From what is heard on radio and seen on television or even in a casual look at the newspapers, it seems that aggression

are the most common forms of interaction between people in todays society. We recall all those things and wonder, how did it get to this point or what can we do?

Aggression can be

eactive relational aggression and !nstrumental relational

aggression. eactive relational aggression "hostile, affective, retaliatory# is used in response to feeling attacked, threatened, or mad. $sually the person who e%hibits this type of aggression feels provoked to do so. !nstrumental relational aggression "predatory, goal& oriented# is used in order for an individual to get what they want.'