Beej
and throw behind yourself over your shoulder.
Dhaam Dheem Dhoom Dhoorjateh Patnee Vaam Veem Voom Vaagdheeshwaree.
Kraam Kreem Kroom Kaalikaa Devee, Shaam Sheem Shoom Me Shubham Kuru.

Offer saffron on each Siddhiphal and also offer rice grains and vermilion. Each
time chant the Mantra. Then picking each Siddhiphal put it in a clean cloth
chanting the Mantra. Tie the cloth and place it under your bed. This is a very,
easy ritual. By chanting the Mantra regularly one can make life even more
peaceful and happy.