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Chapter 6
Relationships
People have expectations
Western VS Chinese
CONTACTS / RELATIONSHIPS
RELATIONSHIPS
FRIENDSHIP
ROMANCE
TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS
CONNECTIONS
OBLIGATIONS GIFT-GIVING
Friendship Obligations
How do you make friends?
look like?
other?
Discussion Activity A
Turn to page 104-105 Read Are you mad at me? Do questions 1-4 in your group.
Chinese might
A few close friends VVVVV Both will do things for each other nnn Friends share things and give direct advice ccccccccccc Friends provide connections for friends
together
Do NOT expect direct advice
Question of Romance
American
Chinese
Dating: romantic xyz Marriage: practical
Question of Romance
Do you think it is difficult for people of different cultures to
Do you think it would be harder for a: Chinese man or a Chinese woman to marry into a different culture? Why?
SELF
INSIDERS
westerners do not form relationships or have friends. Westerners tend to have more distant friends and fewer (perhaps none) really close friends But these friendships are real
They are selfish and self-centered
Of course, some people in every culture are selfish and self-centered But many Westerners are very empathetic and generous even to strangers
Not true!
westerners do not form relationships or have friends. Westerners tend to have more distant friends and fewer (perhaps none) really close friends But these friendships are real
They are selfish and self-centered Of course, some people in every culture are selfish
and self-centered But many Westerners are very empathetic and generous even to strangers
Not true!
Importance of Connections
Westerners use personal connections less Its not who you know but what you know
Asians use connections more Relationship = connection! Connections can help with chances for
getting a job,
but can also hurt chances for getting a job.
Social Obligations
Guanxi in China What does Guanxi
mean?
relationships
Relationships with
obligations
Social Obligations
Guanxi (from dictionary.com) a Chinese social concept based on the exchange of favors, in which personal relationships are considered more important than laws and written agreements
Social Obligations
Guanxi in China, is a form of
currency
Social Debts (favors owed) Social Credits (favors expected)
Social Obligations
In other cultures it may be called
Social Obligations
In other cultures it may be called
Social Obligations
Guanxi
Good points?
Problems?
Discussion activity Who are you trying to fool? pages 114-115, questions 1-4
But small help to friends is permitted: Put in a good word for somebody Pull a few strings cash in your chips
before
Lunch with students A joke: offer of money
Gifts
Why do you give gifts? Because you must? You like to shop?
Gifts