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How to Be an Alpha Male -- Without
Becoming a Stereotype
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by Chase Amante (/users/chase-amante)
July 2011
If there's one pet peeve I have right
now, it's the current way being an
"alpha male" is talked about in most
pick up and dating circles. I've gotten
to the point personally where I cringe
every time I hear some guy talking
about "being alpha."
But I don't want to go on an anti-alpha
tirade here, because at it's core, the
alpha male ideology is very correct; it's
just that the term itself has become so
laden with cultural baggage that "the
alpha male" has just about become a
stereotype -- a clownish, cartoon
caricature of what an alpha male used
to be.
Every time I hear the term "alpha"
these days, I imagine some bald,
shirtless, gargantuan, vein-popping 'roid-head screaming, "Alpha... ALPHA!!!" at
the top of his lungs, and a crowd of skinny nerdy guys standing around him,
pointing at him in awe, and whispering to each other, "That's alpha. That's how
you get the ladies."
This post is my effort to wrestle back the term "alpha male" from the shadow of
itself it's become, and redefine once and for all what the term really means --
and exactly how to be an alpha male... without turning yourself into a cartoon
character.

Origins of the Alpha Male
"Alpha male" wasn't always a term that meant a man who ate rusty nails like
other men eat Doritos and clubbed women over the head with T-rex femurs to
drag them back to his cave, willing or otherwise.
The terminology actually originates in ethology, the name for the scientific
discipline devoted to the study of animal behavior. There are five rank
designations used in ethology:
Alpha (the leader of a group)
Beta (the second-in-command)
Gamma
Delta
Omega (the lowest of the low; completely subordinate to all others)
You can infer it's probably much better to be the alpha or the beta than it is to
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be the omega.
But wait, it's more nuanced than that.
There are other individuals -- nomads -- who operate outside of the groups,
and don't fall into any of the five main ethological designations. These nomads
may at times come into conflict with alpha males, defeat them, and assume
alpha male status of the defeated alpha males' groups.
So the big players in ethology end up looking like this:
Alphas lead their groups, protect them, look out for them, and mate with
the top females.
Betas bide their time, help the alphas succeed, and take over if the alpha
dies or is killed or otherwise disappears, becoming the de facto replacement
alpha and getting access to the women when the original alpha male is
gone.
Nomads operate outside the hierarchy, not being traditionally ranked
ethologically, until they come into contact with a group and, if successful in
challenging the group's reigning alpha male, become the new alpha.
You can quickly see that the ethological view of intra-group hierarchical
rankings is a lot more nuanced than what the pick up community bandies about.
If you listen to most of what's said there, you'll get this message:
"There are alphas, and then there are betas. Dominant men, and weak
men. You're either one... or the other. You get either everything... or
nothing."
Now, if you know me, you know I talk a lot about finding the middle ground and
avoiding extremes. This is a big reason why I get so annoyed with what I hear
from most guys instructing others on how to be an alpha male these days.
They take things to the extreme, and recommend that men become cartoonish
versions of what a truly dominant, alpha male is.
And what happens when you take something to the extreme, of course, is that
you end up looking silly, graceless, and tryhard -- to everyone with any
modicum of social awareness.
And that, of course, especially includes women.

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Rise (and Fall) of the "Fake Alphas"
I'll start by saying this isn't just a pick up community thing. Men have been
trying to position themselves and posture as dominant males since long before
anything like an underground international community of seducers came into
being. And they've, of course, long achieved varying degrees of success.
In the Hip-Hop world (and elsewhere, but you hear it a lot here), someone who
tries to be something he isn't is called a "poseur" -- pronounced like "poser." The
poseur is seen to be "posing" like a model would pose; it's all about appearance,
without any real substance. Many of the modern "I'm So Alpha!" guys are like
this -- they're more concerned with appearing strong and dominant than they
are with actually being it.
The problem that catches them is that, in their quest to be seen as alpha
males, they never really take the time to learn what being a dominant male
really entails -- so they end up getting the crucial details wrong.
If you ask your average pick up community guy what being alpha is all about,
he's going to give you back a list that looks something like this:
You do whatever you want
You don't take crap from women or anybody else
You have dominant body language and eye contact
You take command of group situations and are clearly the leader
You're loud, physical, and aggressive, and others are intimidated by you
I'll admit, that sounds like a pretty solid list, on first blush. You read through
that, and you think to yourself, "Yeah, for sure. That's the guy that just ends up
getting whatever he wants, and everyone else defers to him."
