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Mrs. J. Hill
English Comp. I
29 November 2004
“Mom, I don’t understand this”! As a mother of two male children with two
different learning disabilities, I hear these words more than I would like. I learned about
children in their classrooms. I had no reason to question why they asked until my
children stared to run into problems with their learning. One their teachers could not
understand how two little boys from the same home were beginning to fall behind. Of
course, they looked at if there was anything new or unusual going on in my home. There
was not. They tested my oldest child, but he tested well. They tested my younger son,
and that’s where we found a problem. This paper will tell of the things we had to go
through in order to get the help my children needed. I will show the advantages my
When they reached third grade something happened. The problem my children
faced was neither one of them was taking in information like they had in the past. Their
teachers knew I was very involved with my children and helped as much as they could
with extra schoolwork and study tips. We knew something was very wrong because
eventually they fell so far behind; an intervention had to be made by their school at my
request. My older son, who went through this boggling change first, tested well but was
very ill and need emergency medical intervention for his loss of educational progress.
My other son, who did not test well, was diagnosed with Attention Deficit/
thought it was the best decision. I was wrong. He did well on the medicine, but his
whole personality changed. I was faced with making the decision of continuing the
medicine or letting my son fall further and further behind in school. In the end, he took
the decision out of my hands. He came to me one day and asked to be taken off the
medicine. I honored his request because I understood why he wanted off the medicine he
was taking. He and I spoke with his wonderful teachers. They came up with a lesson
plan specifically for him. They put him into a class for children who learn at different
paces. He did great in that class and began to love school again. When his teachers
explained to me how studies had shown that African-American males fell behind around
the third grade, I was very surprised. I have found information that suggests African–
American males begin to fall behind in structured school settings around this time of their
educational lives.
The statistics of African-American males falling behind in the third and fourth
grades as rose since 1971. This means an elementary age African-American male can do
well in their studies, but it is not guaranteed they will keep up with the same level of
advancement through the rest of their school careers. In my children’s case, they fell
behind but were caught before they could slip through the cracks. Some children are not
so lucky.
student. The educational problems my children face show how educational intervention
can help a child. Some people will label these children “slow learners” which in turn
creates a stigma of unintelligence. I think it is the other way around. I think children
who have the initiative to accept they learn at a different pace then their fellow class
mates but continue with their learning are very intelligent and deserve accolades not
derogatory remarks.