ARE YOU SHY?

Are you guys shy? I've been standing here talking to my friend for like 5 minutes now and you still haven't
said 'hi".
COMPLIMENT OPENER
Compliment her on something she's wearing or her hair or just style in general. The trick is compliment
openers are to never compliment her on her 'physical beauty'.
You have an incredibly energy about you
You have an artless grace
That's an incredible whatever-x accessory/garment
DIRECT OPENERS
Hi, I like you. And I'd like to get to know you.
Hey, What's up?
Where are you going?
You're cute, are you friendly/interesting?
You guys are so adorable. You have such a cute group dynamic going on. I want to meet you guys. My
name is x-name.
How are you?
You look like someone I'd like to meet.
Can I ask you a quick question?(Sure) Are you single?etc.
(I have a lot of successes with these on girls that are HB7 and lower or older women)
DENTAL FLOSS
Hey guys, I need to get your opinion on something. It's very important, and we need a woman's
perspective. It's a matter of life and death.. My friend and I were having a debate and your answer could
completely change my entire life....
Do you floss before or after you brush? No one knows.
DON'T TOUCH ME
When a girl bumps into you in a crowded club tap her on the shoulder and say "don't touch me" . have
something to immediately follow up with.
EXPENSIVE CLOTHES
"Hey guys, I need a female opinion... we were just at Saks today, and there were all these $600 collared
tee-shirts. when chicks see guys wearing 6bill shirts like that, do they think its classy or try-hard?" (That's
the skeleton obviously use your own speaking mannerisms).
Then you can use what info and opinions they give you to bust on them, using all the usual stuff.
GIRLS FIGHTING OUTSIDE
With great enthusiasm... "OMG!. did you see those two girls fighting outside? Like right outside the club...
they were totally going at it; one was pulling the others' hair, and the other one drew blood with her nails.
And they seemed to be fighting over this short guy; he was standing near them just totally laughing!
KHAKI OPENER
Hey, guys, my friends and I were making fun of some frat boys, and got into an argument...is khaki a
color or a fabric?" The correct answer is that khaki is a color, and most girls know this. You can go into,
"See, I was thinking it was a color, but the thing is that you never see a khaki car or wallpaper color or
anything like that!" then fire into your next routine...
KINO OPENERS
Pushing girls, grabbing drinks out of their hands, lightly hip checking them, snapping bra straps, grabbing
hats off heads, poke her, tap the opposite shoulder, etc.(these require no memorization are easy for
newbies)
MYSTERY'S ESP
Walk up to a girl and say, "Do you believe in ESP?" Remember to SMILE or you may startle her. "Just
think of the first # that pops into your head from one to four. Don't say it. Just think it ... now take that #
and imagine that it is drawn on a blackboard in your head. Have you done that?"
She says OK
"What's so neat about imagination is ... we both have it ... On the blackboard, I see the number ... three."
Whether you get it right or not reply.
"Alright, lets try this one more time. This time think of a different # from one to 10. Got it? Picture it in
white chalk on the blackboard ... you are thinking of the number ... 7."
If you got the first wrong and the second right, you look like you finally got it ... a 1 in 10 chance. If you get
BOTH right (a 90% chance seeing as it is a psychological trick where most north Americans naturally
choose 3 and 7 as their first picks) that's a 1 in 40 chance ... "and of course I don't stake my reputation on
mere chance."
If you get the first right but the second wrong or both wrong, say... "PROOF! ESP does NOT exist!" Then
start to laugh like this "Mooaha ha ha ha ha ha! And you believe in ESP!" a good neg hit to start. If she
mentions that most people pick 3 and 7 (most girls wont know this though) just say, "really? Hmm. didn't
know that ... thank you Cliff Claven." (From Cheers)
If you take the wording I have and do this EXACTLY as stated, you will be surprised HOW well you will
do. When they ask HOW, tell them ... I DON'T KNOW. Tell her you can SEE the #s on your imaginary
blackboard. This is NOT a trick. You hate magicians. If she wants you to do this again, tell her ... "don't be
greedy now."
Speaking of greedy ... if a girl kisses you on the cheek and goes to kiss your other cheek, tell her, "Only
one ... don't be greedy." This is a good NEG HIT. Mild but a neg hit nonetheless. If she says, "Yes, but I'm
French", you reply, "Are all French girls as greedy as you?"
G-STRING
"Hey guys, you won't believe what's going on with a friend of mine and his girlfriend. They've been dating
each other for six months now, and my friend really loves her. But they had this big fight a few weeks ago,
and she went to visit her mother to cool down.
While she was gone, my friend was so depressed, that he ended up hooking up with some random girl he
met in a club.
Anyway, a few days later, his girlfriend comes back, and she finds this girl's thong panties in the
bathroom, and she KNOWS this thong isn't hers.
So she confronts my friend on this, and he lies and says that the panties are his! And that he likes to
dress up in woman's underwear. So I don't know if his girlfriend knew he was lying and just wanted to
punish him, or if she really is into this or not, but she said she thinks that's really kinky and wants him to
wear woman's underwear around the house.
So he's been doing this for a few weeks now and is absolutely.
MISERABLE!"
"So I think he should just come clean and let his girlfriend know what happened.
What do you guys think? How important is trust in a relationship?
Or do you think some things should remain hidden, even if it means being miserable?"
FEMALE ROOMMATES
I've been offered this *SWEET* place in (x place).. I want to live there, *BUT*..... I have to live with FOUR
girls. Like *FOUR*. I'm going to get 4 times the boyfriend complaints; I'll never get in the farking
bathroom... I'm gonna have to start showering at the truck stop, and you KNOW they're gonna
synchronize. (Smile knowingly) Heck, I'll probably start *MY* period. I'm going to have to leave the house
for 5 days a month!
Did you know that's why primitive civilizations developed camping? All the women in the tribe would
synchronize and the guys would look up at the moon and be like "The antelope are moving now, we must
HUNT".
Also... living with all those girls, I could get RAPED. Did you know that 95% of guys that get date raped
commit suicide in 6 months? Girls are such sexual predators... (sexual predator routine stuff below)."
EXPANDED SEXUAL PREDATOR ROUTINE:
Lay a STRONG humour anchour. They have to be laughing out of their minds, so that you can keep
re-using the callback humour through out the pickup.
You know what? I cant even trust you guys. Girls are predators. Girls are SEXUAL predators! Guys think
that they seduce women and have all this power. Yeah right! Girls choose. They choose. The guys just
dangle themselves in front of them *thinking* that they made it happen, but they dont realize that its the
girl who chose THEM.
Girls are predators.. They hold the cards.. Examine the evidence.
First, when a guy gets mad at his girlfriend, can he strap on his bitch boots, shove up his pushup bra, do
up his hair and makeup, and head out to the bar and pull a girl home in under five minutes? Yeah right!
Its GIRLS. YOU GUYS have the power to do that, not guys! (wait while girls laugh).. What percentage of
guys can do that? Look at them (point at guys).. Theyre leaning in and touching, making the girls all
uncomfortable, but some of the girls like them anyway.. But the guys THINK its that they were
aggressive.. So what, like 5% of guys TOPS can do what 100% of girls can do.
Second, girls are the only gender with one organ designed for NOTHING ELSE but sexual pleasure. (wait
while girls laugh) And on that organ, there are ten times more nerve endings than anything a guy has.
(wait while girls laugh)
Thats why, when GIRLS have sex, they go (put hands onto hair, and do the following very convincingly,
like Meg Ryan When Harry met Sally style) uhhhhhh. oooohhh. uhhhhhhh.. (wait while girls laugh
hysterically screaming their heads off)
IDEALLY, THE ROUTINE IS SUPPOSED TO DO THE FOLLOWING:
-sets a humour anchour that can be re-used to keep them giggling throughout the duration of the pickup
-gives you fodder to do busting them on their manneurisms stuff.. You can now tease them on their
actions, and tease them on what they say, showing that its all designed to take advantage of you
-provides a Kooper-style C&F roleplaying frame, for them to play in, that results in them seducing you
-makes the obstacles/peergroup love you, because they think youre really fun, and it makes them trust
you with their friend that you wont be pushy
-establishes a frame that girls are meant to seduce guys, and its normal/cool/fun
-conveys that you know the deal about social interaction
-conveys that you know not to make girls feel uncomfortable by being pushy or trying to seduce
-conveys that you probably ARE one of the 5% of guys who can pull a girl home, because just implying
that you know whats wrong with other guys approaches, suggests that you know how to do it right
-mindfucks her into a frame where shes becoming more sexually aggressive
STEP 2 MISINTERPRETING THEM AS TRYING TO PREY ON YOU:
Point out real IOIs (there will be a lot), as well as MISINTERPRETING things that are not IOIs, in order to
mess with girls in the set who are not as into you.
-(point) Hey, you just licked your lips! (back off like youre scared)
-Hey, youre touching me.. Hands off the merchandise.. Im just trying to talk to you.. I just want to talk,
and youre just SITTING THERE WAITING for me to talk so I can feel ready for you, and youre not even
listening to what Im really saying Youre just biding your time until I feel comfortable with you.
-Hey, stop giggling at me.. Its making me feel really good.. Stop it.. Stop being so attracted to me (this
must be in deep attraction, or sounds lame.. if its in deep attraction, it makes her REALIZE that shes
attracted
-Hey! YOURE ATTRACTED TO ME! STOP IT! I JUST WANT TO TALK, STOP BEING SUCH A
PREDATOR!
-Hey! You guys think its all fun and games.. Like you can just do this, and everything will be FINE.. But
you probably didnt even know about the hidden damage youre doing.. Did you know that 99% of all
colleged aged males who get date raped commit suicide within 1 year? Did you know that when youre
taking advantage of a guy for your own pleasure that he walks around depressed and alone for the rest of
his life! I dont want this to happen to me! Stop it! No no no, now youre licking your lips again.. Stop stop
stop (engaging the group, so youre saying stop to everyone in the group individually).. Help!
-For girls who arent as attracted in the set: Hey, youre leaning away but your knees are pointing at me..
Youre trickier than your friends.. Youre trying to go in under the radar but your knees are giving it
away OK shes scaring me the most..
STEP 3 JUST CONVEYING PERSONALITY SO THE GIRLS GET TO KNOW YOU, QUALIFYING
YOUR TARGET, BUT ALL THE WHILE RE-INITIATING STATE WITH CALLBACK HUMOUR:
The idea is that youre running a normal pickup, but using callback humour and the cocky & playful
roleplaying stuff. So this gives you the maneuvrability to run a nice normal conversation, but keeping the
interaction charged with this stuff.
-Use reverse-EV type stuff, so that shes finding out positive things about you and building trust. The
whole pickup lasts usually around 4-7 hours, start to lay. Youre supposed to be conveying personality
during this time. The accusing-them thing is something you do as their state drops, or when you see a
good opening to do so. Its not the entire method, since just teasing wont get you laid except by party
girls. With party girls, just tease the fuck out of them, thats it.
-Qualify her to you, and every time you act impressed lean in, and then say wait a minute.. what are you
doing.. I cant talk to you anymore, youre trouble
-Ask her arbitrary questions about herself, and then pretend like youre hitting buying temperature, but
then cutting it off because youre afraid that shell take advantage of that. PUA: Whats your sign? HB:
Libra. PUA: OMG I love you (take hands). Wait, I cant talk to you anymore.. Youre trouble.. Go away
(push her away and turn your back on her and face her friends and say shes trouble)
-If she does something really impressive, pretend like you freaked out and hit high buying temperature,
and jump in and kiss her, then go aaaah. what are you doing to me??? and turn around and move
away from her like youre scared that she manipulated you to do that.
-Condition her (like Pavlovs dogs) to keep doing things that will seduce you. Shell grab you, etc.. Reward
her with kino, or whatever. But then also run away when she escalates it too much. Mindfuck her into
trying to seduce you. The girls seem to think that this is really fun, because they feel safe and on their
terms, and also they seem to find it a turn-on. Bear in mind, youre coming in super-confident (you
opened them, you held court in the set), so its obvious that you have alot going for you.
STEP 4 LAY LOGISTICS:
-Start acting possibly convinced. Her friends will start trying to convince you to stay, and theyll start
qualifying your target saying that shes safe PUA.. dont worry.. you can trust her.. go with her.. etc etc..
