To want unwaveringly the welfare of another both in the head and heart is the best help one can give. - Sri Aurobindo We can help others from a distance through a proper use of our thought-power. I have already told you several times that if one thinks clearly and powerfully, one makes a mental formation, and that every mental formation is an entity independent of its fashioner, having its own life and tending to realise itself in the mental world - I dont mean that you see your formation with your physical eyes, but it exists in the mental world, it has its own particular independent existence. If you have made a formation with a definite aim, its whole life will tend to the realisation of this aim. Therefore, if you want to help someone at a distance, you have only to formulate very clearly, very precisely and strongly the kind of help you want to give and the result you wish to obtain. That will have its effect. I cannot say that it will be all-powerful, for the mental world is full of innumerable formations of this kind and naturally they clash and contradict one another; hence the strongest and the most persistent will have the best of it. Now, what is it that gives strength and persistence to mental formations? - It is emotion and will. If you know how to add to your mental formation an emotion, affection, tenderness, love, and an intensity of will, a dynamism, it will have a much greater chance of success. That is the first method. It is within the scope of all those who know how to think, and even more of those who know how to love. But as I said, the power is limited and there is great competition in that world. Therefore, even if one has no knowledge at all but has trust in the divine Grace, if one has the faith that there is something in the world like the divine Grace, and that this something can answer a prayer, an aspiration, an invocation, then, after making ones mental formation, if one offers it to the Grace and puts ones trust in it, asks it to intervene and has the faith that it will intervene, then indeed one has a chance of success. Try, and you will surely see the result. * * * Note that this power of formation has a great advantage, if one knows how to use it. You can make good formations and if you make them properly, they will act in the same way as the others. You can do a lot of good to people just by sitting quietly in your room, perhaps even more good than by undergoing a lot of trouble externally. If you know how to think correctly, with force and intelligence and kindness, if you love someone and wish him well very sincerely, deeply, with all your heart, that does him much good, much more certainly than you think. I have said this often; for example, to those who are here, who learn that someone in their family is very ill and feel that childish impulse of wanting to rush immediately to the spot to attend to the sick person. I tell you, unless it is an exceptional case and there is nobody to attend on the sick person (and at times even in such a case), if you know how to keep the right attitude and concentrate with affection and good will upon the sick person, if you know how to pray for him and make helpful formations, you will do him much more good than if you go to nurse him, feed him, help him wash himself, indeed all that everybody can do. Anybody can nurse a person. But not everybody can make good formations and send out forces that act for healing. 15 Tips to Think Straight
Here are 15 tips which will encourage you to develop and put to good use your capacity to think straight. 1. Do Your Own Thinking. If you simply swallow what you see, hear and read without analysing it, you are not living up as an intelligent person. On the other hand, if you weigh, examine and sift the evidence, you will be more likely to find the truth and share it with others. 2. Think Before You Act. Spur-of-the moment actions are usually based on muddled or superficial thinking. Even a moments reflection may have far-reaching consequences. 3. Think Objectively. Develop the facility to think beyond a narrow, selfish point of view. If you overcome the human tendency to hear only what you want to hear, and to be fearful of the facts, you will be more apt to welcome the whole truth, not try to dodge or distort it. 4. Think Ahead. Cultivate the habit of looking beyond the present. It is important to think ahead. Weigh the consequences for time and eternity of what you think, say and do today. 5. Think Hopefully. A hopeful person sees an opportunity in every calamity while a cynic sees a calamity in every opportunity. Accustom yourself to think hopefully under the most disheartening circumstances. 6. Think Things Through. Take a few moments to think things through and you are more likely to uphold the truth than to miss or distort it. 7. Think Charitably. A genuine love for others is the best preparation for clear, unbiased thinking. The hostile, envious, or bitter person seldom thinks straight about matters human or divine. 8. Check and Double Check. Make a reasonable investigation of facts before arriving at a decision. 9. Beware of Your Prejudices. Make it a matter of conscience to get all the essential facts before you reach your final conclusion. 10. Take an Honest Look at Your Own Faults. Magnifying others shortcomings while minimising ones own prepares the way to lopsided thinking and can even lead to serious breaches of the moral law, such as cheating, fraud or double dealing which are usually committed in the heart many times long before they are expressed in action. 11. Get beyond Wishful Thinking. You will add vigour and clarity to your thinking if you discipline yourself to carry your good intentions into action. It is easy to delude oneself by confusing wishful thinking with actual accomplishment. 12. Dont Overlook the Obvious. When a large truck became wedged in an underpass all efforts to extricate it were unavailing. A small boy who had been watching the proceedings finally said to the driver: want to know how to get it loose? Just let some air out of the tyres. 13. Think with Determination. Pursue worthwhile ideas in a way that will get the most out of them. If you strive to make worthwhile ideas your own, you will be in a much stronger position to pass them on to others. 14. Look out for Details. Be sure that you have a full knowledge of what you are expected to do and you will avoid the mistake of the workmen who were discovered by an executive tearing down the wall and the door of his office. The executive demanded what they were doing there. They told him that they got orders. Looking quickly at the written instructions, the executive observed: The order is O.K. The room number is correct... but youre in the wrong building! 15. Dig for the Deeper Meaning. Get beneath the surface of what you hear or read. Take for example, the words of Jesus Christ; As you wish men to do to you, so also do you to them. Before much progress will be made in restoring peace to the world, it is very necessary that millions of persons like you think through what it means to Do unto others as though you were the others. (Condensed from Christopher Notes) July 2011 Transformation of the Mind M.P. Pandit
Our human mind is a very limited and conditioned instrument of knowledge. For transforming the mind into a perfect and flawless instrument of knowledge it has to open itself to a higher consciousness beyond the mind. Our human mind is not the source of knowledge but only the instrument of knowledge. It cannot build knowledge, it can only reflect. That is why Patanjali calls for a discipline to quieten and establish a state of undisturbed calm in the mind so that it may reflect the Truth like the limpid and calm waters of a lake. For a radical spiritual transformation of the mind, it must learn to forsake its role of constructing knowledge. The usual activities of reasoning and formation of idea-constructs must be brought to a standstill. It is only when the mind halts its restless and incessant movements in ignorance that the higher faculties get a chance to enter into the mental being. Intuition, for instance, is a power of Truth that begins to act when the mind falls into quiescence. No doubt it gets mixed up with the habitual activity of the reasoning mind, yet with vigilance and discrimination it is possible to be steadily open to the action of intuition. Once this is organised and stabilised, still higher faculties begin to make themselves felt. It is through the action of these higher faculties that the Truth can modify, change and transform the mind. The mind, by itself, cannot do that; but if it is quieted, then the higher action becomes possible. Indeed the quality of the mind as it has developed makes a difference. If the mind is cultured and developed enough in the ways of the intellect, it provides a productive soil for the higher force to work upon. But if the mind is too much intellectualised and accustomed to function in its set grooves, it becomes an obstacle. If there is not this excessive, one-sided development, the mind provides the necessary opening for the play of new powers, e.g. poetry, painting etc. The mind has to learn to give up its leading role. It has to open to the influence and action of the psychic or the spiritual consciousness and function as their instrument. That way lies its deliverance from its in- built limitations; it can develop into a channel for the manifestation and organisation of the higher Consciousness - its rightful role.
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