JOBLESS BUT NOT HOPELESS

Dear Blog viewers,

Try not to become a man of success but rather
try to become a man of value. Quotations on Integrity
by Albert Einstein. Success definitely kisses the feet of
those who are really passionate and dedicated towards
their assigned goal. It is obligatory for success to give
its sweet taste to the real deserving person who does
not believe in day dream but in absolute action. There
are different kinds of actions which may be ethical or
unethical, humiliating or respectable. Everybody is
earning money but it is important how one is earning.
What is the medium of earning? Money may offer
wide variety of material pleasure but it cannot always
fetch peace and respect. It is a moral crime to sell the
dignity at the cost of money. Money may work certain
extent of life for accomplishing desires but it cannot be
the sole priority of life. It is important to consider the job which considers you as a priority
not as a mere option. It is a disaster to carry on the career where employer can terminate
you without any further notice but you cannot complain as they are employer. It is a snub
to be killed in each and every moment even being alive. There is no need of such kind of job
which is full of humiliation and mental disruption as well as moral distraction. It is really
amazing to stick to heart not mental persuasion. Winners dont wait for chances, they take
them. So i did quit my job which bestowed with me so many things but failed to give me the
mental satisfaction and did not permit to stay me with pride and mental virginity. I was
successful in Meyer organics due to hard work and honesty. It gave me handsome salary
but could not provide me the mental justice. I started working really very hard and
working according to the directions provided by the company which made me successful.
But it is a matter of regret that my hard work was not recognized absolutely as it should
have been. The biggest hindrance was the nature of the duty and high risks of travelling.
Customer relationship management is important but it should not be at the price of ones
self-esteem and morality. Inspite of being attached to a MNC ,but there was mere respect
and sense of self satisfaction. So it is better to be jobless than to be mentally raped each and
every moment which snatches away the mental tranquility. It may or may not be wise to
take such decisions while having so much money to be repaid to bank for educational loan.
But it is a high risk taken by my life to challenge myself once again and time has
approached to test myself. I am prepared to compete with myself judiciously. It is not only
a shock to my superiors where i was working but a calamity for my immediate boss. They
persuaded me like anything to get back but i was absolutely determined in my predestined
strategy. Let me utilize best resources and talents of myself at max for two years. I believe
in actions not in the word wars. It is true that i kicked out the lucrative salary but have
started the mission of accomplishing the best and last job hunting in my life. It is the high
time not to look back but to move ahead in the most adventurous destinations of my life.

Sunshine may be late but sunset is sure.

Let me challenge my destiny once again.

Thanking you all,
Daringly yours

HABITS DESTINE THE DESTINATIONS


Dear Blog viewers,
It is true that
Your beliefs become your thoughts,
Your thoughts become your words,
Your words become your actions,
Your actions become your habits,
Your habits become your values,
Your values become your destiny.
Mahatma Gandhi
The basic difference between a failed person and a successful one is the cultivation of good and
bad habits. Everyone has specific some sorts of habits which have been regularised since a long
time. But after a long period of time, those habits become as usual activity of a person but he
fails to understand that it was only built
up by himself or herself. A new habit
becomes the as usual habit of a person
after the systematic and scientific
practices. So everybody has got the
specific objectives in life but may not the
stagnate one. But we have unlimited
wants and limited resources. If one goal
is accomplished, then another goal
comes and stands in front of us. So a
wise person holds those targets of life as
per the priority. Thus each goal is
accompanied by specific regular
activities. Those activities may be new
and difficult one but it becomes a tiny
one in front of the deadline. These are
basically mentality and deapth of the necessity. One can achieve it if one has the strong passion
and burning desires to find the destination. So it is rightly told that Just do it! First you make
your habits and then your habits make you! Lucas Remmerswaal, The A-Z of 13 Habits .So
we should start beginning whatever we desire to do, it may be good or bad. It depends on our
decision and what we want to do. We must take initiatives to be habituated with undertaken
new habits to knock the door of the ambition. We become what we repeatedly do. Sean
Covey, The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Teens. It is absolutely true that we become what we
repeatedly do.Repetation of an activity in a regular mode is called a habit. If we make
irregularities in our actitivity,it cannot be converted in to habit. "We are what we repeatedly
do. Excellence then, is not an act, but habit.Aristotle.Lets know how to break up bad habits and
form good habits as well as how to form next new habits to move ahead in life without
remaining complacent with one mission. So it is rightly stated that "A nail is driven out by
another nail. Habit is overcome by habit."Desiderius Erasmus. There are so many people
surrounded by so many virtues and evils. If we would like to delete a wrong habit one, we have
to take up a good habit to nail out the wrong one .The most unique aspect of my blogging is
about sharing my own experiences and wisdom.Once upon a time in my very early school days,i
was associated with worst friend circles and involved with so many wrong activities. I had to
pay the price of demotion in my studies and deprived of getting first division only due to the
lack of seven marks.Every body was shocked at my home.Then i changed my school and study
place. The most important fact is changing my persisting regular activities. Though it took some
months to recover but i succeeded in my determination by nailing the bad habits with the
acquisition of good virtues. Let me share another experience about losing my blogging since a
long time. My asbm room mate, room no 1030 and Hostel no 10 reminded my blogging while
just having his kind attention on my blog out of his busy schedule. He is none other than Mr,
Dr.Love guru Niel.I had really procrastinated my one of the best .When i started blogging, it
became a titanic issue and took much time to draft an article. But i am sure that it is going to
very smooth. There was a time while i was not good enough in writing. But only blogging
helped me to reshape my writing skills. So my desire of being a good writer became successful
only by adopting good habits like blogging. So this is how habit habituates the destination of
life. Let me give another example of Dr..Niel.Dr.Niel was having so much expertise in IT. He was
an instructor of computer classes. He achieved the intelligence and knowledge in IT after his
spontaneous and regular practice in the area of his destination.I am confident that he has
having more skills in IT than our so called IT Profs in ASBM. The most important fact of Dr.Niel is
his habit of finding out so many tricks on love management. He has been a perfect love
manager as per his regular research on different aspects of love.I can throw a challenge that my
best room mate ever seen in my hostel life can publish book on love and romance
management. His regular invention has made him an efficient master.This called the habit of
creating destination. It is last but not least example. It is my pleasure to introduce Mr.Nihar
Ranjan Mohanty, My best friend. He is the most perfect example for this article. When we
joined Indian Institute of Mass Ccommunication,Dhenkanal, Bhubaneswar, we are instructed
not only to speak in English only but also to have so many assignments .English was taken as
first language in IIMC, Dhenkanal. Mr. Mohanty was not that much fluency in English but he
took the initiatives of having practice in hostel. He formed a group named as Finishing School in
hostel and electrified enthusiasm among our group to have practice for GD,PI and many more
activities which were still dancing in my memory. He not only limited in having practice in group
but also used have practice in night 12 am in top floor of our hostel. Everybody was astonished
after few months of his practice and fluency in English. That was outstanding experience of my
life. So it is true that habits habituate destinations.
Sow a thought, and you reap an act;
Sow an act, and you reap a habit;
Sow a habit, and you reap a character;
Sow a character, and you reap a destiny.
Samuel Smiles
So friends, please take care of our habits and your habits will take care of your destiny.
This blog is dedicated to my best room mate in hostel life Mr.Niel for reminding me to restart
my passion of blogging as i had postponed my habit of writting since may,2012 and also i may
remind to my viewers that this blog was created by Dr. Niel in ASBM.
Thanking you,
Best regards,
Smrutiranjan Das
BE THE BEST FRIEND OF SELF
Dear friends,

