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PUA & SOCIAL SKILLS
Written by Dr Perry
Barnes
How to suddenly Get Girls,
Become a PUA and Find
Yourself Approaching easily
Copyright Perry Barnes 2008 All Rights Reserved in
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I am admiting that I always get kinder like a kid in a sweet store when one of my
newest books comes from the publishers. I think i'll be patient and serious,
anticipating tearing open the box until I'm nearly in the back door and start
reading it from front to reviews, expecting that it create as much of an
improvement to anyone who reads it immediately as I did think it shall when I
sent off the last editing.
As my version of Muse Method: PUA and Social Skills jumped into my porch, I
had relief and delight, and the early compliments suggest that this is the finest
hour and most completely usable book. No big Amazon campaign here, but I do
want to include added value to someone who download the book and express
special appreciation for these of you who accept to share it with your families,
works, colleagues and true friends.
Lean back, relax, and dance the fandango - the life you totally transform could
just be your own...
Who lies more, men or women? (who ACTION more, men or women?)
Do you think men really understand what a woman wants and needs?
The Oceans in the world... what are the names of them all?
(continents)
My friend's gf goes out to bars and kisses girls for fun is that cheating?
(2 part) I ask because he's getting annoyed about it and saying he's going
to kiss other girls. Girl, is my finger not on the pulse of men. So u
think its ok and he's too emotional.
I Like you and i'm going to get to know you, Tell me about yourself
(direct)
Give a reason why you are asking, either as part of the question or be
ready to explain why
e.g. “me and my friends were talking about it and we couldn't decide”
I ask girls outside the city about the oceans of the world and they asked
what the f**k are you asking me that for and don't respond much. Inside
The City women make all of the conversation for you with this opener. Its
perfect. In fact many times I open with “what are the 5 oceans called”
she doesn't know the answer. So I ignore her and she re-starts the
conversation. I Get her Number 5 minutes after.
Situational Openers: look around and find something you can ask a question
about, an open question, which requires her to talk for 30 seconds to 1
minute. e.g. standing in the supermarket queue, “hey I just have a second,
which is the best brand of cigerettes to buy?” hb: “why?” “because I
usually smoke with others I don't buy them so i'm not sure which are the
best” > follow with your 2nd routine.
PS: juggler says a person usually doesn't listen to what you say to start
a conversation. They are checking your voice, clothes, attitude, how you
make them feel. Often when I Open with the same openers I always use I
make my voice deep, smooth and relaxed because I realise this makes more
sets hook. Its Like standard opener hooks 4/10 sets + good body language
6/10 sets + good voice 8/10 sets. This is why you must do many many
openers because you become aware of what works and keep doing it. I was
tired once, I opened a set and not well. Then after I realised my body
language wasn't right, or my voice wasn't great, or that she didn't speak
english. Often in cities 2/10 sets don't speak english very well. An
experienced pua realise this and adapt. Change your opener. Make it
visual, one of my openers is “does my hair look better up or down?” and I
move it up and down (Muse Exclusive), this makes a girl giggle, because
she's telling you how She likes you.
Cs vs Us (smiles)
Use Openers to Hook: Mystery said Use 3 or 4 openers until the set opens.
It does work from my experience. If you have 3 openers in your memory
then Use Them until she starts talking. Ploughing is another community
principle which is similar.
Hook Point: (Style's term) is when she likes you more and is staying to
talk with you. Capture Her Attention. She can Become Interested on the
opener, the hook routines or the comfort routine. Maybe She Likes You and
she becomes interested when you Kiss Her. With Practice you shall notice
the hook point and realise which stage you are at.
The Cube:
Big Mind Big Heart: (Most Unique Routine) Muse is the 1st PUA to Use This
Controller
Skeptic
Protector
Seeking Mind
Video Demonstration:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zT9y1YEUjy0
Handwriting Analysis
Muse Favourites:
Horoscopes and Star Signs: Grab a newspaper (free ones in london), Open to
the Star Signs page and Put in your Pocket. After the hook point routine
ask “what's your star sign?”. From Here you have several options, you can
read it to her in normal voice or your bedroom voice (both options have
benefits). You Read her Star Sign and laugh which Makes Her Curious, then
let her have it. She may ask your star sign which you can extend with
“guess” or Tell Her it if she doesn't ask.
Poetry: Write a poem about her, with her or Read her a preprepared one.
They all fit into a women's romantic fantasy. You Become the Prince. If
its about her you show an understanding of her deeper than she expected,
you DHV with writing ability (not many guys can write poems) and she shall
probably keep it for some time. A girl phoned me after I wrote her a poem
and I didn't have her number until then. If you write a poem with her you
are teaching her something and sharing with her (kinder Like a couple). An
extra point is to do things together. She often wants guys to share
activities with her.
If you read a preprepared one then you can select the most romantic
amazing poem ever. I recommend this website:
http://eltiempohabitado.wordpress.com/poemas-en-ingles
or you can find poems with nlp in them which have a slightly stronger
effect. An nlp poem usually wont Make a girl jump on you (it can), its
one part of the seduction process. A poem, play a guitar song for her,
massage her and dance with her then She's likely to jump on you. Complete
Type 07 in your phone and give it to her (Perry Barnes Exclusive Copyright
2009). The idea is that she will start saying the number in her head. 07
643 987 22 because its automatic to remember all your phone number when
you say the 1st part.
If you have been speaking for 5 minutes then an email is easier to get
than a phone number. If your 1st email is good then you can get her from
there. “Do you have email?” is the David D. phrase. He also suggests as
they are writing the email say “and Just write your number there too”.
