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Intro - Changing your Sex Life Forever..............................................................................3 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life...............................................................4 I' !o""y !ra#$ha%........................................................................................................& 'n# (ou C') !e*o e a Sex +o#................................................................................,....ven If (ou're ' /irgin..............................................................................................,, ....ven If (ou 0ave )o Clue.........................................................................................,1 ....ven %ith a S all 2i*3, or S all !an3 '**ount.......................................................,4 +et 5o en Sexually '##i*te# to (ou6........................................................................,& Learn to 'voi# the Six type$ of 7Lo$er Lover7.................................................................13
,8 )ever Feel Li3e a 7T%o-9u p Chu p7 'gain.........................................................13 18 Staying 0ar# i$ 7)ot 0ar#76......................................................................................14 38 It 2oe$n't have to "e 7Ro"oti*7 to "e Right...............................................................1: 48 !eing in Charge ;eep$ thing$ 7Super-Charge#7 .....................................................1< 48 +et 0er to !e Totally Into (ou...%hen (ou're 7into7 0er .......................................1= :8 )o )ee# to "e a 7Sex +uru7 .....................................................................................3The Four Sure Sign$ That (ou're >n the Right Tra*3 ......................................................31 Sign ?, - She Can't Leave (ou 'lone...........................................................................33 Sign ?1 - She 2oe$ Leave you 'lone............................................................................34 Sign ?4 - She >nly 0a$ .ye$ For (ou...........................................................................3:
Four Surpri$ingly Si ple Se*ret$ of the 'lpha @ale ......................................................3& ,$t Foun#ational Se*retA Strong . otion$ over 9hy$i*al Sen$ation..............................3& 1n# Foun#ational Se*retA Relation$hip B Sex...............................................................3= 3r# Foun#ational Se*retA There i$ )othing 5rong 5ith (our !o#y............................44th Foun#ational Se*retA Sexual '"ility @a3e$ the @an..............................................41
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Intro - Changing your Sex Life Forever ID an# very ex*ite# that you have a$ter the a#e the *hoi*e to "e*o e great in "e#6 !efore %e learn
aterial thatD$ going to *o pletely *hange you an# your loverD$ $ex life
forever, letD$ tal3 a"out relation$hip$ an# $ex for a $e*on#. The fa*t$ #onDt lie6 @illion$ of guy$ are having pro"le $ $ati$fying their %o en $exually, an# itD$ *reating horren#ou$ relation$hip pro"le $ li3e *heating, #ivor*e, an# itD$ all "e*au$e you are having terri"le $ex. .ver felt li3e thing$ %oul# "e "etter for you ')2 your relation$hip if you got lai# ore often or that $leep %ith you >R ay"e on*e you %oul#nDt have to try $o har# to *onvin*e a %o an to ay"e K Ju$t ay"e K the %o an, F>R >)C., %a$ "egging to have
$ex %ith youLL. Thi$ i$ %hy you are rea#ing thi$ "oo3 K to *hange all thi$6 The $tati$ti*$ are alar ing, "ut (>F *an no% live %ithout that F.'R M thi$ i$ the ne% te$ta ent to an in*re#i"le $ex life. 'll the $olution$ you nee# are here in the *o ing page$. LetD$ ta3e a Nui*3 pee3 at the alar ing $tat$A 4, per*ent of all year$ or ol#er re$ult in a faile# arriage$, in %hi*h the "ri#e$ are 14 the )ational Center for 0ealth
arrie#
en #onDt 3no%
of their $pou$eD$ extra arital a*tivity. So that %ho are having affair$, 44 per*ent of *heating. '%ful6 arrie#
illion$ of people
girlfrien# or %ife, an# not 3no% %here her lip$ have "een. 5o en %onDt tell you thi$, "utthe nu "er one rea$on that they *heat i$ "e*au$e they are not $exually $ati$fie# in "e#. '$ you 3eep rea#ing youDll learn that it ha$ nothing to #o %ith ho% u*h oney you
a3e, %hat *ar you #rive, or if you ta3e out the tra$hO on*e you $ati$fy the pri al urge$ that %o en really have, $he %ill "e your$ for life. 're you li3e e %ho u$e# to $pen# hour$ loo3ing for the "e$t in online pornL
Fnfortunately, if you are "u$y %at*hing porn, you are )>T there to $ati$fy her $exual nee#$. Sorry to "rea3 it to you "ut en are ore li3ely to "e *heate# on "e*au$e of a la*3 ean$ $he a3e$
of attention to their "o#y an# their nee#$. She $en$e$ that your porn a##i*tion i$nDt goo# enough an# that you are having attra*tion pro"le $ %ith her. Thi$
%o en in$e*ure an# %hen they are in$e*urePthey go el$e%here an# K (.S her lip$ go el$e%here. If you are thin3ing that "eing Ju$t >; in "e# i$ all you %ant, thin3 again6 2o you 3no% ho% any #i$*reet %ay$ that girl$ *an *heat K not only entally K "ut phy$i*ally a*tually
eet up %ith $o eone an# you )./.R 3no% a"out itLL >nline #ating, $o*ial net%or3$, in$tant e$$enger, "ooty texting, all 3in#$ of $ite$ for en an# %o en %ho %ant to have
a p$y*ho $o ho% #o you 3eep her only thin3ing a"out you, in$tea# of the po$$i"ility in her in# that there @I+0T "e a guy out there %ho i$ "e#L @ay"e itD$ her ex. 0eD$ Ju$t one text a%ay fro ay"e a little "it "etter than you in a ren#evou$. @ay"e itD$ a
*o%or3er $heD$ "een gra""ing lun*h %ith or $tu*3 on the roa# %ith. (ou never 3no%6
So if you have a girlfrien# or a %ife %ho i$ in a Jo" %here $heD$ al%ay$ %ith a lot of other guy$ or you thin3 there a3e $ure youDre ight "e a guy in the offi*e that $heD$ into, youDve really got to
goo# in "e#, "e*au$e the te ptation %ill #efinitely "e there for her to *heat M Ju$t naturally "y her "eing aroun# one of the$e other guy$, e$pe*ially in a %or3 environ en
%o an *heat$ it often lea#$ to thi$ na$ty %or# %e *all 2I/>RC., an# #ivor*e lea#$ to a lot of a%ful thing$ li3elo$$ of oney, an# often, half of your in*o e. If you have *hil#ren
it lea#$ to lo$ing your *hil#ren, "e*au$e %o en u$ually %in the la%$uit$, an# they get the ali ony, an# they get the 3i#$, an# itD$ thi$ a%ful $ituation %here youDre left %ith nothing, #e$pite "eing a goo# guy, an# yet, $he %a$ the one %ho *heate#. The $y$te D$ Ju$t $o $ta*3e# again$t you, in favor of %o en, that you *anDt get %hat you #e$erve. ItD$ hu iliating to 3no% that another an# he %a$nDt an %a$ in$i#e your girlfrien# or in$i#e your %ife,
a3ing love to her, he %a$ fu*3ing her. So to 3no% that thatD$ %hat %a$ a3e $ure that %e atter ho% "a# lo$ing
happening i$ a $*ary thought, an# itD$ $o ething that %e %ant to al%ay$ avoi#, "e*au$e no your 3i#$ i$, the real pro"le atter ho% "a# lo$ing your
oney i$, no
that i$ *au$e# i$ .+>-0F@ILI'TI>)M "eing hu iliate#, an, that youDre not a an goo# enough to 3eep your
ThereD$ no %or$e fear or no %or$e feeling than not "eing a"le to $ati$fy a %o an $exually. That Ju$t a3e$ you feel li3e that youDre a little "oy, inferior M li3e youDre le$$
than all the other guy$ an# thereD$ $o ething %rong %ith you.
So %hen $he *heat$ itD$ not that $he %ant$ to *heat, itD$ that $heD$ #riven "y her e otion$.. (ou nee# to un#er$tan# that %o en are very $exual *reature$, they nee# to have $ex M 5>@.) 'CTF'LL( CR'/. S.E.. 5o en are *hil#-"earer$ an# the only %ay that they *an have *hil#ren i$ "y having $ex. They have a natural in$tin*t to have $ex. 'n# thin3 a"out %hat happen$ #uring $exOif itD$ goo# $ex for a %o an, %hi*h ight not "e the
3in# of $ex youDve ever given her, $heD$ *la%ing your "a*3, $heD$ $*rea ing, $heD$ oaning, $heD$ telling you to fu*3 her har#er. @en #onDt #o that, thatD$ not a natural rea*tion for a a*t in that %il# an. Thin3 a"out ho% i portant that $ex anner. u$t "e to her to leave the relation$hip, u$t "e to her if itD$ a3ing her
an that pay$ the "ill$, %ho ta3e$ *are of the *hil#ren, an# i$ a goo# faithful
not a *ele"rity, ID
"la ing every girl that %a$nDt $ati$fie# an# $tarte# #oing $o ething a"out it. The fir$t ti e I ha# $ex I %a$ 11, an# I %a$ $o ex*ite# that I la$te# le$$ than a inute. Lu*3ily, I
#i# en# up "eing a"le to la$t a "it longer "ut $truggle# for over ,- year$ %ith not "eing a"le to give %o en orga$ $. I $elfi$hly thought that it %a$ rare for a girl to have an orga$ ho% an# even got to the point that I #i#nDt *are6 Inevita"ly y relation$hip$, no atter
u*h I li3e# her, %oul# *o e *ra$hing to a pa$$ionle$$ halt. @y lo%e$t point y then fian*Qe having $ex %ith a guy $he %or3e# %ith6 I
*onfronte# her vi$i"ly teary-eye#, an# yelle# at her ho% $he *oul# #o $o ething li3e that to e.She %a$ "lunt, an# "lurte# out that it %a$ "e*au$e I %a$nDt an enough an#
*oul#nDt $ati$fy her nee#$6##I %a$ $o #eva$tate# that I *oul#n't #ate $eriou$ly again for 3 year$. 5hen I #i# get "a*3 in the ga e, I #e#i*ate# y$elf to getting thi$ area of y life
$traightene# out. I rea# hun#re#$ of "oo3$, %at*he# all of the ho%-to vi#eo$ Ran# a ton of porn o"viou$ly68 M trie# everything that I *oul# get y han#$ on. @o$t of the $tuff I rea#
%a$ $o ri#i*ulou$ an# unreali$ti*though an# revolve# aroun# fa3e# intera*tion$, an# the u$e of expen$ive pill$ an# $upple ent$. Re e "er that info er*ial %ith the guy G!o"H %ho *oul#nDt $top $ ilingL 5ho 3no%$ %hat the $i#e-effe*t$ %ere fro hi$ long la$ting
har#-on6 !ut over ti e, %hat happene# %a$ that through "e*a e a"le to a3e %o en *u
*ontinuou$ly ID@ T'L;I)+ CF@ EVERY TI@. inute$, EVERY TI@.. In the a#e %o en literally y "e# "e*au$e $he
"eginning I %a$ too ti i# to try $o e thing$, "ut a$ I $a% ho% it $tart $ha3ing an# oaning, I got
%a$ lo$ing *ontrol %hile I %a$ fu*3ing her68. )o%, I $till have *on$ultant, "ut I $pen# y free ti e tea*hing
"efore $he goe$ to %or3, fille# %ith guy$ that are hitting on her or trying to $e#u*e her, $he #oe$nDt even have the te ptation. I %ant you to have a great $ex life li3e I #o no%, "e*au$e a$ a an, %hat i$ ore i portant than "eing a"le to $ati$fy a %o anL 9orn$tar Sex Sy$te , you
'fter you rea# thi$ "oo3 an# internalize the progra $ fro
%ill feel $o *onfi#ent a"out your $3ill$ in "e# that you %ill not "e paranoi# or in$e*ure a"out your lover, girlfrien#, or %ife leaving you for $o e other guy %ith ore oney, a"out to
"etter loo3$, an# "etter $exual $3ill$ than you. @o$t guy$ #onDt 3no% %hat ID
tell you an# only a han# pi*3e# *lan of a fe% %o en, $o ta3e a #eep "reath, turn off your e ail an# phone, an# letD$ get $tarte#6 ID not a *razy agi*ian or even a goo# pi*3 up arti$t. I havenDt al%ay$ "een goo# in "e# aintain a
or goo# %ith %o en. In fa*t, I u$e# to la$t under a minute in bed an# *oul#nDt relation$hip "e*au$e %o an %oul# not return $ex %ith e. >ne %o an tol#
(ouDll $ee very $oon ho% I "e*a e +R.'T in "e# "ut I %ant you to un#er$tan# %hy ID revealing thi$ $ex 3no%le#ge an# ho% I got into thi$ %hole thing.
'''(ven If !o"'re
)irgin
fro a little to%n in >hio. @y $exual #evelop ent
%ith %o en %a$ later than the average guy. I #i#nDt 3i$$ a girl until I %a$ 1- an# I #i#nDt lo$e y virginity until I %a$ 11. I $truggle# #ating an# al%ay$ felt nervou$ aroun# y$elf trying to $ay an# #o thing$ that %oul# %in the over an# get
I have to tell you the $tory of lo$ing 9lea$e #onDt laughO ID I lo$t
not prou# of thi$. '*tually, laugh all you %ant, itD$ funny. y !razilian *ollege roo ate invite# e #o%n to !razil for a
y virginity %hen
va*ation. I %a$ a *o plete lo$er, ha# never 3i$$e# a girl, an# he 3ne% thi$. 0e %a$ li3e, GCo e to !razil, anyone *an have $ex in !razil6H So I $*rappe# together $o e *a$h, fle% to !razil "ut y *onver$ation$ %ith the %o en %ere going terri"ly. o$t ID# ever gone out, I e. ID *onvin*e# the only et
Then after going out for 4 night$ in a ro% #o%n there, the thi$ girl %ho "arely $po3e .ngli$h. So eho% $he li3e# rea$on that $he ha# li3e#
e %a$ "e*au$e $he thought I %a$ a ri*h ' eri*an. I %a$ really uni*ate6
only a poor *ollege $tu#ent, "ut %hat #i# $he 3no%, %e *oul#nDt even *o 'fter a fe% #rin3$ %e hea#e# "a*3 to
y hotel roo . I %a$ ro*3 har# Ju$t 3no%ing that I a$ $oon a$ $he tou*he# e yet. 9lea$e #onDt.H e. In the
ight finally have $ex. I %a$ %orrie# that I %oul# *u hotel roo , ID thin3ing in
ID
y$elf..'R+06 ..+o#,
her tit$ are great6H '$ I $at #o%n on the "e# a%3%ar#ly, I ha# no i#ea %hat %a$ happening "ut I follo%e# her lea# an# %e "oth "egan getting un#re$$e#. >n*e I %a$ na3e#, I put the u*h-too-"ig !razilian *on#o R on$ter$ #o%n there8 onto y *o*3 an#
y han#$ %ere $%eating. 'fter fu "ling aroun# trying to fin# her vagina for e# y$elf into her. It felt $o goo# an# %et. Thi$ %a$ a
inute$, I finally Ja
vagina6 0aha. She %a$ really tight, an# I %a$ $o ten$e that after I pu pe# 3 ti e$, I *a e6 I pani*3e# an# ha# no i#ea %hat to #o $o I Ju$t 3ept pu ping a%ay. The pu pe# an# trie# to get har# again, the tighter her %et %all$ *la pe# #o%n on ore I y *o*3
a$ it got $ofter an# $ofter. 'fter a fe% $e*on#$ of that $he $tarte# laughing, $ai# $o ething in 9ortugue$e, an# pu$he# hotel roo e off of her. @y la$t e ory of her %a$ $eeing her *lo$e the y
*o*3 franti*ally trying to get har# again. I %a$ $ho*3e# that everyone tal3e# a"out ho% great $ex %a$. It $u*3e#6 I %a$ all alone in a hotel in !razil, an# feeling li3e a $ all, patheti* little "oy.
no i#ea %hat to #o a"out it. 'n# for a long ti e I %a$ in #enial. ID# %at*h online porn an# ID# $ee guy$ #oing *razy thing$ li3e flipping girl$ over to $u*3 their *o*3 %hile they ate
the girlD$ pu$$y, an# then fu*3ing her "rain$ out, %hile $he exten#e# one leg up to the $3y li3e a gy na$t. It %a$nDt that their #i*3$ %ere $o huge, even though it #efinitely playe# a part in y in#, "ut it %a$ that theyD# la$t forever. They *oul# #o tho$e ove$ an# there
%a$ no fear of cumming. They ha# *o plete *ontrol of plea$ing the$e %o en. 'n# they %erenDt having $ex $lo%lyO they %ere going fa$t an# aggre$$ively, $*rea a3ing the girl$
%ith plea$ure. I #i#nDt 3no% ho% the$e guy$ *oul# #o itO I ha# a"$olutely no %a$. The fir$t ti e$ ID# ha#
*ontrol over %hen I *a e. I #i#nDt 3no% %hat the pro"le $ex I got really har# an# *oul#nDt la$t, *u ing i
happy. I %a$ li3e, G5hat i$ %rong %ith you, 9alL6H 'n# it $oun#$ *o i*al, "ut ID gue$$ing that you 3no% %hat ID tal3ing a"out "e*au$e all y guy frien#$ $ay, G(eah, I
,:, an# I %a$ at 13, $truggling %ith thi$ i$$ue. So itD$ one thing to get thi$ part of your life han#le# %hen your ,4, ,:, ,< year$ ol# li3e a nor al guy, "ut %hen you %ait longer, thi$ really a3e$ you feel #epre$$e# a"out "eing Ju$t plain bad in bed. So to try an# turn y
$ex life aroun#, I $tarte# rea#ing every $ingle "oo3 that I *oul# a"out $ex, an# I figure# ID# #o trial an# error until $o ething %or3$. ID learne# fro going to ta3e all the $tuff that IDve a3e a$ any i$ta3e$ a$ po$$i"le
ru""er vagina, #oing all $ort$ of *razy $tuff. I 3ne% that I ha# to #o %hatever it too3 an# I ha# to inve$t in $3ill-training to learn thi$ area of life. It %a$ the $a e a$ %hen I %a$ in *ollege learning ho% to #o *o puter-progra one of tho$e thing$ you %ere "orn %ith. ingO I ha# to learn ho% to #o it. It %a$nDt
'fter three year$ of %il# experi entation, I got to the point %here even though I *oul#nDt la$t very long, in$tea# of Ju$t i for a %hile. I %oul# e#iately putting y$elf in$i#e the girl, I %oul# 3i$$ her
a$$age her "rea$t$ an# ID# $Nueeze her a$$. ID# #o all $ort$ of other
$tuff, "ut I #i#nDt get to the point %here I *oul# a*tually have $ex %ith her %ith any type of $ta ina. Finally, %hen I $tarte# rea#ing "oo3$ on p$y*hology an# fo*u$ing a lot ore on the
e otional $i#e of $ex, thatD$ %hen I a*tually +>T +>>2 %ith %o en. I Nui*3ly $tarte# getting to the point %here I *oul# *on$i$tently give her orga$ $ M over and over. Fro #irty-tal3 to Ju$t the $oun# of y voi*e, learning %here her trigger $pot$ %ere, through to 4-, 4inute$ M not y "o#y an#
penetration %here I %a$ a"le to la$t a$ long a$ I %ante# every time even an hour. ID# la$t $o long that $o eti e$ $heD# even
going to "e a"le to %al3 to orro%6H It %a$ li3e I %a$ in *o plete *ontrol of ho% the girl felt e otionally an# phy$i*ally, EVERY !I"#LE TIME6
I got really goo# "y "a$i*ally pra*ti*ing on a girl I %a$ frien#$ %ith %ho %a$nDt that hot RI hope $he i$nDt rea#ing thi$68 "ut $he $ee e# to %ant to have $ex. 5e #i# %il# thing$ in pu"li* "ut then $he ove# a%ay an# I thought, Goh great the one girl I %a$ getting goo# e to have $ex
%ith $3ip$ to%n6H !ut no% %eDre frien#$ "e*au$e $he $till really %ant$ %ith her. )o Nue$tion I %a$ the "e$t $ex that $heD$ ever ha#6 For have $ex %ith other girl$ an# #o
an# $tarte# having $ex %ith other girl$. @o$t i portantly though, regar#le$$ of the girl I en#e# up %ith, I %ante# to in a relation$hip %ith the . a3e $ure that I %a$ $ati$fying the *o pletely %hen I %a$
I ha# finally $he# $o e pa$t feeling$ of hu iliation an# in$e*urity a"out "ut having $ex %ith a hot girl %a$ #ifferent for
y perfor an*e,
eet the *hallenge. The$e girl$ $tarte# to love it. TheyD# literally $ay GI L>/. having $ex %ith you6H I al o$t *oul#nDt "elieve y eye$ an# ear$. They %oul# %ant to have $ex %ith
the$e hotter girl$ %oul# %ant to *o e over an# after %eD# ha# $ex a fe% ti e$ ID# "e li3e, G0ey, letD$ go out for a fan*y #inner. 0ere, I "ought you a ne*3la*e,H ID# try an# $ho% the ho% $pe*ial they %ere. !ut $o ething $tarte# to happen. They %oul#nDt "e $ati$fie#. ID#
intere$te# in #inner. Sure, theyD# ta3e the ne*3la*e, "ut they #i#nDt $ee
hear GI %ant to ta3e a nap,H %hi*h %oul# "e a *o#e-%or# for let$s %ust go into your bedroom and have sex. >r theyD# "e li3e G>h, I nee# a hug,H %hi*h %a$ al%ay$ a *o#e %or# for hugging tearing e an# then theyD# $tart gra""ing e an# ru""ing y #i*3, pra*ti*ally not
great-loo3ing or ri*h or even funny. !ut I no% ha# $o ething that have. I %a$ "eginning to fin# out there %a$ a $y$te a##i*te# to for
a3ing %o en $exually
Ii
y $3ill$ got
u*h "etter. I
%a$ having $ex %henever I %ante#, getting text $tan#$ %ith, phone *all$ fro
e$$age$ fro
infor ation te*hnology on the Internet full-ti e, "ut %ith the *urrent e*ono y #oing "a#ly an# Jo" $e*urity non-exi$tent, I #e*i#e# to ta3e up $haring y tip$ a$ a ho""y. IDve
al%ay$ %ante# to help people get "etter an# al%ay$ ha# $o e frien#$ that %oul# *o e to e for a#vi*e, "ut I never ha# training or anything I %a$ ex*eptionally goo# at. Fntil no%. )o% I %ante# to to guy$ li3e a3e thi$ a azing infor ation I ha# per$onally learne# availa"le
e, %ho have given up an# fa*e# reJe*tion, hu iliation, an# ha# either "een arriage$ fail "e*au$e of a "a# $ex life. So I figure# I
for ho% to have great $ex %ith %o en. &o' to give 'omen
the best sex o( their li(e. It *hange# %ho I a . I feel li3e I no% have thi$ )o'er to give any %o an an orga$ an# never have to %orry a"out getting it up or *u ing too Nui*3.
