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Relationship Advice For Women By Experts in the fields of Love, Romance and Relationships. At one time, your ex fell in love with you. There was no pressure of getting together with you. Really, there were no external pressures and the goodness that is you came shining through. Without worrying about anything else, your ex was able to see all your finest traits and attributes and fell in love with you. The good news is, your ex didnt suddenly stop loving your positive attributes. Circumstances in the relationship may have changed things, and led to a breakup. But you didnt change. No matter what it seems like now, your ex fell in love with your positive traits then and can fall in love with you again.

Are You Pushing Your Ex Away?

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by Annalyn Caras Everyday I receive emails asking why an ex is not speaking or is not exactly warm when they do speak. My first thought is are you pushing them away? I cover 10 ways you might be pushing your ex away in The Biggest Breakup Mistakes series. And heres one more way you might be pushing your ex away.

When You See Your Ex:

Remove all pressures. Dont talk about getting back together. Dont talk about the past. Pretend you are meeting for the first time (again!). And let your personality shine through. Believe me it will do wonders to alleviate the pressure your ex might be feeling and it just might provide the spark a new beginning with your ex. Take care until next time, and remember to keep those positive suggestions coming for future newsletters.

You might be unknowingly adding pressure when you speak with your ex.

Your friend, Annalyn Caras Win Back Love Annalyns got a great ebook on how to win back love how to get your ex back no matter WHAT
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Pressure and Your Ex

To explain how pressure might be pushing your ex away, lets go back in time.

happened to your relationship. Go take a look at Win Back Love and learn how to re-connect your relationship right here->> Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Does it feel like your whole world is about to come to an end? Or at least the your relationship. Do you take it personally, wondering what you did or said to cause this? I certainly have. Do you then try to fix things for him? All the while aching to have your man back, holding you, kissing you, loving on you. Yes Ive been there too. So this is what I suggest. Instead of fretting and then finding yourself spiraling down into that trigger fest abyss, instead try digging down deeply into YOUR healing. For this is YOUR lesson coming up for you in the messenger which is your man. And yes it will take some conscious and concerted effort initially to change this pattern in you, to learn to turn your focus away from him and back onto you where you will soothe you, love on you, and tell yourself ALL IS WELL. This too shall pas, and he WILL come back to as he was if not better than before and sooner than later because youve given him the space to do so. Youve released the pressure from off of him. Youve let go of expectations which allows him to recover all the more easily and quickly. You DO NOT want to try to make him feel better. You DO NOT want to try to smooth it over and make it all better for him. This is putting you into masculine energy, doing mode which you already know does not feel good. Not to you. Not to him. You would be in a word emasculating him. For this is HIS job, to fix things. You can smile at him though and tell him it seems as though hes upset or sad or angry. It must have been a trying day. And then you will go about your business, feeling happy, exuding good feeling energy, taking care of you. He will talk when hes ready, and you will LISTEN. Thats all; you will just listen. You CAN reassure him or better boost him a bit

How Much Can You Expect From Your Man When Hes Hurting?

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by Dominique How much CAN you expect from your man when hes hurting, upset, or stressed? In my experience, not much if any. You know how men really cannot multi-task? Well it applies here too. And probably more so. Women can put things away for awhile, push them to the side, especially when another person and more especially when someone she loves and/or cares about is hurting. But men dont seem to be able to do this so well. When they are absorbed in something, no matter what it is, thats pretty much their whole world until they are no longer absorbed. When hes hurting, its even more so. Similar to when you have looping thoughts which take you over, twisting, turning. Though maybe not quite the same. For women its more of an all consuming downward free fall. For men I would liken it more to a smothering, constricting, heavy blanket. When hes hurting, feeling bad, and/or under stress, his behavior changes, as Im sure you well know. And this can and does throw you big time. Can you feel the remnants of panic arising at just the thought from the last time this happened?

by telling him you feel confident he will solve his dilemma. And then you listen some more. If he asks for your input, exercise caution. Keep your words simple and short, and DO NOT offer to step in or help in any way. Or he may just fix his problem all on his own and not share any of it. Let him alone. Do not ask about any of it. Chances are better though that he will at least let you know what was what. So what do you do while hes in his mood, hanging out in his his cave? As I mentioned already, this is a wonderful time to learn to redirect the anxiety and fear which arises in most of you, for if you are here, you are more than likely a sensitive woman goddess. You FEEL others mood shifts, more acutely your mans. Your work here is to disentangle your feel good feelings from how he is or is not with you and from how he feels. And this can feel trying sometimes, a test of your will, a challenge for you to heal even more deeply and grow even bigger still. But this will bring you closer to him by clearing your thoughts and energy which only brings you more deeply intimate together. Yes of course you may very well find yourself feeling disappointed when he comes home in a mood. And yes especially in the earlier stages of your healing, you may very well feel scared, as though everything is falling apart. These patterns in you may not be completely eradicated. They havent in me, YET I have learned to put them in their proper place. Remember first of all that hes human too. He makes mistakes. He feels insecure. He has bad days, just like you. So expecting him to be all cheery and loving on you all the time is unrealistic and potentially dangerous to you and your well being. I understand this can feel frustrating, bad, frightening even. You may feel neglected, left out, alone, sad, trembly. You can regain balance by simply remembering his fallibility. And by knowing it will eventually pass. Just keep saying to yourself over and over that this is a temporary thing. And BREATHE.