But the guys who take this as their whole approach to being alpha males
actually usually fail quite miserably, because stuff like this is only half the
equation.
When I first started going out actively to improve socially and meet women, I
spent a little time trying to mold myself into a stereotypical alpha male the way
it's described by most folks in the community. After about six months though,
the buzz wore off and my natural social intuition kicked back in and told me,
"This is way too over the top. Scale it back down and re-introduce nuance;
you're not a damn cartoon character."
So I did. I stopped trying to be the really loud guy slapping everyone on the back
and out-alphaing everybody else. And when guys would do that around me, I'd
just ignore them or shrug them off or be real chill with them (see "Dealing with
Disruptive Men (/content/dealing-disruptive-men) "), and they'd shut themselves
down or back off or end up looking tryhard, and everyone else would see it and
women would gravitate toward me instead of them. It was trippy.
What I realized, you see, was that it isn't the guy who's pulling out all the stops
to be alpha who ends up being viewed as the most attractive, dominant male in
the group.
In fact, that guy digs his own grave -- he ends up looking tryhard. People know
a walking caricature when they see it -- and they know, right away, a guy like
that isn't legit.
It's the guy who's alpha without even trying that people end up recognizing as
the dominant male -- and this is where my entire philosophy of "real alpha"
stems from today.

How to Be an Alpha Male... Without
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Becoming a Stereotype
A lot of my realizations about
dominance stem from investment
theory and from understanding
sprezzatura (/content/sprezzatura-effort-
and-investing) and the Law of Least
Effort (/content/law-least-effort) . Once
you have those things down, you
quickly start seeing that the men (and
women) viewed as most powerful and
most dominant -- the most alpha of all
-- are NOT the ones, necessarily, who
are the loudest, who slap people's
backs the hardest, and who out-
muscle everyone else, verbally and
otherwise.
They are, rather, the ones who get
their way most often, with the smallest
amount of effort.
Who's more alpha -- the man who commands a woman by taking her by the arm
and dragging her to a sofa, or the man who commands a woman by gazing
seductively at a her, motioning toward the sofa, and the two of them rise
together and head over?
Well, if you listened to most folks, you'd guess that the first man is the alpha
male. He got all macho and yanked his girl over.
But that ignores a concept known as "buy in," something I plan to write more on
in the future. What buy in states is that people are far more invested in you,
and far more likely to follow you and remain loyal to you and comply with you
and do more with you, when they feel as though they've made the decision to
do so themselves -- rather than having been strong-armed into making that
decision.
I've seen lots of men strong-arming women into moving around with them in
bars and clubs. And what almost always happens is, at some point, the woman
breaks away from the man and disappears.
On the other hand, I've seen my fair share as well of men charming the socks off
of women and using smoothness and naturalness to guide women along in a
seduction, and those men quite often leave with their girls.
Those latter are men variously from the "real alpha" caste, or from the nomad
caste (the guys who enter a group and peel off a girl of their own).
In fact, I'd even say that if you're cold approaching, you really shouldn't concern
yourself all that much with being "alpha" in the traditional sense of the word --
alpha pertains mostly to group situations, and you're more likely to bed women
as a strong nomad who comes in and peels women off than as the alpha male
center of a group (who usually ends up with the alpha female of the group, and
the two of them are paired up that way -- one of the limitations of social circle
game).
But anyway, back to being alpha.
Being the alpha male isn't about being a caricatured "tough guy." It's about
mixing vast inner strength and a bit of a hard edge with charm and social grace.
The example I'm most enamored with at the moment is Harrison Ford. I've had
several girlfriends of mine confess to me that they find Harrison Ford very
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attractive. And it's not hard to see why.
Harrison Ford is a penultimate alpha male, in the realest sense of the term. He's
a real leader -- he's tough and gruff, doesn't smile much, seemingly doesn't care
a heck of a lot what other people think, but he's also sexy, he's warm, and he
looks out for people. He's got a rugged exterior, but a good heart, and he's
charismatic as hell.
