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Start The New Year Right With A Happiness Jar!

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The purpose is to recognize the good that happens in our lives every day; things that you might otherwise overlook. No mater how were struggling, theyre always some moments of good. For example, looking out the window and seeing a bird at your feeder is a good moment. Your happiness jar can also be used for those times when youre feeling particularly down and hopeless. You can reach into your jar and pull up a random paper. On it will be a memory that youve most likely forgotten, but will remind you of a time that you felt good. Heres how she describes what she puts in her jar: They are very seldom glamorous moments, or dramatic moments, or moments of great accomplishment. They are almost always nearly invisible moments when suddenly I just felt in my bones the very best aspects of my humanity gratitude, peace, hope, contentment. For instance, on the day that I went on the Oprah Winfrey Show which was one of the greatest days of my life my happiest moment of the day was not when I met Oprah (though it was the most dazzling and amazing moment of the day.). The happiest moment of that day was sitting in my hotel room in Chicago, two hours before I went to the studio, watching my mother lovingly iron the satin sash of the dress I was going to wear on the show that afternoon feeling like a child again, being taken care of by my sweet mom.

Home Being single Start The New Year Right With A Happiness Jar! Written byonJanuary 7, 2014
My Happiness Jar

One of my favorite writers is Elizabeth Gilbert. She wrote Eat, Pray, Love, and has just released a wonderful new woman-centrist book titled, The Signature Of All Things. But I dont want to talk about her books right now; Id rather share with you a practice shes initiated in her life that I have now begun as well. I want to share it with you because now that were starting a brand new year, rather then focusing on resolutions, I think it will be good for us to focus on happiness and possibility. Shes created what she calls a HAPPINESS JAR. All you do is write down the happiest moment of the day on a small piece of paper and put it in your jar. Thats the whole process.

No matter what youre going through, theyll be a moment in your day that is maybe not wonderful, but has some relief from your pain. Ive just started mine and hope you decide to start yours as well. Ive posted the picture of my now almost empty jar. I know by this time next year it will look completely different and be full of good memories. Do this with me and send me a picture of your jar. At the end of the year we can compare pictures and know weve had a lot of good in 2014! It's Never Too Late "Letting Love In"

Im sharing with you my 5 tips from last year on how to make your New Years Eve a happy one. Looking forward to connecting with you 2014! New Years Eve is one of those couple centric holidays that many of us dread. The pressure of not having a date on New Years Eve can be more daunting than not having one for Valentines Day. Add to that the fear that how we end last year will have a bearing on how the New Year will unfold. Its a superstition thats hard to fight. If you have no one to kiss at midnight, it doesnt bode well for your love life in the year ahead. It can leave you feeling totally discouraged and hopeless about finding loveever. Its natural to feel depressed being dateless on the biggest date night of the year. You know theres a fabulous party going on but you dont know where and anyway, youre not invited. You wont have the opportunity to wear your favorite dress and heels. You wont be dancing with a funny hat and blowing a noisemaker at midnight. You wont be toasting with expensive champagne or looking deeply into a mans eyes as you embrace and share a passionate kiss. But you know what, you can have that experience next year if thats what you want, and in the meantimeyou can have a fabulous and exciting New Years, setting the stage for next year, dedicated to you getting the love you want. Here are five great ways to survive being single on New Years Eve: 1. Dress up! Its one of those times to forget the rules. On New Years Eve anything goes so do yourself up in way that makes you feel good. Dont worry about being age appropriate or too outrageous. Clothes will alter your feelings so play around with glitter, velvet, or lace go for those things that feel festive and express your Inner Diva. 2. Think new! Explore an interest or a hobby youve only fantasized about. Find a meet-up group or class that will inspire you to get started or go out and buy the materials you need to begin. This will inform your subconscious mind that you are open to new experiences and ready to expand your life in the New Year. 3. Write a love letter! Write to yourself about all the good things you experienced in the last year. Express appreciation to yourself for the challenges
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You Can Survive Being Single On New Years Eve!

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Home Being single You Can Survive Being Single On New Years Eve! Written byonDecember 31, 2013

you faced and how well you overcame them. Remind yourself about the people youve helped and how you made a difference in their lives. Sign it with love, address it to yourself and drop it in the mailbox 4. Make a date! Select a place you want to visit in the next month. Make it somewhere that will speak to your soul. Choose a ranch where you can ride horses or cabin by a lake. Visit a friend who lives far away. Whatever you decide, make the reservations and the arrangements now. Leaving the comfort of home will impress your subconscious mind that you are open for more adventure and fun in your life 5. Buy a present! Chose a gift that will remind you of your wish for romance in the New Year. A ring or a bracelet you put on everyday can help you remember that you have the intention of finding love in 2012. A picture in a pretty frame on you bedside table is another great reminder. It doesnt have to be fancy, it just needs to be meaningful to you

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Why Its Hard To Let Go After A Break Up

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Home Being single Why Its Hard To Let Go After A Break Up Written byonDecember 16, 2013 Most romantic relationships start out strong. Theres usually instant physical attraction and the heady feeling that you actually may be falling in love. As things progress, you get more confidence in the relationship, in your ability to love and be loved. Soon you have no doubt that you have found your perfect partner. But most of the relationships youll go through will suffer a break up until you actually meet Mr. Right. These relationships are not meant to last and will begin to fall apart anywhere from a few months to a few years. If the man is the one who makes the decision to walk away, it can leave you devastated and confused. After a break up like this, you will be desperate for answers. Youll think of love you shared and assume it should still be there. Even if there were signs before the break up that things were changing for the worse, you will find yourself clinging to the memory of the past and how good it was. Why do we persist in continuing a sense of disbelief and longing for a relationship and a man who is no longer there? Well, brain specialists have recognized this can be a biological occurrence in our brains. You can become addicted to a state of mind that keeps you in state of longing for the past. After a break up you can actually remember everything that happened in an ultra-positive light. You see the past through rosecolored glasses and only focus on the times when he was good and loving. This is a mental trap. It will keep you stuck in the present with a broken heart and broken dreams. By
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Survive being single on New Years Eve: If you do these 5 things it will pass by before you know it and all the anticipation and craziness will over.
Another way to survive being single on New Years Eve is to know that every New Years Eve youre single brings you closer to the New Years when you wont be! So hold that thought and believe that you can make 2012 a year for love and celebration! It's Never Too Late "Letting Love In"