A Friend in need is a friend indeed. Friendship makes
prosperity more shining and lessens adversity by dividing and
sharing it. But it is found that friends are making the prosperity
more worst and doubling the adversity by being selfish during
difficulties. It is really crucial to have a friend in every bodys
life. Human being is having full of emotions and thoughts
which need to be shared and cared properly. But one needs to
have a friend who understands each and everything of his
friend. Because what ever cosmopolitan we may be..Still
parents and family members have failed to understand us
effectively. It is observed that very few parents have
understood their childrens.If we turn over the pages of
mythology.we can get the example of best friends is krushna
and sudama.Any one can understand from krushna and sudama
about the reality of the best friendship. But the question arises,
is there such kind of relationship exists right now? I think not at
all for the present time. I always love to share my own experience with my blog viewers to give
the reality to my article..Because anything which comes from our heart can reach to every bodys
heart. I used to believe that best friends are the part and parcels of our life but it has been
contradicted in many circumstances. It is clear from my experience that we are the best friend of
our self.It may not be inferred to all bonds of relationship but from reality point of view, no
body is our friend, we are only friend and best friend of our self. The world has been
materialized. Every body believes in materialistic attitude. Emotion is less but imagination of
getting more from friends are sky kissing.According to the opinion of a great person oho God
save me from my friends, I will take care of my enemies. Friends are like gun, you dont know
when they will shoot you. Let me share my experience regarding my friends. While I was in my
graduation, I was passing through a golden era of my life. I was very good in study as well as co-
curricular activities. But the day I got a friend who turned in to my girl friend in later on became
the real demon of my growth and development. She left me after exploiting me as her level best.
There are also so many incidents which would be a novel of my life regarding my friendship and
love .I can at least mention one thing that if she had been my best friend and loved one, she
would not have done such pretention with me. Some people may not accept this logic but they
will realize the essence of this matter later on. I will be happy to mention the most recent
experience of accident not the incident regarding a friend who misbehaved with me like
anything. One of my very close friends had come to her home after long time from Hyderabad.
She wished to meet with us all in our town and we also met with her. But we had decided to have
tour to the most beautiful place of our town. But unfortunately my AFM changed his plan and
started working with me. So I could not get time to spare with my friends and I just had got 15
minutes to be with them even after my busy schedule. As I was feeling guilty for not being
involved with them.so after completing my official task, I went to meet with her at her home
but the way she misbehaved with meI could not sleep that night. If she had been my good
friend, she would not have behaved like that. If I start narrating all the experience, it would be a
book. So it is better to give enough time to our self than the so called best friends. We need to
analyze our self properly than what friends are eating and wearing. We can be the best critic of
self. Most of the time we ask decisions from our friends but they give decisions as per we want.
There is nothing great in it. Some group of friends are there to give ideas for our failure as the
earliest. But inspite of chatting and gossiping if we spend time for our self development, we will
reach in a great height of our life. So be the best of the self..and be the best friend of the self.

Thanking you,
LIFE@AHEMEDABAD
Dear friends,

It was rally a wonderful experience of having a trip to the soil of the Mahatma Gandhi and the
city of the chief minister Norendra Modi. Though my plan was not successful but got a golden
opportunity to have a look on the city. It was really a wonderful city which is ahead of so many
so called metros of India interms of education, nonviolence, industrialization, honesty, no
cheating as well as theft cases. Because this city is still having the impact of Mahatma Gandhi in
the mental horizon of the common people of the Gujarat. Let me start my tour from my initial
journey from Khurda to Ahemedabad junction. It is true that I was absolutely nervous for such a
long distance new journey. My friend Durga injected confidence within me before starting my
journey from the khurda station. By the way of my journey, I got my co-passenger surjit and got
so much idea regarding the predestined city as well as regarding the ideas of how to publicize my
blog. It was really great pleasure to be associated with him in the long journey. I reached in
Ahemedabad in the morning of the 9
th
Nov; 2011.I was completely surprised and frightened to
see the new location which was beyond my imagination. Though it was difficult to get the
address of the Troyikka pharmaceuticals ltd office but after a bit enquiry I reached there.We
were introduced with each other and interacted about the company and packages. We were
instructed to get into the office premises for the document verifications and appearing for the
final interview. My final interview was resumed but I cold not tackle with absolute
confidence.But I came to know another tragedy that an ultimate guy was selected but I was not
informed regarding the fact. I was kept in waiting for the next day but I got some good friends in
hotel. It was nice evening at adi and we went to a mela where small kids were encouraged a lot
regarding the co-curricular activities. The small kids were really fantastic in their approach and
attitude towards doing the new things. But I reached at hotel and got some Oriya guys and was
quite excited to get them together but it was a bitter experience. The chap was very
overconfident and behaved with me as if he is the ceo of any company. He was sent to interview
venue in the substitution with me. I was really upset while knowing the tragedy created by the
higher authorities of the company. The next day I visited to the head office for the decisions
taken by the management. But I was really shocked with the decisions given by them. Though I
was depressed but I had got good friend like jaswant. It is my privileged to mention the name of
my best friend who has been a guiding force for me since the inception of the ASBM days.
Actually I was instructed by the zonal manager to get back to office but they denied for the final
recruitment. I was absolutely frustrated what to do and how to get back odisha as I was
completely new for the city. But my best friend none other than NIHAR who saved me also in
that city. I felt confident while nihar introduced his Ahmadabad friend amit.Though I could not
get the job but I got nice person like amit who helped me like anything. I am really grateful to
him forever. Then I tried to search my class mates in the gandhian city. But my friend niel(my
room mate) informed me about my PGIB friend Manoj.Manoj is really a fantastic and helpful
guy who picked me from the salt lake. I was really impressed with the help of manoj and his two
dadajis.They were really great. I got my ticket in tatkal on 10
th
nov, 2011 from adi to hwrh.Even
I got the auto driver who was very much nice person. My train pourabandar to Howrah express
reached at 11pm.I got into the train and assisted by one Gujarati who was another nice character
in my story of life@ahemedabad. As my ticket was on tatkal waiting list,I had no option to seat
or sleep but the uncle offer his seat for meit was really a great support from his end till the
howrah.He was absolutely a kindhearted person. At last I spent my one day staying at jays
residence and I talked with full heart with my friend after a long time. Though my trip was
having bitter experiences, but it was a venture and great experience of my life.