Most guys I see trying to be alpha try to be rugged on the outside, and rugged
on the inside, and charisma is an afterthought for them. Women recognize this
as fake, and they run away from it. Or they just feel like it's too much, go into
auto-rejection (/content/secrets-getting-girls-staying-out-auto-rejection) , and get scarce.
Learning how to become an alpha male isn't about learning how to be a brick
wall outside and in -- it's about learning how to meld strength of character with
plain old character.
Here's what I recommend you focus on in your quest to become truly alpha:
1. Decide what you will and won't tolerate from people. It's incredibly
important you know where your limits are. e.g., if a woman teases you a
little bit in a conversation, that's fine, you can deal with it. But if you're not
in the mood for teasing girls (/content/teasing-girl-right-way) and she's really
pressing you, you'll have to set her straight and let her know that isn't cool.
2. Learn to communicate what you won't tolerate with grace. What we just
said in #1 though doesn't mean that you're alpha by telling a girl who's
teasing too hard that she'd better knock it off or else, or that you're alpha
by back-turning her or walking away. That stuff's just rude and/or silly, and
it's universally childish (and weak in its childishness... it isn't what a man
would do). Instead, learn to be subtle... if she over-teases you, you shrug a
little, roll your eyes to the side, and let your attention drift off... it's now her
job to reengage you and bring you back into things.
3. Leave off the social butterflying. One huge misconception that most guys
have about being the dominant guy in a group is that the dominant guy is
the one who's doing all the talking. Are you kidding me? It takes a lot of
work to talk... and dominant men don't do a lot of work. Picture a lion
sitting among his pride... he's relaxing, not trying to entertain. Heck, picture
Harrison Ford again -- can you envision him blabbing non-stop to a group
of people he's just met? Can you picture Sean Connery doing this?
They'll be social, sure -- they'll tell a few stories, crack a few jokes, get
everyone liking them. And then they'll fast switch into focusing on talking to
that pretty girl they like a lot (if they're there for women) -- so fast you'll
hardly notice. One minute they're socializing, the next minute they're
getting to know a girl (https://www.girlschase.com/content/get-to-know-a-girl)
one-on-one. Everyone else respects this decisiveness a lot more than they
do the guy who keeps trying and trying and trying to win them over by
blabbing. It gets old.
4. Quit trying to tool guys. The most respected, dominant, successful men I
know with women never try to tool or AMOG other men. Never. They build
other men up -- make them sound good.
Why do real alphas never tear others down and only build them up instead
(or ignore them / marginalize them if they're being ignorant)? Because,
quite simply, it's the social ladder climbers (/content/archive-ultimate-social-
calibration-stop-climbing-social-ladder) who tool others to try and advance their
position. Leaders, by contrast, build others up and confer value upon them,
because they don't want weak people in their group -- they want strong
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ones, they want allies who're grateful for being recognized and appreciated,
and they want to disarm with charm rather than try and beat down with
verbal or physical intimidation.
5. Go for what you want FAST. While the fake alphas are busting their asses
posturing and trying to look tough and sound dominant, you start talking to
the cutest girl there, and within a few minutes invite her to go sit with you.
And twenty or thirty minutes after that, you invite her to go have a
nightcap with you, and the two of you leave and head back to your place.
Fast, easy, effective. And don't worry, everyone else notices -- people really
do ultimately pay more attention to the results others produce than the
reactions they get (/content/reactions-women-or-results-women) . And everybody
sees the guys full of hot air standing around trying to be alpha, while the
actual alpha male (or, in some cases, nomad) goes and takes his woman and
leaves.
6. Do use dominant body language... but don't be a caricature. Best example
of this is how some guys trying to be alpha hold their arms out a little too
far from their sides, as if trying to exaggerate how big and muscular their
arms are. I learned this one was bad back in high school, when hanging out
with some girls I worked with.
"What's with Royce and his arms being held so far out, have you seen that?"
one girl asked the others. She was referring to a pretty ripped guy who
often tried to seem like a really tough guy, and held his arms too far out
from his sides. "I think he must have a lot of armpit hair or something and
he can't close his arms," another girl joked. They all laughed. "Too much
deodorant on or something and his arms get stuck that way," another one
said, and they all laughed again.
Exaggerated body language: it looks silly. Yes, stand tall, and do puff your
chest out -- but not so far out you look like a rooster. Aim to look like
James Bond instead.