I %al3 aroun# %ith thi$ *onfi#en*e I never ha#. )o ina#eNuate in "e#. )o ore not feeling li3e a
Thin3 right no% of all the a%ful $exual experien*e$ youDve ha#. 5oul# you a# it that $tuff to your goo# frien#$L @ay"e, "ut it #oe$ a3e you feel $o e%hat %ea3. (ouDre not le$$ of a an though. (ou are le$$ of a an if you #e*i#e not to an-up an# *hange. ThatD$ %hy y frien#$ *a e to e for a#vi*e an# thatD$ %hy youDre rea#ing thi$. So $o e of y frien#$ M one guy %a$ going through a #ivor*e, one guy %a$ in a rough pat*h %ith hi$ girl M ID# give the $o e pointer$ an# ID# "e li3e G>3ay, ay"e you $houl# #o thi$ or hereD$ a little exer*i$e thatDll give you unli ite# $ta ina. 0ereD$ an exer*i$e thatDll a3e you really har#. 0ereD$ an exer*i$e that %ill a*tually give her an orga$ through thi$ one $pe*ifi* phy$i*al te*hniNue.H The fa*t that y frien#$ %ere getting great re$ult$ "oo$te# y *onfi#en*e to help guy$
out even further, %hi*h further prove# I %a$ onto $o ething "ig. I really #i#nDt have ti e
%ith
y full-ti e IT $tuff, "ut I $tarte# %riting everything #o%n an# a$ I %rote, I realize# y frien#$, GLoo3, itD$ not %hat I #o. ItD$
y full-ti e Jo", "ut I %ill #o thi$ $tuff part-ti e.H So I %rote thi$ "oo3 an# $tarte#
*o ing out %ith $o e #ifferent tip$ an# te*hniNue$, real ea$y one$, that guy$ *oul# u$e to really "e a"le to *hange their life "e*au$e $ex i$ the o$t i portant thing for guy$, itD$ the
o$t i portant thing in the %orl# if you thin3 a"out it. (ouDre here "e*au$e of $ex. ItD$ %hat %e thin3 a"out all #ay long. ItD$ %hat ID a"out at thi$ *afQ ID thin3ing
%riting in %hile a really hot "lon# girl i$ rea#ing $o e la e fanta$y e$$ aroun# an# get to the point a3e$
novel. If $he only 3ne%6 @ore i portantly, after you you %ant a
ore $eriou$ relation$hip that la$t$, youDre going to have to la$t. It only ore an#
$en$e an# if you *an la$t longer, $he %ill %ant you $ex youDve al%ay$ %ante#, ore an#
$heD$ not going to %ant to have *hil#ren %ith you, $heD$ not going to treat you %ell, an# $heD$ going to "e loo3ing for other option$. Chri$ Ro*3 on*e Jo3e#, G' an i$ only a$
faithful a$ hi$ option$.H 5ell thatD$ #efinitely true M "ut the $a e goe$ for %o en. (ou #onDt thin3 they get hit on an# a$3e# out every #ay of their lifeL 5o en $ay that oney #oe$nDt really atter a$ long a$ thereD$ true love. 5ell if youDre ight Ju$t turn into
chasing her (or sex. 0ave you ever trie# to *onvin*e your girl to have $ex %ith youL I$ that %hat you %antL I $ure #onDt %ant that for you. (ouDre going to "e a"le to have unli ite# $ta ina, la$t a$ long a$ you %ant, an# get har# at any ti e at the #rop of a hat. )one of thi$ i$ out of your gra$p %hen you 3no% %hat youDre #oing. The$e pro"le $ youDre having, pro"le $ I u$e# to have, the$e are the pro"le $ of an inexperien*e# lover. (ou #onDt nee# to have $ex %ith 4, ,- or 4- girl$ to "e experien*e#. 5hen youDre a*tually experien*e# an# youDve $tu#ie# y etho#, youDll have thi$ unli ite# po%er to
$exually #o %hatever you %ant. (ouDll 3no% the p$y*hology in %hatD$ a*tually going on #uring $ex, an# then all of the$e thing$ %hi*h $ee e# $o out of rea*h are a*tually really, really ea$y for you. The rea$on I *reate# 1 +irl$ Tea*h Sex i$ "a$e# on the re$ult$ that guy$ %ere getting an# i$ geare# $o that you *an avoi# all the "a# $hit that happen$ %hen your girl i$nDt "eing plea$e# $exually. !y internalizing the infor ation in$i#e 1 +irl$ Tea*h Sex you %ill avoi#A - hu iliation fro your lover 3no%ing that you are not a real an
- lo$$ of
oney fro
- ego hu iliation *au$e# "y her *heating >n*e you put thi$ into play, your life %ill loo3 li3e thi$.
nagging, et*.
- "e*o e a $ex go#, %ith a azing *onfi#en*e going into any relation$hip Thi$ really IS a *hoi*e. 5ho #o you %ant to "eL >n*e you 3no% 50( o$t guy$ $truggle in "e#, it "e*o e$ ea$y to flip the $%it*h an#
ro*3 her %orl#. >ften guy$ are a *o "ination of $o e of the$e perfor er-type$, $o really thin3 *arefully, GI$ thi$ ever eLH !e hone$t %ith your$elf, I have "een ./.R( one of
The
o$t *o
on pro"le
i$ that guy$ Ju$t #onDt la$t the reNuire# ti e to give %o en ing too fa$t affe*t$ nearly ./.R( guy IDve ever %or3e#
%ith, $o #onDt feel alone6 Thin3 of the analogy that %o en are li3e *ar$. (ou *anDt turn your *ar on in the have to %ar i##le of the %inter an# $tart #riving really fa$t i e#iately. (ou
it upPan# get it rea#y for the fa$ter $pee#$. 5o en are the $a e %ay. If inute$ $he i$ pro"a"ly not going to orga$ an# ay even fa3e
it. The goo# ne%$ i$ that $ta ina i$ a not a #iffi*ult pro"le
later on. Ral$o referen*e the 2/2 you have title# G$e inarH.8
The $ituation
any guy$ fin# the $elve$ in i$ that %hen the ti e *o e$, they *anDt get any ti e$ the guy ha$ trie# really har# Rno pun
inten#e#8 to get hi$ %ife or girlfrien# to 0'/. S.E an# then %hen the ti e i$ right, he i$nDt rea#y. Thi$ i$ a#e even %or$e %hen the guy ha$ to go out for #inner, %al3 on aterial thing$ or
egg$hell$ aroun# hi$ girl, ha# to "uy a gift for her, an# "a$i*ally tra#e *hore$ for $ex. 'fter all thi$, there i$ $o Tra#ing or $pen#ing u*h pre$$ure to perfor
oney to have $ex i$ very negative for the relation$hipA 0ere i$ %hat
The next rea$on %hy a lot of guy$ $u*3 in "e# i$ that they are e otionle$$. 'n# %o en *an tell6 5o en thrive on e otion, in the "e#roo an# out$i#e it. @any guy$ are li3e an
a$$e "ly-line ro"ot. They are thin3ing of GTou*h thi$, no% tou*h that, 3eep a $traight fa*eHP"eep "eep "eep6 5o en are *on$tantly tal3ing a"out ho% they feel an# ho% a guy are una"le to a3e$ the feel. If you
#iffi*ult to plea$e her. 1 +irl$ Tea*h Sex reveal$ ho% to *reate the strongest of e otion$
M even getting %et for no rea$on "ut for the fa*t that $heD$ thin3ing a"out you. 5eDll tal3 a"out that, "ut a variety of e otion$ nee#$ to "e provi#e# to turn her on fir$t. So re e "er, %hen you are the e otionle$$ ro"ot youDre not going to "e a"le to give your %o an orga$ $ *on$i$tently.
+uy$ %ho #onDt $ho% they are in *harge loo3 %ea3er, not *onfi#ent an# $lightly fe inine. The $ex %ill "e le$$ ex*iting an# $he %onDt thin3 youDre a real feel o3LH >n*e or t%i*e i$ goo#, "ut it 3ill$ the o ent6 an. G2oe$ thi$
5o en are loo3ing to "e le# in "e#. Sho% her you 3no% %hat you %ant. Sho% her ho% u*h you %ant her. They %ant you to "e in *harge. It #oe$nDt atter %hat they a*t li3e
out$i#e the "e#roo . 5hen you are pa$$ive an# un$ure of your$elf, it ra#iate$ #eep in the *ore of her fe inity an# $hut$ #o%n her attra*tion for you. >"viou$ly, at $o e ti e$ the e otional, ro anti* $ex i$ goo# "e*au$e you let #o%n your guar# an# $he *an $ee a $en$itive $i#e of you Man# you #onDt have to "e #o inant %hile feeling e otional M "ut other than that, itD$ i portant that you "e the one lea#ing the $exual intera*tion. I noti*e# thi$ a lot in y o%n life %hen I %a$ $tarting to have ay"e ore $ex. I thought that #oggy-$tyle
%hen I $tarte# experi enting an# a$3ing %o en %hat their favorite po$ition %a$, al o$t every %o an $ai# G#oggy-$tyle.H They love# it %hen I fu*3e# the $pan3e# the really har# an#
an# *ontrolle# the . 5hen you are in an authoritative po$ition %ith a o$t turne# on that they ever get.
(ou *anDt "e Ju$t a peni$, len#ing your $exual organ to the girl an# "e thin3ing a"out %or3 or #aily life. .ven if itD$ @ar*h @a#ne$$ or the 9layoff$, the $ex %ill "e terri"le for you ')2 for her if youDre #eta*he#. (ou *an fool a %o an $heDll noti*e an# then tune out her$elf. !e in the *u o ent. Loo3 into her eye$ an# a3e it inti ate. For you to la$t long an# not ay"e on*e or t%i*e, "ut
$oon, you have to ta3e your ti e an# $ho% that you are paying attention to her an#
her nee#$. Rea*h #o%n an# tea$e her leg$, then 3i$$ her lip$ gently a$ you $lo%ly %i#en her pu$$y lip$. @a3e it $pe*ial an# involve her %hole "o#y. The $en$ory overloa# an# #irty-tal3 R%hi*h %eDll get into later8 %ill explain thi$ in #etail un#er 9re$en*e. a3e her *u over an# over. Thi$ "oo3 %ill
La$t i$ %hat I *all the %anna-"e $ex-guru, an# the $ex guru ha$ rea# all the$e
agazine$
an# "oo3$ an# theyDre all "a$e# on the phy$i*al, theyDre not "a$e# on feeling$. So the $ex guru thin3$ if I ove the *litori$ in thi$ #ire*tion or I $Nueeze her "rea$t$ in thi$ %ay, or I
flip her at thi$ angle an# I tou*h thi$ "o#y part right here an# I $ay thi$ in thi$ %eir# hypnoti* %ay, $heDll "e $exually plea$e#. TheyDre al%ay$ trying to #o $o ething %eir# "e*au$e they thin3 theyDre thi$ guru that 3no%$ the$e *razy tri*3$ %hen in reality they #onDt really 3no% anything an# their girl get$ really turne# off "e*au$e $he thin3$ G5hat i$ thi$ guy #oingLH 0eD$ trying $o har#, he thin3$ he i$ thi$ guru an# heD$ #oing all $ort$ of %eir#, *razy $hit, an# none of it i$ attra*tive "e*au$e he Ju$t loo3$ li3e a #or3. So loo3ing li3e a #or3, i$ a terri"le #ire*tion to ta3e. So if you thin3 that youDre any of the$e,
exa ine %hat youDre #oing %rong an# then %eDll a#Ju$t to the right %ay of #oing thing$. To Su FpA
Tho$e are the $ix type$ of lover$ R*o "o$ of lover$8 that $u*3 in "e#. ItD$ not %hat ID telling you, itD$ %hat %o en tell FS6 5o en #onDt %ant you to 3no% thi$ "e*au$e it hurt$, "ut %hen no one i$ aroun# an# they tal3 %ith their girlfrien#$, thi$ i$ %hat *o e$ out. ID not Ju#ging you "e*au$e I %a$ in the $a e po$ition, $o the 3ey i$ to avoi# the pain of
"eing one of tho$e guy$. So %hat type of lover 2RI/.S 5>@.) '!S>LFT.L( CR'U(L
The Four Sure Signs That ou!re "n the #ight Trac$ 5hen %o en are $exually $ati$fie# they a*t *o pletely #ifferent. There i$ no nagging, no *o plaining a"out you $itting on the *ou*h too u*h, an# there i$ a *lo$ene$$ an#
appre*iation that they exhi"it to%ar#$ you. I re e "er %hen I %a$ a poor lover ID# al%ay$ %ant to $ee y girlfrien#. !ut invaria"ly $he %oul# have $o ething el$e to #o an#
I felt li3e I %a$nDt i portant enough or %a$ a*ting nee#y. Then, at the ti e$ that I #i# $ee her I %oul# try an# have $ex %ith her "ut $he %oul# a3e up ex*u$e$. If I ha# a penny
for every ti e I hear# that $he %a$ tire#, ha# a hea#a*he, or %a$ $tre$$e# an# not in the oo#, ID# "e a very ri*h an to#ay6 In reality, loo3ing "a*3 on it, %hatD$ $a# i$ that $he
2I2 5')T to have $ex, Ju$t not 'ith me, "e*au$e I *oul#nDt $ati$fy her. It %a$ $o painful to a# it that to y$elf, "ut I ha# to fa*e the truth. an.
Thin3 a"out %hen youDre in pu"li* an# you $ee a %o an that i$ #rape# all over her
She i$ $itting on hi$ lap, or 3i$$ing hi , or al%ay$ trying to hol# hi$ han#. ItD$ "e*au$e he i$ $exually $ati$fying her an# thi$ *au$e$ the highe$t level of fe ale attra*tion. Sexually attra*tion far out%eigh$ oney, loo3$, *har , or even $o*ial $tatu$. )o% letD$ get into the
vi$i"le $ign$ that youDre going to $ee %hen youDre $exually $ati$fying her.
o$t %o en #o not have $ex Ju$t to Ghave $ex.H They have to "e a"le to
or at lea$t feel very $trong e otion$. 5hen a %o an i$ initiating $ex %ith you, ore. The ore that $he initiate$ $ex, the
ore $he i$ $exually fulfille# "y you. Ta3e note ho%ever, that there are $o e %o en %ho for p$y*hologi*al rea$on$ are not *o forta"le initiating $ex, $o in thi$ *a$e, if they 'CC.9T %hen you initiate $ex, that i$ the $a e thing. )ote al$o that in $o e *ulture$ the
%o en #o not initiate $ex for *ultural rea$on$, $o if you have a foreign lover or girlfrien# that ay "e the *a$e a$ %ell, $o rea# her rea*tion %hen (>F initiate# $ex.
(ou nee# to realize that %o en initiate $ex very #ifferently than guy$. @any guy$ %ill $tart groping a %o an an# 3i$$ing her in an atte pt to turn her on6 RI *ertainly trie# thi$8. 'l$o any guy$ %ill "ring up the topi* of $ex an# "a$i*ally a$3 their %o en if $he %ant$
to have $ex right no% or that night. 5hen %o en initiate $ex they u$ually #o it very $u"tly. They %ill $ay thing$ li3e, GLetD$ ta3e a nap,H GI nee# a hug,H GI nee# a or GLet$ %at*h a a$$age,H
ovie.H If you are hearing thing$ li3e thi$, *han*e$ are that $he i$
initiating $ex. Iu$t $tay *al , an# #onDt try an# $3ip that $tep. In her hea# $he i$ $eeing thi$ a$ the 9R.CFRS>R to $ex, an# if you try an# $3ip the nap or the hug, the $ex %onDt happen. She #oe$nDt %ant to $ee li3e a $lut or $ex-*raze#, $o $he ten#$ to
$u"*on$*iou$ly tri*3 her$elf an# hi#e %hat $he really %ant$6 So #onDt put the *art "efore the hor$e6
their %ive$ an# *anDt GgetH her to have $ex. 5hen I a$3 ho% $he i$ treating hi the "e#roo thing$ li3eA ,8 GID al%ay$ getting nagge# to #o *hore$.H
the an$%er$ are al o$t al%ay$ univer$ally not po$itive. They *o plain of
18 GShe tell$
a3e enough
5hen you are *o pletely $ati$fying a %o an $exually the$e i$$ue$ re$olve the $elve$ very Nui*3ly. They often *o pletely #i$appear "e*au$e the unhappine$$ *on*erning $ex %ith you i$ the C'FS. of their pro"le $. 9oor $ex pro"le $. anife$t$ it$elf in all of the$e
$o $trong that $he i$ very $en$itive to the tou*h, $he i$ R.'LL( into the $ex.
Strong orga$ $ an# $trong e otion$ are *onne*te# for %o en, $o if you are giving her $trong orga$ $, $he %ill "e $ho%ing a very $trong feeling of attra*tion to%ar#$ you.