This is my system and if you find an easier way then use that. I'm always
improving and I suggest you do too.
You can Make girls call you. If you talk to a girl for many hours every
day, which is easy with msn or skype; then one day you are not there. She
will often call you to discover where you are. This is assuming she
already has your number. So its a good idea to suddenly stop talking to a
girl sometimes, go and meet some more; always have lots of
friends/contacts.
Kiss
The Timing of the Kiss depends how you meet them. If you Meet them on the
train or bus then Kiss Them at the 3rd Location e.g. get off the bus or
train and Kiss Them at the bus Start or the train station.
Go for the Kiss 2 or 3 times. Girls want to Feel wanted, many are not
sure about their appearance and if a girl thinks logically about kissing
you when she has a boyfriend then She probably wont Kiss You. If You
Persistent with the Kiss or Kisses she will eventually give in. Its
natural and She Likes You.
Also I Read something Like this in a romantic novel (lol, yes i'm reading
one, its awesome research) written by a girl (of course).
“if a guy wants a girl then he goes to kiss her, and that's it”
on the afc days I had some girls hanging around me for ages and ages
waiting for me to Kiss Them and I didn't. stop it. Go to Kiss Every Girl
who seems to Like You on some level, of all ages, types and countries.
Thus Discover From Experience.
Good Routines:
I Like This one and her response can vary, depending on how much of a
player or a romantic she is. A Kisser said “not yet” then I kept quiet
for 20 seconds and said “i can't concentrate, if I kiss you then I can
concentrate on this” so we do. A girl who was a player said don't and I
continued anyway. Most nos a girl says are playing or logical, she wants
to kiss you and wants you to Make it Happen.
A Kiss which I do 2 or 3 times is to Get the Girl on your Lap (for example
she's sitting near and you pull her onto you quickly), sitting on top of
you. From Here its “Kiss?” if she does on the lips “you can do better
than that”. Then Kiss.
Fuck Her
Style's Line: “if I let you take me home, do you promise to feed me?”
she may not agree with you, if her body language shows she wants you then
proceed appropriately e.g. wait for her to complete work.
When you Invite Her to Your Place give a reason “you have to hear this new
cd” “come and listen to me play guitar, you can play harmonica” “i'm going
to cook for you” “i have a new tv and you have to test it with me”. The
attitude is Just Get Her To Your Place. You may find yourself using the
best method for you based on your situation, complete this part of the
process with something.
Hotels: these cost £40+ a night and they can make your seduction easier.
If your hb is married then you can't go her house, and the suggestion of a
hotel can trigger her romantic notions. Be quite direct about this “we
could get a hotel tonight, i'm working until 6pm”.
learnenglish@london.com
07963960499
You can say these at various times. The delivery is the best part. Pose
or smile to enhance them. A slow nodding of the head is cool and gets
them to agree unconsciously. When a comedian keeps a straight face while
telling a joke is a good skill to use. This makes you look “for real”.
would you like to write poem with me? (90% say yes to your dhv/reopener)
Specific Openers
Most of the time you can use the same 1, 2 or 3 openers for everything.
To give variety and better lines here are some specific ones I use
Charity Girl in the street: (stop, look at her like you are examining her
and say:) “you're pretty, u get 3 minutes”
>then she does her selling charity thing and you look not impressed
(looking into the distance) > use your own game from here
Be an Opportunist > Everything which comes your way is an opportunity to get girls
I remember using this attitude for a month and getting lots of success purely through this.
Examples: fit/hot girl walks into neighbour's house (I see from my window) > I walk in there with some
appropriate words and some alcohol, I give her attention (look at her/her bum), and when she goes to her car I
stand by the door in front of her, waiting for a kiss; she kissed her relatives on the cheek. Then me and her
tongue kiss and she says “oh” like it was an accident (lol).
Sit next to girls in the library/on the bus/on the train, things you need to know (where I get a travel card?
Anything Like This) > look around and ask a girl
(new neighbour moves in, take her a bottle of wine: paul janka idea I read after my experience)
(also where I lived recently wine cost 2 bottles for £4, wow!)
PS: these field reports are from when I started opening, up until recently. (about 2 or 3 years)
Awesome Attitude
There was a period earlier this year when I seemed to be around/with a new girl every 7days at the minimum.
Here’s what happened. Girl in the café, I harassed for 2-3 days with constant DHVs etc. I’d been hanging
around with another girl at the time & had heard the HB ask her friend if me & here were together. The other
girl in there said to me before I left one night “aren’t you going to wait for her”. So I waited until she came
back & asked if she wanted me to walk her home, yes. I waited around & thought I’d got a result here. Walked
her home & she says “I don’t want u to get wrong idea blah blah, just had LTR”. The total AFC I was tries to
persuade her as I knew she liked me (BL, body language). She says something like your totally gorgeous which
made me happy. I had other opportunities to follow up but turned up late one day & another day I went out
with the other girl who went funny with me. Bad choice. Note for future if there’s newest girl & other girl
go for newer girl. The fresher the meat the better your meal.
When the other girl went on holiday for a month, nlp charged up me says “I’m going to go out with every girl I
can before she gets back”. PS: should have kissed this girl before she went & was all “love you” with her.
Strange phase where I felt bad for not saying those words to Loved of Life. So I was dropping them in
everywhere. She did say she loved me too by email whilst on holiday. Anyway, at work a new woman started
& I found a way to talk to her (HB 9.5, age 29). I was making her drinks etc & she says “what r u doing
tonight” my quick reply “going out with you”. Surprised her. So we meet up outside, get the bus to her other
Sub plot: I’m going to compile any good emails or text messages I got this year from many techniques. So you/
me can see the technique & the responses.