-When you walk home together, dont be too eager to keep the joke going. At the same time, when you
get her home, walk past your bedroom, and one last time say Hey! See this is exactly what Im talking
about.. Wait in the TV room..
-Then, grab your blankets, and run into the TV room.. Throw them on her like its all funny and jump on the
couch in a way that makes her laugh (humour disarms escalation to pickups.. if you escalate a pickup, but
make the girl laugh while youre doing it, shell backwards rationalize that she wanted you to escalate).
Then say Cmere cmere cmere. its cold its cold its cold (in a funny way so she laughs that youre
basically putting her in a very comprimising position).
-Once shes on top of you, STOP TALKING.. It starts getting heavy.. Breathing starts synchronizing..
Youre breathing in her ear maybe and fingers are interlocked and youre getting closer.. Then say uhhh
ohhh.. mmmm ummm.. this is OK I think uh oh.. and start kissing her.
-Take it from there.. If the joke is still working (it may be SO PLAYED by this point, but if it is STILL
WORKING), feel free to make liberal use of callback humour to disarm any last minute resistance
(misinterpret her LMR as her just trying to get you more comfortable)
**NOTE: If the joke has become PLAYED, then dont insist on pursuing it. The whole frame/routine is
always good, but dont be routine dependent and insist on pursuing it. If its fading a little bit, just move
onto something else. If its working consistently the entire time, then keep using it. Just common sense.
-TD
Tyler Durden
GLASSES ON OR OFF
Approach Girls
Glasses off (take glasses off)
Glasses on (put glasses on)
What do you guys think looks better?
*HBs - (Responses: On!/Off!/What?/Laughing)
Glasses off (take off glasses)
Glasses on (put on glasses) (I did the sequence any where from 2 to 4 times)
HB1 - I like them on!
HB2 - I like them off! (If HBs disagree then they usually started laughing.I guess they think it's funny that
they have different opinions).
My friends tell me I look like Clark Kent when I have the glasses on!
HBs - (Responses: Yeah you do! / No).
Why do you like it when my glasses are on/off?
HB1 - (When likes glasses on) I think it makes you look sexy/it makes you look clever.
HB2 - (When likes glasses off) I think you look better with them off, but I like them on too!
You get the idea. it opens the group.
Here's another way I introduced the opener:
Approach Girls
26 - I need your opinion. Do I look better with my glasses off (take glasses off) or with my glasses on (put
glasses on). (I put like a fun/playful face on).
*Run with the rest of the opener above.
Trouble Shooting
If a girl asks you to put them on and off too many times I would do one of the following:
- I'd put them on and off again, but act goofy (make faces.whatever)
- Oh my god. Again? (Playful). Then I'd do it again (don't know if this is a good idea, what do you guys
think?)
- Say to the girl who didn't ask: Wow. Is she always like this? Takes a long time to make decisions?
I'M LOST
I'm lost... I can't find my friends and I'm scared... Remember when we were kids and you could just make
new friends whenever you wanted... and you said 'want to be my friend?' Do you guys want to by my
NEW friend?"
INTRODUCTION OPENER
PUA: (grab unsuspecting HB by the arm and point at a random dude) "OMG, that guy is PERFECT for
you - let me introduce you!!" (start moving towards the guy)
SHB: What?! No.. NONONO.. haha.. Help!
PUA: (to guy) This girl is so shy, but she really wanted to meet you!
SHB: (Giggeling hysterically) Nonono... its not true!(Fleeing)
PUA: Awww come on.. don't be shy..
Both girls were very hot and totally stuck up before I did this. Both of them came back and talked to me
several times during the evening, to tell me how crazy I was...
MR. BIG
Hey guys, do you watch the show Sex and the City?? I was just talking to those girls over there and they
told me I remind them of "Mr. Big" is that good or bad?
(ooooohhh we LOVE Mr Big!!)
MY LITTLE PONY
Hey, guys... remember that sh1t 'My Little Pony'? Well, I was thinking about this today, and I can't
remember... did they have powers or were they just regular horses? Like, I remember they could fly, but I
thought they also had little symbols on the hip or something that gave them powers, but they were like,
lame-ass powers like Sharing and Honor or some sh1t. or maybe that was Care Bears. My little sister
used to have them and I'd play GI Joe's with them, like, GI Joe would fly into battle on My Little Pony,
then blast Cobra with a machine gun blah blah blah...
Me: I have a theory, I call it 'Oysters and Pearls'
HB: (Smiles, knowingly). Oh yeah?
Me: When it comes to relationships, I believe there's 2 kinds of people in this world:
'weepers' and 'seekers'. Now, consider that all the millions of potential partners in this
world are oysters. And that only a few of them contain a pearl.
HB: Ok
Me: Now, the weepers, they grab the first oyster that comes their way, they open it hoping
it contains a pearl, and when it doesn't, they close the oyster. They kiss it, caress it, put it
on a pedestal, do everything for it, and then open it again, hoping a pearl has appeared.
But still no pearl. So they close it again, and repeat. Still no pearl. They eventually lose the
oyster, and then cry saying that they hate oysters, and they'll never find the right oyster for
them. With me?
HB: Yep
Me: Now, the seekers, they realise that there's millions of oysters out there, they
understand that they have to go through thousands of oysters before they find one with a
pearl. They also know that they'll have a lot of fun along the way, and they know that with
each oyster, they'll become better at understanding oysters so that they can spend less
and less time with each oyster before they realise it doesn't have a pearl. My question is,
are you a weeper or a seeker?
NEVER BE COUPLE
"Aww - you are so cute.. but you make me SO SAD! (HB:WHY?) (pause with puppy
dog face) Cos we could NEVER EVER be a couple! (HB:WHYYY???) Nooo.. we are too similar..
IMAGINE, we would be SO IN LOVE.. and the next moment, we would be
fighting and screaming and throwing things.. and then we would have HOT MAKE UP
SEX all over the place.. and then fight, makeup sex, fight, make up sex.. after
a week we would both be in psychiatric care due to emotional drainage!"
PICKING UP CHICKS
Just open with "Hi, we're picking up chicks". its C&F
PLANT AND STARE
Walk up to girls and just stop, like plant yourself in front of them. I give them kind of a boyish playful
smiling face like I'm about to do something cocky or maybe I though of something funny I'm about to say,
and they start giggling. (key is to stop abruptly and make the fun face so they giggle)
PRIMP OPENER
First, here is the frame you're using for this opener:
"You're CUTE... but I'm going to make you a ROCKSTAR!"
This is, in fact, the exact wording I used to open my wings HB9 on Saturday night. I opened her and I let
him take over and #close her. (He should have gotten more. Bad schematic. Oh well, I'll call her later.
Maybe)
You don't even need to say anything to open, so this works in the loudest clubs.
You walk up, of course making sure to keep your BL under control. (Shoulders away, etc.) You check her
out then make a face like you aren't happy with what you see. Then you hold your hands out like you're
judging her style. You move in SLOWLY, pick some article of clothing (hat, shirt, etc. Best if it's upper
body or head) and PRIMP it. Take her hat and TWIST it ever so slightly. Now, back away, lean back, look
her over, and give her a thumbs up.
"NOW you're a SUPERSTAR!"
Continue with push/pull if you wish... "But wait..." and twist the hat back the other way. If she touches her
hat, bust her for messing it up.
Tell her she's allowed to be seen with you now, and promenade her around the club.
RICH OPENER
Came up with this one the other night at a club. When opening a set, walk up and ask, "Which one of you
is the richest?". Then go into the whole "OK, you get to be my sugar mama, then. But hmmm.... we need
someone to cook for us, who is the best cook?" routine.
Pretty fun and opens easily. To give credit where credit is due, it's just a variation on "Are you rich?",
which I think TD came up with.
SEATTLE GF
"Hey guys, I need an opinion. My friend met this girl in Seattle, and they really hit it off. They wound up
hooking up on the first night, and he even hung out with her in L.A. over the next week. So he's up visiting
her in Seattle last week, and they're out on a walk. He takes a few pictures of them together. Like really
cute ones with them together. Some of them they're just hanging out, and a few of them they're like
kissing or whatever while they're out walking.
Anyway, the next morning he wakes up, and checks his camera. He looks at the pictures, and he sees
that she's woken up before him and gone into it and deleted the pictures where they're kissing, and left
the ones where they're just hanging out. He goes to her and says 'Are you psycho? Why are you going
into my camera?' She says its because she thought she looked bad in the pictures, and didn't want him to
have them. But he can't figure out if she's psycho or if its legit that for girls they just hate having pictures
out there where she doesn't look good. He just really liked them because he likes her and doesn't judge
the pics like that."
The girls will either say:
"It's totally natural. I hate it when pictures make me look bad, especially with a digital camera where you
can just delete them and take more." (They also sometimes say "But he's only known her a few months. I
wouldn't do that on a guy I just met.")
-or-
"She has a boyfriend!"
Your immediate reply would be "He doesn't care about that. He's busy. He just doesn't want her deleting
his pics! "
SIMPSONS OPENER
Hey do you ever watch The Simpsons? Why has Marge never left Homer, I mean she's a sexy bitch and
he's a deadbeat who farks up all the time.
At this point you can just go on and talk about The Simpson's for a while.
SPELLS OPENER
"Do you think spells work?" Sometimes this will send the woman off on a long blab, but if the conversation
needs to be kept going, the follow-up routine is:
"The reason I'm asking is because my friend over there met a girl in a club last week. He wasn't
interested in her sexually, because she wasn't really his type." (Here the woman might say "Sure," in
which case you reply "No, really!" and touch her arm or waist.) "Anyway, she hung out at his house and
after she left, he found a metal ring wrapped around a scroll and some feathers under his couch. Well, he
took it to a magic store and they said it was an attraction spell. And now, the strange thing is, he can't
stop thinking of her. Do you think it's the spell or just psychological?"
THUG LOVIN
Hey guys, I need an opinion quick. Which is superior... which do the ladies prefer more...THUG LOVIN'?
or...GANGSTA LOVIN'? Well, my girlfriend from work said gangsta because its more hard-core whereas
thug lovin' is more like a hobby. But my other gf said gangsta would be disrespectful, like they'd pistol
whip you and run a train on your ass, whereas thug lovin', the dude is hard, but when it comes to the
ladies, he's smooth and sensitive... blah blah blah..."
TWIN BROTHERS
You're at a party or a club and you meet twin brothers; they are absolutely identical, physically.
ONE of them has the best hands of any guy you've ever met. The other is an incredible dancer. Which
one do you pick?
Same scenario. Again, the two guys are identical. One makes you laugh more than anyone you've ever
met. The other is the most incredible kisser you could ever in a lifetime encounter. Which one do you
pick?
Same scenario: One guy has more money than Bill Gates. The other makes you feel like you are the
most beautiful, desirable woman who ever walked the face of the planet. Which do you pick?
(It'd probably be best to make up some sort of back-story for this)
WHEEL CHAIR
Would you date a guy in a wheel chair?
(blah blah blah) if she says no say "What if it was a really cool wheel chair?"
"What if it was a really old wheel chair with a squeaky wheel?"
"You know with bits falling off it. If it was rusty would it come between you both?"
If she says yes set it up for who lies more.or
"What if the guy was suddenly cured by *Jesus*...would you lose interest?"
WHO LIES MORE
Hey guys, I need a female opinion. who lies more Guys or Girls??.......... The way I see it girls the tell the
small lies like "you're ass doesn't look fat in those pants" but girls. they tell the big ones... like... "Its your
baby!"
Masturbating In The Shower
YOU: Did you know that 93% of girls masturbate in the shower?
HER: No
YOU: Its true- the other 7% sing
HER: Oh really?
YOU: Do you know what they sing?
HER: No, what?
YOU: Oh, you must be one of the 93% of girls that masturbates then
HER: (Laughs)
Dog or Cat
XF: Hey guys let me get your opinion real fast ... What do you prefer cat or dog ?
HB: Dog
XF: No way , Dog's sucks Wink (NEG) I'm joking I have 5 Laughing ... wait, See the problem is that my
little sister/cousin birthday is in one week , she is going to turn 9 years old and I don't know what to buy a
cat or a dog , she love both cats and dogs, and the other day at the pet shop... blah blah ( dhv story move
to A2 )
Or some variations I have made of my own opener are :
What you prefer for a gift a Cd or Dvd ...