>ver%hel ing >rga$ , @ultiple >rga$ $Strong Feeling of 'ttra*tion to%ar#$ you Strong Feeling of 'ttra*tion To%ar#$ (ouI prove# !ehavior to%ar#$ you $o that you %ill 3eep having $ex %ith her
an. Sure there i$ the o**a$ional %a*3o R"oth they are *heating, "ut
)..2 an# CR'/. goo# $ex. 5hen they get it, they have "lin#er$ on to other are the only an to the an# they %ant to "e
en. (ou
Four Surprisingly Simple Secrets of the Alpha %ale There are Four Se*ret Foun#ational 9illar$ of a Sexual 'lpha @ale at hi$ *ore. Internalize the$e Se*ret Foun#ational 9illar$ an# you %ill "e $eeing a #ifferen*e in your "e#roo $3ill$ i e#iately.
a$$ive %hite $tone pillar$. For you, the Sexual 'lpha @ale, the ,$t pillar of your foun#ation i$ strong emotions over )hysical touch. 5hen %o en have STR>)+ orga$ $ it i$ not "e*au$e of a phy$i*al $en$ation that they are feeling. It i$ "e*au$e of a STR>)+ .@>TI>) that they are feeling. .ven if you are fu*3ing her really har#, it i$ not the thru$ting thatD$ a3ing her *u , itD$ the feeling of "eing fu*3e# har# an# "eing
ta3en. 5o en thrive on e otion. There are certain positions that give her orgasms and certain hand and oral techniques that better assist you in getting her to cum. Those are taught further on in the chapter on orgasms) However, not that ultimate goal is to use emotions over the core training of physical techniques.
repeate#ly %ith enor ou$ #il#o$. That i$ only in porn. 5hen a nor al %o an a$tur"ate$ $he u$e$ an average $ize# #il#o or tou*he$ her$elf an# F')T'SIU.S a"out a an a3ing love to her >R fu*3ing her pu$$y until $heD$ in e*$ta$y. She i$
@')FF'CTFRI)+ $trong e otion$. 5hen youDre having $ex %ith her, you %ill her feel tho$e $trong e otion$ an# $he %ill *o e all over you6 %ore &roof' (o) *omen Tal$ about Sex Amongst +ach "ther Thin3 a"out %hen %o en tal3 to other %o en a"out $ex. '**or#ing to %ith any %o en, if the $ex i$ great, they tal3 a"out ho% en a3e the
a3e
a"out ho% %o en loo3. They tal3 a"out the $hape of her "rea$t$, ho% her a$$ loo3$, %hat $he %a$ %earing, an# %hat 3in# of pantie$ $he ha# on. @en tal3 a"out all thi$ $tuff that i$ phy$i*al, "ut %o en tal3 a"out ho% the an a#e the feel. So thatD$ the 3ey ta3ea%ay.
*l'ays think (eelings over )hysical. The e otion$ you give her C>@!I).2 %ith your other "e#roo ta*ti*$ are %hat i$ going to *reate the "e$t $exual experien*e$ of her life6
Re e "erA phy$i*al $ti ulation i$ le$$ i portant than $trong e otion$ "ut i$ *ore training.
the FLTI@'T. R.L'TI>)S0I9 0.'L.R. (ou #onDt nee# any $ex therapi$t$, an# you #onDt nee# any p$y*hologi$t$. Ta3ea%ayA Inve$t in your$elf an# get your $exual $3ill$ han#le#6
$o ething phy$i*ally %rong %ith the . In ==V of *a$e$, %hen a guy i$ $truggling in "e# itD$ "e*au$e of any or all of the$e 3 thing$A 5rong in#$et$ an# "elief$ lea#ing to ina"ility to get har# or la$t long enough. ale internally an# exu#e that *onfi#en*e
in the "e#roo , itD$ ea$y to fall into $elf-#ou"t. 2ou"ting or %orrying a"out la$ting a long ti e i$ the %rong %ill a3e you *u in#$et. !elieving that $he i$ $o hot that the $lighte$t phy$i*al tou*h entally put$ her in *harge an# you a$ the $exual "eta anhoo#. (ou have to ale. (our
have in your hea# a"out the po%er of your *o*3. >%n the ri$e an# fall of your *o*3. 'llo% your$elf to "e turne# on fully "y her, "ut TR')SF>R@ the e otion$ of $elf#ou"t, an# anxiety into C>)FI2.)C. an# 'FT0>RIT(.R%e %ill #o thi$ together8. (ou %ill get har# naturally a$ $oon a$ you #e$troy the anxiety in#$et. (ou nee# to reale6
%ire your$elf to the *orre*t "elief$ a"out your #o inan*e a$ a $exual alpha La*3 of 3no%le#ge a"out %hat really turn$ %o en on
5e all 3no% 3no%le#ge i$ po%er. 5hen you #onDt 3no% %hat really turn$ %o en on, you #onDt have $exual po%er nee#e# to "e the "e$t lover you *an "e. Re e "er I $po3e a"out Se otion$D "eing $o i portant for a %o anL If $he i$ e otional a"out $ex %ith you, the $ex %ill ean ore an# ea*h thru$t in$i#e her %ill feel that u*h #eeper an#
penetrate her *ore. 5o en 3no% that they are gui#e# "y their e otion$, $o they try an#
*ontrol the
a$ "e$t they *an. They #onDt %ant to "e in *ontrol though. They %ant you to an# $ti ulate the , entally an# phy$i*ally. (ou *an give a the "a*3 of her hea# *an
girl an orga$ , Ju$t "y #irty tal3. ' $light hair tug fro $o eti e$ in$tantly $ho% her you %ill
in #etail. (ou have to learn the te*hniNue$ an# $ee %hi*h %or3$ "e$t on your girl an# in the right *ontext. So really, thereD$ nothing %rong %ith your "o#y. 5hatD$ %rong i$ ho% you are u$ing your "o#y "a$e# on "a# in#$et$ an# "elief$. ItD$ very rare to fin# a guy %ith a phy$i*al
*on#ition that i$ lea#ing to "a# $ex. It i$ often that you fin# a guy >FT >F S0'9. an# %ho i$ hurting hi$ $ex life Rgetting tire# or %in#e#8 thatD$ lea#ing to "a# $ex "ut there i$ nothing phy$i*ally %rong %ith hi$ *o*36 +uy$ get in that ha"it of getting *u u*h $ti ulation in ing too fa$t "e*au$e of a$tur"ation. ThereD$ $o
ti e a$ po$$i"le. In porn the girl$ are all #olle#-up, a*ting really $lutty an# theyDre in *ertain po$ition$ an# thereD$ all thi$ %il#, *razy $ex. So itD$ not the fault of the guy M the %hole point of porn i$ to get you off, $o itD$ not li3e youDre #oing $o ething %rong "y a$tur"ating. Thi$ i$ %hat happen$ to a lot of guy$. They a$tur"ate the %rong %ay an#
get u$e# to #oing it Nui*3 $o they #onDt la$t long %hen itD$ the real thing. So #onDt %orry a"out it. If thi$ happene# to you an# you #o have pro"le $, realize that you *an fix the$e thing$, that theyDre not a "ig #eal, an# %eDre going to get the han#le# on*e an# for all6
Car$ #onDt atter. Loo3$ #onDt atter. @oney #oe$ not atter. It help$ initially attra*ting %o en, "ut ' F.RR'RI >R S9>RTS C'R C')DT FFC; ' +IRL.
' pretty loo3ing #u#e *anDt fu*3 a girl %ith hi$ goo# loo3$. 2ollar "ill$ *anDt fu*3 a girl. (ou get the point. 5hen pu$h *o e$ to $hove, itD$ Ju$t you na3e# on top of her. Creating an a azing, in#-"lo%ing $exual experien*e for a %o an i$ all a"out your $exual a"ilitie$, %hi*h are *o pletely L.'R).2. If you %ant to "e Gthe anH or even a Greal anH "e*o e goo# in "e#6 It %ill *hange ./.R( a$pe*t of your life6 Tho$e are truth$ a"out $ex that %ill $trengthen your $exual life. Fnlearn the "a#, learn the goo#. ,. Strong e otion over phy$i*al $en$ation. 1. +reat Sex i$ >ne of the @o$t I portant 9art$ of a Relation$hip
3. There i$ )othing 5rong 5ith (our !o#y. 4. Sexual '"ility @a3e$ the @an. Learn to *ontrol your "o#y, her e otion$, an# %hat turn$ her on. Thi$ *reate$ the an %ho *an have great $ex an# la$ting relation$hip$. ItD$ really i portant to a3e $ure that you 3no% tho$e four truth$. The Six %indsets of the Sexual Alpha %an Revealed +uy$, itD$ really i portant to "e hone$t %ith your$elf, $o ID in#$et$ that $exual alpha get your gonna lay out for you the :
in# G$etH on. If youDve "een G$etH on "eing a lo$er in "e# until you pi*3e# up in#$et. !efore you get into any phy$i*al te*hniNue$, any in#$et$ for your
ver"al te*hniNue$, any 3in# of %il# an# *razy $ex $tuff, rea# the $ix "e$t $ex ever.
If youDre going to *hange everything aroun# an# "e*o e goo# in "e#, it i$ a"$olutely e$$ential that you a#opt thi$ "elief6 I per$onally hol# thi$ "elief a"ove all other$. IDve $een in*re#i"le *hange in y$elf, an# IDve $een it in other$.
Iu$t a fe% $hort year$ ago I #i#nDt even thin3 *hange %a$ po$$i"le. I thought that $o e guy$ Ju$t ha# it an# other guy$ #i#nDt. That I %oul# al%ay$ "e *u ing in un#er a y life.
inute an# that I %oul# have $truggle$ %ith %o en an# $exuality the re$t of
The *razy thing i$ that thereD$ proof every%here that people *an *hange, an# they do *hange, "ut you Ju$t #onDt $ee it "e*au$e you #onDt %at*h your next #oor neigh"or having $ex. (ou #onDt %at*h other people having $ex. The only $ex that you $ee i$ %ith your girl or in pornography, %hi*h i$ *o pletely #ifferent, theyDre naturally gifte#. (ou have to learn the $3ill$. (ou %onDt $ee the *hange unle$$ you "elieve it. If youDre thin3ing GThi$ i$nDt going to %or3H then it %onDt6 !ut if you 3eep #oing %hat youDve al%ay$ "een #oing, youDre going to get the $a e re$ult$6 IDve %at*he# telling y frien#$ go fro $truggling %ith %o en to having outrageou$ $u**e$$, ing $o u*h they %ere "e*o ing
That girlD$ nut$. That girlD$ a frea3. (ou got lu*3y.H The truth i$, u$ing G0ave 9orn $tar SexH i$ in*re#i"ly effe*tive an# after having $o any of y $tu#ent$ tell e ho% goo#
thing$ got %ith their girl$, I had to be a believer in my o'n advice6 STA#T T",A a*tively "elieving that you *an have goo# or great $ex %ith %o en no atter %here you are to#ay. That i$ in#$et ?,.
%ith having $ex %ith you. (ou Ju$t nee# to $ee it on*e to $ee it in a*tion to really internalize thi$.
(ou %ill ./.) "e a"le to give %o en %hat ha$ "een tra#e ar3e# a$ an G>ver%hel ing >rga$ C.H So @in#$et 1 i$ "oth that you *an give %o en orga$ $ an# T0'T your girl i$ *apa"le of having in#-"lo%ing G>ver%hel ing >rga$ $.H (our girl ay have $truggle# to have
orga$ $ in the pa$t, "ut on*e you 3no% the $e*ret$ $he %ill $urpri$e "oth of you %ith ho% $exual $he *an get. IDve $een even the o$t uptight, *ol#e$t hou$e%ive$ a*t li3e $lutty, 1 +irl$ Tea*h
*raze# teenage $*hool girl$ after having $ex %ith a guy %ho learne# fro Sex.
>indset 5< 1ear and Shame -ill #ot Stand in >y -ay'
I ha# a very $u**e$$ful $exual a$tery $u it I #i# M "a$i*ally a $uperior an $exuale a lot of
tran$for ation %ee3en#. 'n# the guy$ %ere a%e$o e guy$. They re in#e# y$elf, exa*tly %here I %a$ at an# rea#y for *hange.
!ut I noti*e# a fe% guy$ getting $nare# "y the $a e ego-trap. Thi$ guy *a e in an# $ai#, G(eah, %hen I have $ex %ith %o en, really love y pro"le i$ that they fall in love %ith e. They
e all the ti e.H I %a$ li3e, G@i3e, if thatD$ oney "a*3, an# I %ant you to tea*h the
%hatD$ happening ID
*our$e "e*au$e youDre $o goo# %ith, an# they really li3e you. I *anDt help you.H I felt li3e there little "it *u u$tDve "een a rea$on he %a$ there though, $o I $ai#, G5ell, tell ea
ing.H So, G5ell, @i*hael, I #onDt really thin3 thatD$ the *a$e. 0o%
e W4,--- to *o e to
y inner *ir*le
e that 3< girl$ that youDve hoo3e# up %ith $tarte# *u li3e, GThat i$ po$$i"le M
ay"e $o e guy$
*an #o that M "ut they #onDt *o e to the $e inar$ an# pay five gran# to tell other people a"out it.H To a3e a long $tory $hort, I too3 the guy a$i#e an# he finally reveale# to e
heD# only ha# $ex on*e an# he *a e in un#er a an# hi$ tone %a$ very $ullen. !ut I tol# hi %e got hi 14 the $3ill$ he nee#e# an# 1
(ou nee# to a# it that %hat youDre #oing i$nDt %or3ing. If you thin3 youDre a fullfle#ge# $ex go# porn $tar, thi$ progra D$ not for you. (ouDve got to realize that you C') i prove your $exual $3ill$. )o atter ho% "a# you are, they 5ILL i prove. 'n# no
atter ho% goo# you thin3 you are, you *an $till get "etter. If your girl i$nDt trying to have $ex %ith you all the ti e, an# $heD$ not a##i*te# to having $ex %ith you M re e "er, %o en nee# $ex M then hey, youDre not %here you nee# to "e.
I u$e# to thin3, GIf I learn ho% to have "etter $ex rather than Ju$t figure it out on then ID a lo$er.H ID# thin3, GID not a *ool guy "e*au$e I got help.H
y o%n
ThatD$ not true. 'ny $3ill in life i$ learne#. (ou #i#nDt %a3e up an# 3no% ho% to #rive a *ar. (ou #i#nDt %a3e up an# 3no% ho% to play guitar. 'ny $3ill thatD$ %orth 3no%ing, learning a language, progra ing a *o puter, anything, you ha# to learn.
)> >). IS ' )'TFR'L. +uy$ that have a lot of $ex really early in their live$ an# get experien*e %ith a %i#e variety of %o en %hyA 1 +enerally '**epte# 5ay$ +uy$ thin3 they +et +oo# in !e# 0ave $ex really early in life an# %ith ultiple %o en often $o you have ton$ of ight $ee natural, "ut they are not. 0ereD$
experien*e$ Rvery fe% guy$8. ThatD$ "a$i*ally Gexperien*e#-"a$e# learning.H Learning the unproven aterial fro guy$ %ho $ay theyDre goo# in "e# an# i ple enting
etho#$.
The guy$ %ho really G+.TH fe ale $exuality are the one$ that ha# poor $ex $3ill$ to $tart %ith. The$e guy$ Rli3e $hiel#$ the fro e8 have the o$t in*entive to learn an# #onDt have that ego that
o"viou$ $hort*o ing$. +uy$ that arenDt that goo# 0'/. T> learn
ho% to "e goo# in "e#. There i$ a $aying that I love, an# that youDll love too. It i$ one of y favorite$. GThe 5or$t .ne y of !eing +reat I$ !eing +oo#H
Really thin3 a"out that. The 5or$t .ne y of !eing +reat i$ !eing +oo#. Starting out )>T having goo# $exual $3ill$ ean$ that you have the desire and the need to im)rove.
(ouDll "e +R.'T an# "lo% pa$t even the "e$t Gnatural$H an# Gexperien*e-"a$e# learner$.H So itD$ o3ay to get help. 5hen youDve got an i$$ue in your life, youDve got to e "ra*e it, realize youDre going to get it han#le#, an# then "oo , ta3e *are of it. !e*au$e youDre for*e# to fix it, you %ill. 'nother exa ple i$ a guy %ith a huge tru$t fun#. !eing Ggoo#H Rhaving enough oney to live8 i$ the ene y of "eing great6 So any guy$ %ith tru$t
eaningful %ith their live$ an# they eventually have a any of the %ealthie$t people
i$era"le #e i$e. Loo3 at the For"e$ 4-- on the han#, $o in the %orl#, an# .xa ple8 any of the *a e fro the "otto
@ax Lev*hin K For tho$e of you %ho #onDt 3no% a"out @ax Lev*hin you nee# to. 0e %a$ "orn very poor in .a$tern .urope. !arely e$*ape# Cherno"yl an# *a e to the Fnite# State$ %ith hi$ poor i igrant fa ily. Through hi$ o%n har# %or3 an# pa$$ion he
foun#e# 9aypal an# nu erou$ other *o panie$ #e$pite $tarting %ith nothing. @ax i$ *a e fro the "otto an# Glearne#H hi$ %ay to a W,-the "otto illion #ollar fortune "y age 3-.
%ith a $en$e of urgen*y, you *an "e at the top. (ou *an
"e "etter in "e# than any guy you 3no%. It i$ po$$i"le. I guarantee it. Frgen*y i$ one of your "igge$t a$$et$. Start u$ing it no%6 L.'R)6
She #oe$nDt get horny.H >r, GShe li3e$ to *u##le an# $heD$ very ro anti*, "ut $he #oe$nDt li3e $ex. She i$ ore intere$te# in %hether I #o the *hore$ an# ta3e out the tra$h an# #o ore than having $ex.H
ThatD$ "e*au$e youDre not $ati$fying her $exually. 5o en give up if they *anDt "e $exually $ati$fie#, an# they ove on an# preten# it #oe$nDt atter. Then eventually they
$tart flirting %ith other guy$, *heating an# then thereD$ the #ivor*e an# the hu iliation that you %erenDt an enough to $ati$fy her. ore than en. The $ooner you realize thi$, the "etter off %o en that I tal3e# to, %ith their pi*ture. u*h they nee# $ex.
The$e are nor al, real %o en. 'n# theyDre telling you exa*tly ho% If you thin3 that you nee# $ex, G0ey, ID %o en. Their
ain goal in life i$ to have *hil#ren, to "e *hil#-"earer$. If they *anDt have $exually i$
$ex an# goo# $ex at that, the guy that i$ $uppo$e# to $exually $ati$fy the letting the
#o%n at a pri al, in$tin*tual level. ThatD$ $o ething thatD$ really got to "e in#$et that 'omen need sex more than men.
Thi$ i$ every%here. 5hat #o you thin3 %o en rea#L Loo3 at +osmo)olitan. Loo3 at YM. Loo3 at all the$e %o en agazine$, the $tuff that you loo3 at, an# youDre, li3e, GThatD$ agazine$6
tra$h.H 5hat #o they tal3 a"outL It$ all $ex tip$ an# $ex hea#line$ on tho$e
Loo3 at all the ti e they $pen# "uying $hoe$, "uying un#er%ear, pro#u*t$ to loo3 goo#. (ou ever loo3 at a
a3e-up,an# other
un#er%earL )ot to "e graphi* or %eir#. 2u#e$ Ju$t thro% on a pair of "oxer$ or tighty%hitey$. GThere it i$. ItD$ y un#er%ear.H 5o en $pen# hour$, GI$ thi$ the right
un#er%earL 2oe$ it loo3 goo#L Thi$ $hirt, the$e pant$, #o I loo3 fat in thi$LH ItD$ "e*au$e theyDre $exual *reature$. They %ant to loo3 #e$ira"le. They have all thi$ $exual #e$ire, "ut $o*iety repre$$e$ it, an# the exa ple$ of thi$ are every%here. 'n# (ou 2onDt Thin3 5o en 5ant 'n# Care '"out SexL
So no% that you 3no% %o en are $exual *reature$, an# hopefully youDve internalize# thi$, letD$ ove on to the next in#$et.
>indset 9< I Can &et This *andled - #;The final in#$et i$ that the ti e to a*t i$ )>5. The rea$on that youDre not goo# in "e#
)>5 i$ "y not a##re$$ing thi$ area of our life the right %ay, %ith proper e#u*ation. ItD$
a3e$ it very tough for guy$ to 3no% %here to turn on $u*h a $3ill$ arenDt up to
$en$itive an# per$onal i$$ue. 5hatever the rea$on that your "e#roo par, itD$ not your fault an# you are going to han#le thi$ pro"le Congratulation$ on
anning up an# fixing thi$ pro"le 6 @o$t guy$ #onDt have the "all$
to a# it it to the $elve$ let alone $olve the pro"le 6 +reat Jo", your lover %ill $*rea your na e in than3$6
thi$ "oo3LH 'll your negative "elief$ are irrational an# in*orre*t, $o po3e $o e fun at the 6 G5o en #onDt li3e $ex. 5o en li3e fu*3e#. They %ant you to fu*3 the they #onDt %ant to go el$e%here6 Li$t every ti e thi$ "elief i$ #i$proven %ith $o*ietal exa ple$. @agazine$ K Ju$t go through an# li$t a fe%. 'n# I %ant you to %rite #o%n %hat the negative *on$eNuen*e$ that are going to happen fro not *hanging your "elief$ an# not getting goo# in "e# an# ovie$.H Ftterly ri#i*ulou$6 They %ant to get a3e love to the right $o
not having your "e$t $ex ever. 5hat %ill your life "e li3e in five year$L 5hatD$ your relation$hip going to "e li3e %ith your %ifeL 're you going to 3eep your 3i#$L 're you going to get arrie#L 're you going to ever have $ex %ith her againL 're you going to "e out on a pie*e of paper. Then on*e
on there an# you have all the "a# thing$ on thi$ paper, ID
going to ta3e it
an# *ru ple it up an# thro% it out "e*au$e your ne% "elief$ are the one$ that you Ju$t rea#. 5hat you Ju$t learne# in thi$ "oo3 are your ne% "elief$. The ol# one$ nee# to "e
5eDre going to re*ap %ith a li$t. Thi$ i$ you )>5. I %ill learn to give %o en orga$ $. !eing goo# in "e# i$ po$$i"le no %here I a to#ay. atter
I *an give %o en orga$ $ %henever I %ant. 5hat IDve "een #oing i$nDt %or3ing. ItD$ o3ay to get help. 5o en nee# $ex ore than en.