My sister comes home with a friend who I immediately show interest in (hb7). She negs me I give her
compliments & kino loads (tickle, bra, hair). A point on kino is that do something she won’t complain about &
then something she would usually. What I mean is bra strap comes after tickle her feet. Poke her stomach
before pinging knickers. So anyway, I’m sitting on a bar stool next to the side (sideboard) & I pull her onto my
lap which she’s cool with. Sister walks out (nice one) & we watch TV. I kiss her on lips by saying something
& then say “is that it” (romantic). This took about 30 minutes by the way, so it’s possible. I kiss her then we go
into front room & watch TV I escalate kino further. Other sister comes back so we leave each other alone. In
fact I ignore & insult hb as if nothing ever happened. I offer to walk her to bus stop & kiss her whilst waiting
some more.
She had a boyfriend which is another plus. I text her during week & her boyfriend saw it. I told him to fuck off
via text a few times. She comes round again & her boyfriend has given her an iffy time which she forgot. End
of.
Another new girl at work (ha ha, fresh meat to carve) who I bothered for days especially with kino. Kino note:
Just this without even speaking gets you closer to goal/person. Have you noticed that people often move their
feet reflecting their state of mind or as reactions. One I do is when a girl lifts up her foot (IOI) then quickly put
your foot underneath. She steps on your foot & this is a switch. They then realise that they can’t hide their
attraction for you which creates relaxation & speeds up the process. Remember that attraction is kinaesthetic:
words have to be converted into feelings. Touch does not.
This girl I got to the “where are you going stage” & during that lunch break some 60 year old woman tried to
block said “what’s going on here” so I started chatting her up. “All those love letters & poems I keep sending
you” I said something like this. E.g. any obstacles, go with the flow. Me & the main girl start passing notes to
each other which I keep for a while as a reminder. She turned me down in this note but I acted like no wasn’t a
possibility & got her to agree for us to go out that night. We went to the supermarket which according to PU
advice is far better than a restaurant. I lent her my jacket (romantic textbook) & kinoed repeatedly. We get
near her house & she tells me she’s with someone. I stand around AFCing for something. Which I did very
well despite it being AFCish. She tells me she doesn’t want to kiss as it would mean a lot to her. Female
insight there: girls often avoid kissing etc as it means a lot to them. So push on as I did anyway. However, use
PU & nlp stuff as opposed to just persistence (although that is good). E.g. what would it feel like if you kiss
me? So I get her to agree to a kiss on the lips which I knew may be more. So we did & just caught the inside
part of her lips.
primary hb has been not easy to arrange meeting with so i level with her
as i heard Zan suggesting
"there must be somewhere you will go, and where is that?"
PS: i'm finding that every hb has an exact criteria for meeting a guy,
even if he is much higher value than her,
she still will only meet in certain conditions e.g. arrange meeting 7 days
in advance, call her not text her, things like this
then i follow with "because i'm such a dating guru expert, i know if we go
for a drink you would be uncomfortable, so let's do....."
anyway i'm really persistent
and i poke her bum (no resistance, there often was lol), i kiss her hair
and eventually as i'm leaving i kiss close her (Yes!)
and we have a date to see Dylan Moran or to go Camden Market (cool)
she is sitting at her email all day and i prepared this also by sending
her several emails
(convo on msn with hb abouther writing me a poem (i edited it and removed
shit test lol), me telling hb my rules by email and technique for instant
orgasm)
Smooth Reality
Open with Good Body Language, always side on. Niece's teddy bear, Cs vs
Us.
Waited a while then did the Cube & hb loved it, she was really excited.
Apparently a relative had just died so i explained a nlp technique to get
over grief. (in a cafe where they know me)
Some guy is there bothering the girls, he's pissed & swearing at them &
wont leave. I weren't that bothered until he swore at me then i got a bit
annoyed.
However = Opportunity to demonstrate the protecting female dhv Mystery
talks about.
So i grabbed him, chucked him out (threw him) & he still wont leave. He
was trying to get past me at the door. So i'm shouting in his face “go
home now” & he's telling me to eff off. I was tempted to hit him but i
walked into the cafe closed the door & lent against it & he came back. So
we got the pigs because i wanted to go home. & told them he had a knife
so they would actually turn up. The fuck pigs got rid of him but didn't
hang around, so i did.
I did my lift the girl up & spin her which works well & i recommend it.
Something i've been doing with groups is shifting focus, i suddenly
takeaway on a hb & give another one so much attention that she's smiling &
happy which the others notice & pull me back.
I did the cold reading takeaway which worked great & she was begging me to
read her palm to which i kept changing the subject. & she never caught on
that i couldn't do it, because of course the others social proofed my
psychic abilities due to the Cube
= 0
The funniest moment was when the drunk guy was banging on the door and i
was leaning against it, i did the alpha “come here” with my hand, you
know, the matrix thing. She came over & i gave her a Thumb war which they
loved and it was like the drunk wasn't even there.
By this point the 2 girls are competing over me and kino was easy &
natural. I couldn't believe i had a couple of 8.5s competing over me.
(i'm leaning back on the chair and they both standing there with ways to
impress me, lovin it) That's the strength of pua material i suppose.