And then I want you to remember when things felt better. Summon up images of him smiling at you, holding his arms out to you, holding you close, or whatever recent memories you have, those which make you feel safe and loved. Bring them vividly into your essence, in great detail, sights, smells, touch, taste. Keep them as close to your heart as possible. And then set your thoughts and heart AS IF its this way right now. For this is your TRUE reality. His off mood is a blip on the radar, not the whole radar itself. And go do something which you enjoy whether its in the home or out, reading, chatting on your favorite forum, cooking, taking a lovely,scented bath or shower, meditating, doing yoga, going to a dance class, anything which you feel good doing. When situations like these arise, they can feel a little dream like, kind of out of body, and the fears may still linger in the background, but it WILL help you feel better if you 1. remember his humanness 2. leave him be 3. summon up a really good feeling memory with him 4. and then turn around and take care of YOU. And when his mood passes, you can breathe a big sigh of relief and relax back into your lovely dream as reality. xxoo Dominique From The Editors: We love Dominique as a person, and think shes one of the best coaches around. Shes the ONLY coach we recommend to women who want to open their hearts and find their true selves in a deep emotional, physical, spiritual, sensual and sexual way. Start with her ebook Sex and Heart and then email her for coaching for your relationship-> Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now...
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What to Do When Rejection Rears Its Ugly Head

by Bobbi Palmer

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Here is the email I got from Jean this morning: Thanks, i needed that (insert imaginary slap in the face here). I AM acting like an 18yo. WTF? The guy texted me at 630 this a.m. just to say hi. When will I learn? BTW, there is a special place in heaven for you. Soin honor of Jean and all you who seem to be paralyzed or exhausted by the fear of rejection, this is for you: Remember when you were a child and the doctor gave you a shotand you screamed your bloody head off? You probably started to cry before the needle even touched your arm and, even though it only hurt for a second, continued to cry for minutes after. Now seriouslydid it really hurt that much? Of course not. Fast forward 30, 40, or 50 years and think about how horrible you feel when a man you like doesnt show interest, doesnt show up or drops you like a hot potato. Ouch! That feels crappy. But I ask you: Does it really hurt that much? Heres what I say about that: Girlfriend, you have slain way worse dragons in your life than a man not returning your interest. You have overcome enormous challenges in your life that dwarf the experience of being rejected by a man, especially one you barely know. I honestly think we girls like the drama and, sadly, some of us learn to be a victim. It starts with the shot as a child when that mean man is coming at us with a needle. It continues through our teenage years when a stupid boy doesnt like us or our mean girlfriends exclude us. We feel such pain. It haunts us as we move into our adulthood and, try as we might, the man-thing isnt working. (I felt a ton of sadness and cried many tears in my
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In the past couple weeks Ive had two spectacular clients realize theyre falling in love with the men they are dating. Im thrilled for them because each of their guys is one of The Good Guys. They are confident, smart and emotionally generous, and they are seriously looking for life partners. These two men, like my husband, knew very early on that they made a great match. These two, like my husband, instigated the move to a committed relationship. (Do you see a pattern here?) Along with the thrill of meeting a loving man with whom they feel safe, both these gals one age 57 and the other 45 seem to be coupling this wonderful discovery with angst. When Jean emailed me last night freaking out because her man hadnt called, I finally had to give her a virtual smack upside the head. (Her words.) This was the third night in a row that I got such an email from her. And, lo and behold, the other two times he texted and called her later that night or first thing the next morning. This guy has been in touch with her every day since they connected online. He has always done what he says he is going to do. On several occasions he has gone way out of his way to see her. For goodness sake, he asked her if they could both take their profiles down! In the world of online dating, thats equivalent to asking her to date him exclusively! Jean was exhausting herself and on her way to creating the very situation she feared: that dreaded rejection. I get it because I lived it for about 30 years before I got married at 47. But I finally learned to keep things in perspective and grab my grownup girl in times like these. I told Jean to grab her 18 year old and tell her that she is not needed in this situation. She should take her toys and go home.