7. Remember to make it natural and stop trying to pose. If you scan through
the above points, you can quickly pick up a theme:
Don't over exaggerate your displeasure (#2)
Don't over-try to win people over and be liked (#3)
Don't over-try to intimidate guys or out-alpha them (#4)
Don't waste time posing when you could be closing (#5)
Don't over exaggerate dominant body language (#6)
See the trend? It's don't be tryhard. The instant people start thinking a guy
is tryhard, he's banned in their heads from ever being considered a true
alpha male leader of the pack. Real alphas don't try to lead or work on the
appearance of leading... they just lead.
8. Be cool. If people don't like you, they won't follow you, no matter how alpha
you try to be. Humans are not a species where sheer physical dominance
wins the day -- it's a combination of perceived physical presence, and
demonstrated social ability. If a guy is short and stocky but moves solidly,
and compliments that with a 100-megawatt smile and charm and moving
fast to close on what he wants, he's going to be seen as alpha. If a guy is tall
and lanky but moves his body slowly and takes up space with his body and
is chill and relaxed in his demeanor and also moves things very smoothly
but very quickly forward, he'll be seen as alpha.
Becoming an alpha male isn't about being a beefcake who yells at women and
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head butts walls. It's about mastering your physical presence and your social
presentation -- being solid, confident, cool, and charming, and not wasting time
trying to pose and instead looking for opportunities to close.
Those are the kinds of men women go for. Always remember that women are
far more attuned than the vast majority of men to power dynamics, too -- so
while a guy who's a meathead may think he's more alpha than you are, women
are still going to recognize if you're ignoring his efforts to tool you and are
instead moving with social grace and effortlessness and you're closing on the
girl you want.
Women notice that in a BIG way. That's why real alphas get the girls... while
fake alphas get left standing around still trying to win people over and tool
people and wondering why the heck that beautiful girl left with that less active
guy.
Always,
Chase
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Comments
Excellent breakdown (or (/content/how-be-alpha-male-
without-becoming-stereotype#comment-348)
Posted by Migz on Thursday, 21 July 2011
Excellent breakdown (or should I say AMOGing ;) of the flaws in the theory
of "Alpha male is everything" proponents. Their social evolutionary
theories, although quite elegant as well, are also wrong, even though they
oftentimes cherry-pick scientific articles to "prove" their claims.
Yes, in the absence of a man who's able to build an emotional connection,
women will pick the man with the most qualities, including game, but
being higher value is not everything.
Another trend that is prevalent in PUA circles is the Flash game myth,
where beginners believe there needs to be witty comebacks or super-cool
lines or moves that make any observer or reader think: this guy is a pimp!
Maybe you should describe an everyday pickup for you, and how
mundane, quiet and cute it looks.
Re: Excellent breakdown (or
(/content/how-be-alpha-male-without-
becoming-stereotype#comment-360)
Posted by Chase Amante (/users/chase-amante)
on Tuesday, 26 July 2011
Well, dunno if I'd call a pick up of mine "cute"... ;)
But yeah, there's different things at play than just straight value. I'd
argue a truly strong guy is a lot stronger than the "fake alphas" posing
as mighty, but that's beside the point you're making, Migz.
A great illustration of your point is in the TV series Lost. From the
outset of the series, Kate is more attracted to Jack, the heroic doctor
who's leading the survivors and trying to make sure everyone's okay.
And she gives him multiple opportunities to do something, even at one
time early in the series stopping him in the jungle and telling him it's all
right for him to check her out and asking him what he's thinking, right
then. The moment's pregnant with her desire... and then he starts
going on about what he was thinking about was getting back to the
caves and setting up a camp.
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Then you've got Sawyer, the trouble-making bad boy. He's not as great
nor as accomplished a man as Jack is, in just about any sense, but he
closes deals. And eventually, even though Jack was clearly the leader,
Kate got with Sawyer -- because he was the one who took action and
got her.
Most of the "fake alpha" guys are like Jack, too busy managing the
group and trying to be well-liked to just pair off with a girl and make
her feel special and get together with her. That's where the "real alpha"
guys -- the Sawyers of the world -- come in.
Good point too on the flash game -- could be an interesting blog post
sooner or later ;)
Chase
anywhere i go theres (/content/how-be-alpha-male-without-
becoming-stereotype#comment-2718)
Posted by Anonymous on Thursday, 13 September 2012
anywhere i go theres duechbags trying to cockblock. i laugh at this and
give them no attention because its obviously what they want. i guess
people just value different things.