Thanks to all my dear and near ones for their ample support during the staying at Ahmadabad.

Best regards,
Smruti Ranjan Das
SHORT TERM GROWTH AT THE COST OF UNETHICAL
BUSINESS TACTICS

Dear blog viewers,

It is well said that jack of all trade is master of
none. Some of the egoistic persons or
professionals think that as if they know every
things of the every dynamism of business, society,
economies of country, Human resource
management, marketing management, Training
and Development, Operation and many more
aspects of the business. Some of the business
tycoons of our country proclaim themselves as if
they are the store house of all the growth and
sustainable development strategy of the
organization. Every corporates main theme of the
business is the customer who is the king in the
market place. This is true but significant truth is
the employee satisfaction. It is important that
customers should be given maximum priority but
it does not mean at the cost of the employee exploitation. There are so many organizations in our country
that creates their own policy instead of sticking to the labour acts. Standard operating procedures are
prepared for Human Resource Management for the benefits of the organization at the cost of avoiding the
proper leave policy, salary structure, employee welfare and in time release of salary as well as
compulsory overtime duty. Even this policy has been applicable to all the departments for the maximum
benefit of the organization.Unethics has been a prime business of the hour. There are so many
organizations who are utilizing unethical business procedures to optimize the short term profits but they
are forgetting long term sustainability in the world of corporations. Even it is a matter of the regret that so
many business analysts are forgetting the importance of the quality control. But they shout a lot in the
corroborate meetings that they are having one quality for the entire group of the customers in the world.
But the truth is using expired reagents for the operation. Where so many times it is seen that huge
difference in the result among the other competitors.Stingent actions is taken for the fault of the
employees, franchisees but no action is taken against so called management. My blog readers will be
surprised that management is none other than one person in a reputed limited company.Inspite of having
good amount employees, managers, so many departments, complexed organizational structures but
centralization is adopted since the inception. It is a matter of surprise that every rule is changed to exploit
employees but authorities are not given in the hand of the highly paid managers. Even general managers
decisions are abused in so many times as jack of all trade is master of none.Even it is a truth that an
undergraduate become one of the board of members without understanding the abc of the operation.
Leading corporaions like Wal-Mart and Nike have paid huge price for employee exploitation in the
distanced past. We must live in the present but should not forget about past. It is important to learn from
the past incidents taken place with different organizations and better steps need to be taken in to
considerations. Personal ego must not be there as every employee; subordinates are the assets for the
organizations. Nepotism must not be there in a leading organization for the continuous and consistent
growth. Profit cans not the only motto rather so many aspects should be understood and analyzed for
being a world leader and maintaining the brand name of the organization. Spending crores of rupees in
advertisement does not have any value without satisfying existing customers. Every organization grabes
greater amount of the present customers than the new customers. Customer relationship management
should be applied for the profitability of the organization. But the ego of I know and I am only one store
house knowledge should be minimized. No body is perfect even having one competencies but the ceos
thinking them as if Mr. Perfect in every dynamics is a stupid acknowledgement.
So dear blog viewers, it may seem like a fiction but it is a truth. If you are an entrepreneur, be careful
before loosing your business as the earliest.

Thanking you,

LOST RELATIONSHIP: INEFFICIENT TIME MANAGEMENT
AND PASSION OF PRESENTATION
Dear Blog viewers,
It takes 5 minutes to break the relationship but it takes
many years to build up the relationship. It is really a
great mistake on my part to bring a great
misunderstanding to my relationship of five years with
my most understanding sister. It was 21
st
September
2011 which was one of the most important and
respectable day of my life. I and my most respectable
sister who has been a great support till now for me
were invited to attend a seminar on Management
system in an organization. It was really a thrilling and
spectacular day in my life. I could not believe myself
as I was the chief guest of the day. There was also a
big tragedy that we had been informed to participate
on the topic of organizational structure. But we had to
deliver on management system in an organization. The
system was absolutely fantastic as students had
presented their talk on the topic followed by a
question answer session. One of the students asked me about the definition of the organization.
But I could not give the exact answer on the definitions and some of the students were not
satisfied with my answer including a faculty. But later on I delivered the best talk on that day
with the feedback on the students performance. Mean while I had forgotten that one of the guest
were left to speak. But I had already consumed one hour at the cost of the most valuable time
shared by my sweet sister but it is absolutely true that I feel insulted for committing mistake of
not completing my talk in time and hurting the chief speaker of the day. But at the time of the
delivering my talk, I had so much engrossed on the topic that even I had forgotten
myself.Obiviously it would hurt the person who had given me the opportunity to participate. For
the first time I hurt some one without having any intention who is always respectable and
deserves appreciation for considering me as her younger brother. It is really sad that I was so
much crazy to speak that I kept on delivering speech approximately one or more than an hour. I
had lost myself on that day. When I realized that I had crossed my time limitation, the seminar
was over. Neither students nor college authority did instruct me anything regarding the timing
while delivering talk on my presentation predict as if they were enjoying with full heart. I am not
able to forgive myself for my inefficient time management on that day. I am obliviously
admitting that I am the culprit to give the pain to my co-speaker but it is true from my bottom of
my heart that I have done it unknowly not knowingly. I hope that my blog viewers atleast would
forgive for my mistake. The day my didi denied to talk, meet and pick up my call, I had decided
not to attend any events or participate on any presentation but I could not stick to my
commitment for my crazy passion of delivering speech and participating on all those events. I
will never forget to manage my time efficiently as I have already lost my relationship at the cost
of passion to speak. But one thing has been clear from the mistake that how much I am
passionate about the orating.

Dear friends, but I am still not able to forgive myself for committing such mistake for passion
and with my sister who used to love my like anything and providing me mental support in each
and every moment. She is non-other than didi as I am not daring to mention her name without
her prior permission to do so. Though she or all my blog readers would not forgive me but god
may forgive me as he knows very well that the mistake was done without any preplan or any
worst intention.
Thanking you all,