The &-A-.-+ System for C"%&L+T+ S+/0AL &L+AS0#+ #+.+AL+, )o% %e're gonna get into the real eat of the progra A The 4 Co ponent$ of y
$y$te . The$e are the 4 *hara*teri$ti*$ that are going to %hat'$ gonna happen, i$ I'
gonna run through all four, then at the en# of thi$ *hapter, to a3e the %or3 even "etter. !e*au$e
%e're gonna tal3 a"out ho% to *o "ine the %hen you *o "ine the , they're
u*h $trongerA 1 X 1 Y 4.
AT*;RIT!
The fir$t trait i$ 'FT0>RIT(. 5o en #on't %ant another %o an. >ne $e*on# M ta3e that one in. 5o en #on't %ant another %o an. If they #i#, they %oul# "e a le$"ian. They %ant a an. (ou nee# to "e authoritative in "e#. (ou nee# to $ho% that you're in ean you're gonna *ho3e her li3e *razy, an# "e phy$i*al aggre$$ive
%ith o en. That'$ not the goal. (ou %anna al%ay$ treat %o en %ith re$pe*t, "ut you nee# to "e authoritative. They %ant a alpha $exual ale. 0ereD$ ho%A an. (ouDve got to "e anly. (ou've gotta "e the
1- ou 2the %an3 Are In Charge Sho% her you're in *harge "y lea#ing. !y having that naturally thin3, 7I' in *harge. I' the "o$$ here. I' in#$et of lea#er, you'll "egin to gonna #o %hat I li3e.7 (ou %anna u*h ale.
$ho% that you're in *harge, an# you're the one lea#ing the $exual intera*tion. It'$
ore attra*tive for %o en, %hether it'$ #uring $ex or #uring a #ate, to "e le# "y the That'$ ho% it'$ "een $in*e the *ave an #ay$. .volution ha$ $ho%n that $tronger,
ore #o inant, an# the %o an i$, going to follo% the lea# of the
in#$et an# a %ay of a*tion. So, you've gotta $ho% that you're in
The $e*on# trait of "eing authoritative i$ to T'L; 2IRT( %hen you're in the 'FT0>RIT'TI/. in#$et, an# %e'll tal3 a"out ho% to *o "ine authority an# e otion in#$et, you've got to re*ognize that
%hat goe$ %ith authority i$ tal3ing #irty. Try $aying thing$ li3e, 7!a"y, I love fu*3ing you,H or 7I love fu*3ing you right no%. (ou're *u ine. (ou li3e thi$L I' gonna a3e you
#o%n your leg.H 'n# Ju$t $aying thing$ that are #irty, li3e 7(ou li3e it %hen I fu*3
you.H 'll $ort$ of $tuff li3e that. (ou are going to $tart $lo% %ith tal3ing #irty "e*au$e
%hen you havenDt #one it an# you $tart, it *an "e too
i ple entation plan for ./.R(T0I)+ at the en# of the "oo3. Tal3ing #irty i$ really an authoritative thing. 0one$tly, the $tuff you hear in porno$ i$ pretty *lo$e to %hat you $houl# $ay, "ut u*h ore inten$e. !e*au$e in real life, %o en
really, really %ant to hear it, $o you *an get a$ *razy a$ you %ant. 'n# you *an $ay a lot of *razy $tuff "ut you have to $tart $lo%ly. I li3e to have guy$ $tart %ith $o ething li3e 7(ou li3e ho% I feel in$i#e youL7 So ething li3e that, an# then ra p it up fro ItD$ gonna "e #ifferent an# $oun# a "it a%3%ar# ay"e "ut you Ju$t have to get there.
*o forta"le tal3ing #irty. 5hen I $tarte# I thought I $oun#e# *reepy an# Ju$t #irty "ut you *an get a%ay %ith a lot of $tuff "e*au$e itD$ in the o ent. (ou %oul#nDt *all her
G y little $lutH in front of 3i#$ or out in pu"li* %here people *an hear. ItD$ all a"out !.I)+ I) T0. @>@.)T or !.I)+ 9R.S.)T. 5eDll "e tal3ing a"out 9R.S.)C. in #epth very $oon 5- &hysical Sensations of &ain The thir# part of authority i$ the phy$i*al $en$ation of pain. 'n# I #on't tie her up in "on#age an# thro% hot %ax all over her, "ut "y GpainH %e ean GpainH li3e ean $o e light
sla))ing. Li3e if you're having $ex %ith her #oggie-$tyle, lightly $lap her a$$ an# $ee the re$ult. >3ay. (ou *oul# ta3e her ar $, an# if you're in i$$ionary po$ition, pin her ar $
"ehin# her hea#. Try to get to the point %here you *an pin her %ri$t$ %ith one han# Rte$t the %ater$, "ut #onDt ever hurt her8. Thi$ all ean$ heightene# arou$al to%ar#$ you an# ean
a$$ive $ti ulation %hile $heD# nor ally "e afrai# of "eing helple$$. 'uthority *an
having $ex %ith her har#er. @oving fa$ter an# thru$ting in an# going #eeper. ' great %ay
to $ho% authority i$ ripping her *lothe$ off to $ho% ho% pa$$ionate you are. That'$ very authoritative. It *oul# "e pu$hing her #o%n into the "e#. That'$ authoritative. +et itL It *oul# "e having $ex %ith her $pontaneou$ly. That'$ really authoritative an# all $ho% $light pain an# the authoritative feeling of "eing ta3en.
6' 3ossession
'nother %ay of "eing authoritative i$ po$$e$$ion. 9reten# that $he "elong$ to you, an# $pe*ifi*ally that 9'RTS >F 0.R !.L>)+ T> (>F. Li3e Gthe$e are or Gthi$ i$ y "rea$t$Ttit$,H a3e her
y pu$$y.H (ou %ant to $ay thing$ that are really authoritative that
un#er$tan# that $he i$ your$. (ou %ant to $ho% authority. 'n# it #oe$n't
relation$hip that you're treating her li3e gar"age, an# $he 3no%$ that. It %ill pro"a"ly get to the point an# $heDll %ant to "e authoritative %ith you an# try to rip your *lothe$ off an# try to $u*3 your *o*3 off. ThatD$ great "ut a3e $ure you $till #o inate her an# $he
#oe$nDt feel too po%erful, "e*au$e %hether $he 3no%$ it or not, $heDll "e le$$ attra*te# to you if you let her *on$i$tently lea#, even though $he thin3$ $heD$ Ju$t "eing pa$$ionate. ThatD$ %here if $he get$ %il# for $ex %ith you, u$e /'RI.T(. Iu$t a re in#erMan# a3e $ure you vary it "y pu$hing her off you an# telling her GI love %hen you $u*3 *o*3. !ut right no% I nee# you to "en# over an# ta3e "a"y. @( 9FSS(. Tell e you %ant y *o*3 in$i#e. Thi$ i$ y
y pu$$y
y *o*3 #eep in$i#e you6H ThatD$ 9>SS.SSI>)6 a3e $ure that the po$$e$$ion #oe$nDt get *razy
%here $heD$ a$3ing you Nue$tion$ a"out %here you %ere all the ti e.
!ut %hen you fu*3 her $o goo# an# $he feel$ li3e $he o%n$ your *o*3 an# you o%n her
pu$$y, thing$ get /.R( T.RRIT>RI'L. ItD$ a great thing "ut feel li3e $heD$ the only one *on$tantly if $he get$ too territorial.
a3e her
So youDre in thi$ e otional $etting %hile you're having $ex %ith her, an# you're "eing really authoritative, an# giving her an authoritative $exual experien*e. (ou have to learn to $eparate the experien*e fro *are$$ing her, an# get her in the real life. 'l$o, you have to "e a"le to M in authority, $tart oo# to have $ex %hen $he %a$n't trying to have $ex
%ith you, "ut get her arou$e# $o that $he #oe$. That i$ authority right there. 2oggy $tyle i$ a perfe*t %ay to $ho% youDre the "o$$ of the intera*tion. 2onDt a$3 to #o #oggy$tyle. Iu$t pull her into po$ition an# get going6
3R(S(#C(
The *o ponent i$ 9R.S.)C.. 9R.S.)C. ean$ "eing in the o ent an# not
%orrying a"out anything el$e other than %hat'$ going on. It'$ not Ju$t you "eing in the o ent, it'$ 0.R "eing in the o ent. 9R.S.)C. ean$ that all you're thin3ing a"out
i$P.. a*tually nothing6 (ou're not thin3ing a"out anything, an# $he'$ not thin3ing a"out anything. >ften, you'll 3no% that $he'$ in the pre$ent %hen her eye$ are *lo$e#. If her eye$ are open, an# $he $taring at you or loo3ing aroun# the roo li3e, 7>h, $houl# that o ent at all. Thi$ i$
painting "e over thereL7 $he'$ not in the pre$ent, an# $he'$ not in the
a "a# thing, "e*au$e you %ant her not thin3ing anything, "ut feeling. 5o en are feeler$. 6o Tension >ne of the $ign$ that you're "oth in the pre$ent, i$ that there'$ no ten$ion. (ou're not feeling any $tre$$ in any u$*le$, you're not thin3ing a"out, 72i# I get that report #one for %or3L7 (ou're not thin3ing GI$ $he enJoying thi$L7 That'$ one of the "ig one$, GI$ $he enJoying thi$LH If you're thin3ing a"out that, you arenDt in the pre$ent. So, part of "eing pre$ent i$ not really %orrying a"out if $he'$ enJoying it, an# %e'll tal3 a"out ho% to a3e $ure that $he i$ enJoying it. In the "eginning, you're #efinitely going to "e %orrying a"out, 7I$ $he enJoying thi$L7 !ut, after a $hort %hile, it %ill "e*o e natural, an# you %on't %orry at all a"out %hether or not $he'$ enJoying it. It'll Ju$t happen on it$ o%n. (ouDll 3no% $heD$ enJoying the $ex. ' lot of guy$ are ten$e in "e# "e*au$e they are ten$e in their life. 'n# if you're ten$e in your life, you're gonna "e ten$e in "e#. So, the %ay to not "e ten$e in your life i$ through "reathing. So, no% %e're gonna go through a "reathing exer*i$e that %ill help $olve your "reathing pro"le .
,- *ount "reathing i$ one of the 0ere i$ ho% to #o itA ,8 Sit in a *o forta"le po$ition
o$t i portant thing$ you %ill learn to help your $ex life.
18 !reathe in $lo%ly through your no$e *on*entrating on you fill it %ith air. Thi$ "reath i$ ,. 38 hol# the in "reath for a $e*on# on*e it i$ all the %ay in 48 "reath out $lo%ly through your exhale i$ 1. 48 repeat in an# out in $a e
anner until you rea*h ,-. R4 *y*le$ of 18. Con*entrate only in#
on thin3ing a"out the nu "er you are on, nothing a"out life or any topi*. Clear your
other than the nu "er$. >n*e you hit ,- repeat *y*le until you fin# you are *o pletely relaxe#. In the "eginning thi$ a3e ta3e 4--4- "reathe$. 'fter you have #one thi$ a fe%
ti e$ it %ill "e ,--1- "reathe$. (ou %ill "e a"le to u$e thi$ te*hniNue to la$t a$ long a$ you %i$h in "e# an# #e on$trate#. 6ot Thin$ing About &enis or &erformance 5e're gonna ove into the next part of pre$en*e, %hi*h i$ not thin3ing a"out your peni$ I "ig enoughL ' I har# enoughL ' I I aintain a har# ere*tion. Che*3 it out in the 2/2 $e inar to $ee thi$
an# your perfor an*e. )othing a"out, 7' la$ting long enoughL '
har# enoughL7 5hat happen$L (ou get $oft. 7' (ou *u , or you get $oft. 7'
I goo# enoughL7 (ou $tart trying har#er. o ent, an# you lo$e your pre$en*e an# your
authority. It'$ ga e over, "e*au$e all of a $u##en, you've lo$t all a$pe*t of "eing goo# in "e#, an# you're no longer goo# at all. It'$ a "ig pro"le , $o you got to a3e $ure that you
aren't %orrying a"out any of the$e fear$ a"out your peni$, or a"out #ifferent a$pe*t$ of your $exuality. 0sing &rimal Instincts and ,esire
(ou #onDt %ant to "e thin3ing. (ou %ant to Ju$t "e going "y in$tin*t. So, in the "eginning, %hile you're learning thi$ $tuff, you're #efinitely gonna "e #oing a lot of thin3ing. There'll "e a learning *urve. Iu$t li3e anything el$e. Li3e %hen you learne# to #rive a $ti*3 $hift, %hen you learn a language, anything, you're thin3ing a"out it at the $tart. 75hat #o I $ay no%L 5hi*h gear to I $hift intoL7 (ou're learning. !ut, on*e you get pa$t the learning $tage an# pa$$ the learning *urve, you no longer %ant to "e thin3ing a"out %hat exa*tly you're #oing, an# %hat'$ going on. 'l%ay$ in$tin*t. Thin3 of a "ear that'$ gonna pull a $al on out of the river. 0e'$ not thin3ing, 7@ay"e I' hea# in thi$ #ire*tion. @ay"e the $al on %ill gonna ove y
here, an# the %in# i$ thi$ varia"le.7 Thin3 of Ju$t pure in$tin*t, Ju$t getting in there an# gra""ing that $al on.
The "ear Ju$t Ju p$ into the river an# gra"$ it. It #oe$ it out of a pri al in$tin*t. That'$ ho% you %anna "e %hen you're in the pre$ent. (ou're Ju$t pri al. Iu$t going right after it. That i$ 9R.S.)C..
(>;TI;#
The thir# trait i$ .@>TI>). %a$e (er Feel a #ange of +motions
.@>TI>) i$ all a"out giving her a range of e otion$. So eti e$ $he %ant$ to feel really %ante# in a *aring an# loving %ay. So eti e$ $he Ju$t %ant$ to feel li3e a pie*e of eat. 5o en %ant to feel #ifferent e otion$ #uring $ex. . otion al$o explain$ a lot of guy$ $exual pro"le . TheyDll get arrie#, or they'll get a girlfrien#, an# in the "eginning
the $ex i$ really goo#. 'n# then the $ex peter$ out. It'$ "e*au$e in the "eginning, there'$ $o u*h e otion for "oth of you. (ou're a#ly in love. (our "o#ie$ are ne%. There'$ a lot
of e otion in the "eginning. Then that e otion #ip$ over a ti e. So no%, after the initial e otion$ have #ippe#, you #on't %ant it to en# in a %ea3 7I love you.7 If you're $aying GI love you,H you %ant to $ay it %ith pa$$ion. The $tronger the e otion$, the $tronger the orga$ $ are gonna "e. The Stronger the +motions7 the 8etter 5o en are attra*te# to $trong e otion$. They love guy$ that a3e the feel $trong
e otion$. If you've ever $een a "a# "oy %ith a really hot girl, he
$trong e otion$, either in$i#e the "e#roo , or out$i#e. 'n# it'$ not that $he love$ ea*h e otion that $he feel$, it'$ that it'$ thi$ %il# roller *oa$ter of variou$ e otion$. 'n# you %ant to #o that in "e#. 2ifferent e otion$. Feeling$ of "eing love#. Feeling$ of Ju$t "eing fu*3e#. 2ifferent an# $trong e otion$ are %hat (>FR girl %ant$. ou %ust 8e .erbal in 8ed Thir# thing on e otion i$ that (>F @FST T'L;. If you're not tal3ing in "e#, there'$ no %ay you're *onveying any e otion. 5hat you #onDt realize i$ that goo# $ex involve$ ver"al *o uni*ation #uring $ex at ti e$. It'$ not that having open #ialogue or a
*onve$ation. It i$ a fe% $ele*t %or#$ u$e# here an# there that have a purpo$e. . otion$ are "e$t $ho%n through %or#$. >n*e you learn %hat to $ay youDll "e a"le to *reate $trong e otion$ very ea$ily Teasing T.'SI)+ i$ a great %ay to *reate e otion. If you're tea$ing a girl, an# you're really $lo%ly "uil#ing upPan# you're "uil#ing upPan# you're "uil#ing up, all that tea$ing *reate$ anti*ipation. 'nti*ipation *reate$ ex*ite ent So, tea$ing, anti*ipation, ex*ite ent. 'n# the %ay that you *an #o that, I Ju$t 3eep 3i$$ing, 3eep 3i$$ing until all of the $u##en $he $tart$ gra""ing you, an# then 3in# of pu$h her a%ay. 9lay har# to get. 2o %hat a %o an %oul# #o %hen you're trying to get her. Iu$t 3eep going %ith the foreplay, an# 3eep gently pu$hing her a%ay in a tea$ing anner, until finally $he *an't ta3e it
any ore, an# $he really %ant$ you in$i#e of you. 8eing +motional ourself It ta3e$ t%o people to have great $ex. So you have to !. .@>TI>)'L (>FRS.LF. If you *an't "e e otional your$elf, $he'$ not going to feel e otion. So, %hen you're telling her thing$, a3e $ure that you really ean it. . otion i$ pretty har# to fa3e for o$t
guy$. So, if you're not %ith a girl that you li3e, even $exually or in any to "e. If it'$ your %ife, you $houl# "e pretty e otional, "e*au$e you Re e "er "a*3 to the e otion$ that you felt %hen you e otional. 8e +motional 8ut Authoritative "utside of the 8edroom
arrie# her.
Try an# %or3 in a little "it of e otion into your relation$hip out$i#e the "e#roo , an# here are $o e %ay$ you *an #o thatA #omantic9+motional Tal$ )ith (er Ro anti* tal3 %ith her i$ a great %ay to a## a lot of e otion. Ro anti* tal3 li3e, 7I love you $o ean$ thing$
u*h, "a"y.7 If you're not *alling your %ife or girlfrien# "a"y, you
nee# to $tart no%. ;in# of ea$e it in there, other%i$e it $oun#$ a little %eir#. !ut ro anti* tal3 i$, 7>h, I i$$ you $o u*h.H G0o% u*h #o you love eL7 Stuff li3e that i$
) RI(T!
The fourth trait i$ variety. There i$ phy$i*al variety "ut thatD$ not %hat ID tal3ing a"out.
. otional variety i$ %hat i$ R.'LL( i portant. It'$ "eing a #ifferent type of lover %ho 3eep$ thing$ fre$h an# ex*iting. So, $o eti e$ you %ant to "e that really ro anti* guy, that Ca$anova, that *o e$ in an# $%eep$ her off her feet, $aying 7!a"y, I love you $o u*h. I love "eing in$i#e you.7 That'$ one 3in# of a lover. 8e ,ifferent Types of Lovers So eti e$ you nee# to "e the "a# "oy that'$ fu*3ing her really har#, an# you're gonna Ju$t 3eep fu*3ing her really, really har#. 'n# you're fu*3ing her #oggie-$tyle. (ou're $lapping her a$$. (ou're going *razy, rightL @ay"e you're fu*3ing her in a pla*e you $houl#nDt "e, li3e you're at her parent'$ hou$e, or in pu"li*. That'$ a #ifferent 3in# of e otion for her.