Which movie you think is better: How too loose a guy in 10 days or the notebook , the thing here is that
my sister...
Self Empowering Class Opener (credit justincedible!)
opener:
Real quick, you guys think its a good idea to take self empowering classes?
HB:
Y/ no / whatever response
me
"I got a buddy that just ended a X year long relationship. And was thinking about taking a class. But I'm
telling him to just go out meet people and socialize, w/o any pressure of anything else. To just go out and
have a good conversation.
But my roommate SHE thinks that guys meeting girls out in public is hard and next to impossible. She
also thinks that classes for empowerment are ironically lame. Then again she really had no problems
attracting people with her job....
HB:
What did she do?
me
Shes ...get this...brace yourself...an exotic dancer double majoring Business and Psychology. She
dances to put herself through school but I don't know what to make of it. It is her life, I'm just glad shes
still in school.
Bet you're in school aren't you?
Role Playing / Inner Self Routines
By Vince Lin on March 18, 2010
The following routines are designed to subcommunicate dominance and that you are seeing her for who
she is, rather than her physical looks alone:
You have a nice act going. And everyone likes a challenge at first. But somewhere in there, is a little
girl who just wants to be held and appreciated for who she is.
You know what? When I look at you, I can see exactly what you looked like in middle school. And Im
willing to bet you werent so outgoing or popular then.
I bet a lot of people think youre a bitch. But youre not. Youre actually shy in a lot of ways.
Well Tell Our Kids How We Met
$$$$$$$
Guy: Close your eyes. I want you to picture some of the times in your life when you felt really, really
good. Where do you feel this amazing feeling beginning to grow in your body?
Girl: In my chest.
(They always say that it starts in their chest).
Guy: Ok, now if that feeling was a color, what color would it be?
Girl: Yellow.
(I've heard different girls say different colors, the color doesn't matter).
Guy: Sweet. Now I want you to feel that yellow begin to spread throughout your body.
(At this time I like to put my hands on their shoulders and slowly and gently bring them
down her arms). Once she has the feeling throughout her whole body, say this...
Guy: Now I want you to bring all the yellow back to where it came from. Bring it all back to your chest
and concentrate it into the size of a pea.
(Pretend like you snatch the pea).
Guy: Now im going to put this pea into this ring of mine.
(You can put it into any object that is yours.)
Guy: I want you to where this (or carry it around with you depending on the object) and keep that
amazing yellow feeling with you. But I want it back next time we see each other because it is important to
me.
Now when she looks at that object, she remembers that amazing feeling and associates it with you. I
have done this routine many times, and it almost always works for me. Ok guys, let's see some more!
Penis Implant Routine (Brad P.)
By Vince Lin on September 24, 2012
by Brad P.
Yeah, I dont want to brag or anything but I had a bit of plastic surgery done and it went really well. I
mean it cost a lot of money but it was really worth it.
(Girls respond.)
Well its kind of a secret OK I got a penis implant. They doubled my size; Im 4 inches now.
This routine can go on for 1015 minutes with the women asking to see your implant. If they are pretty
heated up, sometimes theyll try pulling down your pants. You can just tease them if you want or you can
go ahead and whip it out if you are so inclined. This is a good way to turn things sexual under the veil of
humor. Start talking about what theyve had done. If there is a good sexual vibe going, squeeze their butts
or boobs to check if they are real. Say you think a womans lips are fake and use that as an excuse to
kiss her. The possibilities are endless.
The frame control and the comfort with topics of sex needs to be rock solid in order for this routine to
work. Nonetheless, it can be considered a blow out routine, which is amusing to you, but may piss girls
off. The goal is to desensitize the PUA from negative reactions in a set.
Mini Cold Read (MCR)
By Vince Lin on December 22, 2008
Quick Definition: A mini version of a cold read, usually involving a sentence or two about framing the
girls innate bad/sexy/good behavior.
Full Definition:
MCRs are powerful for banter and attraction game. Be careful about using them during comfort, as they
could break rapport. Thus, use it with calibration to BHRR and push and pull.
Examples of MCRs:
Youre a bad girl. My mother warned me about girls like you.
Youre a shy girl arent you? You guys need to get her out more.
Youre like Velma on Scooby Doo, always trying to figure things out.
Usage:
MCRs are great when the girls dont say much to you in the first 30 seconds.
Drink DHV Opener
By Vince Lin on April 27, 2010
Open the first set by saying: hold this up for a sec, thanx..Leave your drink in one of the girls hand and
walk off before she has time to say anything, keep walkin and go open a second set, start talkingin a
little while the girl from the first set will walk up to you and give you thw drink back.
Look at set2 girls and say: second drink they buy me today, woah
Credit Seven
Tatoo Opener
By Vince Lin on March 9, 2010
PUA: Hey guys, would you ever get a Tattoo?
Heres the dealmy nineteen-year-old sister wants to get her boyfriends name tattooed on her
shoulder.
1 possible reply: (no, no dont let her do it)
Dramatic escalation: see thats the problem shes really strong headed and when I tell her not to get
the tattoo it just makes her want to get it even more. How do I deal with that and let her really know its
mistake?
The Jealous Cat
By Vince Lin on February 12, 2010
My friend has been going out with a girl for about three months and they get along really well, they love
each other heaps, but her cat hates him. Like whenever he tries to pet it, it will just look at him like hes an
idiot and walk off and one time he left his shoes by the door and it pissed on them What's that all
about?(ERG)
Pendant Anchoring
By Vince Lin on March 20, 2010
Venusian Arts / Mystery Method
Quick Definition: Anchoring an initial meeting into a physical object.
Full Definition:
Sometimes, when PUAs face a time bridge, it is important to leave the girl with something to remember
him by. As humans, we spend our entire life in various brain states and moods, and women in particular
may not feel the same thing she did for the PUA tomorrow.
Pendant anchoring involves giving her a little piece of yourself by carrying a cheap pendant or necklace.
The PUA can use this to anchor the feelings she currently has for him. Placing the pendant around her
neck is not only romantic, but the physical contact of the pendant on her neck, as well as the optical
stimuli of the pendant when she looks at it the next day, will trigger memories in her brain. The brain is a
big associative network and, assuming your night really did go well, every time she sees or feels your
pendant, shell be reminded of you. And hence, she will be much more likely to give you a call back and
less likely to flake. Having a cool little story to go with the pendant is always preferred.
Example:
PUA: Well we have to go home now. I really loved talking to you.
Girl: Yeah, Im glad I met you tonight.
PUA: So Thursday at 8pm, Ill see you at the bookstore right?
Girl: Yeah.
PUA: Okay, I have to go catch my friends. But Ill be thinking of you for the next couple days. [Take
pendant off your neck.] Here, I got this in Thailand last year. I bought it from this sweet old lady who
makes necklaces on the beach all day long. [Put the pendant on her neck.] So youll keep it safe for me
right? And when I see you again, you can give it back.
Simple Cold Reading Routine: What's your favorite color?
08-08-2007, 09:13 AM
Hey Guys,
Remember when you were a little kid, and everyone asked their favorite color? And it was a big deal. I
remember my favorite color was green and my brother's alternated between red and blue. After a while,
he switched to green too. My little brother was "lellow" (I don't think I ever asked him again after he
developed the faculty of intelligent pronunciation in speech). Anyway, what I just told you is the routine
introduction. From there, you simply ask
PUA: "What's your favorite color?"
HB: Pink, why?
PUA: I was reading this book, and it deals with personality typing based on your favorite color. Tell me
what you think. Pink is....
Read the text below for an idea of interpretations for each color. If you trust your instincts you can also
improvise.
[I]White: Symbolic of purity, innocence, and naivete, white has strong connotations of youth and purity. If
you are an older person, your preference for white could indicate a desire for perfection and impossible
ideals, maybe an attempt to recapture lost youth and freshness. It may also symbolize a desire for
simplicity or the simple life.
Red: The color of strength, health, and vitality, Red is often the color chosen by someone outgoing,
aggressive, vigorous, and impulsive--or who would like to be! It goes with an ambitious nature but those
who choose it can be abrupt at times, determined to get all they can out of life, quick to judge people and
take sides. Red people are usually optimistic and cant stand monotony; they are rather restless and not
at all introspective, so they may be unaware of their own shortcomings. They find it hard to be objective
and may blame others for any mishaps. Quiet people with a preference for red may feel the need for the
warmth, strength and life-giving qualities of the color, or they blanket their true feelings under a sober
exterior. Red is usually chosen by those with open and uncomplicated natures, with a zest for life.
Maroon: Harsh experience has probably matured the Maroon person into someone likeable and
generous. It is often a favorite color of someone who has been battered by life but has come through. It
indicates a well-disciplined Red personality--one who has had difficult experiences and has not come
through unmarked but who has grown and matured in the process.
Pink: This color embodies the gentler qualities of Red, symbolizing love and affection without passion.
Women who prefer Pink tend to be maternal. Pink desires protection, special treatment, and a sheltered
life. Pink people require affection and like to feel loved and secure, perhaps wanting to appear delicate
and fragile. Pink people tend to be charming and gentle, if a trifle indefinite.
Orange: This color of luxury and pleasure appeals to the flamboyant and fun-loving person who likes a
lively social round. Orange people may be inclined to dramatize a bit, and people notice them, but they
are generally good-natured and popular. They can be a little fickle and vacillating, but on the whole they
try hard to be agreeable. Orange is the color of youth, strength, fearlessness, curiosity, and restlessness.
Yellow: The color of happiness, wisdom, and imagination, Yellow is chosen by the mentally adventurous,
searching for novelty and self-fulfillment. Yellow usually goes with a sunny and shrewd personality, with a
good business head and a strong sense of humor. It is the color of intellectuality and all things to do with
the mind. Yellow folks are usually clear and precise thinkers who have a good opinion of their own mental
capacities and who have lofty ideals. They may at times tend to shun responsibility, preferring freedom of
thought and action.
Green: The color of harmony and balance, Green symbolizes hope, renewal, and peace, and is usually
liked by the gentle and sincere. Greens are generally frank, community-minded people, fairly sociable but
preferring peace at any price. Green people can he too self-effacing, modest, and patient and so may get
exploited by others. They are usually refined, civilized, and reputable.
Blue: Soft, soothing, compassionate and caring, Blue is the color of deliberation and introspection,
conservatism and duty. Patient, persevering, conscientious, sensitive and self-controlled, Blues like to be
admired for their steady character and wisdom. They are faithful, but are often worriers with somewhat
inflexible beliefs and can be too cautious, and suspicious of flamboyant behavior.
Blue-Green: Exacting, discriminating, poised and attractive, the Blue-Green person tends to be sensitive,
intellectual and refined, persevering and stable if rather detached. Blue-Greens have excellent taste, and
are usually courteous and charming, capable but often refusing help or guidance.
Turquoise: Complex, imaginative, and original, Turquoise people drive themselves hard and may be in a
state of turmoil under their outwardly cool exterior.
Lavender: This is often chosen by a person who lives on a higher plane, who never notices anything
sordid and who is always impeccably and beautifully dressed. Lavender people may be on a continual
quest for culture and the refined things of life, high and noble causes but without the necessity of getting
their hands dirty. A Lavender person is usually creative, charming, witty and civilized.
Purple: Purples are highly individual, fastidious, witty, and sensitive, with a strong desire to be unique and
different. Temperamental, expansive and artistic, a Purple person may become aloof and sarcastic when
misunderstood. If you chose Purple, you tend to be unconventional, tolerant, and dignified, likely to
achieve positions of authority.
Brown: A Brown person has stamina and patience, tending to be very solid and substantial,
conscientious, dependable, steady, and conservative. Browns are not impulsive, and may be inarticulate
and tactless but they love responsibility and are reliable and kindly. If you chose Brown, watch out for a
tendency to be obstinate and inflexible.
Gray: The color of caution and compromise, diligent Grays search for composure and peace and often
work hard without reward. Older Grays like life to run on an even keel with few ups and downs. Young
Grays may be withdrawing from life and suppressing their personalities. Grays often have good business
ability and tend to over-work.