GIRLFRIEND (/content/how-be-alpha-male-without-becoming-
stereotype#comment-5378)
Posted by Anonymous on Saturday, 15 December 2012
How would an alpha male have conversations with his girl after being with
her for a while? i meant, would he talk a lot or just be quiet and cool? i
know he would be himself but at the same time too much talking is girly?
An Alpha Male (/content/how-be-alpha-male-without-becoming-
stereotype#comment-6599)
Posted by WufanGohan (http://sunsetreflector.blogspot.com) on Tuesday,
22 January 2013
Yeah an interesting and actually reflective article I must say.
Not trying is what many betas don't know as the later stage, but an alpha
male can also be a nomad whether you realise this or not.
This has been said to death but confidence in oneself is the most
paramount requisite of an alpha male. That and the cavalier
accompaniment. You aim to simply improve things and people - this can
be taken into the further stages as well - not complain about or be
affected by them at all.
Showing off like roaring is not always necessary, but both do make for
good show tools especially when certain social situations beg for them.
But I think alphas and betas are determined by genetics so for those of
you who are not comfortable or even capable of leading then just enjoy
your lives as followers of the system. There's nothing wrong with that.
Do you think we natural leaders have it so easy? We are just being true to
ourselves, and feeling right with no other way.
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How to Be an Alpha Male Guide (/content/how-be-alpha-
male-without-becoming-stereotype#comment-6997)
Posted by Nice Alpha (http://www.alpha-male.org) on Thursday, 7
February 2013
Good call on not becoming a stereotype. Similar to this chapter in the
alpha male guide:
http://www.alpha-male.org/nice-guys-vs-alpha-male/ (http://www.alpha-
male.org/nice-guys-vs-alpha-male/)
Social Networking (/content/how-be-alpha-male-without-
becoming-stereotype#comment-8655)
Posted by Andrew on Sunday, 28 April 2013
Appreciated this article. I've been thinking about how social networking
works into your analysis -- I think of Facebook, for example, as being
damaging for someone looking to improve themselves and be a better
man.
Any thoughts on how your very useful, practical advice on physical social
groups and interactions would work in an online context like Facebook?
Being out alphaed (/content/how-be-alpha-
male-without-becoming-stereotype#comment-
11667)
Posted by David Longhair (/users/david-longhair) on Tuesday, 23 July 2013
Hi, I used to go on holiday trips with a bunch of Asians females mostly.
There was this one guy Simon - average looking, attention seeking, always
trying to help the girls, and he seemed to charm them by taking photos
and stuff with them. I was more cool, laid back I don't usually say much - I
just wanted to go on a holiday and chill. I wasn't expecting to get laid but I
was expecting to have a couple of decent conversations with the girls. But
Simon seemed to hate me. I'd say good morning to me and be pleasant.
And when no one was looking he'd just plain ignore me. Eventually he
seemed to be monopolizing and steering the dinner conversations in such
a way that I couldn't even get a word in. I've traveled a bit and the last
straw came when he started talking about some place he really wanted to
go to. And one of the girls pipped up - "David has gone there". I was just
about to speak when he changed the conversation and the whole group
just looked to that dude for guidance. I had enough and told the group I'm
tired and was heading back to my room. The girls at the start seemed
friendly but in the end they stopped even looking at me. Been on 3 trips
with them. That was the last one I'm going on. The last thing I remember
was his grinning face at the airport. What should I have done? Apart from
leaping over the table with my dinner knife and carving out his eyeballs?
Penultimate question (/content/how-be-alpha-
male-without-becoming-stereotype#comment-
19766)
Posted by sarnett86 (/users/sarnett86) on Thursday, 12
December 2013
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All comments Replies to my comment
In another article you wrote of active reputation management and caring
about what everyone else thinks. Doesn't Harrison Ford's penultimate
alpha male status violate that law of not caring much about what others
think?
contradiction (/content/how-be-alpha-male-without-becoming-
stereotype#comment-24290)
Posted by Anonymous on Sunday, 2 March 2014
Hang on, you say dont be a social butterfly in this article, but in the article
about "how to get a perfect 10" you say you have to be a social butterfly.
Can you clarify on this please.
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