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longing for the past youll keep obsessing on an old relationship for months and even years. The best way to change these obsessive thoughts and release the past for good is to make yourself do an autopsy of the relationship. You need to make yourself get real; remember the things that were not so good. After all, if it was all good youd still be together. You have to burst the bubble of your fantasy and let yourself see how he wasnt perfect, and either were you. Telling yourself that because love was there once it should therefore still be there is the formula for selfdelusion. The nature of being human is our feelings change, and sometimes we dont know why they just do.

How To Stop Dreading The Holidays

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Home Being single How To Stop Dreading The Holidays Written byonDecember 3, 2013 Are you dreading the holidays? You feel the all too familiar pressure of trying to be jolly as a wave of sadness fills your heart. You cant help but think, Oh please not another holiday without someone to love at my side! Here it is again, another year has passed and youre alone. But actually, youre not. Theyre 28 million single women over 35 in the US and many of them are feeling just like you. Theyre hearts are heavy at the thought of whats coming. You may relate to my client Sammie. Sammies 45 and shes dreading the holidays. Shes going to her family gathering this year, once again, without a partner at her side. Of her 4 siblings, shes only one single and without children. To her dismay, every year her parents house is filled with more children and less adults. She knows her family is sensitive to her situation, each person has their own opinion as to why she is alone year after year. Whether they feel embarrassed for her or even compassion, none of it feels good. What hurts the most is that they think she must be doing something wrong, that somehow shes to blame for being single and alone this long. When she asked me to help her prepare to see her family this holiday, I really felt for her. She has been dreading the holidays for over 25 years, always hoping for different experience. So I asked her, What if you didnt spend the holidays with your family this year? There was a long silence. I felt her struggling to wrap her mind around my question. Then I heard her sigh, I cant do that; its a family tradition. Everyone comes no matter what. Theres no way I can miss the holidays with my family, its a tradition.

After a break up be aware of your thoughts

If you find yourself reaching back to the past for proof he still loves you, stop! Dont let longing take over your thinking. The best thing you can do is accept the change in his feelings; even he cant explain it and you dont understand it. Avoid looking back and start to look forward again to meeting your Mr. Right. It's Never Too Late "Letting Love In"

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Why cant you start your own tradition? Why cant you celebrate the holiday in your own way, for yourself? If you could choose anything, what would you want to do this season? If I could, and this is crazy, but Ive always wanted to go to Hawaii. I would even go alone; I just know it would be wonderful. But I cant do that, everyone would hate me! Even if thats true, how would you feel about yourself? Id feel guilty. But really, I think Id feel good, Id feel free. I told her to give it some thought; after all its a big decision. Its not easy to make your desires a priority over everyone else. Tradition is a wonderful thing, but it shouldnt be a life sentence. Maybe its time for her to buck tradition and create one of her own. We all need some flexibility. Is it time for you to create a holiday season for yourself, one that you want? One you dont dread but you actually look forward to? As for Sammie, I have the feeling Hawaii is going to win out this year. It's Never Too Late "Letting Love In"

The Key To How To Be A Good Girlfriend

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Home Being single The Key To How To Be A Good Girlfriend Written byonNovember 22, 2013 Many of us have experienced the heartbreak of falling in love with a bad boy, a narcissist or a guy whos simply, a player. We can talk for hours about whats wrong with men and how badly weve been treated. Even if were with a good guy, and he breaks up with us, well tend to find a way to blame him for breaking our heart. We focus on whats wrong with men, because its easier to blame someone else for our pain. Its hard for us to take responsibility and admit that were 50% the problem, that we just didnt know how to be a good girlfriend. Most of us have a blind spot about our own behavior in relationships. We become much too focused on how were being treated badly rather than how were treating our men. Its not all our fault. We should be taught how to be a good girlfriend when were young, before were even get interested in boys. We all know that once ourhormones kick in during puberty, we start being driven by our emotions in love and all bets are off. Today we have an abundance of relationship advice to sift through. Explicit information is everywhere teaching us about sex, men and dating. Were lured by headlines that promise to tell us How to Get a Man and Keep Him or How to Know He Loves You. Theyre far fewer articles that focus on the part we play in relationships and or that teach us how to be a good girlfriend.

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So whats the most important thing we need to know about how to be a good girlfriend?
Its taking care of ourselves first. That doesnt mean being selfish or self-centered. It means avoiding the pitfall many of us have of over-giving, over-

delivering and over-compensating to get a man to love us. As they say, It takes two to Tango. When were willing to take complete responsibility for our part in a relationship and acknowledge that no matter how wrong we think our man is, we chose him, it will change everything. Well finally know how to be a good girlfriend and increase the chances for that good boyfriend to be just around the corner. It's Never Too Late "Letting Love In"

Release what's been standing in the way of finding your special someone. Experience instant relief and relaxation while your subconscious mind takes in positive suggestions to help you bring more love into your life. PLUS get a complimentary subscription to my newsletter full of great advice on how to have the relationship you've always wanted.