To delete out from

Your Life
20
Things
Do we realize how much time we had been wasting every day on things
that werent important, which prevented us from spending quality time with
each other. Ask yourself: What do I need to stop wasting time on? Here
are some things to consider, that Ive been examining in my own life:
1. Distractions that keep you from special moments
with special people.
Pay attention to the little things, because when you really miss someone
you miss the little things the most, like just laughing together. Go for long
walks. Indulge in great conversations. Count your mutual blessings. Let go
for a little while and just BE together.
2. Compulsive busyness.
Schedule time every day to not be busy. Have dedicated downtime
clear points in the day to reflect, rest, and recharge. Dont fool
yourself; youre not so busy that you cant afford a few minutes of
sanity.
3. Negative thinking about your current situation.
Life is like a mirror; we get the best results when we smile. So talk
about your blessings more than you talk about your problems. Just
because youre struggling doesnt mean youre failing. Every great
success requires some type of worthy struggle to get there.
4. The needless drama around you.
Be wise enough to walk away from the nonsense around
you. Focus on the positives, and soon the negatives will
be harder to see.
5. The desire for everything you dont have.
No, you wont always get exactly what you want, but remember this: There
are lots of people who will never have what you have right now. The things
you take for granted, someone else is praying for. Happiness never comes
to those who dont appreciate what they already have.
6. Comparing yourself to everyone else.
Social comparison is the thief of happiness. You could
spend a lifetime worrying about what others have, but
it wouldnt get you anything.
7. Thinking about who you were or what you had in the past.
Youre not the same person you were a year ago, a month
ago, or a week ago. Youre always growing. Experiences
dont stop. Thats life.
8. Worrying about the mistakes youve made.
Its OK if you mess up; thats how you get wiser. Give yourself a
break. Dont give up. Great things take time, and youre getting there. Let
your mistakes be your motivation, not your excuses. Decide right now
that negative experiences from your past wont predict your future.
9. Worrying about what everyone thinks and says about you.
Dont take things too personally, even if it seems personal. Rarely do
people do things because of you; they do things because of them. You
honestly cant change how people treat you or what they say about you. All
you can do is change how you react and who you choose to be around.
10. Self-deception.
Your life will improve only when you take small chances. And
the first and most difficult chance you can take is to be
honest with yourself.
11. A life path that doesnt feel right.
Life is to be enjoyed, not endured. When you truly believe in what youre
doing, it shows, and it pays. Success in life is for those who are excited
about where they are going. Its about walking comfortably in your own
shoes, in the direction of YOUR dreams.
12. Everyone elses definition of success and happiness.
You simply cant base your idea of success and happiness on other
peoples opinions and expectations. Build your own definition of
success. You cant find peace by waiting or avoiding things. Deal with
problems directly before they deal with your success & happiness.
13. Those who insist on using and manipulating you.
What you allow is what will continue. Give as much as you can, but dont
allow yourself to be used. Listen to others closely, but dont lose your own
voice in the process. Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those
who are rude to you not because they are nice, but because you are.

14. Trying to impress everyone.
One of the most freeing things we learn in life is that we dont have to like
everyone, everyone doesnt have to like us, and thats perfectly OK. No
matter how you live, someone will be disappointed. So just live your truth
and be sure YOU arent the one who is disappointed in the end.
15. All the fears holding you back.
Fear is a feeling, not a fact. The best way to gain strength and self-
confidence is to do what youre afraid to do. Dare to change and grow. In
the end, there is only one thing that makes a dream completely impossible
to achieve: Lack of action based on the fear of failure.
16. Doubting and second-guessing yourself.
When in doubt just take the next small step. Sometimes the smallest
step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life.
Open your mind before you open your mouth. Dont hate what you dont
know. The mind is like a parachute; it doesnt work when its closed.
17. People who continuously dump on your dreams.
Its better to be lonely than allow negative people and their opinions
derail you from your destiny. Dont let others crush your dreams. Do
just once what they say you cant do, and you will never pay attention
to their negativity again.
18. Thinking the perfect time will come.
You cant always wait for the perfect moment. Sometimes you must dare to
do it because life is too short to wonder what could have been. You cant
change what you refuse to confront. You cant find peace by avoiding
things. Deal with problems directly before they deal with your happiness.

19. Resentment.
Remember, you dont forgive people because youre weak. You forgive them
because youre strong enough to know that people make mistakes. Be
tolerant of peoples mistakes and oversights. Sometimes good people make
bad choices. It doesnt mean theyre bad; it simply means they are human.
20. Every point in time other than right now.
Dont cry over the past, its gone. Dont stress too much about
the future, it hasnt arrived. Leave the unchangeable past
behind you as you give yourself to the present moment. Do your
best to live NOW and make this moment worth living.
http://www.marcandangel.com/2014/02/05/25-things-you-
need-to-stop-wasting-time-on/

Your time is limited, so dont waste it living someone elses life.
Dont be trapped by dogma which is living with the results of
other peoples thinking. Dont let the noise of others opinions
drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the
courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already
know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
Thank You Very Much
Sompong Yusoontorn