I've found with “how old are you” that completely dodging the answer is
the best thing for me. Guess. Hmm close. Then i pretended 1 had it
right although she was no where near. “who do you think is prettier”
she's a 7/10 but i'm (the author) a 9/10. Well her eyes are better but
your smile is better.
We then move onto talking about relationships with me talking like a total
girl. Which by the way actually makes sense if you do it for a while.
They talk a different language but it means something to them. The J.D.
Fuentes book the Sexual Key has helped me get a grip on this idea. It
explains the difference between male & female thinking and how hbs always
think in emotions where as we think practically.
She says something like “so you like hbnew then” bit upset sounded. So i
say You're too clingy, i don't want a long term relationship, you're like
a stick on garfield. Then they started punching me which was fun (owch).
Anyway i needed a toilet & some guy turned up + hbeyes starts work at the
cafe tommorow.
DHVs
before i found the game i'd realised that depending on how you describe
things you look good or bad.
She sometimes can prompt you into DHVs:
Do you like kids?
Tell a story about a kid you know. I used to mention the kid next door &
how he'd come in & play video games & then i'd add a bit about how i help
him with his homework (i'll be a good dad is the point)
(on some level every hb is checking how you relate to kids, have stories
prepared. You probably helped a kid some time in your life)
i was working a volunteer job once & would change the details to suit the
hb.
i was either teaching there, in the youth centre (dad dhv again) or
helping a wonderful charity.
So look through your life & write a dhv for each area, and they are:
hbs r always checking for this stuff so prepare ur answers & practise
replying these ways
Muse
(I posted this on one of the forums and the instructor said Muse gives
you all the information, that's making it too easy. LoL, different ideas
of what a great teacher is I think.)
Number Close
I see girl i know and really like walking the other way. I divert
completely and cut her path off “Karma?” (cool name). It is her. Aint
seen this girl for 6 months & she the electronics shop girl. “where you
going” “to get some ice cream” “can i join you?” “sure”. We go get ice
cream & i chat up the girl behind counter which karm enjoys. I teacher
DHV mentioning pay which amazes her. I ask her to walk me to the train
station so i'm on time for licao. I continue with B. Institute and my
values behind it (my website/college I use as dhv then and still can).
She stops walking to hear this and then continues to train station with
me. I look in a shop purposely and say “bloody shop” & she goes i bet
there's some girl you like in there. PS: fake body language or purpose
looking is always taken as honest so use it.
I start telling her a PU line as part of the Shop Girl story to show
Player status. She says best line she's heard is “your ugly, do you want
to go out with me”. She says she turned that guy down so i told her the
line is therefore crap. Might test it though. One of the PUAs lifts
girls up on his shoulder & carries them off. I did this last year a lot
as it seemed to show off strength etc. I did it to this girl as i'm
testing old stuff. She seemed to like it & i remarked “yeah, you have
lost weight”. I dropped in stuff like “Where are you taking me?” she
replies don't understand so I “i'll give you a moment to think about it”.
The basis of this is, unconscious hears everything so you don't need to
make sense, just trigger her attraction switches.
I give her my business card & pull out another BC (the back of) & lean on
my wallet. I give her my pen & she don't respond. So I ask “do you use
the left or the right hand?” & i put the pen in her right hand. She
writes it for me & I ask “do you want some business cards?”. I then said
“can you write your name/draw a picture because i'll forget who it is
otherwise”, she writes “me” on the card. Cool. So I break off the
I ask “is that an excuse” & she states “no”. I say “hmmm, walking around
with your cold sore, an interesting sharing thing”. She's edging away
(back to work, manager) so i smile and goodbye.
Other stuff: I've been using the card trick i showed rafa (8 year old
girl. Hey, it works with one girl, it works with all girls). PS: it's
great. I used it to give someone my business card the other day. & used
it as an opener. I tested the card levitating trick on someone and it
worked (cool as its simple). The coin pocket trick is good but my trouser
pocket makes it 50% effective. I did the palm reading by explaining i had
read a book about it so i got the kino through testing. “you did worried
about the health of friends but are less concerned with your own” (ha ha
ha). Also I realised a good kino is “how do I feel for someone's pulse?”
That girl gave me the practise.
Also sometimes girls give loads of IOUs yet refuse questions for whatever
reason. Forget these and grab another target nearby. Also if you show a
girl enough interest she sometimes e.g. 1 in 20 starts talking to you. No
can opener needed.
In café. Mixed up the few tricks that I know. I did ESP, then think of a
number and then coin disappearing trick. I messed up all 3 but still got
loads of IOIs and them asking for more. I’ve been spurred on by another
guy in the café who really talks like a PUA. He calls the girls guys,
talks about his “relationship” with every girl there, talks like a girl (I
told her & she must have told you). He walked in other day & says I just
had a massage. The women’s ears perk up & IOIs. How much was it? A
pound a minute for 60 minutes he says. Girl asks “was she beautiful?”. I
like this guy & I’m going to steal every routine he has. I consider
walking up after massage talk & asking girls for massage. Blow him out of
water.
We change trains, she hangs behind me & there’s a gap next to me. I turn
to her & say “I saved a space for you”. We get on train & she casually
walks near to me with back to me. I poke her and just smile when she turn
round. I also flick her hair. I keep teacher talking “do you love
teaching?” she asks (typical question). We talk about nutrition & she
explains something I don’t know plus vice versa. She writes something
down & I put my arm around her in fake support. I also wrote name on BC
as she was playing with it. I also saw a girl half look at me & said “all
these girls looking at me, I’m not an object you know, I have feelings”.