20s and 30s. I just didnt tell anyone.) This angst and feeling of helplessness can seem endless for some of us. Its kinda what some of us girls do. We can choose not to be that woman. We can be responsible and take some control of our emotions and, therefore, our lives. Heres part of what I told Jean: You arent crazy, but youre acting like an 18 year old. You are going down the rabbit hole, and its very dangerous. Remember your goal and the reality of this situation. This is exactly how we ruin potentially great relationships. Take a deep breath and grab that grownup girl. Remember her? The one who up until a month ago was just fine without a man in her life? So next time you find yourself moving into that place the Ill never find anyone, I thought he might be the one, I liked him so much, Ill be alone the rest of my life place stop! Switch off your young girl and reach for your grownup intelligent, experienced, highly competent woman. Ask yourself: Is it true that Im being rejected, or could I be making it up? (Is the needle even coming at me?) Is this really such a big deal in relation to my life? (Does it really hurt that much?) Then, give your pain the brief audience it deserves and move the heck on. Oh, and one more thing: that shot was good for you in the long run. I can make the same case for that relationship gone bad or the one that never got off the ground. Every one of these gives you practice and more experience with knowing yourself and what you want and dont want in a man and a relationship. Like that shot, it hurts for only one split second. And when the real pain goes away, you are better for the experience. PS: I love you, Jean! You are an amazing woman, and congratulations for the work youve done to get you to this place in your life! Bobbi From Sarah: Bobbi is absolutely adorable! You will SO identify with her and her story personally, and her FREE Man-O-Meter test is really helpful. Just go here to take the test and get Bobbis great free stuff and advice about how to Date Like A Grownup to get the man, relationship and romance you want->>

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More Sweetness Than Ice Cream Can Ever Provide

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by Jena la Flamme As women, our weight, our body image and our satisfaction depend on the kinds of sugar we put in our bowls. Im talking sweetness. Tenderness. Delicious moments. The stuff that lights you up. Thrills you. Even the little secret mischief that puts a twinkle in your eye. Nina Simone, jazz goddess, sings about wanting a little sugar in her bowl. Sexy and unhurried, she beckons her beau, among other things. It totally melts me, which got me thinking The truth is, as a woman, you are built for passion.

You are crafted for desires. You are designed to run on lusciousness, beauty, and savoring. And a little bit of naughtiness.

You inhabit a creature thats meant to call in her wishes and hankerings.

These Are the Kinds of Things That Give Weight to Our Souls and Sense of Self
Things like: An afternoon outing to a lingerie shop with a girlfriend A small vase of beautiful flowers on your desk at work Morning lovemaking session with (or without) a partner A walk on your lunch hour, and feeling the sun on your face A weekend massage, pedicure, or sauna at your gym Long, unhurried sleep and a leisurely breakfast The thing is, many of the high-achieving women I talk with who want to lose weight are putting too much of the literal sugar in their bowls, and not enough of the metaphorical type. They want sweetness so they eat sweets. They want to feel full and grounded. so they eat more than their body *actually* needs. They want the experience of savoring the deliciousness of being aliveso they pick up a fork and plunge into the sensation of eating. In other words, they are filling their bowls the best way they know how. And they are satisfying their desires for sweetness with actual sugar. Thats why the feminine approach I teach of adding pleasure into your life works so well. I can teach you -

weight in the past. But they all have one thing in common: They made the decision that their bowl wasnt just for ice cream. The truth is, there are other ways a woman fills her bowl. Theres more sweetness out there for you than cakes, cookies, brownies, and double fudge ice cream can ever give you. Lets be clear: theres nothing wrong with those things. Im not here to demonize food! But I am here to lead a movement of women across the country who have decided that its high time we find as many ways as we can to put a little sugar in our bowls. And get bigger bowls, while were at it. ;) This idea is key. And while you can get it in your head through books and my videos and blogs, I truly believe that learning how to live in this way (AND lose weight as you do it) takes a LIVED EXPERIENCE, so you know it in your bones. You must insist that you cant fail, you cant stay small, and life itself is whatever we make itso we better make it good, fun, and damn hot. Bye for now, Jena Jenas delightful. And shes got all sort of goodies for your journey into Pleasurable Weight Loss, including her free advice emails! Check her out, and lose the weight you want to lose in the most delicious way possible>> Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time

The Step-By-Step Approach Losing Weight With Pleasure

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Just as Ive taught hundreds of women over the past 10 years. You see, the women I work with are all quite different. In their ages, vocations, where they live, whats been getting the way of them losing
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Let the World Pass You By

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I was sitting outside my new home yesterday (we just moved last week, and we love the new place), watching the world go by. There were people in cars, in a hurry to get to their next appointment. There were birds flying by, insects just as busy as the people in cars, plants and weeds thriving in the humid Guam climate. Inside the house, my children were also busy, as ever, making a mess of the house (which my wife and I would soon clean up), getting into things, their natural curiosity overpowering our previous pleas for them not to play with lotion or take things apart. The sky was slightly overcast and there was a cool breeze, quite strong and pleasant actually.

Its not often that most of us just sit quietly, and allow the world to pass us by. Why not? What is so important that it cant wait until later? What email must be answered right this moment? Do we really need to read all those articles online, all those messages from others, all those newspapers and magazines? Do we need to have the television and radio and Internet on all the time? Is life passing us by as we keep our minds superbusy? Are we missing out on the beautiful world around us as we constantly think about the future what we need to do, our anxieties about what might happen and the past what we did wrong, what someone else did to us, what we said, what should have happened? When was the last time you just sat, and observed? Why not do it today?
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