Black: Dignified and impressive without being showy, Black people want to give the appearance of
mystery, but their preference may also indicate a suppression of desires and worldly aims, suggesting
hidden depths and inner longings.
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ESP Routine (Mystery)
By Vince Lin on February 23, 2010
This is the famous ESP routine demod by Mystery in The Pickup Artist on Vh1.
PUA walks up to a girl and say, Do you believe in ESP? Remember to SMILE or you may startle
her.
Just think of the first # that pops into your head from one to four. Dont say it. Just think it now take
that # and imagine that it is drawn on a blackboard in your head. Have you done that?
She says OK
Whats so neat about imagination is we both have it On the blackboard, I see the number
three.
Whether you get it right or not it does not matter, the point is she is playing along.
Alright, lets try this one more time. This time think of a different # from one to 10. Got it? Picture it in
white chalk on the blackboard you are thinking of the number 7.
Explanation:
If you got the first wrong and the second right, you look like you finally got it a 1 in 10 chance. If
you get BOTH right (a 90% chance seeing as it is a psychological trick where most north Americans
naturally choose 3 and 7 as their first picks) thats a 1 in 40 chance and of course I dont stake my
reputation on mere chance.
If you get the first right but the second wrong or both wrong, say PROOF! ESP does NOT exist!
Then start to laugh like this Mooa ha ha ha ha ha ha! And you believe in ESP! a good neg hit to start. If
she mentions that most people pick 3 and 7 (most girls wont know this though) just say, really? Hmm
didnt know that thank you Cliff Claven. (From Cheers)
If you take the wording I have and do this EXACTLY as stated, you will be surprised HOW well you
will do. When they ask HOW, tell them I DONT KNOW. Tell her you can SEE the #s on your imaginary
blackboard. This is NOT a trick. You hate magicians. If she wants you to do this again, tell her dont
be greedy now.
Leaf Routine
Author: Richard La Ruina
Seduction / PUA Routines / Telling Stories /
PUA G Spot Video
Last Longer In Bed
Average Rating: 3.67 [Total Votes: 3]
I was talking to a girl last night and it went a little like this. It is an example of taking a statement from her
and making a point that goes along with it but is completely ridiculous but which she cant really object to.
I think it is also a funny little comedy routine!
Her: Can I use your stuff in the bathroom?
Me: You can use my shampoo?but dont use my shower gels (I have 10 little Molton Brown ones)?But if I
find one that I dont like Ill give it to you!
Her: WHAT!?
Me: Well most people would just pretend and say oooh I got you this gift arent I nice but Ill tell the truth
and say that you can have the one I dont like.
Her: Is that what you do for birthday presents, give something that you dont want anymore?
Me: Well usually I dont buy presents, I only buy presents for two people
Her: What your mum and Alex?
Me: Yep exactly
Her: Why dont you buy presents
Me: I know too many people!
Her: What about girlfriends?
Me: Well I used to buy presents for them, up until about a year ago. If you see my ex-girlfriend from
years ago, she is dripping in diamonds!
Her: Well its not about the money, its the thought that counts
Me: Ah okay cool, Im glad you said that because what I usually do is make my girlfriends a special
present. Like with my ex, I told her she was going to get the best present she ever got in her life, she told
all her friends, and she was so excited. Secretly I worked on it one day. I got a leaf and twisted the stick
bit into a beautiful shape and then stuck it to the body of the leaf and then I wrote her name on it. I knew it
was something beautiful that would express my love for her. A few days before her birthday I wanted to
throw her off the scent and make her think she was going to get a boring present, so when we walked
past a jewellery shop I asked her if she liked some diamond earrings and she said yes and I made a
knowing nod. Now that she was expecting something boring, everything was in place. On her birthday I
gave her the leaf and she was so happy, she cried. She seemed like she was really crying, that was how
happy she was. She told her friends I got her something else because she didnt want them to be jealous.
So, I could buy expensive gifts, but that experience really taught me something, and Im glad you agree
that it is the thought that counts!
Her: ?
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hidden camera videos of me and my instructors approach women.
Richard La Ruina
Fashion Opener
I love your style. Youve got a great look you must be very creative.
This opener works well because everyone loves to thought of as being creative.
PUA Openers
By Mr. Orange
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Openers are canned material usually for guys just starting out in the pickup artist community. Its a script
you can use to practice your approach, body language and tonality. Since you dont have to think of
something to say on your own, its easier to use an opener and react to your targets responses. With
practice youll eventually be able to approach women without any canned material. For those of you that
need it though, heres a list of my favorite openers. These have all been tested in the field with excellent
success ratings.
Hey, we need an opinion on something. This is really important. Whats better, bacon or ham?
Disqualify their answer and keep it going.
Would you rather be bitten by a snake or sprayed by a skunk? Disqualify their response and say
this. Thats interesting, women usually say sprayed by skunk and men choose the snake bite. This has
a near perfect success rate.
With women sitting at a table. Hey guys sorry Im late. There was a bunch of traffic. Did you guys
start drinking without me? This needs to be done with a confident playful attitude or youll come off as a
creep.
Youll need a somewhat flamboyant accessory or article of clothing. I use a white ceramic ring on my
pinky which works pretty well. With higher energy than your set ask, I need your opinion on something.
Does this ring (or shirt, hat, watch, etc.) make me look gay? Before they answer, interrupt and continue
your story. The reason I ask is because this guy at a bar started hitting on me after he complimented
me on my ring.
Youll need a wing for this one to add credibility to your story. Hey guys, I need a females opinion on
something. Do you consider talking to someone online, cheating? Disqualify their response and move
on. The reason I ask is because my friend over there has a girlfriend thats been talking to some guy
online for the past couple of months. She says theyre just friends but that doesnt seem right to me. Be
prepared for a response regarding trust in relationship.
Hey guys, I cant stay very long but let me get your opinion on something. Who do you think lies
more, women or men? Interrupt their response and continue with a story. This is what Ive used. The
reason I ask is because my friends girlfriend lies about everything. Even simple things like going to the
store. Add you own twist or true story to make it interesting.
A little more direct but can have a huge payoff if done correctly. Standing at the bar or a crowded club
with a woman behind you, Hey! Did you just grab my ass? Shell most likely give you a wide-eyed
expression and say no. Respond with, Good, because I usually charge for that. If she says yes, respond
playfully with, Could you go a little lower next time. Which ever response you use, end it with a smile.
With a girl standing near a crowded bar say, Hey, I dont usually use women for their bodies until I
get to know them, but the bartender is more likely to notice a cute girl like you than a guy like me. Can
you buy me a drink? Ill even pay for it.
An oldie but a goodie from Styles. Hey guys, I need your help with something. This is a life or death
situation so please be as honest as possible. Ok, here it goes. With a serious expression, Do you floss
before or after you brush your teeth?
The social network opener
Hey guys I need a females opinion. So there is this girl that works at Jack in the box. She hits me up
on myspace and says that she got my name from my debit card and she thinks I am very cute. At the time
I did not think of how much the situation was screaming Stalker!. Maybe I am being to harsh , what do
you girls think? Should I go out with her or should I just tell she is crazy and to leave me alone. Mr.
Atticus
Some shorter openers that get straight to the point. Open a set and get them talking. If you have great
social skills, you can turn any mundane opener into a rapport building conversation.
To a set, Who are you people?
Approach a set and ask, Do you guys want to see a magic trick? Ok, everyone close your eyes.
With their eyes closed, grab your target and walk away from the set.
Are you shy? You smiled at me and never came over to say hi.
Ok, whos been naughty and whos been nice?
Compliment a woman on her clothing, accessories or shoes. The point is not to compliment her on
her physical appearance since thats what most guys do.
Youll do. Say this with a smirk and with positive energy. Her first reaction will be to question your
intentions. Just be playful and continue with something witty.
When a girl bumps into you or touches you lightly, Dont touch me! I usually charge for that.
Obviously, dont say this with a serious attitude.
Routines
A routine is a field tested set of actions you perform to achieve a desired result. Often, when a man first
begins his quest to get better with women he is unsure of what to say, how to keep the conversation
going and how to take the interaction forward. This is where routines come in. They allow you to add
upgrades to your personality to get past your sticking points and to make the progression smoother for
both you and the girl.
Kissing routine
As an example, consider kissing a girl for the first time. Your natural routine may be to just go for it, after
much hesitation, hoping that you have read the situation correctly and that she will not move away from
the kiss. This may or may not work. It is a percentage game which depends a great deal on how
fine-tuned your calibration skill is for reading the mood. Compare it with the following kino routine:
The girl is smiling at you and having a good time. You reach over and gently touch her hair. Play with it a
bit and say it looks nice. If she likes it, things are good. While smiling look down at her lips and back to
her eyes. She will know what that means. Go in slowly and kiss her. If you want her to feel really swept
away, you can place your hands under her ears and pull her lips to yours. As soon as you are done lean
back and just look into her eyes, letting the anticipation build.
This routine has several interesting aspects. First of all, if the girl is comfortable with you touching her hair
she is also comfortable kissing you. Furthermore, the hair touching allows you to build up towards the
kiss. Finally, the looking at her lips part lets you signal your intent and gives her some time to prepare.
With routines like this you do not need to wait for the mood to be right. You create the mood right then
and there. It is a good routine for use in C1 or C2. Add it to your routine stack.
Routine stack
Throughout this book several routines have been suggested for use at different phases of the game plan.
Based on these routines, and the theory provided, create your own routines that suit your style and
personality. The routines you internalize for use in your game then become part of your routine stack.
How many routines you want to have in your stack depends on your social skills. If you are a socially
savvy person you may need just a handful of routines in combination with the game plan to achieve
consistent success. On the other hand, if your social skills are lacking you can compensate for that with a
greater number of routines.
Routines can be divided into two categories: escalation and interaction. It is good to have separate stacks
for these two categories.
Escalation routines
Escalation routines are ones you perform more or less with every girl as part of the courtship dance.
These include:
Opener routines Starts the conversation. Have two or three openers ready for A1.
DHV routines Displays your attractive personality and triggers interest in A2. Two or three of these
will do.
Qualification routines Use these for qualifying the girl in A3 and also in C1/C2 for building the
emotional connection. Five to ten of these are plenty.
Kino escalation routines Routines for escalating the girls physical comfort level with you. Starts in
A2 and continues into C3. Have some 10 to 15 kino escalation routines ready.
Transition routines Let you move from one phase to the next. For example, your C2C3 transition
routine would be used to get the girl to follow you to the seduction location.
These are the minimum number of routines you need to take a girl from A1 to S3 and have her enjoy the
process. If you like to vary yourself you can have a much larger stack of escalation routines to switch
things up with. If you are good at improvising you can also make up your own in the spur of the moment.
Only 10% of the courtship time is taken up by escalation routines. The other 90% is spent free flowing
having fun, teasing, flirting and having a real conversation with the girl as you build attraction and comfort.
This is where your awesome social skills come into play. Of course, if you had those social skills you
would probably not be reading this so lets cover interaction routines as well.
Interaction routines
Interaction routines are used to keep the interaction going. Say your social skills fail you in your time of
need and the conversation dies down. Then this is the routine stack you turn to a collection of routines
that you can use in any phase to help supplement your social skills in between the escalation routines.
Here are some example interaction routine types:
Topics Fascinating topics that lead to deep conversations. For example, talk about peak life
experiences.
Questions Useful for starting new threads or for getting a laugh. For example, On a scale from 1 to
10, how would you feel about riding a roller coaster naked?
Story telling Stories let you convey your personality and life experiences. For example, Let me tell
you about Greece
Cold reading Any technique where you tell the girl something about herself. For example, Ever had
your palm read?
Role playing Assume a role with an obvious counterpart and she will play along. For example,
boyfriend/girlfriend or brother/sister.
Future projection Talk about a future adventure scenario where you two are together. For example,
Imagine you and me walking along a warm sandy beach. We have just been out partying and it is the
perfect temperature for a nighttime swim
Misinterpretations Some misinterpretation can spice up any conversation. For example, when the
girl ignores her ringing phone go Youre such a player.
Games Silly kid games and other routines that demonstrate playfulness can be great fun. For
example, 1, 2, 3, 4, I declare a thumb war.