I don’t think I complimented her once on her looks which is something I’m
improving on. As I get off I say “stop calling me” and jump off. Time
distortion with the trains is a great asset I realised. Me make use of
this again. (get her email in this situation or phone number if you have
more experience)
Later in day I open 3 set girls in café with Men or Women. I get some
mild response to this and say “I’ll let you get back to your
conversation”. I turn to PC and they go completely quiet, no sound. 5
minutes later and they start talking about Who lies more and only that.
Cool. So I re-enter with “your going to write a book on it aren’t you?”
and this time I get deeper conversation, including with HB9 who wasn’t my
original target. I turn back & one sits close to me whilst others are
quiet. She didn’t give any IOIs apart from this. & I wasn’t sure how to
follow up & I wanted them to open me. Which I thought was going to
happen. Also I was meeting someone in 5 minutes so I thought we could
join them. Anyway, I hadn’t opened a 3 set before. Rock on. (always
notice how you are improving and ask yourself what you could do better
next time)
At train station other day I approach 2 girls with BCs & they turn them
down although I was funny/persistant (I waited till BFs had left before
this). So my new response to mild rejection is open next available girl.
MenWomen? Drag out answer, talk about dress sense. What should I wear?
(asking women about dress sense is a gold topic, depending on the girl she
may neg you, if so ignore her for 3 minutes) Did loads of stuff on this.
10 minutes conversation and we get on train at same door but we got
separated, boo. Finding that rapport is useful. I copied this girl’s
movements using peripheral before approach & it happens great.
Train
I was on a train about a year ago and I sat next to a HB 10 and she seemed
interested. So interested that she was staring directly at me the way
blokes do. I was on a female high from that teaching course where I was
chatting up 5 of them & swapping round. I didn’t look at her that time.
But I crushed an empty can of coke in my hand which I do sometimes for
grip strength & attention. (this is a good routine in a darwinist kinder
way, it gets iois: you do it casually Like Everyone does it, then put on
the table as you read a book or throw at the girl so she has to catch it)
She then looks straight at me and I look at her in the eyes. This was a
kissing moment and I asked myself afterwards should I have kissed her.
Answer: yes. Before I get off train she starts reading a Dating book.
PS: they start reading books to give you excuse to talk to them. (muse
exclusive: they read books to give you a reason to open them, they know
the social rules better than us sometimes, until we learn from them. Its
the same when they look through their handbags>>> looking for something to
grab your attention)
So always do openers if you get IOI like this. I say “you don’t need that
book” She “my friends bought it for me as a joke, look”. The book has a
message inside the cover from her friends. Muse “good sense of humour”
she laughs hysterically but that was my station so I got off (when I
should have got off with her)
I’ve kinder had the belief for ages that I’m a 10 because of stuff like
that. I can attract some girls better than anybody. Remember your
statement of “you compared yourself to others, you now think what can I do
that only I can do”. (yes I nlp it). I’m sure you can remember a many
times when you have do things like this. Write them down… wood
inflection. Where’s your field reports? Engineer yourself .
Later in day i sit next to HB because i'm using, her mate pissed me
off/turned me down as motivation. I use Men or Women then move to Spells &
compliment her necklace, BC, teacher & ask her opinion on it. Leave it.
Come back with ESP & next trick which she ask me to wait moment. I got
lots of kino in (poke thigh, arm & hair flick). You know the complience
test with grabbing hands. I think poking & hair flick is the same & what
i've used for testing.
I poked her on arm repeatedly at one point & she ignored me for 5 seconds.
This is big IOI (enjoying attention). When she turned round from that i
looked in her eyes & smiled then flicked her hair. She went off with
friend but set up nicely for language patterns next time.
hey perry, hows it goin babe feel free to drop me a line for a chat
im always here
Not exactly super impressive but i've sent 5 messages to this girl
including on the site & got Email Address & agreement on future meet. I
think the formula is correct that's why including it. e.g. be cocky, say
how great you are, tell her to meet you where you already are anyway (that
one works. always arrange meetings that way).
Several stuff
He gets off the train & I start again, really confident smiling, good
tonality. My state is getting a much better with this stuff. I’ve also
found that the Curious state is great for PU. “I’ve just got to know what
will happen here”, become addicted to knowledge. I ask where she’s from
(I couldn’t find an English bird if I tried) & she’s a French. Stops & I
do my big harmonica/Bandler enhanced breathing all around her (pheromones
in your breath can automatically attract girls, breath in their direction
and make it look Like a deep breath: after I learned this technique a
brazilian girl did it to me, then I do it to her and she becomes glassy
eyes and moves really near to my lips). I think unconsciously (no I
don’t) that girls know what a big breath means. Test this: do a massive
relaxing inhalation near a girl & watch how they react. I then drop
teaching into conversation as my student is half French so I ask HB
(pencil) to teach me something so I can look good with student. She only
suggests bonjour/merci. I get off, as its my station & see her again as
we bumped into each other on platform. I say “bonjour”, she laughs.
She’s not at my bus stop: Fin.
I was great at the flirting stuff before PU & nlp but I’ve added to it.
Bandler & Teachworth (how fit was she?!) suggested the look from foot to
eyes as slowly as possible. I’ve added this as I used to stare at bum &
let them catch me (still good). & I guarantee that when you do this, even
if they had showed you no interest up until that point it flicks a switch
& gets them in the right state. You’ll see the switch as you reach their
face & something happens. Even if the girl is not looking at you this
works. I think the peripheral/unconscious has plenty of time to PU on you
looking at them. It’s great = 9/10.