ABSENCE: THE MATTER OF REALIZATION
Dear blog viewers,
Life is full of relationship. Every body is in chain of
relationship. Relationship is a matter of truth, trust and
transparency. No body likes to be in relation with some
one who dose not respect the feelings and emotions of
the beloved one. Though the world has been full of
materialism but true relationship is above the give and
take relationship.Ralization comes in the passage of
experience and exchange of the thought and internal
feelings. The most important objective of this blog is to
remind the viewers about how we realize the worth of
everything in the absence of it. I must explain it with
all the practical experience of myself as well as of my
friends and relatives. In the presence of our best
friends, we fail to understand and uncertain conflict
and understanding wash away the friendship which
used to be considered as unbreakable as well as unbeatable and stronger than the destruction image of the
Tsunami. But their absence in our life really makes us understand their value and affection towards us.
Let me start my own experience in love and friendship. My loved one was rosy. She was my best
friend.Our friendship was much more than the love but I cant say like that because friendship itself is the
flow of love and affections. During the period of our relationship, we used to carry on so many
misunderstandings but it used to be solved. We used to share so many valuable things but now I am
realizing the importance of our friendship and love. But it is a matter of the regret that an uncertain storm
came in to our relationship.The uncertain storm is non-other than the boy friend and best friend of my girl
friend and best friend. It was really a great turning point of my life as I understood later on of my broken
and destroyed relationship with me . I am not sure what her mental status towards me is as she is in a new
fantastic relationship but I do miss her and her so many guidance. I would like to mention a small but
beautiful example.Durig our relationship, she used to guide me preparing the luggages before going to
appear entrance examinations as well as journey for picnics and other places. She used to guide me in
taking all the important necessary things with me for the journey. It is a unique experience of my life.
Even till the day, I feel her absence while start long journey and her support. During her presence, I used
to feel bit bad about her all those advices. It is really the fact that her absence in my life has enhanced her
importance and her necessity and importance. Her friendship has made me realized her worth in her
absence. This is a glance of my relationship though there are so many events during my romantic life. The
next best example is my tenure in North Hostel, Balasore.Gobinda was my room mate but malay,
presently junior scientist used to spend a lot of time in my room. During my graduation second year and
third year, I was so much engrossed in the relationship with rosy that I was far away from the reality and
practicality of life. Though gobinda and Malay were junior to me but they had tried their best to bring me
to pragmatic world but I had not listened to them but now gobinda is in Balasore and Malay is in Kolkata
and I am in Mumbai. We are far away from each other but I miss them and realize their absence in my
life. Last but the least example is my corporate life @ Thyrocare Technologies Limited,
Navimumbai.Basically my KRA was project management and data management. Though I am no more in
that organization but my boss and team mates are realizing my absence in the data management and
project management though during my staying in that organisaton,my boss was very much harsh towards
me. It is true that absence is only the matter of realization and remembering the dignity of some one.

So, dont neglect your present relationship or present work. Enjoy it with full spirit and enthusiasm.
Thanking you,


APPRECIATION: THE SECRET OF UNPREDICTABLE
ACHIEVEMENTS
Dear friends,
NO one is perfect on this earth.
Every body is trying for the perfection
but with an expectation of enriching
the expected expertise and
efficiencies in their passionate job.
There are two persons perfect on this
universe are either who have not born
or born but no more here. It is true
that some of us are trying to better
ourselves as per the interest and
passion. But no body prefers to be
scolded but needs to be appreciated
for the right reason.Apprciation is a
propelling source of encouragement
and inspiration to reach in the
unpredictable height of the life. We can not achieve the desirable things not in a night in the kingdom of
so called dreams but it takes years to achieve. In the passage of excellence, we commit so many mistakes.
It is highly required to rectify our mistakes. Correction does much, but encouragement does more.
Encouragement after censure is as the sun after a shower.- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. I can
remember a topic in my +2 English book that is Long Distance Runner. It was all about the secrets of
Master blaster Sachin Tendulkar.He was under the continuous training of his trainer. His trainer was
never scolding him while making mistakes. He was only encouraging sachin the way he was playing but
with affectionately his mentor was fine tuning the techniques. His guru was non other than Mr.Achrekar
whose happiness might be at max.If Achekar had not appreciated and encouraged for the sachins interest
of learning cricket, world would not have got a cricket live god. So we must appreciate the persons who
are trying to learn from us or whose destination of career or life is under our attitude and counseling as
appreciation dose not cost anything .We are poor to appreciate others but the greatest tragedy is that we
always consciously or subconsciously like to be appreciate and motivated.
Appreciate everything your associates do for the business. Nothing else can quite substitute for a few well-
chosen, well-timed, sincere words of praise. They're absolutely free and worth a fortune. Sam
Walton.Samwalton is absolutely right because he has realized the fact clearly as he was the founding father of the
no.1 retail store of world.It is wallmert.Obiviously,it is not easy job to realize ones potential or passion but we must
try to spend some time to recognize the hidden potential of our subordinates or any one else who seek our
suggestions because small time expenditure of us may decide the outstanding and prolific career of some one which
ultimately gives us the true satisfaction and peace of our efforts. Encouraged people achieve the best;
dominated people achieve second best; neglected people achieve the least. One of my favorite movie is
TARAZAMEEN PER.This movie is the real example of the miracle of appreciation and encouragement
which makes the impossible tasks as a possible one. That small guy was not able to perform well in
school and he demotivated and scolded by everybody even including the so called enlighted parents.
Neither parents nor teachers tried to understand but AMIR as an art teacher could able to find out the
reasons of the failure of the small kid in that film.AMIR really made that guy most successful with the
touch of the love and affections.So it is true that appreciation or praise works like a miracle.SO why
should we be poor to praise some one one for some good reasons. We all need the appreciation but we
must not forget same for others. I always love to cite example of my own experience and learnings in my
blog. It would have been day dream for me if my mentor satyajit sir would not have inspired and trained
me for achieving fluency in English though I belong to a regional medium. I have gone some of the B
schools for giving presentation, grabbing 1
st
prize in different debate competition in college days,
conducting work shops etc.I am really grateful and pour my heartiest gratitude on his behast for helping
me to create my identity. Even I could not forget my initial college days while I used to be insulted and
ignored for my weakness in English. But the most difficult tasks of speaking English become successful
only for the guidance and motivation of my mentor and psychological guru.Mr.Satyajit mishra.Every
body asks me why Dr is added before my name in my blog.The simple answer is my public speaking
skills as well as effective presentation skills which made me a doctor without any PhDs degree in English
or any other subjects. I have not forgotten the one of the saturday in my B-school that is Asian school of
business management,Bhubaneswar. our college used to conducted extra curricular activities in each
Saturday in 1
st
year. I participated in extempore competition on that day.I got a golden opportunity to
deliver a presentation for 45 minutes on how to enhance communication skills after the extempore. It was
a unbelievable achievement in my management career as I was quite reticent and silent in college in my
batch. This success helped me to earn a Dr degree in college as my delivery on that day was not lesser
than our professors in respective subjects. Only valuable time and guidance of my teacher made all those
things possible in my life.I dedicate all my achievements to my Sir satyajit mishra.So I always try my best
to appreciate my friends and collegues even for a small thing.

Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may
not forgive you. Encourage me, and I may not forget you. William Arthur

So dear blog viewers, I must appreciate you all for spending your time inspite of having busy schedule.
So let us appreciate and encourage to discover the unbelievable things of us and others. We must not also
forget to appreciate others.
Thanking you

Mental strength: The ultimate way of success




Dear Blog viewers,

Happy are those who dream dreams and are
paying the price to make them come true. This
is really very true that we have to pay the price
of happiness. Though happiness is the relative
term but it comes from the mental satisfaction by
focusing on the desirable tasks. But to avoid any
kind of mistakes, we need to be mentally strong
enough to challenge anything in any atmosphere
of life. Challenging self is the best revenge than anything else on this universe. We need
to be the best competitor of ourselves. The main purpose of this topic is to remind all to
challenge them and their potentials than any ones on this self.I do not try to dance
better than anyone else. I only try to dance better than myself. Mikhail
Baryshnikov.The key message here is you are your only competition. By comparing
ourselves with others, we can only be better by the person we compare ourselves with.
However, if we compete with ourselves, we will achieve our true potential. It is better to
compete with self than anyone else on this world. If we always challenge ourself, we can
move ahead and better our own capability than the before. It is necessary on our part to
review our past and present performance effectively and efficiently to make our future
colourful and prosperous. Our inability to exercise our psychological strength is one of
the great human failings of life. It not only leads to ongoing difficulties, but can also lead
to tragedy. The power of the mind is an amazing thing. It is said that we only ever tap
into about 10% of our mental capabilities. The state of the mind will determine the
outcome of every experience. If you begin the race thinking about all of the negative
things that could happenthey will. But on the flipside, if your mind is ready to get
through any experience, it will. When your mind and body work together as a team your
limits become distant and every experience becomes a part of the journey.I always put
my life experience in the blog which makes the blog viewers more comfortable and
interested.When I was recruited by Thyrocare technologies limited, Navimumbai, I got
the offer to work in Mumbai itself, though I had applied for Marketing executive in
Odisha. It was absolutely first time for me to move from BBSR to one of the best metro
of India Mumbai. But I faced so many difficulties in office as well as in outside but in the
passage of time ,I started enhancing my mental strength to cope up the situations.Thre are
also so many bitter experiences in Mumbai which I dont like to mention.
The first step in becoming a more mentally strong racer is to lay the groundwork, the
foundation. Tell your mind going into the experience that anything can happen. Good and
bad, anything can happen. Roll with the change. Flat tires, sick teammates, lost maps, lost
people, broken gear, sticker bushes, hypothermiait can and will happen. If the mind is
prepared for anything, it will graciously accept anything that crosses its path. If the mind
is so focused on reaching the finish without adversity, the first glimpse of a wrong turn
will set it on a negative downspin taking you and your teammates with it.
Prepare your mind for everything. Keep it open to the experience. When adversity strikes,
stay calm and focus on solving the right problem. I can cite the best example is that my
hospitalization in Navi Mumbai. I was advised by the local doctor that I m suffering from
typhoid and I need immediate admission in hospital to get recovery.Infact, it is true that
my friends have helped me like anything but one of the most interesting thing is that I did
not inform this to parents after having a great analysis on the fact.The simple fact was
that they would loose their patience as I am the only son of my parents.Keeping a
positive mind will also help with your reactionary skills. You can't control what happens
on the course but, you can control how you react to every situation.Adventure racing
challenges your body and mind. Train your mind to teach the body. You will reach new
heights and go beyond your limits.
The price of success Dedication, hard work, and an unremitting devotion to the things
you want by strengthening the mental strength and right attitude.

So friends, Be mightier than the mightiest of self.
Thanking you,



MY JOURNEY FROM MUMBAI TO HOME


Dear Friends,


It was the morning of 3
rd
June at
6am.The destination was predestined from
Mumbai to my home. It was the maiden
journey from Mumbai to my home after
long time without accompany of any of
the friends. The feelings were quite lonely
and isolated. I was really scared how to
reach at my destination peacefully as my
health condition was not at all good .I was
on leave to home as I was hospitalized for
typhoid. My ticket was done in tatkal by
my relative Mr.Subash.I am really grateful to him for his great support and co-operation.
My seat no was 30 in S-3.My cousin Mr.Subash took me to the platform and adjusted me
in my berth. I was in doubt how my co-passengers will be with whom I am going to
spend around 30 hours in Gitanjali Superfast train. My co-passengers were Mr.Achintya
Kumar Bhattacharya, Mr.Kiran Kumar Sen, Sr.EMY and Mr.Swapan.Each of them were
having different personalities and also quality but only three of them were having same
qualification. The similarities were in their profession i.e. ART. Three of them were the
prof.s of a reknowned art college of KOLKATA. But there were absolute differences in
their Personality traits.Mr.Achintya was quite simple but man of humor and he was the
most popular prof. for the students in his college according to the information of his
colleagues. I must take the name of one of the most calm and quite person.Mr.Kiran who
was the asst.prof of Govt.College of Art and Craft, Calcutta. He was the most attractive
personalities and a great gentle man. It was the last but not least Mr.Swapan who was the
strong disciplinarian and man of principle. One of the most peculiar thing about this
prof.was that his small bag which was small but full of all the necessary items. Another
thing was that he was unmarried till now. It is my great honour to describe about sister
EMY.She was getting back from Australia to Rourkela, odisha where her parents were
staying. She was talking in English. She was working in Australia as a sister in an
Australian church but after four years she was getting back to home. This is all about
their descriptions and I dont need to give any descriptions about myself. So I must start
describing all the interesting issues during my journey. When I entered to my berth and
before keeping my luggage in proper place, I saw that one lady was putting her luggage
and talking in English. I was surprised because for the first time I confessed a passenger
speaking in English so much fluently. We started introducing each other and I was the
youngest among them. They started taking their breakfast but I was not feeling fine as I
was getting away from my friends for a long time on leave. But we started sharing our
food, snacks and cold drinks among each other. All of us started thinking as if we are in a
family. Though it was bit slow but we started discussions regarding different topics
including politics, business, art, spirituality, religion conversion etc among each other.
Sister EMY became very close to me and we started so many personal issues with among
each other. I also got so many personal advices from her and also my thrust about
knowing Australia and the people. She also gave me an opportunity to move to Australia.
I really could not imagine how my time was spent i.e. around 30 hrs in Gitanjali
Superfast. Let me explain the moment of bidding Good bye to sister EMY.She got down
in Rourkela station in morning 6am.I and Mr.Achintya helped her to shift luggage and
shared some emotional moments. She blessed both of us and suggested me to work more
hard to reach in a better place in my life. The best thing I learnt about her religious
practices were obedience,poverty and chastity.I will not dare to forget all those things.My
destination of Kharagpur reached and I was bound to bid goodbye to all of my co-
passengers who were very nice and co-operative. Life is really uncertain and we do not
know what will happen and when will happen. But my journey from Mumbai to My
home was unforgettful and a spectacular experience. People come and go but they leave
some experience which are just much valuable than the any materialistic things on this
earth.