Teaching Teach her something awesome or useful. For example, Do you know the L.A.
handshake?
Themes A reoccurring theme that you can bring back. For example, a cute nickname tied to
something distinctive about her, or a point system, Youre such a pain. Minus two points.
Small talk Fluff conversation to show that you are actually for real. Gives a nice contrast. For
example, So, what have you done today? or How are you doing tonight?
Interaction routines are interchangeable. You can swap out a story and swap in a game and it does the
same thing. They allow you to have fun, which in turn brings you closer together. They also assume you
have a strong rapport which builds your actual rapport. As long as you are doing the escalation routines
you will be making progress no matter what interaction routines you are using in between. Find ones that
match your personality and style and mix things up. As you learn to cultivate a great repertoire of
interaction routines you will be amazed to see how quickly you can make the girl feel comfortable with
you.
Practice
For a routine to be useful it needs to be internalized. You need to practice it until it becomes a part of who
you are, otherwise your delivery will not be natural. Once a routine has been internalized you will be able
to run it habitually. This will allow you to focus on more important things than what you are doing such
as listening to her, reading her response, calibrating where you are at in the interaction or being in your
senses enjoying the moment. Note that interaction routines should only be conceptually remembered,
whereas escalation routines are more scripted.
Cheat sheet
The cheat sheet is a list containing the titles of the routines you have internalized for use in your game. It
can be an actual small sheet of paper or a note on your phone. It is good to have one because
sometimes your brain just goes blank. Knowing that you have a list of routines you can turn to if you get
stuck will also boost your conversational confidence.
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Routine Stacking in A1 and A2
June 22, 2009 by Caddy 7 Comments
Whilst opinions differ on the value of having a Routine Stack (a structured list of routines), and the mere
topic often promotes debate within the pick up community, I personally found having a stack really helped
my development in game. For me it was useful to have early Instant Value Demonstration (IVD) and DHV
material scripted in a logical order and ready to go, freeing me up to concentrate on my body language,
kino, compliance testing and the development of calibration skills.
As my game improved I moved away from stacks, but I still consider them to be a particularly useful
development tool for the beginner and intermediate PUA. In fact a year or two back I began to insist that
all my new 1 on 1 students developed personalized stacks before I took them infield. This ensured I could
concentrate on their key development areas without the variability of them throwing in routines in a
random (and sometimes inappropriate / inefficient / illogical) order. This approach tended to work very
well for them, so my support for stack use was reinforced.
A well thought out stack can provide rapid DHV uploads, include multi-threading, boost buying
temperature, initiate kino, and test compliance all within a short time period and often without doing too
much thinking. This is one of the key reasons stacks are useful for those progressing in game. Ever been
in set trying to figure out what to say next? Used a comfort routine that didnt work out because you
through it in too early? Stacked multiple openers and didnt generate attraction? These types of problems
can be removed from your game very early on via the use of a routine stack.
For brevity in this article Ill describe my favored stack format covering Opening and A2 of the teachings
Mystery developed, in my next article Ill continue running through into A3 and include a typical time
bridge and number close routine Ive used often.
SoIn simple terms the basic MM Open/A2 stack format I have used most is
OPENER (with FTC and Neg)
FTC
IVD#1
DHV Story#1
Confirm 3 IOIs? If yes then Qualify (Move into A3 stack), Or
DHV Story#2
Confirm 3 IOIs? If yes then Qualify (Move into A3 stack), Or
Continue with IVD #2 or DHV #3 and Qualify (Move into A3 stack)
I find that if your first piece following the opener provides the girls with something of value (i.e. an IVD),
such as interesting information about them, then they are more likely to hook and listen to your following
DHV loaded story. So as an example #1
PUA: OPENER/FTC: Hey guys, just quicklyIs kissing cheating?
HBs: blah blah blah
PUA: NEG: Hey, are those real nails? They look nice anyway.
PUA: OPENER CONTEXT: Its just my buddys girlfriend, she likes to get with other girlsetc.
HBs: blah blah blah
PUA: FTC: Anyway, I gotta go, but I just noticed
PUA: IVD: Group cold read something interesting about this group, well she seems like the mother
hen, always looking after you all, you seem like the wild oneetc
HBs: Blah blah blah
PUA: DHV Story #1: Respect. Actually though, you remind me of a girl I used to knowetc.
HBs: blah blah blah
Ive not included all the details of the routines, you could use any appropriate OPENERs/IVDs/DHVs, its
just to demonstrate how despite human interaction being non-linear, you can control where the
conversation goes by cutting their threads when they milk your topic and stacking forward to your next
piece. They can be saying anything in the blah blah blah areas, but in the end Im gonna get my next
important IVD/DHV piece across regardless. Another example
PUA: OPENER/FTC: Hey guys, just quicklyWho lies more, men or women?
HBs: blah blah blah
PUA: NEG: Hey, how short are you?
PUA: OPENER CONTEXT: I saw an article today talking about how often men / women lieetc.
HBs: blah blah blah
PUA: FTC: Anyway, I gotta go, but I just noticed
PUA: IVD: .You have a C shaped smileetc
HBs: Blah blah blah
PUA: DHV Story #1: Respect. Hey get this, last time I was in this place the craziest thing happenedetc
HBs: blah blah blah
Straightforward and effective, first 5 or 6 minutes of the interaction accomplished time and time again.
In summary, its my view that a stack allows you to plan the early stages of your interactions, making them
efficient by ensuring the set has heard your key leader/protector/pre-selection attraction material without
you having to think too much about how to get this info across. Ive found this can remove some of the
variability of your first few hundred sets and frees you up to notice whats going on with body language,
IOIs, compliance levels etc.
Big Love,
Caddy
Caddy@venusianarts.com
How to Generate Your Own DHV Stories, With Examples
June 14, 2009 by Caddy 43 Comments
How to Generate Your Own DHV Stories, With Examples.
One topic within the art of pick up that many new and experienced PUAs find difficult is the creation of
DHV routines. Luckily, we at Venusian Arts can reach deep into your background and experiences to help
you bring forward the coolest things from your own life to talk about in set. Using your own stories means
they are congruent with you, and therefore easier to convey with good delivery, passion and energy. This
article is gonna show you how.
As a re-cap from The Mystery Method: How to Get Women Into Bed, DHV stories are aimed at
demonstrating the key attraction switch flicking qualities of Leader / Protector / Pre-Selection /
Successful risk taker / willingness to emote. There are others (well traveled, experienced etc) but these
are the main things we should convey in A2 and beyond.
People sometimes think DHV stories need to be seriously hard hitting and jammed with very obvious DHV
spikes. For examplehey get this, I just got back from Sydney, well the plane was late and my ex
girlfriend, who was waiting at the airport for me was late for a modeling shoot, and already had a parking
ticket on her Ferrari [demonstrates pre-selection].
But you know, demonstrating attraction switches can also be as simple as saying something like my
ex-girlfriend called me, she was freaking out, I mean REALLY scared, so I got her to focus, I told her
listen to me babe, trust me, everything is gonna be fine [demonstrates pre-selection, protector and
some leader qualities].
I dont have any DHV stories is something Ive heard more than anything from PUAs since Ive been
teaching Game. Guess what? you all have experiences that can be turned into DHV stories, whether your
18 or 80. Ill show youlets get that grey matter working, get a pen and think of a time when you
Had something interesting, funny or unusual happen to you
Were there for someone with a problem (friend had a dilemma, spoke to you for advice)
Stood up and supported somebody (it was hard for him, so I stood up and said lets do this together. I
mean my friends and I are totally there for each other)
Calmed someone down (she was really scared, I told her to focus on me and that everything would be
ok)
Organized something for friends (holiday, away trip, day out etc)
Were chased by a girl (she was bombarding me with text messages)
Did something with a girl(s) (My friend Jane and I went to.)
Took a beating for someone (It was gonna be bad, but we faced it together)
Told somebody what to do (they didnt know what to do next, so I told them to)
Hopefully you get the picture of the sorts of questions you should be asking yourself, so we should have
some stuff to work with now. With some thought, we can move from the output of these questions to a
DHV story.
Example 1 BAD FLIGHT: I had some bad-ass turbulence on a flight once, everyone was screaming, very
scary. I told a girl sitting next to me itd be ok, even though I was crapping my pants LOL.
Wow something crazy happened to me on a flight to Hawaii recently, everybody is feeling relaxed, the
stewardesses are serving drinks with their fake smiles going on. Anyway, then the plane starts to bounce,
a little at first. Then more, people start to feel nervous. Suddenly it all kicks off, Bang, Bang, Bang, drinks
everywhere, said stewardess off the ground, people start screaming. Theres a girl next to me in tears, Im
trying to keep her calm telling her itll all be fine. She starts to dig her nails into me! Next thing its all
deathly calm and quiet. Severe turbulence the pilots said! After that we both ended up drinking our fair
share of duty free a. to keep her nice and calm and b. for me to blank out the pain from where Id allowed
her to dig her nails!
Example 2 POLAND NOSE BREAK: I was out drinking with 2 women friends and had my nose broken in
a street brawl. Got it fixed, it was all fine.
I was on holiday in Poland, my second home. I lived out there for a year when I was younger. Well Id
been drinking in a bar with a couple of girls I know. Anyway, one goes outside to order a taxi, and the
second girl and I follow her soon after. Outside my friend is being hassled by these 3 drunken guys, I can
sense her unease. So I roll over to see whats happening and they hear me speaking, and presume Im
German, well Poles and Germans dont always get along so a fight breaks out. When the dust settles, the
girls are fine thankfully but my nose is broken. Im like ok hospital it is! where the doc manually fixes my
nose! Get this, he then takes out a mirror and says Is that how it looked before? Well I dont know, so I
open the door and ask the girls and they are like, yeah babe it looks as good as before! LOL [ Protector /
pre-selection / well traveled]
So you can see aspects of the questions I asked earlier drawn together in a number of life events, then
with a little work these are pulled into DHV stories. The two above are real events from my life, about 90%
factual with a sprinkling of embellishment for effect ;), and have been run successfully a thousand or
more times in A2.
The second question I get asked a lot is how do I bring these stories into the conversation?. Its EASY
guys, heres how. I use what I term lead-in statements, usually 2 or 3 sentences that can move the
conversation from virtually any topic (routine or fluff!) into my story, examples below
To get into BAD FLIGHT DHV ROUTINE-
I just noticed, you have a smile you can turn on and off on demand (neg)!
I bet youd be awesome calming people down in a crisis
It reminds me of a time whensomething crazy happened on a flight recently.
OR
I just noticed, are those real nails? (neg)
Ooh I get nervous around girls with nails like that LOL
Its just thatsomething crazy happened on a flight recently.
OR
HmmmIm guessing you work as an air stewardess? Its just you are very well keptand you have that
blonde look ;) (neg)
I bet youd be awesome calming people down in a crisis though
Its like on this flight I had recentlysomething crazy happened
So in summary, youve seen a couple of examples of DHV stories, how to generate them and how to
bring them in to the conversation. Of course it takes practice, and delivery is soo important, but this
should get you thinking. In future Ill write about how we weave in Kino and compliance testing into our
DHV stories, and remember that at bootcamps we spend time with you developing your personalized
DHVs, then perfecting them with you in-field.
Now Im gonna open it up to you guys. Post back a couple of sentences briefly describing an event from
your life and Ill turn a few of them into DHV stories. Lets develop some material with which to rescue the
bored HBs of the world from being asked do you come here often and what do you work as ;). Lets
do it brothers.
Caddy
Approach Anxiety by Matador
May 28, 2007 by Matador 4 Comments
I have read many references to this topic. It occurs to me that many people think that there is something
wrong with them for having approach anxiety and are looking for ways to ?get rid of it.?
WHAT IS APPROACH ANXIETY?
Approach anxiety is the hard-wired, natural emotional circuit that fires and causes you to experience
discomfort at the thought of approaching a set.
WHY DO I FEEL APPROACH ANXIETY?
Approach anxiety stems from two sources of fear that have been hard-wired through evolution.
FEAR#1: Fear of being retaliated against by other males.
FEAR#2: Fear of being ostracized by the remaining available female population.
WHERE DID IT COME FROM?
