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Staying Focused
by Crysaly Arias Aviles
When a point is out of focus an image can be seen, but the finer details are not result as items on a never-ending laundry list of “things to do” which take
readily visible. There is usually enough clarity to identify certain factors, but up time that could otherwise be spent doing something we may actually be
the integrity of the greater picture can be missed when an image is unclear. interested in. In other words, motivation can stem from a bonafide desire to
Similarly, the same is true about a goal or project that is not clearly defined. do something, and it is in this spirit of aspiration where I find that earnest
Ideally, an objective will begin with a wide scope of possibilities, but as a goal enthusiasm resides.
progresses so should the level of defined targets on a smaller scale. In other
words, the purpose of the overarching goal remains central, but with manage- Defining a goal.
able steps as the goal draws closer to its desired end result. Articulating a goal to maintain focus is essential. Defining a goal requires
There are several steps that can be taken to focus a goal which include: that an individual take inventory of available skills and resources to invest in
the end result of the desired objective. For example, it would not make sense
yy Staying motivated for a paralegal to pursue a surgical rotation at a hospital, because that legal
yy Defining goal by inventory of resources and skills professional does not have the necessary skills or education to function in
yy Setting realistic and timely deadlines that job description. Similarly, resources are relevant when focusing a goal,
because without them a project cannot be adequately organized. Suppose I
Motivation. am building a doghouse but do not have the necessary specifications, wood,
A desirable end is key to any project. Indeed, there are daunting tasks, which hammer or nails. It only follows that my goal, although articulated and real-
fall under the scope of mandatory compliance; however, motivation behind istic, could not move forward without the common knowledge tools to build
these types of goals or projects is negligible. For example, I complete income an architectural structure (regardless of size.)
taxes before the April 15 deadline, but usually in a state of frustration as I Taking inventory of resources on a grander scale can include securing, credit,
scramble last minute to gather receipts. Why? Because I am simply not mo- loans or financing to pay for a larger project; however prior to attaining this
tivated to pay out a partial percentage of my income to the Internal Revenue type of financial funding, several steps may have to be taken to increase a
Service. This is not a desirable end for me, but a dutiful one that keeps me credit rating to be approved for loan or financing. By defining the needs of a
filing once a year. This type of obligatory goal or project is not what I would goal, an individual is able to create a “checklist’ for the items that will be nec-
like to focus on in this article. essary to engage in a project at all. Without clear designation of skills and re-
The type of goal that I am referring to is one where in a state of willingness sources, a project or goal is likely to remain at this stage until the fundamental
to move forward, we do so with hope and expectation of a beneficial end. elements or tools can be acquired to begin the process. Definition is a concise
Pursuing a “want” instead of a “need” has many encouraging factors as- realization of what is being pursued, and also an availability of “equipment”
sociated with it, because the results are voluntary in comparison to multiple and knowledge to pursue that end.
obligations that we come in contact on a daily basis. It is pleasant to use
energy towards a self-defined “luxury” instead of being bogged down with Deadline.
commitments, which have a tendency of turning into burdens. Consequently, Setting a realistic deadline will help with time management especially if there
obligations often lose momentum or motivation, because most obligations are other commitments or projects that require your attention. A realistic
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Today Is
the year, now is not the time to be slacking off. That is what De-
cember is for.
As an action month, you should be doing the following:
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• Implementing and exectuing all of your action and task items
without delay.
• Reviewing your strategy workflow on a daily basis.
• Looking at your goal mantra when you wake up and before
you go to sleep.
• Noting down all of your success and setbacks. You will have a
chance to review and analyze this information in more detail
during your strategy months. Just make sure you jot down as
much information as possible to help you later on down the
road.
• Writing down any questions you have concerning obstacles
you are facing during your journey and repeating them over
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Ask the Coach. . . learn how to brush it off. Disregard it. The only times you should be
Dear Carlos, worried about gossip and rumors is when it crosses over to being con-
sidered either libel or slander comments. I would recommend you seek
At present I know there to be at least two relationships where I an attorney if you need more information related to defamation.
feel completely betrayed and misunderstood without opportunity
to really communicate my “side”. Indeed, I believe that these two Out of all of this, there is one thing I want you to understand. And
please, ensure you completely take this in. There seems to be two
individuals (and completely different circumstances) are expending individuals out there who are VERY ANGRY. For whatever reason,
their energy to insure that others “see me” as they do. I know there they do not want to release that anger until they have made you feel
is nothing I can do or say to manipulate how they view me or the worse than they do. The only way they will relieve themselves is if
circumstances that led up to the demise of these relationships that at they feel you have been shamed and isolated from those you associ-
one time were very friendly. How do I let go of the sense of betrayal ate with.
and how do I not carry it into future relationships? How then do I While it may seem you are sad, you do not seem to be completely
learn how to trust others? Sincerely, Jo depressed about it or in a constant state of anger. There is no need
to follow their path. They will probably seek some sort of confron-
tation with you, whether directly or indirectly. Angry and vengeful
Jo, I cannot understand completely how it is that you are not able to people really do not care who they bring down with them. To most of
“really communicate your side.” Under normal conditions, you would them, the ends justify the means. You ask me how do you let go, after
seek out “the” party and present your side of the story. That is it. It what I have said, I would like to ask you, why do you think you should
does sound as if you are up against some who may have more ac- let go.
cess or influence with the persons you wish to present your side of the
story to. If this is the case, there will not be much you can do about it Jo, I wouldn’t worry about “learning” to trust. Look at people and
other than present your case in a well thought out manner. treat everyone with the upmost respect that you can find within you.
When you have those who you believe are expending a great You will probably learn that if you generally trust people, some will
amount of energy to vilify your name and your character, you will eventually disappoint you. But in the end, it is better to be able to
have to ensure you do not expend the same amount of negative en- trust and believe in people than not to trust anyone and be disap-
ergy. Since I do know what the specifics are, I will have to speak in pointed all the time with everyone you meet. Do not worry about
general terms for your case. “if” you can trust anybody. There are different levels of trust in life.
Trust with money, with your life, with a loved one. People who cannot
Others will see you as you present yourself. How you carry yourself, be trusted will eventually show their true colors. You, Jo, you need to
as a person. The funny thing about gossip and rumors is that they take ensure what it is you want to trust people with.
a tiny bit of truth and spin around it a whole bunch of lies and deceit.
When it comes to gossip and rumors, I would highly recommend you How much is living a happy life worth to you?.
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Eve Abbott combines the latest in brain research with
humor to create lively programs loaded with practical Crysaly first earned her paralegal certificate in 1995
time-saving techniques. Ms. Abbott helps people leverage and has been working in the legal field since. Crysaly
their unique brain style into better business results while holds an MBA degree and also undergrad degrees in
reducing stress. Philosophy and Human Development.
Eve’s personal mission is to save every working American
an hour a day so they have more time for life. For more Currently, Crysaly is working in human resources/le
information on painless productivity programs and free gal recruiting for a patent litigation firm and is a full
tips ezine see: http://www.ABrainNewWaytoWork.com time student in pursuit of a Master of Theology.
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