I’ve had 2 or 3 times where I’ve been doing PU most of the day to condense
into this report. I was counting how many & saying it out loud as to help
me e.g. “4”. Approach anxiety has been massively reduced due to my
intense efforts on some days. I have been filling in gaps in my game.
For example as soon as I get on a bus on train I now position myself next
to a HB. You can move nearer once you’ve sat down but I think this better
& you can make it automatic. From here you can choose whether to speak to
Some guy was suggesting that you should go to the supermarket and walk
along every isle (with a basket & food). See a HB & approach only asking
for the time. Do this every day for a week. I thought the time thing is
ok and his idea is that you use your state, posture & smile to induce them
into talking with you. Hmmm, interesting. So, the next day I went back
to my blatant openers & did them more confidently. I got better
reactions. This sounds like a great one for you as you buy shopping (or
can) most days. Even at your local supermarket. After a week AA will be
dead & you will find out just through persistence what you have to do to
get a number/kiss close in that environment. I will really appreciate the
feedback from that one.
Have used “who lies more, men or women” about 10-15 times. They stop &
think for 30 seconds so it really helps make you comfortable & you can ask
“why, do you lie a lot?” Also they suggest lying is bad, so I say the
circumstances when its not. I get the fair point nod. Use this one it is
great.
Sub topic: some girls understand nlp. Another nice OW a while back
replied “Pleasure” when I said thanks for the time. & she knew what she
was saying. Big smirk in both cases e.g. you basically have her if she
says this. Just keep the conversation going. Which by the way I didn’t
but I’m in training so I’m going to. (women have key words which they use
when they want sex with a guy “elegant” “pleasure” “smooth” “romantic” if
they say a certain word with no reason for it in the conversation then
they want you, act accordingly)
Remember it’s not necessary to become more & more fascinated with me.
Have you ever met someone & felt like you’ve known them for years & the
more you talk… (they interrupted me here). Then I pulled out a typed up
poem I had for another woman I met last week. I wrote the poem the 1st
day I met her in 10 minutes & just included lots of things from our
conversation & complemented her almost identically to another poem I wrote
a year ago. Making the best of what I had I showed it to the girls & said
do you like it/do u think she'll like it (all innocent) I wrote it for her
& she hasn’t seen it yet. They both love it 7 this nicely followed on
from the command as they have something to be interested in. I think they
work well together.
I come back again & ask what time one of the girls finishes as the other
one had gone. She says 4.30 (its 12.30) So I said I’m going before then.
Then I get all the IOIs going, name, live, work here etc? Shame about the
time they leave work but I have this information for another day & so do
you if you want to go in there.
I go to see the HB 9 & she’s an OW at the Polish café near where I live
(there’s a Portuguese café in Ilford). Armed with the typed up poem & the
original I went to the café but bought a Krishnamurti book on the way.
Showed her my advert translated into polish to show that I’m friends with
polish, plus it’s a teaching DHV.
Used It’s not necessary to… & Have you ever & If I want to be as beautiful
as you how do I do it. (muse exclusive: direct opener> if I want to be as
beautiful as you, how do I do it? This works very well if you are already
seen as high value or if hb has low value) Answer: Just be yourself. I
almost melted at that answer = no oneitis, stop it. I loaded on the
compliments which as you put it, married women want attention, so give
them loads. Didn't neg here. Said some stuff in polish = DHV. I decided
to learn 10 words of every language as it makes people happy especially as
I’m English but I’m sure a polish will be surprised when you speak their
language.
Sat at my computer with the Jeffries cards & sent a woman a confident DHV
suggestion filled email including “what would it feel like if we suddenly
had sex” & I got a yes response to that bit. She invited me for a date at
the end of the e-mail so this stuff works. Add the Zebu & Jeffries cards
to you desktop & open one when emailing, or applying for a job, or for
your CV or when talking on the phone. (when learning nlp language patterns
this is an excellent technique> Take Classes With Muse for language
pattern training)
Sub plot: one of my new techniques which I copied from girls (who do this
so much) is to ask for help with something. See the previous report for
example of this from a girl. Test it. Excuse me, I’ve just come over
from Portugal. How do you use this money? (has to be done seriously or
smiling. Speak as well :} (blatant openers = muse exclusive > open with
something which is obviously a lie to meet her. Then 10 seconds later she
realises you want her and she sometimes reopens you, or lets your reopen
her very easily)
This girl gave me her email because I didn’t get on the IM quick enough.
Email, nice. I got another reply like “well the prize goes to you for the
best email xxx”. I got into a discussion about Family Guy that went quite
well for 3 or 4 messages & the initial mail back from her was good. Some
other girl put me on her favourite list (1st one) because we’re both Queen
fans. This seemed more appropriate to talk about than using the Jeffries
opener. I was looking for something to talk about & if nothing I used
Jeffries. Another girl HB 9 was so up her self in her profile & her
pictures which I saw as an opportunity to neg. & my gods did I neg. I
criticised Everything I could & with that profile I look proper alpha.
She had a tongue stud so I said Do you need that to get a boyfriend (LOL
brilliant, I must use this again: muse exclusive lol), etc? She replies
What’s your problem blah blah?
So I adapt the Spells opener & say can you help me, has this happened to
you, you look quite intelligent (this line is awesome, “you seem quite
intelligent” “you look quite intelligent but” I use this in every sarge),
I don’t know what to do. I got back the most helpful message you’ve ever
heard. Really nice, informative & complimented me a bit But also said
Intelligent: people always say that to me. But I got some xxxx at the
end. What a perfect example of negging. I felt a bit funny negging like
that but I thought it would be fun to see what happened. Good attitude
for PUA.
