Akhlaq towards Parents Akhlaq is a word takes from Arabic language. Akhlaq shall mean ethics.

1 Ethics learn people behaviour. Islam teach it follower to have an akhlaqul karimah (good manner of ethics) in interact with others. A. Basis of Akhlaq towards Parents Devoting to the parents is one of the manifestations of akhlaqul karimah. Al !ur"an placed devoting to parents in the second place after devotion to Allah. It stated in the !.# Al Isra"$ %&%$

And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them but spea to them a noble word. 'asulullah has also reaffirmed the importance of devoting parents b( the hadith stated that Allah)s merc( is depend on parents
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*here are also other reasons wh( people shall devote their parents+ beside it obliged b( Allah. *he main reason is that because parents are who taking care of us. *he( handle an( of our matters since we were little children. ,obod( has bigger role in our life+ but our parents.

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B. Rights and Responsibilities between Children and Parents According to -sman al .ahibawai+ there are ten rights of parents which have to be fulfilled b( their children/$ a. 0iving them food when it is needed b. 1ull dedication (service) c. 2ome+ when parents calling d. Do parents order+ e3cept for the bad things e. #peak in a polite and gentle manner f. 4rought them clothes+ even though the( afford to bu( them themselves g. 5hen walk with them+ walk some distance behind them h. 6ake an effort to get fairness i. Avoid the things the( keep awa( from 7. Alwa(s pra( and ask the 0od"s merc( for them Indonesian government reali8e the importance of parents and children relation. In some laws+ the government of Indonesia regulate the relation between them. 9arents" obligations$ *aking care and educating their children: 2hildren are under their parents authorit(+ until the( grown up; *aking the children" interests in a legal action in or out of the court < 2hildren" obligations$ 'espect and obe( their parents= After the( grown up+ the( have to take care of their parents> 0iving e3penses to the parents if their parents in a difficult condition 1?
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Ibid, "# 1&* UU no# 1 + 19,' on marriage a-t, arti-le '$ as also state) in the In)onesian .i/il .o)e arti-le %9 In)onesian .i/il .o)e arti-le %99 0om"ilasi 1ukum Islam arti-le 9 as also state) in UU no# 1+19,' arti-le ', UU no#1+ 19,', supra note %, arti-le '* as also state) in In)onesian .i/il .o)e arti-le %9 Ibid, arti-le '* I.., supra note (, arti-le (%1

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C. Akhlaq Towards Parents Islam teaches the principles of akhlaq should be done b( children toward their parents+11 the( are$ @bedience Ihsan #peak gentl( 6odest( *hank Ask the 0od"s merc( for them After the( pass awa($ sholat for the corpse+ asking the 0od"s merc( and forgiveness for them+ fulfil their promises+ respect their friends+ continue the relation the( have made.

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