Thanking you all my blog viewers,

With best regards,











ADVERSITY:THE MANTRA OF OPPORTUNITY

Dear friends,
Life gives us two chances with each
difficulty: Run away or face it. It is really a
great platform given by life to learn or skip
learning from the adversity .Every body
likes to stay well with absolute no trouble or
no difficulties in their way of family as well
as office life. No body likes to kiss the taste
of harassment, trouble, pain or torture in
their day to day life. When Dhirubhai
ambani started his business of selling news
papers in different places by cycling, there
were only two chances before started this
mission that was either to postpone this business or to go ahead. He was the right person who
caught the right train of his life by starting business from a small venture to an unbeatable
position of today. One of the biggest mistake of ours is that we always start complaining
regarding our adversity instead of learning and planning how to overcome it effectively. So it is
quite true that do not complain about your problems to others instead solve them and
become the example of other that people can come with their complain to you. I can cite an
example of my own life where learning from adversity has been proved to be a great victory in
my life. When I joined my class 12 in Fakirmohan junior college, I faced the biggest challenge
that is my lack of communication skills. I used to feel like crying as I used to be insulted in the
class room as well as in outsides not for being able to give answers in the class room and failure
of interacting with so called ENGLISH MEDIUM class mates. Though I was frustrated but I
started learning how to enhance my communication skills. I learnt the art of speaking English
and became the trainer in communication skills and started teaching to my students as well as
went to Business schools to give my presentation. I also accomplished my dream of speaking
English fluently. So we must enjoy the problems with right spirit and enthuasism.It really
becomes difficult to learn or face the sudden calamities of life but it is managed if the attitude of
solving the problem is in the mind of a person. I can give another most common but true
example of my recent past. When I was the novice guy in the Business hub of india,I had no idea
regarding trains or bus routes from my apartment to my company, I was absolutely dependent
on my friends and company bus to reach in my office. One day unfortunately I was instructed by
seniors to get down from the winger and I was forced to do that as I was the new joinee.I had no
idea how to reach in office but I faced so many difficulties to reach in office but I learnt the route
by train as well as bus and later on I started preaching to new comers regarding the routes to
office. So it is always better to enjoy the problems. So we need to see the positive outcomes of
the adversity of our life. So no one makes lock without its key, similarly god does not give
problems without their solution. So never let down yourself in the face trouble because
after every dark night, there is a bright day. I always appreciate one statement of my mentor
that if you are facing troubles in the journey of your professional or personal life, it indicates that
you are in the right track but if you dont face any impediments in professional or personal life-It
means that some where something is wrong.I must place her name in this blog for being
impressed and realized the value of the great statement. She is none other than my psychological
mentor Associate Prof.Priyanka Hazra, KIIT School of Management, Bhubaneswar.Sunrise my
be late but sunset is sure. So opportunity may be late but end of adversity is sure. So friends turn
your adversity in to opportunity.Do not be frustrated but frustrate your adversity.Be the first none
to second to take the advantage of adversity.

Thanking You

Time Management

Dear friends,
A man who dares waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.
Charles Darwin
Time management is an art of managing time
effectively and efficiently. Time Management plays
an important role for each and every one but it is
highly essential for the students life. One of the
best metaphors for a students life is that of a circus
performer who balances many plates in the air at
once. The plates twirl precariously top poles as the
harried performer works frantically to keep them in
motion and aloft. Patience, perseverance, practice
and planning are all necessary for performing the
trick successfully. It is really a great debate now
days whether time is money or not? In my point of
view, it is really very true that time is absolutely
money. Effective management of time is the
ultimate way of managing our commitment,
dedications, deadlines, quotas, Girlfriends,
customers, balance between personal ism and professionalism etc.Time is very much precious
for each and every one in our society. Let us take the examples of importance of time in the life
of different professionals from home to office. The best and first example is the life style of a
house wife. She has to be alert from the dawn of the morning to the death of the night. At the
outset of the morning. She has to accomplish the daily work of the house and then she has to
make the children prepared for the school. Next she has to help her husband to be prepared for
the office and she has to think about all the belongings of the husband which needs to be with
him for the office. So a house wife has to be always in time. If she is not able to deliver the work
in time, the entire family will be disorganized and disturbed. So it is equally important for the
students, teachers, parents, working ladies, a school bus driver etc. .So management of the
limited time and having unlimited advantage is quite difficult but the difficulty can be turned into
easier task if the time is manipulated and utilized effectively and efficiently.

Time is.
Too Slow for those who Wait,
Too Swift for those who fear,
Too Long for those who Grieve,
Too Short for those who Rejoice,
But for those who Love
Time is like honey.
- Henry Van Dyke
It is really rightly mentioned by the author about the nature and beauty of the time. It is up to the
person how he or she is taking in to his or her disposal. So to use the time effectively, one has to
be in love with the time. So the compulsion of using time will be turned in to passion which will
add great mileage to the proper use of the time to accomplish the pre-planed deadlines.
Until you value yourself, you will not value your time. Until you value your time, you will not
do anything with it.
M. Scott Peck
Every body has the desire to achieve something in life. To achieve anything in life, one has to
value ones time decently. So it will be an instrument to be successful and valuable in each and
every spare of life.

Time = life; therefore, waste your time and waste of your life, or master your time and
master your life.
Alan Lakein
So let us come to the technical aspects of the time management. It is highly crucial to know tools
and techniques for the proficient use of the time management.

The Present
Yesterday is History
Tomorrows a Mystery
But today is a Gift
Thats why they call it
The present
SO let us know the techniques of the use of time management. We must be aware about both of
our personal and professional objectives in a week, month, quarter and year .so we need to
prepare our plan according to the most prioritized objectives of our professional and personal
goal. So we need to maintain the work sheet keeping our all responsibilities in front of our eyes.
One can make a weekly or monthly or yearly plan but the plan must be weekly to make the
planning into the actions. It is realized most of the time that monthly, quarterly or yearly plan fail
to be implemented in the individual level due to different contingencies. So it is suggested to use
the weekly worksheet plan to use for the gratification of the planning.
In order to fill up the work sheet of time management, one should understand the TIME
MANAGEMENT MATRIX. So it can be helpful to fill up all the planning in the work sheet of
the time management. Let us have look over the time management matrix.

So friends we have got limited resources of time in our hand but we have the unlimited wants to
be accomplished. we need to divide our objectives and prioritize the dead lines. We must give
emphasis on the objectives according to the importance and urgencies. One must be very much
careful in using the time of a day because one is exchanging a day of his life at the cost of the
utility of the time.

So dear friends,
Come out with new plans and vision of this new year for the new beginning of the most precious
year of our life .Value your time and time will return back the value of the life.