We have descended from a tribal culture. We still live in a tribal culture, although not one that easily
identifiable compared to what we think a tribe is (i.e. African Tribes).
Take the movie Braveheart for example. Think of the William Wallace?s tribe or clan and that was how life
used to be for our ancestors. A lot of our emotions have been developed and refined for survival in that
environment. However, our environment has changed far too rapidly and our emotional circuitry has not
adapted fast enough.
In a tribal culture of let?s say 100 people, roughly half would be male and half would be female. So you
have 50 viable females to choose from. From that 50, half of those would be too old to align with, so now
you are down to 25. Out of those 25, half would be already taken by another man, so now you are down
to approximately 12.
In this environment, it is very easy to step up to the wrong girl?a girl who is already spoken for by another
man. Times were brutal back then. It was a real possibility that if you stepped to the wrong girl, that man
would come by with his friends and kill with a rock. That?s were fear number 1 comes into play. Fear of
being retaliated against by other males. Remember, there are a lot of blood lines that are not here with us
today that didn?t have the precise emotional circuitry that you have. There emotional circuitry proved
insufficient to govern their behavior for optimal survival purposes. To put it into context, a lot the guys who
didn?t pay respect to this legitimate danger back then died out and their descendants with them. You are
looking at a biased population.
Now, remember from the paragraph above, you have 12 healthy, viable females to choose from now. If
you step to on of those 12 and she rejects you?word will spread of that rejection and pretty soon, the
other 11 will not want to align with as well. You can see this trend in some small college
communities?have you ever gotten player/scumbag reputation and all of a sudden none of the other girls
will want to go out with you. If the cause of the rejection was bad enough, you might have to leave your
tribe to another to find a woman that will align with you. This is the cause for fear number 2: Fear of being
ostracized by the remaining available female population.
HOW DO I GET RID OF IT?
Now, to try to accomplish this is to say something along the lines of, ?how do I not scan a girls breast,
hair, body, and the rest of her health indicators when she walks in the room.? The answer is you can?t.
You will do so as an automatic reflex. The universe behaves has it should gentlemen. God only knows
where we were given all the false stories and references points that leave us wallowing in a sea of
confusion and frustration at the contradiction between reality and idealistic fantasies. You approach
anxiety will always be there. It is a hardwired response. Try not to think in terms of getting rid of it, but
understand it, and de-fang it.
Logically, in the watering holes and public gatherings that we TYPICALLY roll in, is a jealous boyfriend
going to kill you with his friends if you open properly?I have never had someone try to kill me with his
friends for opening a girl?I pulled a girl right out of her boyfriends arms last week in south beach and I did
it without hitch?it is not something to brag about either?anyone, can do it with the right approach. The fear
should be inoculated for our CURRENT ENVIRONMENT. It does not apply.
QUICK NOTE: There are some environments that are very tribal?there are some cultures that are very
primitive?don?t try trust test with a bunch of natives of one of those Hawaiian islands where the blood line
is still pure and expect not to get some shit.
Next, in the watering holes and public gatherings that we TYPICALLY roll in, is a target in a set, that
didn?t go well, going to inform the entire city, state, or country that you live in of your game and how bad
it is? Is she going to put up a website call, www.bobsgamesucks.com? Hell no, she will have forgotten
what you look by the end of the next day and life goes on.
In the sea of people that big cities provide, this fear does not apply and should be logically neutralized.
QUICK NOTE: In closed communities, such as small colleges or small towns where word spreads. If you
get a reputation as a guy who is a player, who impregnated a girl and left, who beats girls, or does
anything that would red flag a girl?s S&R value judging circuit, then they will spread the word about you
and you will have to leave and game somewhere else.
Our emotional and logical parts of our brain are in constant conflict. I am not suggesting that by logically
knowing why you are feeling AA that it should go away?that would be unnatural. I am however suggesting
arming yourself with the logic of the situation so that you can better control it, rather than, it control you
and ruin so many possibilities in the making.
Even TOP PUAs feel it. Imagine a Master Instructor?s approach anxiety on bootcamp night?not only do
we have to deal with our own?we have performance anxiety on top of that?we have to hug, kiss,
number-close, and pull girls for an audience in a totally unscripted and unpredictable environment.
How do I deal with it? I feel it and immediately identify it. Next, I logically deal with it and dissect it. Then I
logically override what I am feeling by crudely saying, ?FUCK IT?I?M GOING IN? and then DO IT. I?ve
done this some many times at this point, I am kind of desensitized to it, but it is always still there?if we
could attach ourselves to heart rates monitors, you would see a little bleep here and there?the point it, at
a TOP PUA level, it doesn?t CONTROL us?we CONTROL it!
One final note. ALCOHOL is not a solution for AA. You can drink to be social, unwind, and have fun with
the boys when gaming, but drinking should not be a tool to combat AA. In fact, drinking more than a few
drinks impairs my game. If I am being filmed or I have some audience, I am in top form with one beer
maximum if any.
I once had a bootcamp student in Los Angeles, and I kid you not, had eight shots of tequila before he
opened one single set. I felt really bad for him. His approach anxiety was BAD?he looked like he was
really in pain. I?ve had grown men start crying when I try to push them to open (some were ex-military).
AA is very real and no joke and if you don?t understand it, de-fang it, and control it?it can SEVERERLY
lower the quality of your life by destroying so many possibilities. I think back to all those years, I was
clueless about game and girls and all the potential LOVES I?ve lost?all the popular girls in high school
that I could?ve gotten?oh well, fuck it?going to plow forward! To briefly reference my ?Excuse Master?
post?I believe this is many times the true culprit behind all those fantastic rationalizations we have to not
go into a set or not call a girl the next day.
I am not above my humanity either?I feel it same as you. I am not always as strong as I would like to be
and am imperfect in many ways?what I strive for is a higher level of awareness and execution of my
elaborate plans for this life with the ultimate goal of what I perceive to be happiness.
Is Kissing Cheating 2 Part Kiss Opener
The is kissing cheating routine is one of the most successful PUA routines and has an incredibly high
success rate when used correctly in the field. One of the best parts of this opening routine is that it can
also be used effectively to open mixed sets as its something that guys will find interesting to talk about
and are sure to have an opinion on.
The routine goes something like this:
PUA: Hey guys, myself and a few friends were just having a debate about something and wanted to get a
quick opinion on it. (make sure to use a false time constraint).
So if a girl who has a boyfriend goes out to a club and kisses another guy just for fun, would you consider
that cheating?
Group: Of course thats cheating.
PUA: Right exactly, that makes sense. What about if a girl goes out to a club, gets drunk and then starts
making out with other girls just for fun. Would you consider that cheating?
Group: [Here you will often get mixed responses, though in all girl sets, it will almost always get a
response saying it's completely fine! If you do get this response, then you can look to use a neg and
mention double standards in a playful manner and be sure to keep on smiling.]
The reason the routine is called the 2 part kiss opener is because it continues with a second part as
follows.
PUA: Right. Thats interesting. The real reason I asked is because my friend over there is dating a girl at
the moment and whenever she goes out she gets wasted and makes out with other girls. Now of course,
some guys might be into that [said while smiling], but my friend gets really annoyed about it and think its
cheating. She denies it of course and says its definitely not cheating, hence why we wanted to get
another opinion on it!
Group: [Well he takes it too seriously/he should talk to her about it etc etc.]
The 2 part kiss opener is an extremely effective routine for opening almost any set. When delivered in the
right way and with the right posture, voice tonality and body language it can be a great opener to use as
the first part of your routine stack. Remember to continue to build rapport and attraction and move onto
DHVs to take the set to the next level.
Like with every PUA opener, try it out in the field and see how it works for you. Happy gaming!
Kino Escalation
Kino escalation is probably the single most important aspect of game. It is also one of the biggest sticking
points aspiring PUAs trip over. Proper kino escalation begins with the very first stages of a set, and it
obviously continues and builds slowly all through the set, culminating in sex and even post-coital
behavior.
Touching a woman sends powerful signals. It says that youre confident and comfortable with yourself. It
says that youre not worried about scaring her off. It says that physicality is a natural and normal part of
your life. All that adds up to another benefit: it turns women on. Women like being touched calmly,
confidently, by men.
If you dont smoothly and continually escalate kino, you will find yourself in the friend zone even with
women who start out highly attracted to you.
Kino Basic Principles
Confidence. Kino must be done confidently and naturally. You should never appear uncertain or unclear
about what youre doing. Whether youre talking about your hand on her knee, giving her a hug, or a kiss
close, whatever you do should be deliberate, calm, and done as if the last thing on your mind is that she
might reject your kino.
Awareness. Sometimes, a woman isnt crazy about your kino. This is okay! Kino is so important that,
when youre learning, if you dont occasionally go slightly too far, too fast then youre almost certainly not
escalating enough! However, you must be sensitive to the subtle signals that a woman sends which say,
You just went a little too far. When this happens, you should deliberately, back off. Dont flinch or jerk
back like a spooked rabbit, but just be aware that her comfort level has changed. Its okay: you can, and
should, escalate again later. All shes saying to you is not yet.
Two steps forward, one step back. Its vitally important to build kino slowly and unevenly. If youre
touching her in a way that she likes, do it for a moment then stop! Back up. A few minutes later, go
forward again. Starting this pattern early reduces last-minute resistance, but more importantly is puts
powerful thought in her head. If she likes your hand on her knee, and you take it away, shes thinking, I
liked that. I want more of it. This makes her highly receptive to your next advance. You should always be
the one to disengage kino during the attraction, comfort, and seduction phases of a set.
Keep your touch light and feathery. Dont just plop your hand on her. Let it move, stroke likely. Touch,
slide, release. Let go. Everything is light, fluid, and fleeting and comfortable.
Early-Set Kino
When you first meet a girl, its important to establish that youre comfortable touching her. Simple things
like touching her arm with the back of your hand to emphasize a point in conversation send strong
messages. Be willing to let your bodies touch if youre talking together in a crowded club. Rest your hand
on the small of her back or her hip while you talk, or on her knee if youre seated next to each other.
Never pull back from physical contact and whenever its natural to touch, touch. Routines like
palm-reading work well here, because they facilitate a lot of casual contact.
Mid-set Kino and Kiss-Closing
As the set progresses, you must confidently escalate, and your touch should become more deliberate.
Whereas early-set kino can feel casual and incidental, an element of deliberateness should enter your
kino here. Many aspiring PUAs get tripped up, because they get nervous, but Hypnotica has a great
mantra to keep in mind: Your hesitation equals her reservation. The more you wait, delay, or fail to strike
when the opportunity presents itself, the less receptive she will be when you finally do escalate.
Good mid-game kino is hugging, stroking the arm or the knee. Pay attention to parts of her body that
arent strictly sexual but that dont get a lot of attention normally the inside of her elbows, her neck, or
any part of her that doesnt see a lot of sun.
A few words on kisses. Think of a kiss as just another form of kino. Dont trip up by thinking its something
categorically different from anything else. All the regular rules of kino apply. Although you can find lots of
different routines online to help you kiss close, the most important thing to remember is that, when you
see the opportunity take it in a calm, confident way. Remember two steps forward, one step back, and
go for it!
If your kino is rejected, dont panic. Just relax, back up a couple of steps, and, if shes still providing the
opportunity, escalate again in a few minutes. If she doesnt want you to try again, she wouldnt keep
giving you the opportunity.
Lastly, be aware that some PUAs have a lot of success with women by intentionally pushing women out
of their comfort zone, and then backing off if they get some resistance. This can be very powerful, and
while it will put off some women, it will be effective with far more: the DHV you get from the confidence
usually far outweighs any small amount of discomfort she feels. This requires some careful calibration
and experience to get right, though.
Seduction and Kino
Much of the seduction-phase kino is simply doing more of what youve been doing, bringing things to a
more sexual level by moving closer to the overtly sexual parts of a womans body. If you keep escalating
with two-steps forward, one-step back, escalate confidently, and are aware of her reactions, youll do fine.
One word of warning, however. As a rule of thumb, its often a bad idea to escalate to seduction-level kino
(heavy making out and groping) unless youre at a location where you can actually have sex. This is
because when things cool off, a woman will then know that if she gets into a seduction location with you,
youre likely to have sex. This destroys her plausible deniability and brings up her anti-slut defense,
making it harder to get her to a seduction location.
