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Table of Contents:
Introduction
Week One: I will, I won’t, I want: What Willpower Is, and Why it Matters
Week Two: The Willpower Instinct: Your Body Was Born to Resist Cheesecake
Week Three: Too Tired to Resist: Why Self-Control is Like a Muscle
Note before starting: The book suggests picking out a certain willpower challenge to work on as
you read through it. If you want to follow along with these notes, I think it would be best to do
the same. Think of something you want to improve on that requires willpower, and make that
your self improvement project. As detailed below these can be “I will”, “I won’t”, or the more
complex “I want” challenges. Mine will be running and waking up early. Anyway, enough from
me!
Introduction
● This book is based on a Stanford class
○ Class has been very successful in the past, even involved in court orders at
times
● People cite lack of Willpower (WP) as one of the #1 things holding them back
● This book combines scientific research with the insights of students in the class
Microscope:
Think of your challenge. What is the harder thing? Why is it hard? How do you feel when you
think about it?
Experiment: Meditate
Breath focus is a simple and powerful meditation technique. Here is how to do it in a nutshell:
1. Sit still and stay put
a. Sit in a chair with your feet on the ground or with crossed legs on a cushion.
Don’t fidget, don’t scratch itches, don’t move! Staying still is a huge part of why it
helps WP, as you learn not to follow every impulse your brain throws out.
2. Turn your attention to your breath
a. Close your eyes or focus on a single spot (like a blank wall). Begin to notice your
breath. Silently in your mind say “inhale” as you breathe in and “exhale” as you
breathe out. When your mind wanders (and it will) just bring it calmly back to the
breadth. Coming back to the breath again and again is what really stimulates the
prefrontal cortex.
3. Notice how it feels to breathe, and notice how the mind wanders
a. After a few minutes, drop the inhale/exhale thoughts. Try just to focus on the
sensation of breathing. You may sense the breath flowing in your mouth,
maybe the rhythmic inflation/deflation of your chest, whatever. Your mind will
still wander, just always calmly bring it back to the breath. If you need help
refocusing, bring the inhale/exhale thoughts back.
Start with 5 minutes a day, and once that is a habit bump it up to 15 a day. If that feels like a
burden, drop it back to 5. A short practice every day is much better than a long practice every
once in awhile.
Experiment: ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
The best is obviously 8 hours a night, but that isn’t alway possible. A single good night can help
reverse multiple bad ones, so if you are busy during the week catch up on the weekend. Some
studies suggest you can build up a reserve, so consider oversleeping if you know you are about
to enter a hard stretch. Finally, naps can do wonders by breaking up consecutive waking hours.
So the best is to actually get 8 hours, but if that fails consider catch up, stocking up, or napping.
If you find yourself avoiding sleep, consider what you are saying “yes” to instead of sleep. Your
WP issue may not be an “I will” go to sleep issue, but a “I won’t” browse Reddit after 10pm
issue. Consider what you have to say “no” to so you can say “yes” to sleep.