Wish you all the best for the New Year with new imaginations and actions. Be careful in
utilizing your time as Time and Tide waits for none.
Thanking you,






PRESENTATION SKILLS

Dear Friends,
It is definitely a great shock of life
if the inner thought of life is not expressed
in a presentable manner. In order to make
our thoughts, expressions, experiences,
corporate assignments or college
assignments of presentation presentable, we
must have the idea regarding presentation
skills. So let us have an eyewash on oral
presentation. Presentation is a
communication process of transmitting the
message from the presenter to the audience.
This message can vary in length and
complexity. Different presentation aids can be used e.g. flip chart, PowerPoint presentation with
the video beamer, whiteboard with erasable pens, laser pointers, etc. A presentation is perceived
to be the most effective mode of communication with a group of people as it allows the
presenter to have an interactive session with the audience . The audience in turn has the
opportunity to directly question the presenter on anything concerning the topic under discussion.
This makes it essential for individuals to develop their presentation skills, to be competitive and
effective in the modern business scenario. A presentation enables the sharing of thought. It also
enables the presenter to monitor responses during actual face to face delivery. Successful
presentations are nothing but ways of presenting facts and figures in such a way so as to
convince other people into believing what you want them to believe. Different people or
different levels of people need to be handled in different ways. However there are some
fundamentals, which need to be adhered to irrespective of the audience we address. The spoken
word has always had the ultimate advantage of a personal presence. This commands respect from
an audience in a way that no printed word, film or television reproduction can. Communication
has therefore become the most important part of our work. In fact, everybody is in the position to
be a presenter at some point. At school, at the university, during the business presentation or
even you can be a professional presenter. Now we come to common problem for most of the
people. This problem is Stage Fright combined with lack of technical skills of presenting.
Stage fright can be really terrifying to some people. Many people have the fear of the audience,
lights of the stage, they are afraid what will be if someone ask them difficult question. This is
causing nervousness, sweating, accelerated heartbeat, dizziness or even panic attacks. On the
other hand, presenting skills are technical aspect. Presentation skills are a broad area. It takes
some time to develop this skill, for some people more, for the other less time, depends of a talent.
Since all of us can be in situation to be presenters, to be in the center of the audience, it is useful
to learn basic skills of presenting. Let us know some basic skills of presentation.
Maintain good eye contact
Vary your speaking volume
Use pauses
Do not read your presentation
Prepare and be confident
Use props, stories, questions, clips, examples etc
Research (find out facts & figures)
Prepare (Introduce, Discuss, Conclude)
Rehearse
Be confident
Present
Use proper media
Give a good starting
Have a good Mood
Have a pleasant voice
Display the positive body language
Stick to Timing
The conclusion must be attractive
Be enthusiastic
Be energetic


Let us know something about yes and no of presentation:

Acceptable actions (yes)


Prepare:
Greet the audience
Tell the audience what you are going to tell them
Speak clearly
Deliberately pause at key points
Use your hands to emphasize
Rehearse the presentation
Keep to the time allowed
Look at the audience as much as possible
Keep an eye on the audience's body language

Unacceptable actions (No)

Do not read from the script
Do not indulge in to much hand waving
Do not fix on an individual
Do not face the display screen behind you and talk to it
Do not Stand in a position where you obscure the screen
Dont include unrelated pictures
Dont use a dark background
Dont read or parrot the slides
Dont go too fast
Dont forget to smile
Dont be afraid to say I dont know
Dont play with keys or coins in your pocket
Dont use a pointer, pen, pencil or chalk to point at an individual may be perceived as
offensive
Dont look at your feet or at the ceiling
Dont speak in monotone
So friends, we came to know about basic skills, yes and no of the oral presentation. So it is
highly important to know about an ideal format of evaluation form an oral presentation.







EVALUATION FORM FOR ORAL PRESENTATIONS

Presenters
Name

Evaluated by:

Date:

Topic

Indicate the appropriate score from 1 = poor, 4=good,5=average 8=very good 10= excellent,

Presentation
1. Voice (volume, modulation and enunciation) 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
2. Enthusiasm and energy 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
3. Eye contact with audience 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
4. Preparation / rehearsal (notes, cues) 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
5 Pace of presentation 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
6. Body positioning 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
7. Avoidance of distracting behavior 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
8. Use of visual aids 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
Content
1. Introduction of subject 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
2. Clarity, correctness and conciseness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
3. Summary and conclusions 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
4. Overall organization of presentation 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
5. Transition between sections 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
6. Appropriateness for specific audience (as defined) 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
7. Length of talk (timing ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
8. Handling of questions 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Pros of presentation

..
Cons of presentation

Suggestions to be made for the improvement of the presenter

..


Dear friends, dont take it completely as granted because this format may be changed according
to the parameter set by the organization, institutions or university or may be corporate. But there
will be so many similarities with this format of evaluation of oral presentation. So it is the time
to take precautions or preventation before the presentation as we know the preventation is better
than the cure.

So friends, take care of certain aspects of presentation skills, I ensure that it will be an added
advantage and turning point of your presentation.

All the best,
Best wishes,

















A MOTHER'S LOVE
Dear friends,

A mother's love is always valuable and incalculable.A mother's
love can not be substituted by any more by any one,but we some
times did mistake by hurting our mothers.Let us have a look on a
story which is full of inspirations and learning.

A little boy came up to his mother in the kitchen one evening
while she was fixing supper, and handed her a piece of paper that
he had been writing on. After his Mom dried her hands on an
apron, she read it, and this is what it said:
For cutting the grass: $5.00
For cleaning up my room this week: $1.00
For going to the store for you: $.50
Baby-sitting my kid brother while you went shopping: $.25
Taking out the garbage: $1.00
For getting a good report card: $5.00
For cleaning up and raking the yard: $2.00
Total owed: $14.75

Well, his mother looked at him standing there, and the boy could see the memories flashing
through her mind. She picked up the pen, turned over the paper he'd written on, and this is what
she wrote:

For the nine months I carried you while you were growing inside me:
No Charge
For all the nights that I've sat up with you, doctored and prayed for you:
No Charge
For all the trying times, and all the tears that you've caused through the years:
No Charge
For all the nights that were filled with dread, and for the worries I knew were ahead:
No Charge
For the toys, food, clothes, and even wiping your nose:
No Charge
Son, when you add it up, the cost of my love is:
No Charge.

When the boy finished reading what his mother had written, there were big tears in his eyes, and
he looked straight at his mother and said, "Mom, I sure do love you." And then he took the pen
and in great big letters he wrote: "PAID IN FULL".

Lessons:
You will never how much your parents worth till you become a parent
Be a giver not an asker, especially with your parents. there is a lot to give, besides money.
Advice: IF your mom is alive and close to you, give her a big kiss and ask her for forgiveness. If
she is far away, call her. if she passed away, pray for her.

well, friends and dear viewers, let us not forget the dedication and commitments of a mother.we
must realize it.

