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You were meant to point to the one hope, the one anchor,
the one true source of joy, peace, and contentment for the
entire human race. His name is Jesus.
Surviving is for those who have no hope. Thats not
you not if youre Gods child.
You were meant to thrive.
Im not saying you wont have trouble in this life. Only
the false teachers of the prosperity gospel claim otherwise.
They promise prosperity while using Scriptures written from
prison or during some of the lowest moments in the lives of
godly men. Out of Jesus twelve disciples, only one escaped
martyrdom, and he was exiled to a desolate island. Without
exception, all of us will have some bad days. But Jesus tells
us to take heart. He has overcome the world, which means
we can thrive amid it all (John 16:33).
When I was in high school, the word thrive was not in my
vocabulary. It felt like the best I could do was to survive. As I
struggled with attention deficit disorder and dyslexia, school
days felt like a mix of labor camp, summer camp (recess and
lunch), and the next embarrassment that lurked right around
the corner. At times, my life still feels that way. At times, I
feel like Im still trying to survive.
If we are honest, we can look back on the last year and say
we only survived it. We survived school. We survived with
most of our relationships intact.
Some of us have not survived very well. Maybe our circle
of friends has changed. Maybe our families are different
than they were this time last year, and we have survived some
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Point to Remember
We were meant to thrive and not just survive.
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CHAPTER 2
BALANCED
IS BOTH
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tree. The water has risen many times and taken just about
everything in the area away everything except that tree.
I believe we can find a lesson in there somewhere.
An old farmer in overalls joined us at The Tree. He talked
like a Southern version of Morgan Freeman. His voice alone
made me believe everything he said.
You know, the reason these kinds of trees are so strong
is, not only are they planted by the water, but they have just
as much going on under the ground as they do above the
ground, he said. If you wiped all of the dirt out of here,
youd basically see this. He held up one hand on top of the
other, palms facing us and fingers spread wide. He wanted
us to see how the trees roots had spread underground just as
wide as the branches had spread above ground.
A little later, Psalm 1 came to my mind, and I read it to
our group.
Blessed is the man
who walks not in the counsel of the wicked,
nor stands in the way of sinners,
nor sits in the seat of scoffers;
but his delight is in the law of the Lord,
and on his law he meditates day and night.
He is like a tree
planted by streams of water
that yields its fruit in its season,
and its leaf does not wither.
In all that he does, he prospers.
Psalm 1:1 3
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BALANCED IS BOTH
Mark Hall
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Point to Remember
Balanced believers dig their roots deep
and reach out to others.
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DIGGING DEEP
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CHAPTER 3
UNKNOWNS
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That song echoed the truth that God uses the weak
things in the world to shame the wise, and it was where my
but almost got in the way. Christians have huge buts, where
we believe everything but [insert excuse here]. If you believe
something but, theres a good chance you dont believe it at
all. Theres a chance you just know it and its on your T-shirt,
but its not the filter through which you run your actions.
On my first day of college, I knew all of my little lifelesson moments and memory verses from high school, like I
can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. But
then I failed with a big, fat zero the entrance exam for
music majors.
The music departments response was to ask me to come
in and sing. When I did, they were like, Oh. OK. I guess
somewhere between my audition and their feeling sorry for
me, they decided to start me in remedial core courses to see
if I could survive. I think it was a low enrollment year for
them.
Along with my cruddy ACT scores that few schools would
have accepted, nothing logical told me I should be enrolled
in college. All of the superstars from the huge churches were
there and sounded awesome. I fought through the insecurity
of it all and sat at a piano to write a song called Fear. It was
a sparse little ballad that lacked a chorus. Years later, Steven
Curtis Chapman wrote a chorus and handed it back to me.
You may know that song. Its called Voice of Truth. It came
from the idea, borne out repeatedly in Scripture, that God
uses unknowns to make him known.
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of your names in this blank and then look over and write
your zip code and then go down to the other side of the page
and write your phone number and then come back up to
your last name and then write your address?
I swallowed. Hes reading my mail to me right now, I
thought.
One by one, he started naming symptoms, and I had
every one of them. Then we took an ADD test in psychology, and it was the only test on which I scored 100 in college. I was in learning disabled classes as a kid, which was
embarrassing, but Id never put together the reasons for my
struggles with academics and learning. College is a heck of a
place to learn you have dyslexia.
Whichever way I read it mixed-up words and all the
idea that God has bigger dreams for me than I do sprang to
life.
Point to Remember:
Gods dreams for us are bigger than our own.
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