>r you *oul# "e narrating a very e otional fanta$y. So ething li3e out of a ro an*e novel. (ou *oul# "e telling her ho% u*h you love her an# ho% u*h you %ant to "e
%ith her. Thi$ type of $ex *an "e all a"out you "eing *onne*te# a$ onePThe point fro "oth exa ple$ i$ that e otional variety "y "eing #ifferent 3in#$ of lover$ i$ highly i portant. /'RI.T( i$ a"out giving her a #ifferent $en$ation of feeling$. It'$ not $olely a"out #ifferent po$ition$. 2ifferent po$ition$ #efinitely help, "e*au$e #ifferent po$ition$ give her #ifferent e otion$. If you #o #ifferent po$ition$, an# you $ay #ifferent thing$, an# you have #ifferent intera*tion$ in the$e #ifferent po$ition$, it'$ #efinitely gonna a## variety, "e*au$e it'$ a##ing e otional variety ')2 phy$i*al variety. !ut, po$ition$ the $elve$ aren't really that #ifferent. (ou only really nee# a"out four or five $exual po$ition$. (ou nee# to "e a"le to give her #ifferent e otion$ an# variety of $exual experien*e$ fro $a e $exual po$ition$. So, "eing #ifferent type of lover$ i$ one of the 3ey$ to variety. The $e*on# 3ey to variety i$ that po$ition$ aren't that i portant. 'n# I Ju$t tou*he# upon it, "ut po$ition$ aren't a$ i portant. 5hyL ItD$ "e*au$e you *an have %ithin one po$ition. @any of repeate#ly, Ju$t fro In the y $tu#ent$ have a#e a$$ive variety the
a3e love to her. (ou *an fu*3 her. (ou *an tal3 any #ifferent thing$ that you *an #o Ju$t
i$$ionary po$ition, that really *hange$ ho% $he'$ feeling an# %hat 3in# of orga$
So, another i$$ue to variety i$ S9>)T').IT(. If you're al%ay$ having $ex at =A-- at night, on Fri#ay night, that'$ not very $pontaneou$. (ou %ant to "e having $ex at #ifferent ti e$. So eti e$ you %ant to have $ex in the ren#ezvou$ in the i##le of the #ay, if you *an. Try an#
i##le of the #ay to have $ex. Try to have variou$ ti e$ %here you
have $ex. !e Spontaneou$6 (ou never %anna plan $ex. If it'$ planne#, it'$ not gonna have that variety. It'$ not gonna have e otion. It'$ gonna $ee onotonou$. So, you %anna
a3e $ure that the $ex i$ very $pontaneou$ a$ often a$ po$$i"le. ( eah, you're gonna have a lot of $ex at night after you go to "e#, an# in the orning %hen you %a3e up, "ut a$
u*h a$ po$$i"le try not $ti*3 to a $*he#ule. 2o it in the $ho%er, or ta3e a little trip together an# have $ex %hen you get there. (ou %ant a$ 0sing Fantasies ' +reat %ay to a## in variety i$ through FSI)+ F')T'SI.S. There are lot$ of #ifferent fanta$ie$. I put in a fe% $a ple fanta$ie$ in here. There'$ an entire progra !ut, fanta$ie$ are a great %ay to a## in variety, "e*au$e you *an on fanta$ie$. u*h $pontaneity a$ po$$i"le.
range of e otion$, a$ %ell a$ have a lot of fun your$elf, an# itD$ a very enJoya"le thing. 'n# again, %hen you a3e her feel a variety of e otion$, you're going to give her a lot a#ly in love %ith you. So, fanta$ie$ are one %ay to
of orga$ $, an# $he'$ going to "e a## in a lot of orga$ $. The ain %ay to have
that $he ha$. ;eep thing$ fre$h, "e a #ifferent 3in# of lover, "e $pontaneou$, an# u$e fanta$ie$ a$ a %ay to a3e $ure your $ex life #oe$nDt get "oring.
8e the %aster of The "ver)helming "rgasm: Fnli3e en %ho u$ually have Ju$t one type of orga$ , %o en are *apa"le of any any
ore Gplea$ure *enter$H an# #epen#ing on ho% goo# a they *an *o e ore ti e$ an# u*h $tronger.
LetD$ go over $o e of the type$ of orga$ $ %o en *an have an# a $ure-fire "a*3up plan to give any %o en an orga$ . 9hy$i*al Sti ulation orga$ $- Thi$ i$ the Ggo-toH orga$ $exual $3ill$. Thi$ orga$ Gphy$i*alH orga$ %hen youDre i proving your o$tly a
ha$ $trong e otion$. (our fir$t goal $houl# "e to learn to give %o en a $ti ulation orga$ vaginally an# every ti e. Fro
ove on to #eeper, full "o#y orga$ $. 0ere i$ a %ay to give a *litoral u*h ea$ier to #e on$trate than to
If you %ant to learn "y rea#ing. 0ere i$ ho% to give her a #eep $pot orga$ A I %ant to a3e thi$ really $i ple. oaning. ;i$$ her ne*3, outh, $i#e of "a*3, inner
18 5hile you are 3i$$ing her put your pal #o anything el$e Ju$t leave it there.
38 on*e $he $tart$ grin#ing up again$t your han# R$he %ill8 put your her %ith your pal up
48 go a$ far "a*3 a$ you *an %ith your finger on T>9 of her pu$$y until you fin# a $ ooth $pot 48 pre$$ on the $ ooth $pot an# $tart "e afrai# to apply $o e pre$$ure :8 3eep a3ing the *o e hither otion %hile you 3i$$ her ne*3 an# "rea$t$. a3ing a *o e here otion %ith your fingerP#onDt
.aginal "rgasms- /aginal orga$ $ are pro#u*e# #uring inter*our$e. The$e orga$ $ are har#er to have her a*hieve %ithout her fir$t having a phy$i*al $ti ulation orga$ $ex. The ore orga$ $ you *an give her "efore you have $ex the "etter the a*tual "efore
penetration %ill "e. /aginal orga$ $ are a re$ult of penetrating her in a rhyth i* *on$tant anner an# having pre$en*e, authority, variety, an# e otion. Ru$ing the 9'/. $y$te 8
tra#e ar3e# an# patente# a$ it i$ re*ognize# that it give$ %o en G>ver%hel ing >rga$ $.H I have $een other$ u$e %or#$ li3e Gfull "o#y orga$ H, *ontinuou$ orga$ i* $tate, repeate# *u ing et*. 0o%ever the ter Gover%hel ing orga$ H o$t a**urately
#e$*ri"e$ %hat i$ going. 5hen you $tart giving %o en Gover%hel ing orga$ $H you %ill "e a aze# ho% Nui*3ly they fall in love %ith you or you *reate unhear# of level$ of pa$$ion in your relation$hip. I *all the$e orga$ $ over%hel ing "e*au$e %hen %o en have an Gover%hel ing orga$ H they #onDt 3no% ho% any ti e$ they *a e. ItD$
over%hel ing "e*au$e it *reate$ a pri al fe ale $exual a##i*tion to you. ' %o an %ill often $ay $he i$$e$ you 1inute$ after you left ea*h other$ *o pany. She %ill tell all a#ly in love y o%n life. I
her frien#$ a"out ho% great you are an# $he %ill tal3 an# a*t li3e $he i$
%ith you. I 3no% thi$ $oun#$ ri#i*ulou$, I #i#nDt "elieve it until I $a% it in %a$ #ating thi$ girl ReneeO $he %a$ fro
%e $tarte# having $ex I $tarte# $lo% "e*au$e at thi$ ti e I %a$ a "it ti i# to try all of the te*hniNue$ that I u$e no%. >ver ti e %ith her though, I $tarte# i ple enting real authority an# $he "egan *u ing over an# over %ith Gover%hel ing orga$ $H 'fter the e $he love# e an# thi$ i$ a nor al girl, %ith no
e that $he ha# never felt $o goo# %ith $o eone an# e having $ex %ith her6 She "e*a e $o a##i*te# to y na e on the . Thi$
the $ex that $he %oul# $ho% up %ith foo#, gift$, an# pantie$ %ith
i$ the reality for $o e guy$ %hen your $exual $3ill$ are goo# enough. &roof *omen *ant It' #ead (ot Fantasies - *ritten by *omen; I really %ante# to prove that %o en have ela"orate e otional fe ale fanta$ie$ $o I %ante# $o e ran#o real life %o en to tell e their fanta$ie$. >f *our$e I *oul#nDt a$3
%o en I 3no% "e*au$e they #onDt %ant to tell the truth an# loo3 li3e $lut$. So I po$te# a#$ on Craig$li$t an# ha# %o en %rite in %ith their fanta$ie$. Thi$ $tuff i$ $o *lo$e to the 9.'./.. $y$te it$ un"elieva"le. Loo3 for all the ele ent$ of 9.'./.. %ithin the$e
fanta$ie$ an# you %ill "e a"le to *opy the$e fanta$ie$. The$e are ,--V true anony ou$ fanta$ie$ that prove ho% u*h %o en %ant an# nee# $ex.
y "rief*a$e on the *ounter, %al3 over to the $ofa an# $tan# in front of you. The %earing $top$ a"out i# thigh an# $tret*he$ tightly a*ro$$ y hip$, pulling y a ple
pin$tripe $3irt I a
lip. 5rapping
I lean into your $trength an# %ar th. I *an feel the #e$ire pool "et%een grin# y hip$ again$t you.
G2o you 3no% ho% "a#ly I %ant to fu*3 you right no%LH I graze your ne*3 an# you $hiver. G!a"y,H i$ all that you *an utter. (ou pull
y lip$
*a i$ole. @y ro*3 har# nipple$ po3e through the $ ooth fa"ri*, an# "efore I *an $top you, you lean for%ar# an# $u*3 on one through the thin it$ $tiff pea3. aterial. I ga$p a$ you ni""le at
G)ot yet, #arling,H I %hi$per in your ear. GI %ant to learn every part of your "o#y tonight. Iu$t lie "a*3 an# let e plea$ure you.H @y han#$ trail #o%n your a"#o en, e re ove the . I $tep "a*3,
y 4 in*h heel$, an# apprai$e your a azing "o#y. G0ere are the rule$A I tou*h e until I tell you it$ o3ay. +ot itLH
(ou $%allo% har# an# no# your hea#. IDve never ta3en *ontrol li3e thi$. I $tra##le your lap again an# ni""le at your earlo"e$. I *an feel your ere*tion pre$$ing again$t y thigh$.
I re$i$t the te ptation to Ju$t *li " onto your *o*3 an# ri#e you. I tra*e the line$ of your Ja% %ith y thu " an# 3i$$ your ne*3 $oftly. I run y finger$ a*ro$$ your $houl#er$ an# u$*le$. @y tou*h i$
#o%n your ar $, paying $pe*ial attention to the outline$ of your light an# tentative, an# i$ #riving you %il#. ID enough of your #ifferent texture$. I gra" your left han#, an# plant a 3i$$ in your pal . I run "efore ta3ing one into $trength. (ou gra" I y
outh an# $u*3ing, gently at fir$t, then %ith a "it y %ai$t, an# 3i$$
e aroun#
anage to get out "et%een pant$. GIDve got $o ething that %ill helpH. an# fin# a $il3 $*arf. I *an $ee the $3epti*i$ on your fa*e.
G2onDt %orry, "a"y. If at any point it get$ to "e too I tie the $*arf loo$ely aroun# your eye$. The $3in. I $tan# up an# $lo%ly unzip youLH
GID
here. Iu$t try to relax.H (our "reathing ha$ gotten $hallo% an# your *o*3 i$ $o har#, ight explo#e. I pull the *a i$ole off too. ItD$ #riving you %il# that you going to #o next. The $*ent of your arou$al outh an# $u*3 you #ry, "ut tonight i$ a"out
I get #o%n on the $ofa again an# lay a trail of 3i$$e$ #o%n the in$i#e of your ar . (ou $hu##er %hen y $oft lip$ "ru$h a*ro$$ your "i*ep. I *ontinue y a$$ault, running y
tongue along your $i#e, #o%n to your pelvi* "one. I inhale #eeply near your navel, *au$ing your a"#o en to Nuiver. I pin*h your nipple$, theyDre $o #ifferent fro you oan. I $li#e ine, an#
y finger$ through the thin *oar$e hair on your *he$t an# follo% it to
your $ ooth $to a*h. I "egin to ni""le at your thigh$, "reathing on your "all$ an# $haft, "ut not tou*hing the . I fli*3 y tongue a*ro$$ the tip of your *o*3, lapping up a #rop of pre*u . (ou $Nuir y na e. I run y finger$ a*ro$$ your lip$ an# pre$$ the in$i#e your a
y Jui*e$. (ou
y %ri$t an# $u*3 har#er. I *annot ta3e another $e*on#. @y a*hing pu$$y ha$ to y$elf onto your *o*3 an# re ove the "lin#fol#. y hip$, ri#ing you. (ou gra" y hip$ an# for*e y fle$h, a$ our e #o%n
onto you har#er an# har#er. I *an feel your finger$ #igging into ove ent$ "e*o e franti*. (ou $lap out, lou#ly. The $li*3 %all$ of nipple$ again.
(ou roll
into
e. @y leg$ are over your $houl#er$ $o you ri$ing a$ you po$$e$$ e. I run y
y orga$
fingernail$ #o%n your "a*3, a$ you fu*3 a fro *u . (ou pull "a*3 an# loo3 in you,
e. The $ting of your "ro3en $3in ex*ite$ you. I y *li ax. ' flu$h ha$ $prea# a3e e
your$ no%. I *ry out your na e, nearing the verge of y fa*e #o%n to y a"#o en an# ID
y eye$. GRoll over,H you $ay roughly. I get on all four$ for y hair an# Jer3 y hea# "a*3 a
y pu$$y thro""ing %ith ex*ite ent. (ou gra" e that you %ant e.H
little. GTell
I ta3e a $harp "reath in. I feel $o expo$e# %ith y Jui*e$ running #o%n you $la into e, "rui$ing y leg$. GFu*3
"rea$t$ are "oun*ing "a*3 an# forth, *au$ing uphol$tery of the $ofa.
(ou $tart to orga$ , an# the #eli*iou$ $oun#$ you e#ge. I $oa3 you %ith
e over the
(our five oD*lo*3 $ha#o% $*rape$ y a*hing *lit, *au$ing "ut you refu$e to let e to
y $en$itive inner thigh$. (our tongue $li#e$ a*ro$$ your na e. I $hu##er y *o pletion,
e $lo%ly, never *hanging pa*e or pre$$ure. I %hi per again. The orga$
thi$ ti e. It "uil#$ an# I "eg you to fini$h, "ut you 3eep that $a e pa*e. It i$ $o inten$e that I $oa3 your fa*e an# the $ofa.
I *ollap$e onto our over$ize# $ofa, trying to *at*h an# pull the afghan fro ar $ aroun# e, pulling
the "a*3 of the $ofa a*ro$$ our na3e# "o#ie$. (ou %rap your e again$t you. (ou are $o $trong, I have never felt $o $afe. y ear.
G5hat "rought that onLH you %hi$per lazily into GI %ante# to #o for you %hat you #o for G5hat i$ thatLH G(ou %or$hip y "o#y in your o%n %ay. (ou
e every #ay.H
a3e
to get enough.H y "rea$t$ a$ you $nuggle even *lo$er. (our y eye$ an# #rift
off too, "ut not "efore hearing you $ay $oftly, GI love youH. I $ ile K thatD$ the fir$t ti e youDve $ai# that.
thought I *oul# ever #o. !ut %hen I $a% the a# for fanta$ie$, I thought, %hat the hell.H Thi$ i$ %hat I fanta$ize a"out - for real6 Ia flying #o%n the high%ay in a little %hite +T>. It i$ a %in#ing high%ay $o epla*e
rural, pro"a"ly %e$tern )orth Carolina. There are tall pine$ on either $i#e of the roa# an#
Ia
going %ay too fa$t. I love the po%er of the *ar an# the thrill of $pee#. Thi$ %oul# "e
a lot of fun if I #i#nDt have to pee. Really "a#ly. @in# nu "ing, *anDt thin3, I have to pee. There i$ no frea3ing %ay I a going to pee in the %oo#$, e$pe*ially #re$$e# in a y otel i$ aroun# one of the$e hair-pin *orner$.
'$ I roun# yet another turn I $ee a *op *ar. G>h $hit6H I a heart *ran3$ it up a not*h "ut I *anDt $lo% #o%n. I are the light$. 0e i$ *o ing after thi$ for a *ouple e. I 3eep
terrifie# an#
y over-"eating
y foot naile# to the petal. 5e go on li3e er 9ine$ @otor Inn an# *ran3
the %heel into the gravel lot. @y roo , nu "er ,4, i$ at the en# the "uil#ing an# the *ar goe$ $*rea ing into the $pa*e right in front. I thin3 I turn off the *ar "ut %ho really 3no%$. I a I out of the *ar fu "ling %ith y 3ey$ an# running to the "athroo . y little %hite $3irt an# rip #o%n y
Ju$t in ti e to hi3e up
y %or#. Than3 go#. Su*h relief. open an# G9oli*e, *o e out %ith your han#$ in the air.H >h no y pani*.
Then I hear the #oor $la I forgot a"out the *op in I anage GID in here.H
toilet %ith
y pantie$ at
e. 'n# he i$
pointing a gun at
e.H I hol# up
y han#$ li3e I a
y private$. 0e exhale$ #eeply an# in$tin*tively li*3$ hi$ y neat tri an# I thin3 I ight li3e it.
y vulnera"le $ituation "ut *han*e$ li3e thi$ #onDt *o e every #ay. I a $ all %i*3e# $ ile. In$tea# of pulling the thong up I $tep y $an#al$. I have a great tan an# "right pin3 toe y $3irt get$ $tu*3 on y hip$ a
G0o% a"out you put that %eapon a%ay,H I purr rea*hing *la$ping the in front of e %ith y "e$t GI a
$o inno*entH loo3.
0e exhale$ again. 0e *o po$e$ hi $elf an# gently $ha3e$ hi$ hea# an# "lin3$ a *ouple of ti e$. 0i$ eye$ #rift #o%n an# y eye$ follo% hi$. @y eye$ get $tu*3 half %ay #o%n e,
%hen I *an $ee that hi$ *o*3 i$ pu$hing again$t the front of hi$ pant$ a$ he loo3$ at
loo3ing at hi . It i$ a%3%ar# in heate# 3in# of %ay. 0e in$tin*tually $li#e$ the gun into the hol$ter on hi$ hip. Sin*e he ha$ $een e, he ha$nDt $ai# anything to e.
@y eye$ run up to hi$ *he$t no% an# I $ee that he ha$ "roa# $houl#er$. 0igher $till, he ha$ a #ar3 *o plexion %ith $alt an# pepper hair an# har# grey eye$. 0e i$ totally hot. I try $pea3ing, GToo fa$t, pro"a"lyL I %a$ going really fa$tH Then I a## G' arre$tLH loo3ing up %ith "ig %i#e eye$. Thi$ next tran$ition i$ a "lur. 0e i$ *o ing to%ar#$ "athroo an# he gra"$ e un#er the ar e filling the #oor%ay to the e onto the $in3 *ounter. I un#er
y hip$. 0e $prea#$
ove$ in Nui*3ly. 0e lean$ over an# put hi$ lip$ on *o*onut an# $%eat an# he "reathe$ roun# tightne$$ of pre$$ e #eeply an#
y "are $houl#er. I $ ell li3e $un an# ove$ hi$ lip$ an# hi$ teeth to the y *he$t, I ar*h y "a*3 an#
han#ful of hi$ $hirt. +ree#ily he 3i$$e$ an# li*3$ have to tou*h hi . I I $li# ove y $houl#er$ an# ne*3 feeling e ri$e an# fall to eet hi . I
y han#$ to hi$ front an# Nui*3ly un#o the "utton$ of hi$ $hirt. y fa*e to ove hi$ lip$ to ine. I %ant hi$ outh
y teeth. '$ I $u*3 hi$ full lip hi$ hip$ $tart to y ne*3 an# $hoot$ hi$
pre$$ into the *ounter. 0e o"viou$ly li3e$ it an# gra"$ the "a*3 of tongue #eep into y open an# %illing outh$. y tight tan3 top to offer
"rea$t$ are the perfe*t $ize for hi$ large $trong han#$. 0e *up$
an# $Nueeze$ Ju$t enough for a t%inge of #elightful pain. I lean into hi
a$ he fin#$
nipple an# roll$ it "et%een hi$ thu " an# all of hi$ finger$ one "y one. 0e $prea#$ hi$ finger$ $o that hi$ thu " %a$ on one nipple an# hi$ pin3y finger %a$ on the other. 0i$ pal pre$$e$ "et%een y "rea$t$ an# I gra" hi$ fa*e an# #rive y tongue #eeper into hi$
outh. 0e $ ell$ li3e $ee the u$3 an# $%eet *hi*ory *offee. I have "ig han#ful$ of hi$ hair an# I *an
u$*le$ of hi$ ne*3 $training. 0e i$ $o $trong an# I 3no% he i$ har#. The thought I #oingH *o e$ into y hea# "ut leave$ Ju$t a$ Nui*3ly. I ar*h again y heart. outh. 0e
y hea# an# gra" hi$ fa*e an# pu$he# it to%ar#$ y ro*3 har# nipple$ into hi$
The *op #oe$nDt flin*h a$ he lean$ in to ta3e li*3$ aroun# in *ir*le$ tea$ing
y $harp point$. I love it %hen he u$e$ hi$ teeth an# %hile y "elly an# #o%n lo%er. I love it. @y
*he$t i$ pu$he# for%ar# an# a$ I #e$perately re ove hi$ $hirt. Ia $till $itting in front of the irror on the *ool ar"le *ounter %ith y leg$ #angling
e up a$ I tu*3
y $3irt to
nee# an# reveren*e. I feel $o alive an# hot $tan#ing na3e# in front of thi$ hungry rea*h y han#$ over y hea# into y hair an# $tret*h. I 3no% I a "eautiful.