Thanking you
LIFE IS A GAME-PLAY IT TACTFULLY
Dear friends,
Life is full of both roses and thorns,days and nights, success and failure,happiness and
setbacks.It is just like the game where equal probability of loosing and winning are expected in
each and every moment.A real winner is he who knows how to play the game of life.But the
game of life is very much tougher than the game of cricket or football or any other games.If
some one is trying to bring something in his or her core area,It really takes a great moment to
make it accepted by the society.It has been the general tendency of the people to discourage the
innovaters to be achievers as some of the people does not like to see the new things so easily to
be acclimatised.Let's take the example of Sachin Tendulkar,the samrat of the cricket.He is
playing since the age of sixteen and he is the only one cricketer who is consistently making
records and bringing glory not only to India but also to the cricket lovers of the world.Yes,there
is always a question comes in to my mind that some of the legends of our society are the most
admirable but why not me?The craziest answer comes to my mind that I am not fortunate or
lucky enough to achieve some of the expected ambitions.Other answers are like it's not my time
to get what i want.But my conscience does not permit me to take it granted.Recently it was my
dream to take my group to perform in our annual day cultural problem but it was really a great
disaster to be selected in the final list of the performers list and i was absolutely demotivated for
the result.It was also a blander on my part to believe in the grapevine communication of our
rejection of final day performance.But it was my mistake as i was absolutely worried but my
great friend Rj Sonali ,my mom in the play plays the game meticulously and atlast our group
was selected that to in the fourth serial list of the cultural programme.It was really a great lessons
to me how to materialise the dream properly.The game was nothing rather than a strategy to win
the heart of judges and their psychological parameters to get the edges over the competitors. It
was also team efforts to prove our mettle and we persuaded the judges to select our group.My
heartiest thanks goes to my friends silu,devi,prittam,sonali,anjani,suman for their practice and
kind co-operation.So the rejected team which was not selected for the final screening got
selected for the final selection.Do you think it is a luck?But i think it is the strategy or game of
the play of life.So let's play the game effectively and tactfully.Don't be worried for the failure
rather be worried how to get back in to the track of the mission of life.

Wish you all the best!!!!










PSYCHOLOGICAL BARRIERS-A STANDING IMPEDIMENT
FOR SPONTANEOUS VERBAL COMMUNICATION


Dear Friends,

Speaking English is not as difficult as we
think.Everything depends on our attitude towards
verbal communication.No body is born being
outstanding speaker rather they are made to by their
efforts to be so.Let us take the example of present
president of America,Mr.Barack Obama.Though he
belongs to Africa even that to not from so much
enlightened family,but he is one of the best persuasive
speaker of the world.The way he speaks is the example
of his confidence and mental preparation.So why not
we?The most acute problem with us is our poor
perceptions regarding our ability to speak.There is
always one question comes to my mind that if we able
to speak in our mother tongue fluently,why can't we
speak in English?The answer lies with our positive
imagination and effective preparation.There is a report published i united states of America that
some top level executives are being admitted in mental hospitals for their fearness to give
presentation in their important meetings before ceos and other strategic thinkers.Some of the
people are taking the help of counselors to solve their fearness.Some people say that they are
ready to be killed than to speak in stage before the huge audience.These are nothing rather a
psychological impediments.Maximum times thinking about incapability of speaking makes the
greater problem to deliver well.Even it is not always true that thinking of speaking the best or
perceiving himself/herself as the meticulous speaker will fetch success without
preparation.Rigorous preparation is highly essential to all and sundry to defeat the giant of
mental phobia.Certain things one needs to take care while going to give presentation or address
huge gatherings.They are mentioned below:
1.Think yourself as you are the best while speaking.
2.Fix your eye contact in an unfix manner with the audience.It means look to them but full
concentration should be on your coordination of your thought and information.
3.Full preparation is the half done of a job.Be prepared.
4.Come out with examples related to the subject matter.
5.Take care of your body language.
6.Try to make involvement of your audience rather than making them a mere silent listener.

These are the few suggestions to be mentally stable for effective verbal communications.So
friends kill the killer of your psychological barrier.Then nobody will be there to stop you for
being an effective communicator.

So friends,keep trying and defeat the mental phobia.
I wish all the success.

Best regards!!!!


A PERSON BECOMES WISE WHEN HE ATLEAST FACES
THE SAME DIFFICULTY TWICE
Dear friends,


Life does not become matured with the growth of age rather it becomes matured one
when the amount and level of difficulty increase.It is the human tendency to blame his
own fate for the adversity he faces and becomes more dissatisfied when his
friends,relatives lead a less difficult life in comparison to his life.But there is not a single
person in this world who doesn't have any problem.Every body's problem is greater and
difficult.A wise person is he who not only learns from his mistake but also learns from
the mistakes of others.Difficulty always comes to life to face more challenges in life and
to be an effective risk taker.


So friends,be wise and take the risk.Because there is a saying high risks always bring
high success.


Wish you all the success!!!!


Truely yours.








SUCCESS HAS MANY FATHERS BUT FAILURE IS AN ORPHAN
Dear friends,
Neither success nor failur is ever final.Failure is the band of road not the end of the destination.But we get
worried with the succeessive failures.We just need to have patience and keep our spirit up.No body can
stop us unless we put our efforts.But there are lot of friends who are there to cheer up our success but in
case of setbacks nobody will be there to listen the few words and see the salty tears.But the taste of
success is absolutely different.Every body will be surrounded by us to show as if they are everything for
our achievements.Some says that the boy who is celebrating the glory of success is my relative,some says
in his childhood i was teaching,some says he belongs to my locality,some says they were staying in rent
in our building,some people say he was my group mate and many more things.This the reallity.But in the
grey moments of one's life,every body started saying that failure person is good for nothing.We don't
know the stupid stated by the fairweather peole to the celebrity of success when he is in trouble.SO IT'S
RIGHTLY STATED THAT "SUCCESS IS A BASTARD WHICH HAS MANY FATHERS BUT
FAILURE IS AN ORPHAN WHICH HAS NO FATHER."

Be careful to the many fathers!!!!
Motivation vs Humiliation
Motivation and Humiliation might be seeming bit difficult but it has lot of relevance.Humiliation
is the essential parts of life.Motivation starts after humiliation even in dictionary motivation
comes after the humiliation.The way success comes after failure in real life as well as in
dictionary.Basically the biggest criminals are our surroundings who are the major contributors
for the inconvenience.In my experience in this ASBM campus i had lot of friends while i was in
a good time but now my mental horizon is under cloud,but there is not even my previous
belongings are not there.Still it is a great scope of my life to achieve the way so many persons
have done.Humiliation is everything for me because it is not only the ten words but it is most
powerful than attending 100 crores of inspirations.I will come out with flying colors soon but the
people of fair weather will be getting good lessons as far as my motivation is inherited from
them.So friends if you might be facing this kind of problem,you should be proud enough to take
it as a challenge.Adversity only comes to those who are to get more opportunity.
Dedication towards motivation and communication
Hello viewers,

This blog is completely dedicated towards the development of communication skills and
motivation for propelling the spirit of life.My heartiest thanks goes to Dr. Niel for his kinetic
supports in launching this blog.All the topics will be posted for the development of
professionalism and the blood of life that is motivation.so dear friends keep viewing the blogs.

Once again i would like to convey my love and affection to Dr. Niel-The love Guru.

Truely yours,