Was supposed to be meeting that girl she didn’t turn up, I got a text 4
hours later but she’s gonna have to grovel or F off. I did PU all day.
New openers: TC (time constraint = always include) “do you know the time
in Portugal?” Why? “because my friend has just moved there & I don’t want
to wake him up” (muse exclusive). This girl talked to me for about 20
minutes so you’d be buying the drinks if we were playing. She was really
interested n I explained the business & went to recruit her. She took BC
with website on. I hanged around when her friends came for a bit.
I did a blatant opener right outside the café “Where’s Earl’s Court
Station” she laughed & I acted seriously “I’m missing my eyes today” I
then complimented her.
“do you know when the bus/train is coming” use this. By the way Marco
went on Amazon today & bought Hannibal (because I wouldn’t shut up about
it) for £1.34. Seriously man & £1 postage on top. I want some of that
site. They also had the new Hannibal Rising book for £2.43 or something.
Mental. Also I almost always kino before I ask the openers as it makes
them more effective e.g. attention etc. (put your the back of your hand on
I saw some older woman I really like the look of at the newspaper stand &
did a “what is the best paper to buy” opener. (blatant openers copyright
perry barnes 2009 all rights reserved in all media) I am then generally
an upbeat sort of optimist. & said “thank you young lady” older women
absolutely love this (conpliments are the key to older women: muse
exclusive). Age regression, does he think I’m young, is it a compliment,
does he like me etc.
Just looked in my coat pocket & o que em dia homem. There was a girl
giving me IOIs at the train station & I sat next to her on the train. It
felt like she was trying to demonstrate her personality (going in the
handbag) this is a big IOI by the way. She got a book out - “desculpe, só
em segundo. What on earth is that book about?”. Good length
conversation, me DHVed with film making, Hungarian film guy & my script.
She’s going to be in a theatre production in August. She wrote all the
details on a bit of paper for me (jacket pocket). Might be interesting.
Remember, there were old stupid beliefs in our heads from lots of years of
various stupid people. There are always things to change, modify or
adapt. I’m thinking about the situations that I still believe its
impossible to approach & figuring out solutions as we communicate.
New new new: (writing this 7 days later) A girl approached me today &
asked for help with her computer (heard this one before). She wants help
sending an e-card. I kino a bit & am being funny (no compliments). I
half went to walk away & I got the “stay stay stay” thing (different
words, but the voice urgency is the key component). What’s your name, how
old are you, where do you live (IOI limited plc). Her brother appears &
she tells him that I’m really funny. I say I’m 24 & she makes some
comments about not wasting my time & that I’m a little boy. Hmmm. In the
past I would have got pissed off with but Perry Bandler is tired of that.
After a bit more help I say “I’m busy so, this little boy is going over
there to teach that guy English” she says are you an English teacher? (ha
ha ha) “then at 5 o clock this little boy is meeting some Hungarian film
maker because I’m his screenwriter for his new film. Unfortunately no one
taught me about limitations, so I just do everything”. (if a women negs
you make her comments laughable, logically crush her statements: she wants
a strong guy so give her yourself: for examples of how to do this Watch
Bill Hicks)
Also, on the bus the other day I used “can I get a quick female opinion,
who do you think lies more, men or women”. The girl gave me IOIs at bus
stop. I sat in front of her on bus & turned round. 1st time I’d used
this opener & I was a bit funny about using it. As usual it went great.
We spoke most of the journey (45 minutes), when we got to the shopping
centre she went a different direction (ASD). Not my type + if we had
bumped into each other again at the shopping centre it would have been
Destiny. E.g. always take every opportunity.
New openers: “excuse me, JGAS, what colour are the buses in this country”?
Yes, I got some varied responses from this. From 1 funny look, to a
giggle but it was all good practise. I approached a 2 set in a café with
this one & they were very helpful but she asked “your accent sounds
English, are you being funny with us”? I replied “it must be where I
learned my English” LOL.
I asked when on a train platform walking towards the Central Line “do you
know where the central line is”? her & her friend told me. Then I
followed up with “by the way, fantastic legs”. She got a bit hair flicky
over that. I told another girl that her legs were fantastic which started
1 minute conversation.
The best response of the day was from a girl sitting next to me on the
train. I got IOIs & then asked “do you know how warm it is today”? I
used this opener a few times today. It is good. She was smiling and
seemed really interested. I kinoed her a few times and then found out she
was Lithuanian. I made a comment about me being handsome. When you state
On female student: I used “it is not necessary to become more & more
fascinated with me It is just quite likely”: good response. I really like
this command as it sounds very natural & is easy to slip in.
What a day. Hope this advances you a many much. Remember your
unconscious now (hee hee) processes difficult questions whilst you do
something else. So if you stuck on coursework then go do some pickup.
Had a very good & slightly funny day today. Let me explain.
1st to is mention is that I used “when’s the sun coming out today” the
other day & then followed up with a compliment like “wow, your eyes are
amazing, can you look at me every now & then as a replacement for the sun”.
These are the type of compliments I used to do but I’m bringing them back
as girls love this level of attention. (especially older women and cafe
girls: muse exclusive) Also, using these types of compliments makes your
whole life easier. The job centre for example, is a place I use this sort
of stuff. They make them feel great & thus you as well. Test this on the
1st suitable girl you see. It’s recommended that you already know the
person but not necessary. An example is “by the way, great dress sense”
you can if you want follow up with “wow, & you have really nice eyes as
well”.
