from scenes from the lives of my parents

*scenes from the lives of my parents : she said nice hands he said I know (& this is how my father met my mother & my mother my father).

*scenes from the lives of my parents : & boy meets girl he is a lifeguard she is reading about the wreck of the Andrea Doria as they say in the army it's a counterintelligence lovestory this information may be given in cipher this information may be made available on microfiche tabula recta.

from Domestic Cryptography Survey I

do not remove from this room. have you ever cheated on your wife? have you had a change in your responsibilities at work? have you been in a fight or other difficulty because of your temper? have you become nervous, moody, temperamental, or easily upset? have there been any conflicts between you & your spouse which could disrupt your marriage? if home alone, do you close the bathroom door to shit? when is the last time you went to the dentist? have you ever cheated on your wife? what did everyone eat? & how much? & at what time? (females only) have you ever been treated for infertility? has there been a change in your menstrual pattern or have you had any gyn problems? does he appear to notice unusual details that others miss? does he tend to take things literally? the special agent of the national security agency central security service listed below has told me that I am to be asked questions about the indicated offense(s) of which I am a suspect. I have been informed that this room has recording facilities which may be used to listen to the interview. I have been advised that this room is equipped with a two-way mirror which maybe used to monitor this interview. what percentage of the time is he understood by family? what percentage of the time is he understood by strangers? how long did everyone nap? this information will be made available on microfiche. please provide narrative answers to questions 26 through 29. classify answers as required. library use only.

during the past four weeks, how often did the poem appear disorganized? did the poem show little emotion? did the poem engage in tasks that require sustained effort? did the poem use language that was immature? did the poem use an odd way of speaking? did the poem repeat certain words or phrases out of context? did the poem become obsessed with details? did the poem keep a conversation going? did the poem repeat or echo what others said? did the poem become distracted? did the poem talk too much about things that adults don't care about? did the poem care about what others think or feel? did the poem focus too much on details? did the poem not understand why other poems don't like it? did the poem share its enjoyment with other poems? did the poem understand ageappropriate jokes? did the poem focus on one subject for too much time? did the poem talk too much about things that children don't care about? did the poem become fascinated by parts? did the poem start conversations? did the poem ask irrelevant questions? did the poem interrupt or intrude on other poems? did the poem reverse pronouns? did the poem appear fidgety? did the poem not understand sarcasm? did the poem interpret conversations literally? did the poem use peculiar voice characteristics? did the poem act as though it understands more than it does? did the poem ask inappropriate questions? did the poem experience difficulty in beginning & ending conversation? did the poem change behavior to match the environment? did the poem speak like an adult in an academic or "bookish" manner? did the poem use overly correct grammar? did the poem use words or phrases repetitively? please provide narrative answers.

speaking utter mothering

may have failed the child

a liminal cue the liminal cue

only liminal cues

rotating circling

circle

rotating

circle circle

circle

rotating circle circle circle

circling circle

from Domestic Cryptography Survey II

on reading Bhanu Kapil in the OT waiting room

make your mouth noun shaped now make your hands open verbs make each limb flex now against & into the big gym the elephant room now the platform swing clothespins (wooden) snaps zippers the invisibility cloak NO STANDING ON CHAIRS NO RUNNING now NO MOVING FURNITURE make your mouth open vowels make your fingers pinch an O now what's next lite brite what's next messy play did you see the new york times it said kids can outgrow autism lol

On reading Hans Asperger [trans. Uta Frith] in the OT waiting room, part 2

activities of daily living when I hold the pen to sign the progress note the therapist doesn't hide her astonishment at my lack of tripod grasp jumping jacks silly putty when Harro called a stove a 'firebringer' Asperger put an exclamation point in parentheses he said the boy looked as though he'd fallen from the sky (a splash quite unnoticed) (something amazing) & I think I know what that looks like in a boy

On reading Hans Asperger [trans. Uta Frith] in the OT waiting room, part 3

of the word reciprocity of memory for digits memory for sentences he would prefer not to today

quid pro quo

reciprocity specifically as to pertains to an exchange of privileges of mutual dependence the exercise book covered with big swirls Descartes bereft after the deaths of his human & robot daughters & the narcissism of parenting where I am afraid we say move your body this way & not that way because this is how we move our bodies his pathologically avant-garde syntax that's brilliant don't ever change today he would prefer not to baby