But dont get sidetracked by these small dangers. Escalate kino, confidently, at nearly every opportunity
and your results will skyrocket!
Kino Tricks
If youve read our earlier article on kino, you know its one of the most important aspects of game. Before
continuing with this article, Id advise you to re-read that one, because it contains fundamentals which you
absolutely must understand before trying to apply this material. Applying these tricks without
understanding two-steps-forward, one-step-back is likely to backfire.
As you gain experience, the material in this post will become less necessary. Nevertheless, when starting
out, many aspiring PUAs feel the need for guidelines and tips to help them with their kino. The following
routines and ideas may, therefore, be useful.
When hugging a girl to say hello, break the hug, and let your hands rest on her hips for a second while
looking in her eyes. This can set a much more sensual intention for the rest of your interaction with her.
Palm reading is a good kino-building pattern. Put an hour or two of research in to get the basics down,
and hold her palm lightly while you read it, tracing the lines on her palm with your fingertip. But when
youre done, be the one to break contact!
If she says something clever, go for a high-five. Make contact, hold her hand after the high five, and bring
it down with your hands holding then release.
The trust test is another good kino-builder. Ask her if she trusts you. If she says yes, say, okay, lets do
the trust test. Take her hands. Squeeze them lightly if she squeezes back, she passes. Then lower your
hands if she lowers hers, she passes. Then make sure to let go of her hands be the one to break the
contact.
All of those work early in a set to establish a kino-heavy frame. Once youre more isolated, the evolution
phase shift is a useful routine. This one comes from Style. Notice how she smells, compliment her on the
smell, and say something like: You smell nice. Lots of people dont pay attention to smells, but were still
animals, and youll notice that animals, when they meet, or before they mate, always smell each other. Its
part of our evolution. You can use this moment to lean in, brush her hair back, and smell her neck,
creating some very powerful kino.
This is why we like having our hair pulled, in the right way. How different is this from what lions do, biting
each others manes? Here you reach your hand into her hair, just above the back of the neck, and gently
pull. Its not a yank, and it shouldnt hurt. Its a firm, commanding pull.
The routine continues something like:
The most sensitive places on the body are often places that dont get much contact with air or light, like
the inside of the elbow. (Touch her there) Or the crook of your neck, (touch her there). These touches
should be light, fleeting strokes. Then go on:
One of the best feelings is to be bit right here, point to your own neck. Obviously, because the jugular is
exposed, and lots of sexual fantasies involve dominance and submission. Go ahead, bite me. If shes
into it, she will. This is incredibly powerful because youre creating very intimate kino, but shes actually
making it happen. If she resists, punish for a second by turning away, then repeat the instruction, Go
ahead.
Usually, her bite wont be very good, so you tease her for having a lame bite and show her how to do it.
This is important: you arent biting like you want to hurt her. A proper bite in this situation is a gentle
pinch, where you take a big chunk of skin and gently slide your teeth over it until her skin slips out from
between them. Practice on yourself until you get it right. So show her how to do it, then invite her to do it
to you again. After she does, shes usually ready for a kiss.
This routine can be broken up. You can use little pieces of it. You can bite on the inside of the arm rather
than the neck. Take it and make it your own you shouldnt feel like youre just spouting lines from a web
page.
Lastly, Mystery came up with a very useful kiss-close. Im not the biggest advocate of kiss-closes -I think
you do best when you learn to just sense the moment and go for it. But while youre learning, they can be
a useful tool. The Mystery kiss-close is simple. You ask, Would you like to kiss me? If she says yes, you
kiss her. If she says no, you say, Well, I didnt say you could. It just looked like you had something on
your mind.
Then smile and change the subject (and do not assume you cant try again later!) But most of the time, if
youve been running good kino and shes turned on, shell say, Maybe, or I dont know, or something
hedged like that.
Then you can just say. Lets find out, and kiss her. Remember to be the one to break the kiss!
One very important warning. Lots of people on the PUA bulletin boards offer tricky kiss-closes, where a
girl commits to something only to discover that youre stealing a kiss. I do not recommend these. The
problem is simple: You want a girl to want you to kiss her. You want to create moments of anticipation.
The last thing you want is a girl to feel like you tricked her into escalating with you, because then shes
likely to put up bigger walls, making it harder for you to escalate in the future. Youve demonstrated that
she cant trust you.
Instead, youll notice how all these routines hinge on her active participation. Make her complicit in her
own seduction. Start incorporating these kino tricks into your game, and watch your results improve!
6 Great Pickup Artist Routines That Work
by Jesse Charger| Routines
A great way to build social value is through stories and pickup artist routines.
Planned stories and pickup artist routines free up your mind to focus on other things. Like a computer,
your brain only has so many clock cycles spare.
Download my FREE e-book '6 Great Pickup Artist Routines That Work'
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Imagine youre on your way to a bar or club and youre getting yourself into a good state for approaching
women. Now, imagine that youre driving along the highway at the same time on the way there a bit
distracting. Now imagine your friend is in the passengers seat asking you about math problems.
Theres only so much that your brain can multitask at one time. And when youre talking to women,
theres a LOT for your brain keep track of.
So you dont want to bog yourself down in the middle of an interaction with the complex task of coming up
with witty conversation pieces on the fly especially when they can be prepared for ahead of time.
First, Ill give you a few example pickup artist routines, and then Ill show you how to use them.
My ex-girlfriend is stalking me pickup artist routine:
I need your opinion I think my ex-girlfriend is stalking me. She kept trying to win me back by
impressing me, but she just doesnt have that adventurousness I look for in a girl.
Well, I was walking down the street and I just see her there, standing across the street looking at me.
Yeah, its kind of weird.
I think shes trying too hard to impress me. She used to be kind of fat, but now shes lost weight and
has gotten breast implants she kind of looks like that girl from the Bachelorette have you seen it?
But I dont want to get back with a girl just because she looks good. Let me ask you, which of you
guys is most adventurous?
Start a band
You: Hey girls, Im going to start a band. Can either of you sing?
You: Cool, youll be the back up singer
You: Youll play guitar. Wait a sec what are your names?
You: Tara and Buffy?? Nah, what are you kidding me, those names wont work a band. Hmm youll be
Beyonce and youll be Brittany. Awesome! High-five me
You: Hold on, being in a band isnt all fun and games though. Which one of you is going to be doing my
laundry?
You: No? Well then, Im firing you guys. But you can still be my groupies.
What to buy for my little sister
You: Hey girls, I have a problem.
Girls: What
You: My little sisters birthday is coming up. What should I buy her I was thinking of a stuffed elephant
because she has a collection of them, but I think shes too old for that now. What do you think? What did
you guys play with when you were little.
Pickup Routine: Masturbate in the shower
You: Did you know that 90% of girls masturbate in the shower?
Girl: No
You: The other 10% sing
Girl : Oh yeah?
You: And do you know what they sing?
Girl : No, what?
You: Oh you must be one of the girls that masturbates then.
Girl: hahaha
How does everyone knows each other
You: Hmm, let me see, I bet I can guess how you all know each other. Yes, Im getting a vibe. Let me
see, you two look like sisters. No? Let me guess, you must be best friends then.
Girls: Yeah we are!
You: See, wow Ive got psychic powers. Watch this, I can tell even more about yourselves. Give me your
palm (do palm reading)
Putting It All Together
So have three pickup artist routines memorized and ready to go. Decide what order youll stack them.
Having three routines ready to go frees up your brain to focus on your delivery.
For example, you might open a group of girls by asking an opinion question, then ask how everyone
knows each other, and then talk about your stalking ex-girlfriend. The transitioning is rather simple just
leave the old topic and launch right into the new.
And once you tell a pickup artist routine, dont wait for the girls permission to go on to the next one. Even
if the girl only half-heartedly responded to the first routine, just launch into the next one. And the next.
Most likely youll hit on one that grabs her.
You can also throw state accelerators into nearly any routine to give it an extra kick. State Accelerators
are universal feel-good moves that accelerate the girls positive state. For example, giving a girl a
high-five universally makes women feel good and can be incorporated into most routines.
If a girl tells you, I want to be the drummer in your band, just say Awesome! See youre cool. High-five!
and hold up your palm. High-five her. This accelerates the power of the routine.
Get Your Dates Clothes Off With The Naughty Photography Routine
by Jesse Charger| Last Minute Resistance | Routines
When youre with a girl, whip out your digital camera! What youre about to do is some playful role-playing
whereas you play the photographer and she plays the model.
First, tell the girl you want to get your picture with you and her together. Put your arm around her, hold the
camera out in front of you with your arm extended and take a picture of the two of you. Show her the
photo you just shot on the LCD screen a close up of both of your faces.
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Tease her that its a funny-looking photo of her.
Tell her that you want to get a sexier photo of her this time. This time, take a snapshot of just her. Most
likely shell also want to redeem herself from the previous photo, which you playfully made fun of.
Look at that second, sexier photo on the LCD screen in a disapproving way and tell her to pose
something more sexy.
At this point, shell try to win your approval by posing a little bit sexier. Tell her like a photographer,
Marvelous! Marvelous! Stunning! while you snap off a few shots.
Back off and look at her with the pondering eye of an artist. You want to convey through your body
language that youre thinking of how to pose and position her put your fist to your chin for a moment
like a deep thinker.
Go up to her and USE YOUR HANDS to place her into position. Hold your thumbs and forefingers up to
make a square box with your fingers, like an artist framing a picture. Tell her to Stand like this and to
Put her legs like that.
MOVE her into position now, TOUCH her. Move all of her limbs and hips into place. Remember, you are
the artist and you are turning her into a work of art.
When you have her in a position you like, say Ah-hah! Perfect! Then snap off some more shots with her
in the pose that YOU directed. Tell her, Oh yes, YES youre so sexy yes, like that perfect! Wow
thats sexy!
Say all this in a playful way in the character of a colorful photographer. That way its not technically the
real you telling her shes sexy, but the role youre playing thats telling her shes sexy.
By getting your hands on her, TOUCHING HER, moving her into various positions, by taking the LEAD
and COMMANDING HER and by MAKING HER BEAUITFUL, shell become hot for you, if not downright
wet right there and then.
Ever been to a gym and watch a gym instructor put his hands all over the girl unnecessarily as he shows
her how to use the exercise machines and how her body is put into a sexually-charged overdrive as he
does it? What youll be doing with this routine is quite the same except with a little artistic flair.
If youre with a group of girls, you can do this photo routine to any one of them while the others watch.
Just watch how it makes ALL of the other girls jealous and you become Mr. Popular on the spot.
If youre out in public with the girl you want to seduce, that may be as far as you can bring the routine.
However, if youre alone with her in say, a bedroom, the routine doesnt have to end there.
Keep telling her how sexy she is as you pose her. Pass your hands over her breasts as you move her.
Dont grab her breasts as that will trigger an automatic defense response from her. Simply brush over
them with your palms in passing. Move her legs into position by pressing on the inside of her thighs,
another hot spot.
Notice how her breathing and response systems react. You can usually tell at this point if shes getting at
least a bit sexually turned on. If shes getting hot, simply say to her, Would you like to kiss me now.
Dont ask it, just say it. If she doesnt respond or says anything but No, then kiss her.
If shes still into the casual, playful role-playing mode then continue to be playful. Its up to you to read her
physiological signs and act accordingly.
Keep in mind, this routine progresses as a series of ESCALATING steps. You start out innocently enough
as just taking a goofy photo of her and progress to posing, to posing with your direction, to touching,
to petting and kissing, and finally to sex, assuming you have her in a private location.
If at any point she resists, simply back off a little it means youre going too fast for her. Back off, and
then continue the same path of touch escalation as before
How To Write DHV Stories With Examples!
February 20, 2011 by Prophet 6 Comments
To follow up on Discoverys recent article on creating a routine stack, I thought Id cover one of the most
commonly asked questions in the game How do you write a DHV story?