Ponder that no one is blatantly nice to people & so these score a direct
hit.
Right, back to my very good but slightly funny PU. I met this girl 2
months ago when I was teaching the Italian girl. I got her interested
quickly & gave her my business card. She emailed me a month later & asked
if I could help with her computer. I recently emailed/text everybody with
the opener “can I ask you a quick question”. I got 2 good responses at
the time e.g. use this one. (intrigue openers: sometimes hbs reopen you
from these, in fact they have to reopen you for the conversation to
continue>>> and how does a girl feel when she opens a guy? She is 90% of
the time wanting you when she replies to these) She however, replied
yesterday although I didn’t know, so she phoned me & said remember me, do
you want to meet & I said tomorrow. She sounded keen (surprising given
I meet her today armed with my guitar as I had suggested this ages ago &
she plays. So we meet, sit outside, suggestions are flying about & I’m
thinking ultra-snazzy. Then we play some guitar & harmonica, I did some
major DHVing. I am almost a master at this area. (DHVing is one of my
strongest points>> Take a PUA Course with Muse to Learn This £10 an hour
07963960499) I used teaching, website, tons of useful information, being
alpha etc. She gets really into this & says something like “oh my god you
are a total genius, I am so lucky to have met you, you’re gonna write
books & I can say that I knew you”.
Fecking heaven man, I’m like, how the fuck am I doing so well. Don’t
relax yet there is a stupid ending to this story. This isn’t surprise of
the year.
So me and her are getting on great she’s like “I can’t believe how much
fun I’m having”. I was digging her on almost everything she said but she
liked it alot. I was also inserting the fantastic command “oh yeah, he’s
like me a lot”. Bandler uses this one so much & we wonder why we like him
so much. I think that the conscious mind takes this as cocky which
everyone loves, so it’s really easy to use i.e. I compare everyone to how
great I am. She was giving me loads of kino & was enjoying me doing it to
her.
Then came the shit tests/IOIs. These things cross over a bit I think.
“how old are you, where do you live, do you live with your sister, do you
want kids”.
The other shit test she dropped (like it’s hot) was “you’ve got that bad
back from too much sex”. I confronted her with “nice test but I told you
I’m the one doing the tests”. Style suggests replying to sex shit tests
by saying “Respect” or with a high five or something like that. He said
something like “you lose with whatever you say on this type of test, so
say nothing” e.g. “Respect”. Passed the Kids shit test by talking about
Rafaela & how I annoy parents by making the kids happy.
I believe that I can create good answers for all of these & may have in
the past. E.g. I once used on a girl that I still live at home because of
looking after my mum as I had hit my step dad to protect her. Make the
best of what you have. You can explain how your family depends on you to
live in that house & to look after the kids, Vicky is 2 rafaela is 8.
This will be a great DHV good dad family man piece.
Then the Stoopid bit. She walks out & says “you’re too young for me”.
What the fuck?!?!? I stand up & look as I felt with a “you make as much
sense as a chocolate teapot” kind of look. The force of PUA kept me good
though. I pointed at my face & said “Kiss”. Use this one it’s great.
Also I really like “hands off the merchandise” & used it today. She
kissed my cheek & walked off. & by the way earlier in the day she subtly
suggested I should kiss her at the end of the date.
Anyway, work that one out. Could be a few things ASD (anti-slut defense),
she really likes me & doesn’t want to get involved, I got the shit tests
wrong. Anyway she needs me more than the other way round. & on the
bright side (of life) I got a fun day, loads of DHV n social proof, new
business, I did busking for the 1st time, I’m a certified Portuguese
(otimo). I asked a Brazilian recently “how was the concert & she replied”
Otimoooo.
Cool. I now believe that PU is the only way & what I mean is. Even if
everything is right girls can be stupid. I met the right one (ages ago,
not today) & she pretends I don’t exist (shutup afc and START LOL). So
what are you supposed to do? Become a master of the game/s I think. I
have a great album by the Game (rapper) & it quotes at the beginning “a
lot of people, are advocating that the rich get richer & the poor get
poorer. But that’s only because you don’t understand what’s going to
happen to you, you see, it’s all just a game ladies & gentlemen, & the
quality of your living depends entirely on your ability, to play the game.
& I play the game”
then > she number closed me in an afc way (lol) and arranged a date with me where she's giving me
alcohol and presents (lolx2)
i have been considering dating ugs/hb6s to help get hb8s and now i've decided its the way to go
i was in a cafe with a hb5 gf (i'm using her to learn portugues) and some hb8's were giving me iois
this is so surprising to me, that social proof or jealousy is such and automatic switch
that any quality of girl (if she's into you is perfect for this strategy)
i currently have 2 MLTRs who are hb6s (and a hb8)
i am going to, get 10 and use them to acquire more hbs
I kiss closed Tania the next day and meet her occasionally still and get
what I want. I reminded her of this conversation with Roberta when I met
her 7 days ago. She told me that Roberta said “listen tania can you
leave us alone” when the record clearly shows the opposite. Cool.
Micheal Neill:
Radio Show:
http://www.hayhouseradio.com/show_details.php?
show_id=24&episode_id=4410&episode_type=0&schedule_id=39769#
Website:
http://www.geniuscatalyst.com/
Jamie Smart:
http://www.saladltd.co.uk/
Useful Attraction or Comfort Routine: Works with 2 sets well too. If one
hb is giving more attention you Give her a slightly higher scores. This
pulls in the other one who may be your target.
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