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ZONDERVAN
Fight
Copyright 2013 by Craig Groeschel
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Contents
Section 1
F igh t L i k e a M a n
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Section One
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1.1
F igh t L i k e a M a n
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1.2
H ol d i n g O u t
for a H ero
e love to root for the underdog. We love to see good triumph over evil and courage defeat cowardice. We love to
see righteousness prevail and unrighteousness punished. And
we love a hero who refuses to give up the fight no matter how
impossible the odds.
Right now were starving for heroes. Were no longer surprised when men we once admired and respectedelected
officials, superstar athletes, gifted pastorstumble in a sex
scandal, an embezzlement scheme, or a domestic abuse arrest.
Weve almost become jaded, half-expecting our leaders and
favorite celebrities to be hiding something. Most are, right?
We hope theyll make sacrifices, take risks, and make hard
decisions to do the right thing, but we arent surprised when
they dont. We lack real heroes, and Hollywood fills the void
with a glut of superheroesIron Man and Batman and Thor
and Spider-Man and Avengers and X-Mendazzling us with
their powers in 3D and on Blu-ray. But we still long for someone
to show us what an authentic flesh-and-blood hero looks like.
Where have all the good men gone?
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I read a book recently that suggests that our culture has tried
to turn the good men into womennicer, softer, kinder, more
compassionate, and fashion savvy. Forgive me for stating the
obvious, but men are not women. (For the record, women dont
make good men either.) After all, God created us differently. So
God created human beings in his own image. In the image of
God he created them; male and female he created them (Gen.
1:27 NLT). Both men and women reflect the image of God, but
in distinct ways.
Im convinced that one of the most profound ways has to do
with how we use our manhood. God created men to have the
heart of a warrior, placing a desire within us to stand up and
fight for whats pure, for whats true. A man has a warriors heart.
You have a warriors heart. You itch for a fight. Thats Gods
design, not ours. That doesnt mean that men should be aggressive, alpha-bully punks. (Nor does it mean that women cant fight
for whats right as well.) It simply means that within every man,
God has planted a divine desire to fight for righteousness.
Think about it this way. There are two kinds of movies:
chick flicks and, well, everything else. Do chick flicks inspire
men? Do they make them want to be stronger, braver, better
men? Remember that Cary Grant movie, An Affair to Remember? Remember when Deborah Kerrs character says, If you can
paint, I can walkanything can happen, right? Have you ever
known a guy to watch that movie? If youre a guy, you dont even
know what Im talking about, do you?
What about in Pride and Prejudice when Keira Knightleys
character says to her new husband, You may only call me Mrs.
Darcy when you are completely and perfectly and incandescently happy. And he responds with, Then how are you this
evening ... Mrs. Darcy? and kisses her on the forehead. And
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1.3
B e t he M a n
few months after my wife, Amy, and I got married, something dawned on her that she hadnt thought of before: she
had married a man. I do things a lot differently than women do.
Wed been married four years when it finally came to a head.
We had just gotten our first dishwasher, and one day I foolishly
attempted to load it by myself. I thought I was helping, but I
didnt realize theres a right way to load a dishwasher and, apparently, a wrong way. I figured, just stuff everything in, start it,
and youre good.
When Amy saw my attempt to be helpful, she gasped. Craig!
You loaded it all wrong!
Wrong? How could it be wrong? We had a little spat, which
ended with her sighing and saying, Oh, Craig, youre just such a
... a man! I thought, Uh, hello! Darn right, Im a man. For years,
scenarios just like this one played out, with her doing things
her way and me doing things like a man. Eventually, shed say,
Couldnt you just do this more like a woman? One day I finally
got fed up. You should have married a woman. Im never gonna
be able to do this like a woman.
Then one time when Amy and I were having one of these
differences of opinion, it looked like it was going to end like it
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always didin a draw. But then my amazing wife said something so profound, it changed my life. Craig, she said, I want
you to know something. Right now, as of this moment, I am
choosing to one hundred percent completely embrace you as the
man that God created you to be. I wont ask you to be anything
else. From that moment on, our marriage improved like you
wouldnt believe.
Let me clarify something here. Im not saying men are better
and they need to lord over women like tyrants. Im not saying
women are better and need to emasculate their husbands. Im
simply saying that were different, and since it was God who
made us this way, thats a good thing. That day, Amy recognized
the difference, and she empowered me to embrace the fullness
of being Gods man for her and for our family. So let me say a
couple more things that you need to know as you read along.
Guys, this book is for you. The last thing you need is another
book, podcast, motivational CD, or even Bible study that tells
you how to be a man of God in four easy steps. Thats not what
were doing here. Were focusing on the core issue that Im convinced will motivate you deep within your heart: being a warrior
and knowing when and how to fight.
If you read this book, you will uncover who you really are
a man created with a warriors heart in the image of Godand
how to fight the good fight for whats right. You will find the
strength to fight the battles you know you need to fightthe
ones that determine the state of your heart, the quality of your
marriage, and the spiritual health of your family. The battles
that make you dependent on God as the source of your strength.
The battles that make you come alive.
Ladies, if youre reading this book, you probably should put
it down. Its not for you.
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FIGHT
Winning the Battles That Matter Most
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