@y thigh$ are at hi$ eye level. 0e hi$ thu "$ eet y little
ove$ in *lo$er an# run$ hi$ han#$ up the front$ until y hip "one$. I lean in
y lip$ gently an# loo3$ up. I *at*h hi hi$ lip$. I *an feel the %etne$$ engulf I tilt y hip$ *lo$er.
$taring at
y heat an# he run$ hi$ tongue over to ta3e e %ith hi$ outh $o
y pu$$y. I %ant hi
0e roughly gra"$
of hi$ hea# an# hol# on for #ear life. I a for*ing hi$ tongue in$i#e *lo$er to
y +-$pot. I 3no%
outh an# #o%n hi$ ne*3. 0i$ han#$ are roughly he 3nea#ing rea*he$ one han# aroun# an# $li#e$ hi$ fir$t t%o finger$ up into eet hi$ han#. Iu$t then he fin#$ t%o,
ay"e three finger$ in an# out %ith a har# pu ping rhyth . *o e$ fa$t an# har#. G@ore, ore. 2onDt $top,H I oan an# then relea$e. It i$
@y orga$
$o perfe*t. @y 3nee$ give out a$ he gently lo%er$ %hen I have "e fu*3e#. y fir$t orga$ for real.8 !ut I a
I %at*h the *op gra" hi$ "elt an# pant$ an# Ju p out of the
on. I *an $ee hi$ vein$ an# the $3in $tret*he# thinly. 0i$ $ex %a$ pul$ing an# I 3no% he nee#$ to "e in$i#e of Ia e. Thi$ get$ e $o ex*ite# for ore. y $%eet a$$
ove$ aroun# until hi$ hea# $hine$ an# plunge$ into %ay yet $o %et an# %illing. G>h Ie$u$ in heaven,H he up %ith oan$. 0e
y *enter. I a
ove$ hi$ hip$ "a*3 an# forth pu ping eet hi %hile %rapping
e. I pu$h
y $trong ar $ tilting
y hip$ up to
y leg$ aroun#
hi$ "a*3. @y a$$ i$ "arely on the *ounter. I a ar $ an# hi$ "ig #i*3 #eep in$i#e of for a $e*on# "ut it #oe$nDt $top hi . 0e let$ hi$ %hole $haft *o e out to .a*h ti e he ra $ eIa e. I #ig
o$tly "eing hel# in pla*e "y hi$ $trong y nail$ into hi$ "a*3 an# he flin*he$ Ju$t
y $oft lip$ an# then #rive$ it in har#er an# #eeper. e. I %ant to "ite hi
$tret*he# to the li it an# I *an tell he %a$ getting rea#y. It %a$ *o ing "ut he %ant$ to "e in #eeper $till. 0e %rap$ hi$ $trong ar $ aroun# The *ol# tile i$ $ho*3ing to hol#ing y %hole tor$o an# ta3e$ e to floor.
y $houl#er$ $o I have to ta3e every in*h of hi . 9u ping har#er an# fa$ter I y in$i#e u$*le$ an# pu$h y hip$ up a$ far a$ I *an to e *o pletely. eet hi$
on$laught. Thi$ i$ %hen %e "oth *o e together. 0e fill$ 0i$ el"o%$ give %ay an# he lan#$ gently on top of *onNueror. I reli$h hi
"eing %orn out, panting an# trying to *at*h hi$ "reathe. 'n# %hen ean I %onDt get a ti*3etLH
And This Story!s T#0+; Thi$ i$ a $tory that a trainee of ine %rote in %ith. Totally *ool $tuff, loo3$ %hat'$
po$$i"le6 'gain, noti*e u$e of 9.'./.. to give her the "e$t $ex of her life an# *reate fe ale $exual a##i*tion.
oney *o ing in "ut I %a$ a"le to 3eep her aroun#. )ever on*e *heate# on Seriou$ly. %e ha# $ex 3 ti e$ a #ay an# $he al%ay$ *rave# $ex IDve ever ha# an# "y the a ount of ti e$ I ore. It %a$ the
%a$ hoo3e#. It %a$ li3e an a##i*tion an# I ha# *au$e# it. )o% letD$ get thi$ $traight though M if you a$3e# "een a#e fun of e if I ha# thi$ *onfi#en*e t%o year$ ago, I %oul#Dve laughe# an# not a lo$er "ut I felt li3e I only nee#e# ore pra*ti*e an#
y$elf. ID
eventually ID# "e goo# in "e#. )>T TRF.. I ha# thought the girl$ %ere that into
the$e te*hniNue$ on @an#y thin3ing %hat the he*3, "ut %hen I $a% ho% *razy the $ex %a$ getting an# that I %a$ la$ting longer, I "e*a e a "eliever. @an#y #i#nDt 3no% ho% "a# I u$e# to "e, $o it %a$ li3e I *oul# $tart fre$h. Soun#e# i po$$i"le %hen y frien# tol# e hi$ gorgeou$ girlfrien# %a$ #ripping #o%n nervou$ an# anxiou$ a"out
her leg$ %hen he %a$ on the phone %ith her. )o% going fro
not perfor ing to feeling li3e $o e $ort of $ex go# #oe$nDt in$tantly happen. I rea# !S@
*over to *over an# really fo*u$e#. I %ante# to have a girl I *oul# lo$e her in# in "e#. I learne# ho% to plea$e @an#y an#
a3e $*rea
an# Ju$t
a3e her *u
too. I $tarte# to try out $o e of the te*hniNue$ %hen I tol# @an#y to "oo3$tore on our thir# #ate. 5e ha# alrea#y %ante# her really "a# "ut I ha#nDt prove# to
a#e out a "un*h "ut ha#nDt ha# $ex yet. I y$elf that I %a$nDt a lo$er in "e# yet. So
that night I $ho%e# up early an# texte# her to *o e #o%n$tair$ for $o e Grea#ing $ti ulation.H RI $pe*ifi*ally u$e# the "oo3$tore to thro% her off that I %ante# Ju$t $ex fro her.8 She texte# e "a*3A GSti ulationLH Intere$ting *hoi*e of %or#$6 >3 ho% %ill I e. ID very #eep in a very thi*3 "oo3.H 5oul# $he
thin3 I %a$ for%ar# or a total #or3L 5oul# I $*are her offL She texte# "a*3A G)er#. >3..ID in$i#e the $tore.H I $lun3 "ehin# a %i#e $ta*3 of "oo3$ *a$ually "ro%$ing
through a paper"a*3 entitle# G4-- Sex 9o$ition$.H Totally inappropriate on a for al #ate "ut itD$ a "oo3$tore %hi*h i$ inherently ore *a$ual an# le$$-ten$ion free. I $a% her leg$
a$ $he %al3e# #o%n the $tair$, peering aroun# the $ta*3$ to gauge her approa*h. She *a$ually %al3e# through the ai$le$ #u*3ing her hea# loo3ing for e an# gently "ru$hing
her finger$ a*ro$$ the "oo3$ $ta*3e# tightly in a ro%. She $ee e# to $en$e I %a$ *lo$e an# right aroun# the *orner. She preten#e# to loo3 #o%n an# thu " through a "oo3 a$ if $he %a$ %aiting for e to reveal y$elf. I realize# $he %a$ playing *oy $o I *a$ually %al3e#
y "a*3 to her, "oo3 in han#. I leane# *a$ually into the $ta*3$ o$t of the$e, "ut thi$ one really really loo3$
intere$ting.H I turne# aroun# an# $ ir3e# at her, very *a$ually an# *onfi#ently. I rea*he# over an# *lo$e# her "oo3. GThat loo3$ too "oring for you.H I loo3e# right at her an# $ ile# $lightly in a 3no%ing %ay. G' "oo3$toreL ThatD$ $u*h a $trange pla*e to eet. )o
tol# her GI te*hni*ally 3no% 4&- po$ition$ $o arenDt you *uriou$ to $ee ho% I *oul#Dve i$$e# out on the la$t 1-LLH She laughe#. G4&-. 5o% I ha# no i#ea.H I a$3e# her GSo ID *uriou$. 5hat i$ one of your fanta$ie$LH She laughe# nervou$ly. GRight hereL ID e "arra$$e#. F .. I #onDt 3no%. 5e are in pu"li* re e "er.H I tol# her to lean in an# %hi$per one. I %a$ $%eating a "itO I hope $he #i#nDt noti*e. She %a$ too e "arra$$e# $o I put y han# on her ne*3 gently %ith y thu " on her *hee3 an# pulle# her in. G(ou an#
I have Ju$t gone #o%n to )e% (or3 for the %ee3en#, %ent out to an a azing, #eli*iou$ #inner that plea$ure# all of our $en$e$.H She loo3e# aroun# to $ee if anyone %a$ %at*hing u$. G5o%. There are people all aroun#. F ..H !ut I *ontinue# G%e get "a*3 to the hotel, you - you have your favorite #re$$ on an# are loo3ing "eautiful a$ al%ay$. I loo3 into your eye$..an# you loo3 "a*3..thin3ing ID your lip$ an# an# ove y han# on your *hee3. ItD$ a going to 3i$$ you.. !ut I Ju$t put y finger on
o ent %here %e $houl# 3i$$, "ut I %ait.. a$$age it..an# then..%ell you
#onDt %anna hear the re$t #o youLH The "a*3 of her ne*3 $ee e# to $%eat $lightly. She %a$ leaning into e at thi$ point. GF ..hell ye$6 I ean..F yeah..H I tol# her I %oul# %eir# I thought.
u$t thin3 ID
y apart ent, I tol# her to $it on the "e#. I re e "ere# in the "oo3
a"out "eing authoritative an# u$ually I %oul#Dve Ju$t a$3e# her if $he %ante# to $it. !ut thi$ ti e I $%ore I %a$ going to try $o ething #ifferent an# 3eep going. Intere$tingly, $he #i# a$ I a$3e#. 'fter I $at #o%n next to her, I a$3e# her if $he %ante# e to fini$h the
$tarte# %ith GSo, have I tol# you ho% "eautiful you loo3 in that #re$$ tonightLH She $ ile# at e "ut a*te# a little $hy "y "iting on her lip. I felt her leg ove *lo$er to ine,
"rought her in for a $lo% pa$$ionate 3i$$. I %a$ $o horny M an# $eeing her *leavage %a$ getting e very har#. I %ante# to Ju$t Ju p on her "ut I #e*i#e# to 3eep it *al atter %hat, Ju$t to $tart out. So I too3 an# y
$ ooth no
outh li3e I u$e# to...I gave her $lo% %et 3i$$e$ an# tea$e# her "y y han# on her *hin. She ha# Jui*y lip$ an# I tugge# $lightly
one. I $Nueeze# her leg an# pu$he# her on the "e#, all the %hile 3eeping y "o#y %hen I %a$ aroun# her. a3e her
eye *onta*t. I tol# her I felt a "uzzing feeling throughout She $ai# $he 3ne% %hat I
%hole "o#y a*he. She $ai# S>h.. y.. go#. 0o% are you going to thatLD I tol# her I 3ne% %hat $he %ante# "ut that I %oul# give it to her M G"ut not yet..I nee# to 3no% that you are not Ju$t %ith e for $ex.H I 3ept a $traight fa*e. She loo3e# at e to $ee if I %a$
Jo3ing. 'n# I rea$$ure# her GI %ant it to "e $pe*ial an# in for the fir$t ti e, I %ant it to "e li3e ID
the "oth of u$. Li3e...our fir$t ti e...i agine you #onDt even re e "er %hat $ex feel$ li3e until I *o e along.H G5o%..%o%..you $oun#..*onfi#ent. I..*anDt i agine..H I #e*i#e# to a3e y ove. I #eli"erately ove# y han# fro her ne*3 an# $lightly gra""e# her
y han#. She
oane# an# ar*he# her "a*3. I tol# her that $he a3e her "o#y feel. She trie# putting her han#$ on
y *rot*h "ut I tol# her $he %a$ "eing "a# an# ha# to %ait. I too3 *ontrol an# "ent her over the "e#. I ran y han#$ over her lo%er "a*3 an# $ai# GI %ant you to i agine feeling a$$aging her lo%er "a*3. I
the "e$t youDve ever felt.H I %aite# for a $e*on# %hile I %a$
a#e $ure that I 3ept "eing authoritative an# in *ontrol "ut %or3ing her "o#y all the %hile..3eeping her %anting "elieve ore. GI %anna 3no% if you *an han#le it.H She $ai# G>h
e, I *an han#le it.H I $hot "a*3 G' little girl li3e your$elfL I #ou"t it.H She got e. I 3ne% I %a$ *hallenging her "ut in a e $ho*3e# an# $ay$
tea$ing fa$hion. Then I $ a*3e# her a$$ fir ly. She loo3e# "a*3 at G0ey6H "ut I a$$age her lo%er "a*3 #eep %ith
thin3 $he %a$nDt expe*ting it "ut $he #i#nDt *o plain, $o te$ting the %ater %ith her ha# %or3e# $o far. She $e*on#, an# then oane# $lightly an# I ru""e# ove# to y finger$ on her *rot*h, "ut only for a
a$$age her inner thigh$. I got up an# tol# her GCo e here
little girl.H She loo3e# nervou$ "ut flu$he# an# very ex*ite#. I tol# her to rea*h #o%n an# feel y *o*3 through y Jean$. She %a$ on her 3nee$ on the "e#. She felt u*h through y Jean$8. I put y ro*3y han# on
not huge, "ut $he *oul#nDt tell a "it an# pu$he# the
that I ha# to $top "e*au$e I #i#nDt %ant it to get too *razy yet. She loo3e# very fru$trate#. G>h i y go# you are $u*h a tea$e6H So loo3e# at e#iately put her han# "a*3 on y lip$ then at y eye$, an# $he e
%hat her "o#y felt li3e. She $ai# $he felt %ar $he %a$. I tol# her to tell
e ho% %et $he %a$. She %a$ hone$tly too "u$y feeling
*o*3. I *oul#nDt "elieve thi$ %a$ happening. I tol# I %ante# her to put
"uzzing felt $tronge$t. She %a$ "reathing heavily an# fo*u$e# on getting
e "a"y. 9ut
e to $Nueeze the . I too3 ea*h out of her $hirt an# *uppe# the ore %ith
ho% pa*e of the 3i$$ing, lea#ing her lip$. I tol# her G5here el$e are you "uzzing "a"y.H GI %ant you $o "a#. 9lea$e $top tea$ing e66H $he %a$ getting fru$trate#O I *oul# feel the
$exual ten$ion %a$ getting very inten$e an# $he an# I %ere a"out to explo#e. I pu$he# her onto the "e# an# I put her han#$ up "ehin# her hea# to #o inate her a "it. I "egan pa$$ionately 3i$$ing her ne*3. I thought ay"e I $houl# $ti ulate ore of her "o#y $o I
ha# one han# hol# "oth her %ri$t$ a"ove her hea# a$ $he lay on her "a*3, %hile I $tarte# un"uttoning her $hirt. I ove# y 3i$$e$ #o%n onto her *he$t an# then onto her "rea$t$. I
gently $u*3e# on her nipple$. I %a$ %rithing an# going nut$ that I %a$ hol#ing her han#$ #o%n. I 3ne% $he %ante# to Ju$t Ju p on top of in the roo . I thought $he lo$t in the ight a3e e at that point an# it %a$ getting $o hot
e $top "ut at that point $he %a$ $o turne# on an# a3e thi$ the tea$e of a lifeti e. I %hi$pere# I e li3e a #eer in
%a$ going to
y han#$ off M $he $ee e# po$$e$$e#. She rea*he# #o%n an# y Jean$ again. I pre$$e# y han#$ on her %ai$t$ an# I
y *o*3 through
oaning $o e
ore an# I %hi$pere# in her ear again that I %a$ going e ho% "a#ly you %ant it.H She $ai# G>h y pant$ for
y han# to her *hee3 an# gently $lappe# it. /ery gently. I #i#nDt %ait
y little $lut an# youDve "een a "a# girl. I #onDt 3no% y han# over her pu$$y
if I $houl# give it to you yet.H Thi$ #rove her *razy $o $he pu$he#
an# I 3ne% it %a$ ti e to $tart fingering her. 0er pu$$y %a$ #ripping %et. I 3ept thin3ing to y$elf G0oly $hit. ID #oing thi$LH !ut I #i#nDt %ant to thin3 too u*h an# e$$ up
%hat %a$ happening. So I tol# her G5hat #i# I tell youL )ot yet @an#y. I %ant you to forget %here you are an# only re e "er thi$ o ent %ith e. (ouDre going to feel
plea$ure li3e youDve never felt %ith $o eone. I %ant you to *lo$e your eye$ for a $e*on#.H I $lippe# t%o finger$ into her pu$$y an# *urve# up an# in, a$$aging her pelvi*
"one. I tol# her $he %a$ #ripping %et an# I %ante# to $u*3 on her pu$$y lip$. She $ai# G>h ho% y go#. %hat are you #oing to u*h you %ant e6H I tol# her thi$ %a$ Ju$t the "eginning. GTell e
y *o*3 in$i#e your tight %et pu$$y @an#yL6H She %a$ "reathing outh. GTell e ho% u*h.H She *oul#nDt re$pon# "e*au$e I ha#
y han# up her $hirt an# %a$ gently pin*hing her nipple$. The $en$ory overloa# %a$
not allo%ing her to $pea3 *learly. G>h.. y..go#..plea$e..ye$6H I pu$he# her on the "e# an# got on top of her, pu$hing her %ri$t$ up an# "ehin# her hea# again an# $tarte# to lift $hirt up. I un-#i# her "ra an# gra""e# her tit$ again. I %hen I tou*he# her. I then gui#e# a#e $ure I %a$ very $en$uou$ y
y Jean$ off "ut I %aite#. I %a$ in *o plete *ontrol an# $he %a$ %anting
in to pa$$ionately 3i$$ her again. I %a$ tea$ing her an# $tarting to tal3 #irty an# get a "it phy$i*al "ut I re e "ere# it %a$ i portant to a3e everything $till inti ate an#
e otional. So I $lo%e# #o%n the pa*e $o that our "o#ie$ %ere in $yn* a$ %e pre$$e# our na3e# *he$t$ up again$t ea*h other. '$ I hel# her han#$ #o%n again I $ ile# an# $ai# GIf you %ant y *o*3 youDre going to have to gra" it no%, other%i$e ID going to $tart
e $he
%et it %ith her tongue "efore $u*3ing it. I tol# her ho% goo# that felt an# that $he %a$ a azing. I tol# her I #i#nDt %ant her to fini$h $o I *oul# let her have a turn. She trie# to get y *o*3 in #eep "ut $tarte# to *ho3e. I tol# her to $tan# up an# "en# over. I lovingly
"ut $lightly aggre$$ively gui#e# her to "en# over the "e# an# to $prea# her leg$. I lifte# up her $3irt an# $lappe# her a$$ an# tol# her a$$ %a$ "eautiful. I #e*i#e# it %a$ no% or never to $tart getting #irtier $o I tol# her I %ante# her to "e y little $lut tonight. GID
going to fu*3 your pu$$y $o har# youDre going to explo#e6H GI %ant it no%6 I *anDt han#le it66H I gra""e# her hair an# pulle# her hea# "a*3 a$ $he ar*he# her "a*3. I $ a*3e# her a$$ again. GFu*3 e. 9lea$e fu*3 e. Fu*3 e no%6H I put on a *on#o Nui*3ly an#
y finger$. I $ a*3e# her a$$ again, har#er thi$ ti e, an# tol# a3e her feel that the $ex %a$ very a#e $ure I 3i$$e# her *lit, her
her to get on her "a*3. It %a$ i portant that I inti ate, $o "efore I $tarte# to $li#e
y *o*3 in$i#e, I
$to a*h, her tit$, all the %ay up her ne*3..then "egan to grip her hair gently an# gave it a tug, pa$$ionately 3i$$ing her lip$ an# $li#ing y tongue in, totally in $yn* %ith her y eye$ %hile
tongue. I gaze# into her eye$ an# tol# her I %ante# her to fo*u$ on only on I $tu*3 it in an# to Ju$t utterly enJoy the G(our little pu$$y i$ $o tight "a"y. Tell fu*3 o ent %ith
e no% Iohn6H It %a$ extre ely %et $o it $li# right in. '$ I %a$ fu*3ing her I
y go#. oh
e.