And lets face it, for most guys its hard enough getting up the courage to walk up to a girl and say Hi, let
alone coming up with cool, funny, or interesting things to tell her. And like most aspiring PUAs, when I first
started learning the ropes in bars and clubs, I found that one of my biggest problems was running out of
things to say. I would be talking to a fun group of girls, they would be laughing and touching me and
showing me interest, and then my mind would just go blank. I would be standing there with this awesome
group of girls who were totally into me and I would have no idea what to say or do next. And rather than
risk doing something wrong or embarrassing myself, I would simply tell them to have a good night and
politely eject out of the set.
And this went on and on for MONTHS until I realized the problem: I felt like I didnt have enough to talk to
talk about. This is an extremely common and debilitating problem for many aspiring PUAs out there,
which is why we use canned material.
Canned material basically as any story, routine, or gambit that is previously prepared and memorized for
use in the field. Have you ever told the same joke more than once? Youre using canned material. You
know its a story that people enjoy so you tell it whenever there is a new opportunity with a new group of
people to get a laugh.
And now were going to take your stories and amp them up. Read on and you will learn how to make your
stories ATTRACTIVE instead of just enjoyable.
Your stories typically contain embedded DHVs (Demonstrations of Higher Value), which convey the
qualities of the kind of man that women are evolutionarily programed to be attracted to. The kinds of
DHVs you want to embed into your stories are things that flip the following attraction switches:
Preselected By Women
Protector of Loved Ones
Humor
Leader of Men
Successful Risk-taker
World Traveler
Willingness to Emote
Social Alignments
You can find plenty of examples of canned material right here on our website, both on our blog and on
our forum, in our books Revelation and The Pick-up Artist, our DVD sets, and in our upcoming routines
manual. This material will give you tried-and-true examples of well-designed routines, giving you
something to practice and get a feel for in the field.
One you get an idea of how a DHV routine should be delivered, you can start to write your own canned
material in order to start conveying real stories from your life and fully convey your personality. Now you
may not feel like you have a lot of DHVs in your life, or that you have nothing interesting going on to talk
about, but if you follow the steps below, you will be surprised by just how much you find you have to say
and how awesome and interesting you will sound when you talk about your life.
Step 1: Find Your Stories
You have stories and experiences that can be transformed into DHV stories, you just need to sit down
and write them out. Think about some of the stories you tell or have told to your friends, family, and
co-workers. Go through your photos or Facebook or even Twitter to remind yourself of some of the
adventures and interesting situations you have been in. Your DHV stories can come from any part of your
life. They can be any time you:
Did something fun with a girl
Did something you werent supposed to and got away with it
Had something funny/scary/exciting happen on a trip
Took charge of a situation
Stood up to someone for someone else
Organized something exciting
Had someones back
Got out of an awkward situation
Did something nice for someone
Did something spontaneous
Accomplished something you are proud of
Saw something funny/scary/exciting
Anything with humor, excitement, or tension is perfect here. Light social embarrassment is great for
humor because it creates tension before releasing it
Of course, if you REALLY cant find anything to work with from your own life, you can always check out
Cosmo Confessions for some good stories to make your own until you start living a little more of a
high-value lifestyle.
Step 2: Write Your Stories Out In Point Form
Once you have gotten all your stories together, write out the basic story points for each. You dont have to
write it all out word-for-word. Just get the basic sequential set of events down on paper for yourself.
For example, I have a story about how my little brother crashed his truck. Its a long story, and there is a
great deal that Im going to take out of the final piece. For now though, the story points would look like
this:
Was on a date with Samantha, took her home
Little brother called at 4am, usually wouldnt answer but it was weird that he called so late
He tells me he hit a deer and that he crashed his truck, I get directions and get up to leave
Samantha gets mad, I tell her that my brother was in an accident. She wants to come but I tell her to
stay
I drive around forever, and the roads have gotten really icy so Im sliding everywhere
Find my brother, the truck is totalled. Its been rolled so many times that the frame is twisted. There
isnt a smooth bit of metal on the truck. Its missing two of its wheels
I run to the truck screaming his name and find him covered in blood, trying to rock it back onto its
tires
He tells me he wants to roll it back over so he can drive it home
I take him to the hospital, he was very lucky to only have a concussion and a few bruised ribs and a
few stiches here and there.
He was only in the hospital for a couple of hours. Thank god for small town emergency rooms!
On the way home, he asked me to pull over and buy him some smokes, he hands me a $20 from his
pocket
Im kind of in shock myself so I dont look at the bill until I get to the counter and have to pay
I had the clerk the bill and its god blood all over it. The clerk looks at me like Im a maniac
I smile at him and say yeah, its been one of those nights. He must have though I killed some guy!
Step 3: Find/Add Your DHV Spikes
Your DHV spikes should be items in the story that flip the attraction switches above. Using my example
above, you can see that my DHV spikes are:
I was on a date (Preselection)
I helped my brother when he was in need (Protector of Loved Ones)
He thought he could still drive the truck home, and I scared the cashier with the bloody $20 (humor).
Your DHV spikes do not necessarily need to be over-the-top rock star lifestyle kind of DHVs people like to
write. Not every story has to be about how to saved an exotic dancer and her box of puppies by getting
your buddies who are martial arts experts/bouncers to help you lift a burning bus you saw crash while you
were driving around in your brand new car. Your DHV spikes should never be the point of the story, and it
should never feel like you are bragging about yourself (although you CAN brag about your friends). They
should feel like incidental details that just get mentioned off-hand while you are telling your story.
Also keep in mind that you dont need to hit every single switch in one single story. Usually just a couple
is more than enough to make the story compelling. But if you find that your story is lacking certain DHVs,
dont be afraid to exaggerate a little and spruce them up. Maybe that girl you were with on that fun
adventure was your ex-girlfriend instead of that girl you had a crush on? Maybe you had dealt with a
similar situation before so you were only a little worried (even though in reality you were about to piss
your pants)? Or maybe that guy you protected your girlfriend from backed right down and apologized
instead of trying to intimidate you? Its ok to stretch the facts a LITTLE when youre writing these routines.
Women do this ALL the time. Its just a part of how flirting works.
Step 4: Watch for and remove DLVs
Demonstrations of Lower Value, or DLVs, are the opposite of DHVs. They tell your target that you are not
a high value male and cause her to feel less attracted to you. Most men dont even realize just how much
they DLV themselves in the field when they talk about how they only have a few friends, or how they
havent been in a relationship in a while, or when they brag about that time they saw something
embarrassing happen to their friend, etc etc etc.
The kinds of things you want to exclude from your stories are anything that causes her to feel
uncomfortable or that demonstrate that you lack the DHVs listed above or that display bad social intuition.
Things like:
Anything involving bugs, feces, vomit, blood, snot, other bodily fluids, etc.
Any time you were rude to or angry at a woman, old person, child, or person in the service industry
(i.e. yelling at your girlfriend)
Any time you laughed or took pleasure in something mean, cruel, or hurtful (i.e. that time your sisters
prom dress was ruined)
Any time you did something that could be considered creepy or a social violation (i.e. texting a woman
more than two or three times)
Complaining about or putting down your friends or exs (i.e. how youre always there for your friends,
but whenever you need their help they always let you down).
Any time you followed someone elses orders or demands
Anything that associates you with other low-value people
So in my story, Im going to scrap the entire bit about the blood , as its obviously too gross and weird to
be talking about in the field. Also the about Samantha getting mad that I had to leave should go too.
Step 5: Trim The Fat
As you develop your routine, it is good to remember that you will most likely be telling these stories in
loud, busy bars and nightclubs. These sorts of venues are not good places for long, drawn-out routines
because how suddenly you can be interrupted or how quickly your set will lose interest if your story
drones on too long. Your DHV routines should be short and sweet.
Below is a basic, general structure of a DHV routine:
A few sentences to bait the group to hear your story by introducing it with a question or a statement
that creates mystery and intrigue, such as I had the SCARIEST night of my life last week.
A few sentences to hook your and keep them interested. Within first three to four sentences you
should have said something captivating, interesting, or DHV-laden. This way, even if you get cut off within
the first few sentences, or for some reason you have to snip the thread and stack (more on that below),
you should have at least uploaded value. And if you have created mystery or intrigue, your set may find
themselves wanting to know the rest of the story anyway.
A few sentences to describe what happened and build tension as you reel her further and further into
the story. Using pauses, inflection, and by describing what you were feeling, you draw her further and
further into the story, causing her to feel the emotions of the event for herself. Build tension by leading up
to something humorous or exciting.
Release the tension with your punchline, what youve learned, or the exciting results of the whole
thing.
A secondary punchline or release, to compound the positive emotions she is feeling. This bit is
optional, but it never hurts to have a second funny or exciting thing to say to add to your sets laughter.
This helps you become a really funny guy as opposed to the guy that told that funny story.
So from my example, Im going to trim getting directions from my brother, as well as the bit about
Samantha wanting to come along, since they are basically irrelevant details. Ill also try to word it as
succinctly as possible, as the less I say about something, the more questions my set can ask me.
Step 6: Add Pauses
Adding pausing to your stories enhances the tension and excitement, while also helping you slow down
your delivery. This will make your story more captivating. In fact, if you get your delivery down, you can
tell stories about absolutely NOTHING and people will sit and listen to you intently. Try not to go crazy
with pausing, or it will lose its effect and you will end up sounding like William Shatner.
Use pausing to build tension before releasing it. Reel them in by pausing, then release then tension with
something humorous or exciting.
Good pausing:
and I come around the side and I seem him and this WAVE of relief washes over meand hes trying
to rock the TRUCK back onto its wheels because he thinks he can drive it home!
Bad pausing:
and I come around the side and I seemhim and this wave of relief just washes all
over me and hes trying to rock the truck back onto its wheels, because he thinks he can drive it
home!
In the end, my finished routine will look like this:
PUA: I had the SCARIEST night of my life last week!
It was like 4am and I get this call from my little brother. Now I had been out with some friends all night and
was in bed so normally I wouldnt even answer it. But it just felt weird you know? Like if he was
calling at this time of nightsomething must be wrong. So I answer and he sounds really out of it
hes like hey kev I dodged a deer and I had an accident Can you come pick me up? And obviously,
its my little brother so I just hop right out of bed and Im like babe, Samantha, my brothers in trouble
so I gotta roll but Ill be back.
So Im way out on some backroad and I come around a corner and I see all this wreckage strewn
across the road and then I see his truck and its laying on its side and its been rolled so many
times that the frame is actually twisted.
And my heart STOPS because I dont see my brother anywhere Im fearing the worst I jump out
of my car and start running towards the truck cause I can see it sorta rocking back and forth And Im
screaming his name and I come around the side and I seem him
and this WAVE of relief washes over me
and hes trying to rock the TRUCK back onto its wheels because he thinks he can drive it home!
And thats why I love my little brother.
[cue laughter, IOIs, and stack forward]
Thats it for now guys. Build yourself some DHV material and start practicing it.
Happy sarging,
Prophet
In DHVing, V = S+R Value
Mystery (People Magazine)
Pre-selection
DHV = Demonstration of Higher Value.
What exactly does that mean?
When you have opened a set, you will need to elude to the people in the group that you have some sort
of value to them. The V in DHV stands for value. But what value are we speaking of specifically?
V = S+R Value.
S+R = Survival and Replication.
If you can provide evidence that you resources to improve someones chances of S+R, they will feel
attraction for you.
In other words, a womans attraction circuits are really an S+R Value judging system. Perform specific
S+R values, and people become attracted.
S+RV = SeRVe.
Can you serve a person? Do you have Value for them? Can you improve their chances of S+R in this life,
by your presence and resources?
Well of course you can! But does SHE know your value for her? Has she felt it as you demonstrate? The
Pickup Arts is performing arts. You must perform or demonstrate value early on so she feels the desire to
seek your value.
There are 5 key DHVs (again, the V = S+R Value) that I focus on conveying during the attraction stage:
1. Pre-selection. Prove other women find you attractive and SHE will think, if you have value for other
women, its likely you have value for her too.
2. Leader of Men. If she aligns with the tribal leader, she benefits from his social resources.
3. Protector of Loved Ones. If SHE aligns with him, she too will be and feel protected.
4. Willing to emote. She may not know who you are, but if you can demo several normal emotional states,
shell know you are emotionally normal and have familiarity with you because of it.
5. Successful Risk-taker. The operant is successful.
If you can systematically demo these 5 attraction switches, you WILL get IOIs.