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We look at how permaculture principles can inform our parenting to create happier, healthier families.
Permaculture principles come from the observation of natural systems which can help us interact with different aspects in our lives to promote well-being. In many ways, families have the same characteristics as any natural system, therefore we can always benefit from looking at them with a pair of permaculture 'glasses.' When we merge our understanding of these principles with our responses as parents we have the possibility of placing in our family lives, the same health, vibrancy and productivity that we inherently find in the permaculture garden. Here are permaculture principles in action:
How can we interact with these observations to prevent, diminish or enhance behaviours? Just by looking, we can see where our energy drains are. Time can be spent observing the situations that precipitate tantrums and illness, helping us to intervene earlier, forestalling them, and using the energy in a more beneficial way.
distracted by working out the connection and whether they want the consequences. Faber and Mazlish talk about 'natural consequences,' the actual ramifications of an event, what will in fact happen if you jump on the sofa; 'it might break; you will give me a headache; you could knock over the plant next to it.' When shown the natural consequences they are more able to process the information and alter their behaviour appropriately. Feedback can come about very quickly in family dynamics; young children do not store their feelings, they immediately communicate what is happening to them. With this as an example, we must try to create a culture where everyone is listened to and constructive feedback can be given and received. This also means being open to receiving feedback from your children about the changes they would like to see in your behaviour. Parenting is a two way process of learning and growth. Children unconsciously mirror our behaviour, our needs and emotions. A frustrating element in a child's behaviour may well be a behavioural trait of ours. It is therefore important for us to look at our own conduct and emotions so that we can provide a better, more positive example for the entire family. A valuable way of bringing about such positive change is through family feedback sessions.