har#er..har#er6D I a$3e# her if $he li3e# #irty tal3. She $ai# $he #i#nDt 3no%. So I tol# her that $he %a$ little $lut. @y little $lut %ho %a$ going *u over an# over an# over. She %a$
very turne# on "y thi$ "e*au$e there %a$ a po$$e$$ivene$$ atta*he# to the %or#$. She felt #irty "ut $afe "e*au$e $he "elonge# to #rea ing that I %a$ thi$ goo#. I e. 5e fu*3e# for hour$. I 3ept thin3ing I %a$
"a*3 to "eing #o inant an# tugging at her hair. Fir ly telling her to #o thing$. I tol# her I %a$ fu*3ing her "eautiful pu$$y. Slapping her a$$ an# telling her I %ante# her to *u har#er than ever "efore. I %oul# tell her to "eg e for ore an# for e to go #eeper. It e an# to a3e her *u
%a$ very ex*iting for her "e*au$e it %a$ $o pri al. I tol# her to fo*u$ on i agine that every ti e %e have $ex fro har#er an# har#er an# har#er. GID no% on I %ill go #eeper an#
going to explo#e in$i#e of you "a"y.H I $lippe# in oaning an# inten$ely "reathing in
G"a"yH only %hen I pre$$e# *lo$e to her an# $he %a$ the
o ent. 5e *a e at the $a e ti e an# it %a$ ea$ily the "e$t $ex ID# ha# %ith a y *o*3. It %a$ a azing6 It felt ore inten$e an#
ani ali$ti* "e*au$e I %a$ telling her %hat to #o an# ho% to feel "ut al%ay$ "alan*ing it %ith affe*tion an# pa$$ionate 3i$$e$ an# fir $urpri$e# %hen $he tol# only got "etter "e*au$e I e otionally a"out ho% e that it %a$ the "ut ten#er anhan#ling of her "o#y. I %a$
o$t inten$e $ex $heD# ever ha# too. The $ex ore inten$ely an# $tart tal3ing ore
u*h I li3e# her an# ho% a azing I felt %hen $he %a$ aroun#. I
$tarte# to realize that in a##ition to the fa*t %e li3e# ea*h other %ithout the $ex, a $trong $exual *onne*tion ha# "een *reate# %ith thi$ girl %ho %oul# late at night. 5ho a I 3i##ingL 't the offi*e, in the a3e any guy a$tur"ate a#e her
atta*he# to
e, u$ing $o e
pain, plea$ure, fear, $e*urity, pa$$ion, pri al #e$ire, $trong e otion$ Rnever go over"oar# until $heD$ in love %ith you68 an# painting a ental pi*ture that %a$ a3ing $ure I %a$ authoritative. Tea$ing her an# ore vivi# a$ I #e$*ri"e# the $*ene #rove @an#y e. !o""yD$
*razy. I "e*a e the %in#o% to her fanta$ie$ an# they "e*a e all a"out $y$te gave
e the tool$ to finally have a $ex life %here I %a$ in *ontrol of the $exual y girlfrien#6
appetite of
6o +xcuses; %a$e +ven These &roblems a Thing of the * )o atter ho% u*h $exual i prove ent you #o there %ill $till "e o**a$ional i$$ue$ that aJor one$ Nui*3ly. They often in*lu#eA not la$ting
phy$i*al pro"le . (ou *an al%ay$ go the #rug route an# ta3e /iagra or another $u*h #rug "ut in #uring o$t *a$e$ IDve $een that guy$ u$ually #onDt really nee# it. If you *an get har# a$tur"ation or %hile loo3ing at porn then "ut not #uring $ex your pro"le i$
0ere i$ ho% to ea$ily an# Nui*3ly train your$elf to get har# in$tantly Rif you *an get har# #uring porn or a$tur"ation8
5 Step &rogram
,. (ou nee# to $top trying to get har# *o pletely. If you are trying the $tre$$ rea*tion $en#$ a $ignal to your "rain that you are in a flight or fight re$pon$e. The har#er you try, the li per you %ill get. 0ere i$ %hat you are going to #o in$tea# of trying. 1. 9ra*ti*e ,- *ount "reathing %hen not having $ex. +et to the point %here you *an #o ,- *ount "reathing an# noti*e that you are relaxe#. Right %hen you realize# you are a"out to have $ex $tart "reathing ZFI.TL( "ut in ,*ount "reathing $tyle an# you %ill noti*e that you are a"le to arou$al %ithout having ten$ion *reep in an# ruin your ere*tion. 3. @ore foreplay. ;eep 3i$$ing your lover an# having foreplay an# you %ill relax an# get har#. If you are not having pro"le $ of arou$al then your pro"le $ are of ten$ion an# pre$en*e. @ore foreplayB le$$ ten$ionB total arou$al. aintain your level of
If you are not getting ere*t "ut 'R. getting arou$e#, you *an a## the follo%ing ele ent$ into your life an# they %ill in*rea$e your level$ of te$to$terone an# of relaxation. Tho$e 1 *o "ine# %ill allo% you to get har# an# $tay har#
,8 %or3out exer*i$e M to $tart you *an #o any exer*i$e. ' *ertain $pe*ifi* %eight training routine that I tal3 a"out i$ "e$t "ut you *an $tart off "y a##ing in %al3ing, Jogging or even #oing $o e pu$hup$. If you *an #o 1inute$ of any exer*i$e that a3e$ you $%eat a "it
an# get$ your hear# rate up an# you feeling goo#, then it %ill help your ere*tion. a. yogaA (oga i$ great for $ex. (ou *an u$e yoga to in*rea$e your flexi"ility an# pre$en*e for $ex. ". e#itationA F$e the ,- *ount "reathing a fe% ti e$ throughout the #ay. (ouDll feel ore relaxe# an# %onDt $tre$$ a"out getting har#. *. %eight trainingA Thi$ an# artial art$ are the "e$t %ay$ to get your te$to$terone level$ ore $ex. 5eight training allo%$ you fo*u$ on "ig u$*le at on*e. They in*lu#e the #ea# lift, $u*h a$ !o#y ulti
up an# "e rea#y an# a"le to have Joint ove ent$ that %or3
$Nuat, #u ""ell pre$$, an# pull-up$. For further #etail$, loo3 at a progra of Life "y !ill 9hillip$. 5eDll "e relea$ing a fitne$$ progra eanti e that i$ a goo# one to *he*3 out. #.
artial art$A @artial art$ are great for getting up te$to$terone. Che*3 into $o e
!razilian JuJit$u *la$$e$ or any 3in# of $elf #efen$e. IDve per$onally #one thi$ for over & year$ no% an# al%ay$ a relaxe# an# rea#y to have a tone of $ex after training. (ou
#onDt have to ever fight or get inJure# Ju$t u$e the a*tivity a$ a relaxation an# te$to$terone "oo$ter.
If you are not la$ting long enough letD$ fix thi$ pro"le . I u$e# to "e the %or$t pre ature
eJa*ulator of all. It
a3e$ $ex no fun an# a $our*e of *on$tant $tre$$ an# anxiety "e*au$e
you 3no% that you *anDt plea$e a %o an. In$tea# of feeling plea$ure #uring $ex all you *an thin3 a"out i$ your fear of *u ing6 I re e "er I u$e# to 3i# y$elf that all guy
la$te# a $hort ti e "ut the %o en %oul# tell relation$hip %onDt la$t6 If you *an la$t longer
a$tur"ating than having $ex you *an fix your pre ature
eJa*ulation %ith a little "it of %or3. .Ja*ulating too Nui*3ly i$ "e*au$e you #o no have enough pre$en*e #uring $ex. 5hen you #onDt have pre$en*e, ten$ion *reep$ into your "o#y an# *au$e$ you to eJa*ulate early. >n*e you learn ho% arou$e# you are you *an *ontrol your ere*tion an# la$t a$ long a$ you %ant. Thi$ $ee $ *razy "ut I #i# thi$ an# all the guy$ have helpe# have #one it too6 Follo% the$e $tep$ to everla$ting $ta ina, if you have a Nue$tion or are getting #i$*ourage#, *onfi#ently *all an Fn#ergroun# Sex Se*ret$ *oa*h %ho %ill anony ou$ly help you get thi$ area of your $ex life han#le#A ,R&--8 1=<--4:,.
Step ,. 2onDt fight your arou$al Rput it at a nu "er8 >n*e you *an put your arou$al at a nu "er it i$ ea$y to i#entify the point %here you are a"out to *u "y noti*ing #uring an# avoi# it. Start off
$*ale $houl# "e roughly li3e thi$A not arou$e# at all, no ere*tion, your *oul# get arou$e#, thin3ing of arou$e#, ay"e o%ing the la%n a$tur"ating
i#entify %hen you hit nu "er :.4 an# %hen it turn$ into nu "er =. 5eDre going to %hen you have $ex fro a nu "er = to a nu "er :.46
5hat I %ant you to #o i$ noti*e the next ,- ti e$ %hen you a"out to go fro
nu "er :.4 to nu "er =. @o$t guy$ Ggo over the e#geH an# are a"out to
*o e %ith fa$ter thru$ting, har#er $tro3ing, or $o e 3in# of a##itional phy$i*al or vi$ual $ti ulation Ra3a #oggy $tyle8. So for the next ten ti e$ i#entify #uring the entire nu "er $y$te in ea*h $tage up to your orga$ . Then for the next = ti e$ or ho%ever long it
ta3e$ I %ant you to $lo% #o%n the phy$i*al $en$ation Rie..not a$ har# $tro3ing8 an# ta3e 1 or 3 ,- *ount "reathe$ to get your arou$al level "a*3 #o%n fro :.4. >n*e you have the a"ility to #o thi$ #uring $a e thing #uring $ex. >n*e you *o "ine the arou$al $*ale %ith phy$i*al po$ition$ that are le$$ $ti ulating you %ill fin# that you have *o plete *ontrol over your ho% long you la$t an# pre ature eJa*ulation i$ gone forever. 'gain, give u$ a *all if you nee# help %ith thi$. ItD$ al$o #e$*ri"e# in #etail in Se inar 2/2 a$ Super an Sta ina "onu$. Step 1. Longer foreplayA The ore foreplay you have the "etter off you %ill "e a"le to a3e$ you *o forta"le an# lo%er$ your arou$al a nu "er = to a nu "er
your foreplay to get your arou$al level #o%n to a 4 *on*entrate on %hat you are #oing to her rather than %hat $he i$ #oing to you. !e*au$e la*3 of arou$al i$nDt your pro"le , it$ ex*e$$ of arou$al you #onDt %ant her a3ing you ore arou$e# through a han# Jo" or a aintain
"lo%Jo". In$tea# eat her out, or 3i$$ her "o#y, or 3i$$ her an# you %ill get to an# an arou$al level of 4 throughout $ex until (>F 2.CI2. %hen you %ill *o e.
Step 3. @i$$ionary po$ition or oral $ex not #oggy $tyle. In the "eginning %hen you are learning to a$ter your *o*3 an# in*rea$ing $ta ina avoi# #oggy $tyle. 2oggy i$ the o$t
vi$ually an# phy$i*ally $ti ulating po$ition for a guy an# %ill in*rea$e your arou$al level. 0ave $ex i$$ionary %ith your ar $ un#er her an# )>T $upporting your %eight. See
Step 4. @ove $lo%ly an# %hen you are a"out to *o e $lo% #o%n. (ou have *on#itione# your$elf fro your a$tur"ating that %hen you $lo% #o%n you %ill lo%er arou$al an# get
"a*3 to a 4. Ta3e a "reath an# $lo% #o%n6 'n# 3eep your eye$ open6 >n*e you get thi$ %or3ing on It a$tur"ating %ith $o e porn then you *an try it #uring $ex.
ay ta3e a fe% ti e$ "ut you %ill fin# your $exual *onfi#en*e goe$ through the roof a$ter it.
an# you %ill "e a"le to la$t a$ long a$ you %ant on*e you
If you *o "ine thi$ nu eri*al arou$al te*hniNue %ith %eight training, exer*i$e, e#itation the #ay you are going to have $ex it %ill $pee# up thi$ learning pro*e$$ "y at L.'ST 4-V.
a3e her $tart *o ing an# then go of the over%hel ing orga$ $ 'FT.R
ore relaxe#P#onDt pu$h the $ex, let her %ant it fro a3e$ her$elf *o e
you
:8 a## in all ele ent$ of 9.'./.. to give her >ver%hel ing >rga$
38 never "ring up the topi* of $ex out$i#e the "e#roo 48 never try an# tra#e anything for $ex 48 %ill ta3e a "it of ti e "ut on*e $he noti*e$ that you are "e*o ing a "etter lover you %ill "egin having :8 $tart giving her ore orga$ $ an# $he %ill %ant $ex ore $ex
#o (%perien$e #e$essary
in#$etA realize that everyone $tart$ off inexperien*e# $exually it$ %hether you 5')T to "e goo# an# the #e$ire to get thi$ area of your life han#le#
,8 have a$
18 all that *ount$ i$ getting experien*e 38 a fe% hour$ after a $exual experien*e loo3 "a*3 on %hat %a$ goo# a"out it an# %hat nee#e# i prove ent 48 pi*3 only , thing for next $exual experien*e..%or3 on only one thing at a ti e 48 enJoy experien*e6 you %ill "e a $ex go#
u*h
a$tur"ating %hen you a*tually have $ex. If you are ay %ant to $lo% the pa*e or
a$tur"ating
a #ay you
fanta$ize a"out getting raile# "y a huge #i*3. 5o en fanta$ize a"out ela"orate $exual fanta$ie$ that you *an *reate %ith your @I)2 not %ith your *o*3. Fnle$$ your peni$ i$ un#er 1.4 in*he$ har# it #oe$ not atter. (ou #onDt nee# to try exer*i$e$ to lengthen it or
a3e it thi*3er. If you have trie# lengthening %ith peni$ pill$, pu p$, or exer*i$e$ #onDt %a$te your ti e. .ven if it #oe$ %or3 at all, a "igger #i*3 %ill not give you $exual a$tery, $ta ina, an# a3er her *o e. Forget a"out your peni$ $ize an# in$tea# inve$t in a3e you
the $*ientifi*ally proven prin*iple$ of In*re#i"le Sex )o% %hi*h are proven to a a$terful lover an# a3e her $exually a##i*te# to you.
y lover i$ an ol#er,
evi#en*e i$ over%hel ing, %o en re$pon# in*re#i"ly to In*re#i"le Sex )o%. The$e are p$y*hologi*al prin*iple$. (ou are having a "elief $y$te pro"le . (our lover IS $exual
you Ju$t 'R.)DT +>>2. Let go of your ego an# i prove. I un#er$tan# that i$ inti i#ating to $tart u$ing a lot of the te*hniNue$ in thi$ "oo3. That i$ %hy at the en# IDve
po%er of thi$ $tuff, not Ju$t thin3 a"out theoreti*ally. 5e *an tone #o%n the level of any varia"le to a#Ju$t %ith any lover "ut re e "er that thi$ $tuff ha$ "een u$e# "y thou$an#$ of guy$ %ith 'LL T(9.S of %o en. 0ere are $o e of the type$ of %o en that have re$pon#e# %ell to y progra A
Cute, ner#y type %o en %ho have "een %aiting to have their $exual $i#e relea$e# !eautiful o#el$ %ho u$e# to only $leep %ith ri*h an# fa ou$ en
e*hani*al engineer
)or al girl$ you $ee in %al3ing aroun# the $uper ar3et "ut have never tal3e# %ith @ultitu#e$ of %o en %ho our trainee$ et on internet #ating $ite$
thin3. If a %o an i$ getting na3e# %ith you an# rea#y for $ex then you nee# to relea$e the "elief$ that your "o#y i$ hol#ing you "a*3. (eah you #efinitely S0>FL2 get in "etter $hape "e*au$e $he %ill "e a"le to ore attra*te#, it %ill rai$e your te$to$terone, an# youDll "e ay "e a"out
ove "etter in "e#. (ou nee# to realize that a$ $elf *on$*iou$ a$ you
your "o#y, the %o an that you are %ith i$ even you loo3 li3e an# #onDt
a3e any atte pt to hi#e it. Iu$t get na3e#, turn off the light$ to thi$ "oo3. Re e "er, %o en are
$tart if you are nervou$ an# u$e the te*hniNue$ fro turne# on "y the e otional not the phy$i*al.
exer*i$e$ for relaxation an# you %ill fin# that you #onDt nee# the$e #rug$ any ore. >r if you prefer the rea$on$. a$ a $afety "lan3et then Ju$t try an# ini ize your #o$age for $afety
your$elf6 Thi$ u$ually happen$ a$ youDre $tarting to get "etter in "e#, $heD$ $tarting to have $o e orga$ $ an# you #onDt %ant to ruin it. >n*e you *an *on$i$tently give %o en ') >R+'S@ you nee# to "e %or3ing on your $exual $3ill$ no ore than 4-V of the
ti e. If you are %orrie# a"out an# trying to i prove your $exual $3ill$ ./.R(TI@. $ex %ill feel li3e a *hore to you. So ething that you have to %or3 on. So %hat I %ant you to #o i$ not $pen# $ex. Rea# a$ ore than 4-V of your ti e having $ex a*tually TR(I)+ to have "etter aterial a$ you *an out$i#e the "e#roo "ut only i ple ent it half the
u*h
ti e. The other half of the ti e$ #onDt %orry a"out ho% long youDre la$ting, %hether $he i$ *o ing, %hat po$ition you are in. 2onDt thin3 a"out ')(T0I)+. Iu$t FFC; her. !e a total pri al in$tin*t #riven ani al. If you %ant to $ay $o ething $ay it, if you %ant to #o $o ething to #o it, if you %ant to la$t 1 inute$, thatD$ fine. '$ long a$ the other half of
the ti e you are fo*u$e# on i proving your $3ill$ an# plea$uring her $he %ill $till "e $exually $ati$fie#.
I #onDt 3no% ho% to initiate $ex For e, %hen I %a$ le$$ than $tellar in "e# I #i#nDt even 3no% 0>5 to $tart $ex %ith y
girlfrien#. ItD$ li3e I al%ay$ %ante# it an# $he #i#nDt6 Follo% thi$ $ex-initiating la##er an# the %or3 %ill "e #one for you6 Start #oing ore a*tivitie$ together out$i#e "e#roo R#oe$ not atter %hat they are a$
long a$ you are together an# it$ not $tre$$ful8. Start 3i$$ing out$i#e the "e#roo orePJu$t lean in an# 3i$$ her..if you are #oing ore
thing$ together it %onDt $ee in*ongruent. Start 3i$$ing her ore at night %hen you are going to "e# an# a$$aging her "rea$t$
%hile #oing it an# put her han# on your peni$. Sex %ill o**ur6 F$e 1 +irl$ Tea*h Sex Ral$o in onth 1 of the etho#$ to give her Gover%hel ing orga$ $.H a$$age8
There i$ nothing %or$e than an unplanne# pregnan*y to thro% a %ren*h in your ne%ly *reate# $ex life. Thi$ i$ an area %here you really have to "e *areful "e*au$e a"ortion$ are a "ig #eal an# even if your girl %ill get one you %ant to avoi# it all *o$t$. It *an "e Nuite trau atizing an# there %ill "e u*h ore #iffi*ulty having 9re$en*e in your $ex life anage# to avoi# a real
after%ar#$. IDve ha# a fe% *lo$e *all$ in thi$ #epart ent an# have pro"le . LetD$ ta*3le the i$$ue of pregnan*y fir$t.
