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What is key to understanding yourself and others? Life coach Jo Middlemiss begins a series of short articles to encourage reflection and personal growth with a consideration of awareness - being present in every moment.
IF YOU WANT TO BE SENSITIVE TO THE NEEDS OF OTHERS CHANGE AND DEVELOP FIND YOUR OWN SOLUTIONS
sensitive to the needs of others and, as Anthony De Mello says in his wonderful book (2004), we stay asleep for most of our waking lives.
dirty windows, not having everything you want, work politics or whether or not you were invited to this or that event are suddenly not important any more. Your concentration zeros in on love and pride, consideration and gratitude. You swear that you will not lose this clarity and sense of purpose but, life being life, this precious sense often slips out of your grasp without you even noticing. Deciding to be aware is the starting point of the journey. Keeping not only your eyes and ears open, but also your other senses - especially your sixth sense, that part of you that knows what is going on beyond the usual knowing. Think about: A new mother who always seems to know when her baby is crying despite the crying of many other babies. Stepping into your workplace and instantly sensing the atmosphere, friendly or otherwise. Asking yourself, with curiosity rather than criticism, what might have caused a strong reaction either in you or in others. The sudden instinct to make contact with someone. This is a way of walking alongside yourself as you live your life, and just gently observing your way of being. Dont beat yourself or others up about perceived mistakes, just be an observer the watcher of the thinker (Tolle, 2004). The awareness key does not take you out of circulation but encourages you to be fully present in every moment. You will find your awareness grows simply because of your intention to be aware. From the position of awareness, understanding flows and you learn to flow with life, rather than being rigidly fixed to one point. Jo Middlemiss is a qualified Life Coach with a background in education and relationship counselling, tel. 01356 648329, www.dreamzwork.co.uk. Jo offers readers a confidential and complimentary half-hour telephone coaching session (for the cost only of your call).
References
De Mello, A. (1990) Awareness. Zondervan Publishing House. Heelas, P., Woodhead, L., Seel, B., Tusting, K. & Szerszynski, B. (2004) The Spiritual Revolution: Why Religion is Giving Way to Spirituality. Blackwell Publishing. Tolle, E. (2004) The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment. New World Library.
Resources
Chopra, D. (2004) The Book of Secrets: Who am I? Where did I come from? Why am I here? Rider.
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