Types of birth control There are nu erou$ type$ of "irth *ontrol. LetD$ run though $o e of the no%A
R)ote thi$ *hapter a$$u e$ that you are in a relation$hip an# that !>T0 of you have "een te$te# an# #ee e# ST2 free.8 The 9ull >ut @etho#A Thi$ i$ %hen $he i$ not on "irth *ontrol an# you have $ex an# Gpull outH your peni$ "efore you eJa*ulate. I a $houl# ever u$e it. 9re-*u not going to #ignify thi$ etho# "y $aying you
G9ull->utH @etho# you are $etting your$elf up for an unplanne# pregnan*y. If you are having $ex %ith her %hile $he i$ on her perio# or the #ay or t%o "efore it *han*e$ are you are o3 "ut I $till #o not re*o en# u$ing the pull out etho# even at that ti e. RThe
*han*e of a %o an getting pregnant on her perio# i$ very rare "ut it ha$ happene# "efore.8
Con#o $A Con#o $ are great prote*tion again$t ST2D$ an# are great "irth *ontrol. ItD$ al$o one of the only etho#$ of "irth *ontrol %here you *an *ontrol the out*o e. Ra$
oppo$e# to the pill or other fe ale $olution$ %hi*h reNuire her to "e in *harge8. '$ long you put the *on#o pregnan*y. The 9illA 5o en ta3e the pill on a $et ti e an# $*he#ule. It %or3$ really %ell M a$ long a$ $he ta3e$ it. So eti e %o en %ill G$3ipH a #o$e if they really %ant a *hil# or in to#ayD$ "u$y ti e$ often it get$ lo$t in the $huffle. If $he i$ on the pill an# you *o pletely tru$t her then the pill i$ a great $olutionO if youDre he$itant that $he %ill forget or really %ant$ a *hil# %ith you explore the other option$. Fe ale *on#o A The fe ale *on#o %a$ laun*he# %ith great fan#o a$ it %oul# "e an on the right %ay an# it #oe$nDt "rea3 then you %ill prevent
opportunity for %o en to *ontrol their o%n $exual #e$tiny. 0o%ever it ha$nDt #one a$ %ell a$ any thought it %oul#. So e guy$ li3e it ore than the %earing a *on#o
%hile other$ $ay itD$ li3e having $ex %ith a pla$ti* tarp. (ou *an experi ent %ith it, "ut %hen I nee# a *on#o I al%ay$ %ear one an# forget the fe ale *on#o . +uy$ ta3e your$elf.
re$pon$i"ility, 3no% thi$ exi$t$ "ut %ear a *on#o 2iaphrag A The #iaphrag nee#$ a pre$*ription fro
i$ another thing that a %o an *an %ear. @o$t ti e$ a %o an a #o*tor to get a #iaphrag . ItD$ 3in# of a pain a$ they nee# to
get it fitte# an# leave it in after $ex. The $tat$ vary "ut #iaphrag $ have "een 3no%n to "e le$$ effe*tive than a *on#o *on#o $, ID# %ear a *on#o or the pill. 'gain, unle$$ you have a an# $3ip the #iaphrag . aJor aver$ion to
Sper i*i#eA Sper i*i#e i$ a gel that i$ applie# to 3ill $per . 0ere i$ %hat you nee# to 3no% a"out $per i*i#e. Sper i*i#e u$e# on it$ o%n i$ a ri$3y propo$ition. I %oul# not re*o en# it. There *han*e of pregnan*y i$ too high. Sper i*i#e u$e# %ith a *on#o i$
very effe*tive at preventing pregnan*y. 0o%ever, $o e $tu#ie$ have $ho%n that $per i*i#e *on#o $ are no "etter at preventing pregnan*y that Ju$t a regular ole *on#o . The 9at*h, The Ring, the Shot, an# the I plantA The$e are all hor onal $olution$ availa"le %ith a pre$*ription fro her #o*tor or a fa ily planning *lini*. Sin*e the$e have
to "e repla*e# infreNuently, theyDre "etter for the a"$ent- in#e# than the pill. IF2A 'lthough the IF2 ha$ ha# $o e 9R #iffi*ultie$, itD$ a very effe*tive, *o forta"le $olution for %o en %ho have alrea#y ha# a *hil#. It ha$ to "e in$erte# Ran# re ove#8 "y a e#i*al profe$$ional.
/a$e*to yA I al o$t *on$i#ere# thi$ one night after "eing very *on*erne# that I ha# i pregnate# a girlfrien# at the ti e. 'lthough "oth operation$ Rguy$ an# girl$8 are rever$i"le, *hanging your in# later on #oe$nDt ean it %ill go %ell an# itD$ expen$ive. If
youDre going to #o thi$ "e $ure. @y frien# @i3e, %ho %a$ really *on*erne# a"out unplanne# pregnan*y ha# the operation an# $ai# it %a$nDt too "a#. 0e %al3e# out of the ho$pital an# %a$ fine after a %ee3en#.
The "otto
line i$ thi$A if you really tru$t your girl an# $he i$ on the pill or another for
of hor onal "irth *ontrol your fine. If youDre %orrie# $heDll forget or itD$ a girl you Ju$t
$tarte# $leeping %ith an# ha$nDt "een te$te# for ST2D$ al%ay$ "e $afe an# $trap on a *on#o 6 Avoiding ST,s' I hate tal3ing a"out ST2$, IDve never ha# one, "ut I 3no% people %ho have ha#. LetD$ #ive into %hatD$ i portant to 3no% an# then ove on.
So e ST2$ are very $eriou$. 'I2S i$ $till a life threatening #i$ea$e. 2onDt get it. LetD$ a3e it $i pleA 0I/A If you put a *on#o .ven if the *on#o on an# it #oe$ not "rea3 your *han*e of getting 0I/ i$ TI)(. u*h ea$ier for
an. The $tupi#e$t thing you *an ever #o i$ have R.9.'T.2 #oe$ "rea3 %ith a %o an that for
$o e rea$on you #i#nDt a$3 a"out her $exual pa$t, then go get te$te# 'S'9 for everything an# then again for 0I/ in 3 onth$. There i$ a te$t no% *alle# 'pti a Co "o 1 '$$ay. It
%ill te$t you "y a $i ple urine $a ple for Chla y#ia an# gonorrhea. (ou *an al$o get %hatD$ *alle# an >raZui*3 0I/ te$t an# you get the re$ult$ in 1inute$. Fnle$$ you
have "een having unprote*te# anal $ex %ith hoo3er$, you $houl# "e fine. Iu$t get te$te# to "e $ure. ST2$ other than 0I/A There are all $ort$ of i$era"le $oun#ing $tuff out there. 'l%ay$ a$3 a %o an a"out her
$exual hi$tory. 2e$pite it "eing a $eriou$ $u"Je*t, "ring it up *a$ually "ut fir ly. Thi$ i$ i portant6 ItD$ your life %eDre tal3ing a"out here6
RGra%H8 "ut thi$ $houl# only "e %ith a %o an %ho you are in $o e type of
relation$hip an# you 3no%, not gue$$, that i$ *o pletely ST2 free a$ are you your$elf. ID not going to li$t every ST2 hereO if you feel a "urning %hen you ta3e a pi$$ or $ee
%eir# $pot$ go $ee your #o*tor. *hat =ind of Condoms Are 8est' The "e$t *on#o i$ the one that you *an put %ith ea$e, #oe$nDt grip your *o*3 too tight,
an# $till al%ay$ you to enJoy $ex. >ften guy$ %ill $ay $o ething li3e, GI *anDt get har# %ith a *on#o on, or *on#o $ ruin $ex.H If you *an get har# %ith no *on#o on %hile
%at*hing porn or tou*hing your$elf you *an get har# %ith a *on#o
your hea#. Rea# a"out hi$ i$$ue un#er trou"le $hooting. 5hile *on#o $ #efinitely $ex le$$ enJoya"le, ST2$ a3e LIF. unenJoya"le.
The "e$t *on#o $ that I have ever u$e# are 2urex Love. I have never foun# the $tore "ut have "ought the online. 5hat I re*o
in a
Love a$ %ell a$ a "un*h of other *on#o $ at %%%.*on#o #epot.*o . !uy one of their $a pler 3it$ an# try the #ifferent *on#o $. For overall experien*e, I highly #o re*o en# that 2urex Love. Stay a%ay fro la "$3in an# other unu$ual aterial
RTipA If you are *on*erne# a"out lo$ing $en$ation "e*au$e of %earing a *on#o , you *an a## #rop of lu"e I)SI2. the *on#o . It %ill repli*ate the %et $en$ation an# #oe$ not
$taying on. (ou *an u$e '$trogli#e, 9Jur or 5et R y favorite$8 or any ay %ant to try out.8 !rea3$A *orre*tly *on#o $ rarely "rea3. LetD$ revie% ho% to put
on a *on#o . If youDre "rea3ing *on#o $ often then #efinitely pay attention to thi$ revie%.
an# $heD$ )>T on "irth *ontrol you have a pro"le . (ou %ant her to ta3e a @orning after pill. Thi$ lo%er$ the *han*e of pregnan*y to a tiny *han*e. R$o e $tat$8. In $tate$ no%, guy$ *an "uy the o$t
orning after pill. ;eep it at your pla*e an# #onDt pani* "ut e#iately agree, other$ ay
$ay that you thin3 that $he $houl# ta3e it. @any girl$ %ill i "al3. (ou *anDt for*e a girl to ta3e it $o Ju$t
a"out her Ran# "oth of you8 !e *aring "ut *on*erne#. If $he #oe$ not ta3e it, *han*e$ are $he %ill not get pregnant, "ut there i$ not #oe$nDt happen again. u*h you *an #o a"out it ex*ept a3e $ure it
About pills and supplements and penis pumps' I *urrently #o not u$e $exual $ti ulant$ other than $o e natural her"$ that I foun# an# o%n te$to$terone "oo$ting %or3out$. !ut in or#er to give proper gui#an*e IDve gone out there an# exten$ively te$te# everything I *oul# get through. y han#$ on. LetD$ #o a Nui*3 run y
/iagraA IDve ta3en /iagra to $ee ho% it feel$. @o$t guy$ #onDt nee# /iagra to get har# an# $tay har# itD$ a ental thing. !ut if you feel that you really nee# it then u$e it. F$e the ore p$y*hologi*al
lo%e$t po$$i"le #oe$ that give$ you a "enefit. R>ften the "enefit i$ than anything el$e8. Try 14
though, plea$ing %o en ha$ nothing to #o %ith #i*3 $ize. ItD$ all a"out u$ing the 4 varia"le$ of thi$ $y$te an# everything you learn in the 2/2D$. /iagra i$ "e$t ta3en if inute$-3 hour$ an# nee# an extra "oo$t.
If you really nee# a "oo$t for a long %ee3en# a%ay or repeate# $e$$ion$ then Ciali$ %or3$ "etter.
Ciali$A IDve al$o trie# Ciali$ a han#ful of ti e$ an# if you are going a%ay for a long %ee3en# or 3no% you %ill "e having $ex goo# option for you. 'gain on*e you ultiple ti e$ over a fe% #ay$ thi$ *oul# "e a
a$ter the te*hniNue$ you %ill have the $trategie$ e#i*ation$ are only to get it up
y o%n experien*e an# guy$ that IDve tal3e# to Ciali$ #oe$nDt give you the
ro*3 har# ere*tion$ that /iagra #oe$. 5hat it #oe$ i$ it allo%$ you to 3eep getting har# over an# over even if youDve Ju$t ha# $ex.
9eni$ pu p$ I trie# a peni$ pu p "a*3 in ve$$el$ an# ID of your ti e an# y #e$peration #ay$. It hurt, I nearly poppe# $o e "loo#
never u$ing it again. If youDre thin3ing of getting one, #onDt. ItD$ a %a$te oney. 2i*3 $ize i$ )>T the pro"le . The $olution i$ learning ho% to
,on!t *ait- Implementing my system and &-A-.-+ 5hat goo# i$ thi$ $y$te if you never i ple ent itL
2onDt "e %orrie# a"out i ple enting ./.R( a$pe*t of thi$ "oo3. LetD$ go through an# tal3 a"out %here to $tart. !e a"le to la$t at lea$t ,inute$P.if you *an la$t ,inute$ you have the $ta ina to inute$ then %or3 on thi$ u$ing
give her orga$ $ #uring penetration. If you *anDt la$t ,the nu "ere# arou$al $y$te
until you *an. Ragain *all u$ %ith any pro"le $ , &-- 1=<
-4:,Pton$ of guy$ #o an# it$ *o pletely anony ou$8 !e a"le to give her an orga$ . If you *anDt give your lover any an orga$ thi$ $houl# "e
you next goal. (ou #onDt have to go *razy. Re e "er that fir$t you %ill give her a *litoral orga$ orga$ through #igital $ti ulation. Then ove on until you *an give her an
Fo*u$ on foreplay. Fo*u$ing on foreplay i$ one of the fa$te$t %ay$ to i prove your $exual $3ill$. Fo*u$ on giving her a *litoral orga$ fro foreplay. Fo*u$ on getting your girl to
$o horny #uring foreplay that $he Ja $ your *o*3 in$i#e of her. Try an# $pen# Ju$t a$ u*h ti e on foreplay a$ the a*tual $ex. Tru$t e you %ill #river her *razy.
In*rea$e the freNuen*y of ho% often you have $ex. '$ your $exual $3ill$ $tart ro*3ing the "e#roo you %ill "e a"le to have ore an# "etter $ex %ith your partner. (ou $houl#
noti*e an in*rea$e in ho% often you are having $ex6 >n*e you are %or3ing on the$e 4 $tep$ $tart in*orporating $o e ore a#van*e#
$trategie$. Che*3 out the ne% infor ation an# $tart in*orporating $o e *razy fanta$ie$, giving her over%hel ing orga$ $, an# After-thoughts' ID pu pe# you have *ho$en to ro*3 the "e#roo . It$ not Ju$t a"out giving a %o an u*h ore than that. ItD$ "eing a real an, living life on your o%n ter $, en that you eet. Sexual $3ill$ a3ing her *o e repeate#ly "y on *o an#.
orga$ $, itD$ $o
an# "eing treate# %ith re$pe*t "y all the %o en an# really #o a3e the
an an# people *an tell. (ou no% have an a#vantage fe% guy$ an, an# *he*3 out y
a*tually have the "all$ to learn. Congratulate your$elf, great Jo" other $tuff to ta3e it to the next level an# +.T 5IL26 (our frien# an# in*re#i"le $ex *oa*h, !o""y !ra#$ha% R&--8 1=< -4:,
,eeper and (arder 8onus' Loo3ing "a*3 no% I *an laugh at ho% "a# y fir$t fe% $exual experien*e$ %ere. !ut at
the ti e, "eing terri"le in "e# *au$e# a T>) of hu iliation, e "arra$$ ent, an# fru$tration. I even lo$t $everal a%e$o e girl$ "e*au$e I %a$n't a"le to $ati$fy the $exually. 5hen you are "a# in "e#, you are telling a girl that you aren't the 3in# of guy %ho other %o en %ant to "e %ith... an# there i$ no Nui*3er %ay to lo$e attra*tion.
0opefully a$ you rea# thi$ you have alrea#y $urvive# your fir$t $exual experien*e$. !ut even if you have never ha# $ex, or if you are $till having a%3%ar# 7"eginner7 $ex %here you *an't la$t ore than a *ouple inute$ an# have trou"le getting har#, I %ant you to
So if you are $till %or3ing on the "a$i*$ Ran# it'$ >;, I %a$ there
together a $pe*ial 2/2 $erie$ IFST for you that I *all 7)atural 'lpha @ale Sex.H In$i#e, I tea*h youA 0o% to avoi# lo$ing your girl, or having her *heat on you "e*au$e you *an't $ati$fy her $exually
0o% to avoi# having her tell all of her frien#$ ')2 all of your frien#$ Ju$t ho% terri"le you %ere in "e# The $e*ret tip that the @>ST a3e$ $ure you get har# every ti e M "elieve e, not getting it up i$
4 $e*ret$ to "a$i* foreplay that +F'R')T.. that $he %ill have an a azing experien*e The & i$ta3e$ all guy$ ore. a3e %hen fir$t having $ex an# ho% to avoi# the
!elo% I'
5hen you are fir$t getting $tarte# having $ex it *an $ee
a ount of thing$ to thin3 a"out. 0o% #o I ta3e her *lothe$ off, ho% #o I tou*h her, %hat #o I $ay, $houl# I a3e noi$e$, the li$t goe$ on an# on. For o$t people, all of thi$ i$
a girl6 Thi$ i$ %here I *o e in. I have put together a li$t of 3 3ey$ that %ill ta3e *are of =-V of your $exual experien*e, allo%ing you to fo*u$ on your an# her enJoy ent.
13 #elax=4V of perfor an*e pro"le $ M *u $te fro ing too Nui*3ly or not "eing a"le to get it up M
$exual experien*e either "y en#ing it Nui*3ly or not letting it get $tarte#. !ut *on$*iou$ly thin3ing a"out relaxing #oe$n't help at all, it *an even a3e you ore nervou$ "e*au$e you #o%n in the
you are no% fo*u$e# on it. So you nee# $o e $i ple tri*3$ to help *al o ent.
The %or$t po$ition$ are %here you are $upporting your or her %eight on your ar $. The "e$t po$ition$ for relaxation are her on top, an# #oggy $tyle.
If you are having $ex, $top thru$ting. If $he i$ u$ing her han#$ or *ontinue. Ta3e 3 #eep "reath$. @a3e $ure that every
re$u e %hatever you %ere #oing in a #ifferent %ay. If you %ere fu*3ing her, $tart fu*3ing her again "ut $lo%er or in a #ifferent po$ition. If $he %a$ "lo%ing you, pu$h her hea# "a*3 an# go #o%n on her.
38 'l*ohol )or ally I %oul#n't re*o en# u$ing al*ohol, "ut if you are going to #rin3, a3e $ure
u*h or too little. The perfe*t a ount to #rin3 for relaxation i$ 1 ore than thi$ "e*au$e it feel$ li3e you are ore relaxe#,
ove$.
So eti e$ %hen you are getting $tarte# you *an get over%hel e# an# feel li3e you 7#on't 3no% %hat to #o.7 To avoi# thi$, a3e $ure you have a fe% go-to ove$ for
#ifferent $ituation$. Thi$ i$ not the ti e to pull out the 7$pinning rever$e *o%-girl,7 $o again $ti*3 to the "a$i*$.
(ou $houl# have a fe% go-to thing$ to $ay in *a$e the $ex ever $tart$ to feel a%3%ar# an# $ilent. Sti*3ing %ith the *la$$i*$ li3e, 7"a"y that feel$ $o goo#,7 an# 7you li3e %hen I a in$i#e youL7 $houl# *over you in are *o forta"le, "ut o$t $ituation$. Try "eing a little ore *reative if you
a3e $ure you $tay *ongruent %ith the phy$i*al a$pe*t. If you are Rall of %hi*h i$ fine ore a#van*e# an#
for your fir$t $exual experien*e$68, you #on't %ant to "e tal3ing a"out
%il# fanta$ie$ "e*au$e it %ill "e very in*ongruent an# #i$rupt the experien*e.
(ou $houl# al$o have a fe% go-to foreplay te*hniNue$. I give you all of the $y$te . (ou *an *all a"out it an# to hear a fe% of the for free.
in the full
48 Spen# extra ti e on foreplay. @a3e $ure to $pen# extra ti e on the foreplay. Thi$ %ill help you to get *o forta"le %ith
"eing $exually inti ate %ith your partner. It %ill al$o in*rea$e her total plea$ure an# a3e the experien*e longer, %hi*h %ill help to off$et any $ta ina i$$ue$ that you ight
have. Fo*u$ on the$e three 3ey$ an# you %ill ta3e *are of =-V of the pro"le $ "eginner$ fa*e. Thi$ %ill really allo% you to fo*u$ on your enJoy ent an# $oon you %ill "e rea#y to %or3 on ore a#van*e# te*hniNue$. If you are $till a "eginner you #efinitely %ill %ant to
get the full progra . To hear free $ex tip$ fro the *oa*he$ an# learn ore a"out any of the$e progra $ *all u$